How can u find the right guy.

Papalov100
Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
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Im waiting on the right guy I hope he is out there somewhere.
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  • beckieboo12
    beckieboo12 Posts: 37
    Im a firm believer that when you stop looking, he will turn up!! He is out there somewhere, but us girls have to kiss many frogs before we find our Knight in shining armour :)
  • Papalov100
    Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
    Lol I'm not looking I'm waiting on a good Christian guy
  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member
    don't quite need the Knight .... imagining polishing the armour every night!:yawn:
  • Papalov100
    Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
    Here's a question how can I guy fall in love with special needs ?
  • beckieboo12
    beckieboo12 Posts: 37
    ok, sod the armour, i will just have richard gere on the horse at the end of pretty woman :love:
  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member
    ok, sod the armour, i will just have richard gere on the horse at the end of pretty woman :love:

    see i knew you're rethink ! LOL
  • still_crafty
    still_crafty Posts: 682 Member
    I gave up looking. Two horribly failed marriages (one when I was VERY young and one more recent) and then falling in love with someone so far out of my reach for so many reasons has left me numb on the subject.

    Currently working with the state of mind that if you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with . . . there's a lot of self love going on in my house.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    Be the right girl.
  • MattTheWaterRat
    MattTheWaterRat Posts: 167 Member
    Be the right girl.

    Couldn't agree more.
  • heagler870
    heagler870 Posts: 280 Member
    I prefer not to actively look. I hope to just stumble upon each other one day.
  • hooperkay
    hooperkay Posts: 463 Member
    find the wrong guy and pick his best friend next to him. lol
  • MileyClimb
    MileyClimb Posts: 414 Member
    my bestfriend told me this stop looking! when you stop looking you will find him. so for me I quit looking and will just wait
  • Cambrendle
    Cambrendle Posts: 104 Member

    Currently working with the state of mind that if you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with . . . there's a lot of self love going on in my house.

    :laugh: but soooo true!
  • nas24
    nas24 Posts: 880 Member
    Be the right girl.

    This!
    Also stop looking. Love yourself and have fun in life. He will show up when you stop looking so hard. Mine did, right when i gave up on dating and caring about finding someone to be with.
  • kbmnurse
    kbmnurse Posts: 2,484 Member
    Get a magic genie lamp and make 3 wishes. LOL
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    craigslist
  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
    craigslist

    Based on your other thread...I think you may be looking in the wrong place for Love, LOL. :D
  • JanetLM73
    JanetLM73 Posts: 1,226 Member
    Sometimes you meet the right guy, then you get married and things change. It not always unicorns and rainbows.


    But my advice is, stop looking....it'll happen when you least expect it.
  • Connie_Cupcake
    Connie_Cupcake Posts: 62
    I met my now husband online. :)
  • dward2011
    dward2011 Posts: 416 Member
    I stopped looking and focused on myself for a change. I pursued my own interests and socialized with friends (and made new ones). I dated a little, but nothing too serious. Then - out of the clear blue sky - bam! I met him. I told him I was a busy person, that I didn't want a boyfriend or anything serious, that I didn't have time in my life.... but it didn't work.

    So here we are four years later (almost to the day) and are still incredibly happy together.
  • WestCoastPhoenix
    WestCoastPhoenix Posts: 802 Member
    I'm the wrong guy. Hi.
  • CarolinaGirlinVA
    CarolinaGirlinVA Posts: 1,508 Member
    craigslist

    And that worked so well for you Bill!
  • sho3girl
    sho3girl Posts: 10,799 Member
    how do i get my own unicorn?? :smile:

    CherokeeBabe you beat me to that comment
  • Mhaney
    Mhaney Posts: 467 Member
    My ten year marriage ended recently, and honestly I couldn't care less about finding a guy. I have more important things to worry about.
  • Waszo
    Waszo Posts: 41
    I guess I can say the same thing ,only about women. Its been 20 yrs. since the divorce.
  • RichardCMolloy
    RichardCMolloy Posts: 130 Member
    Don't look...it'll happen when its meant to. At least thats what I'm telling myself :)
  • arcticfox04
    arcticfox04 Posts: 1,011 Member
    Depends just look but don't look. You'll end up forcing yourself into a bad relationship. Remember no one is perfect in this world, you always got to out weigh pro/cons. Sometimes you put yourself into a thought train of I must be in a relationship and its not healthy.

    The most important thing is can you learn to be a compromise with the person you choose to be with. Sadly I never found a woman with his quality yet. Then there's always someone for someone out there. Just keep on looking and never settle for 2nd place.
  • Bahet
    Bahet Posts: 1,254 Member
    Be realistic. There are so many women looking for a tall, handsome, fit, hard working, intelligent, educated man who makes good money, loves kittens and children, likes to do yard work on weekends, enjoys romantic comedies, etc but there aren't many guys who fit that bill. Of the ones who do exist they are either taken or looking for a woman who is tall, pretty, fit, hard working, educated, making good money, etc. I can't tell you how many uneducated, overweight, lazy people I've wanted to smack into reality when they lament that they can't find a good partner. Be a good woman and he'll show up.

    IMO men are actually worse about that than women. Short, fat, homely, bald men seem to not see any problem at all with their thinking they should be dating a super model. But any short, fat, homely woman I know might like to look at some eye candy but she's generally realistic enough to know that he's the guy who would date the supermodel.
  • yourenotmine
    yourenotmine Posts: 645 Member
    Lord, if you figure that out, I hope you'll tell me. I suppose it helps not to be a hermit, and not to hate being around humans, two things which I can't seem to accomplish.
  • superrjo
    superrjo Posts: 112 Member
    Be the right girl.

    love it

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