Denied by insurance for gastric sleeve today :(

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  • reshapemariah21
    reshapemariah21 Posts: 184 Member
    I noticed you're in the same city as me. Hello fellow Texan :flowerforyou:
    It's great you've lost that much. And you definitely don't need surgery. You've proved to yourself that you don't need it. I was told by a doctor that I needed the lap band.. I was 283 pounds, 275 when I found MFP. I am now 208 and steadily losing. I'm almost to 70 pounds lost thanks to MFP! I'm a bit younger, 18. Which isn't a big difference at all. If I can do it without surgery, you surely can!
  • DianeG213
    DianeG213 Posts: 253
    You are awesome and unstoppable. By next year you will be glad you got that phone call today. You will have accomplished your goal on your own and will be very proud of yourself. I wish you much success. :drinker:
  • shanchamber
    shanchamber Posts: 29

    All you mentione about the surgery are things one must do to lose weight anyway! so why even go through the surgery when one needs to change ones ways even with surgery? I am so glad insurance tells one to lose weight before this type of surgery, had I not been told to this, I would have probably gone through with this surgery, never realizing that i could do it on my own!

    You obviously didn't get very far in the process, did you? Whether or not you're told to lose weight before the surgery depends on your starting weight. Some people are too heavy to operate on. Usually the surgeon asks you to lose about 10 lbs. right before the surgery to shrink the size of your liver, so that it is easier to image the rest of the organs.

    As for why you would undergo this process, well, empirically, as I said, it is the only method of weight loss that seems to stick for the morbidly obese. Statistically speaking, you're going to gain back all of the weight that you've lost through other methods. (Sorry.) Gastric bypass patients on average lose 80-90 percent of their excess weight and gain about 10-20 percent back over the course of their lifetimes. Obese patients who lose 80-90 percent of their body weight generally gain all of it back plus another 5-10 percent. My UCSF surgeon said that the reasons for this are not well-understood, but are empirically demonstrable nonetheless. Weight loss surgery also generally and immediately corrects such conditions as diabetes and high cholesterol, which normal weight loss generally does not correct immediately.

    But all of you impugning weight loss surgery and the willpower of those who have it know all of this, right? Because you wouldn't have said all of these things without knowing the facts. Of course not.
  • Alpine005
    Alpine005 Posts: 87 Member
    Take it as a blessing in disguise. Not to discourage anyone who has had the surgery, but it's obviously better if you can lose it on your own. You reach your goal without any of the risks and negatives invovled with the surgery. Keep it up!
  • hezzyhlo
    hezzyhlo Posts: 55 Member
    Congrats on your amazing loss!! You deserve to feel strong and proud!!!
  • kiminikimkim
    kiminikimkim Posts: 746 Member
    Somehow I can't help but imagine that a guardian angel just steered you away from dying after complications from a "simple" surgery.

    Live strong!
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    I still feel strong....almost like this is a sign I should be doing this on my own....

    This is the only voice you need to listen to. Say it. Loud.

    ^^^ This!!! I hope you are walking around with your head held high because you have already accomplished something AMAZING! The best part - There is more amazing ahead of you still : ) Go Rock It!!!

    :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • AbbsyBabbsy
    AbbsyBabbsy Posts: 184 Member
    Don't think of it as your insurance company denying you for the surgery. Think of it as your insurance company saying you're too awesome for the surgery.
  • Alpine005
    Alpine005 Posts: 87 Member
    That's all fine and good. The fact is that if you can do it without surgery you are better off. If you can't, then by all means get the surgery.

    All you mentione about the surgery are things one must do to lose weight anyway! so why even go through the surgery when one needs to change ones ways even with surgery? I am so glad insurance tells one to lose weight before this type of surgery, had I not been told to this, I would have probably gone through with this surgery, never realizing that i could do it on my own!

    You obviously didn't get very far in the process, did you? Whether or not you're told to lose weight before the surgery depends on your starting weight. Some people are too heavy to operate on. Usually the surgeon asks you to lose about 10 lbs. right before the surgery to shrink the size of your liver, so that it is easier to image the rest of the organs.

    As for why you would undergo this process, well, empirically, as I said, it is the only method of weight loss that seems to stick for the morbidly obese. Statistically speaking, you're going to gain back all of the weight that you've lost through other methods. (Sorry.) Gastric bypass patients on average lose 80-90 percent of their excess weight and gain about 10-20 percent back over the course of their lifetimes. Obese patients who lose 80-90 percent of their body weight generally gain all of it back plus another 5-10 percent. My UCSF surgeon said that the reasons for this are not well-understood, but are empirically demonstrable nonetheless. Weight loss surgery also generally and immediately corrects such conditions as diabetes and high cholesterol, which normal weight loss generally does not correct immediately.

    But all of you impugning weight loss surgery and the willpower of those who have it know all of this, right? Because you wouldn't have said all of these things without knowing the facts. Of course not.
  • dlwyatt82
    dlwyatt82 Posts: 1,077 Member
    Even if you got the surgery, you'd still have to keep up the lifestyle changes. If your willpower failed later on to such a terrible extent, you'd manage to put the weight back on even after surgery, and then have to deal with any complications on top of that.

    You're doing a great job already! Keep it up!
  • monicacallahan2011
    monicacallahan2011 Posts: 8 Member
    Im sorry. That sucks.. it really does. I have had the sleeve and am greatful everyday for it. I am only 22 as well. But Ive lost 45lbs since April with the help of my sleeve. You have done it ALL ON YOUR OWN! That is amazing!!! You can do this. With or without the sleeve!
  • WaterBunnie
    WaterBunnie Posts: 1,371 Member
    I don't agree with non-essential surgery and you have shown yourself as well as them that you are obviously very capable of losing the weight yourself so please be happy with the new opportunity this decision has given you to be whole and not restricted by a bariatric diet or worse, possible serious complications for the rest of your long life! You'll soon kick the extra pounds and be so pleased you did it naturally. Good luck :-)

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