Ladies; what are you looking for in a Man?

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  • Shweedog
    Shweedog Posts: 883 Member
    Honesty, humility, willingness to compromise, adequate listening/communicating skills, tenderness, and a great *kitten*. :)
  • poshcouture
    poshcouture Posts: 610
    The last time I was asked this question, I was told that I was asking for way too much and was promptly dismissed. LOL - I don't ask for much - I honestly want someone that will appreciate me for who I am - the good and the bad...because I will do the same.
  • seattlern
    seattlern Posts: 19
    I want a man who makes me laugh every day and rarely makes me cry. Someone I can trust and, almost as importantly, someone who has as much faith in me. I want a man who's strong and macho on the outside but with soft romantic heart that only I get to see. I want him to be a better person than I am so that he inspires and leads me to always try harder to be the person I'm trying to be. I want him to be so passionate and excited about life that he makes me believe everything is possible as long as we're together. He should be thoughtful, introspective and have a thirst for new ideas and experiences and the drive to make those experiences a reality.

    And, oh yeah...he has to be super freaky in the sac. :tongue:

    Unfortunately, since waiting for that guy hasn't been working out so great, I'll settle for just make me laugh and rarely make me cry. :yawn:
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    A penis.
    Intelligence.
    Self confidence.
    A sense of humor.
    Caring, respectful, and not totally selfish.
    A relatively attractive face.
    A nice set of pecs.
    A nice *kitten*.
  • 2143661
    2143661 Posts: 566 Member
    a nice dingdong.
  • M77308
    M77308 Posts: 183
    Tall, dark and handsome cowboy.. something like the Marlboro man... sweet, funny, sarcastic, loving, faithful, a forever kinda guy..

    Yes, I just described my husband, but still everything I've ever wanted :)
  • He needs to be honest, trustworthy and dependable AND trust that I am those things to, because I am. He must have goals for himself. Too many of the men I meet my age (mid to late 20s) are too busy sitting on the couch with their XBox to even THINK about what they want to do with their lives. Obviously there has to be a physical attraction too. I dont need a body builder, but I take decent care of myself and I expect the person I am with to do so as well.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    a nice dingdong.

    hostess_ding_dong.jpg
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    Gosh you all have high standards. I am just looking for a man that doesn't have ED.
  • 2143661
    2143661 Posts: 566 Member
    a nice dingdong.

    hostess_ding_dong.jpg

    not that kind, but from this picture your dingdong looks big!
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    Gosh you all have high standards. I am just looking for a man that doesn't have ED.

    You mean an eating disorder, right?
  • TexasBridgett
    TexasBridgett Posts: 84 Member
    I used to have that list, you know the one....funny, smart, ambitious, handsome, blah blah blah. All that is still good, but I've realized the two most important things are a man that has hobbies(aside from drinking/partying/being social), and values me.

    A man with hobbies is usually content with himself, isn't needy, and can entertain himself when he isn't included in plans (like girls night).
    The worst thing is being with a guy that won't let you be you because he doesn't know how to be him. Plus their life is pretty uninteresting and monotonous.

    Treat me with respect and value the time we have together. Because honestly, if a man isn't going to value the time he has with me, I can be around tons of other people that do.

    But if he's smart, funny, and handsome that wouldn't hurt either. ;)
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    a nice dingdong.

    hostess_ding_dong.jpg

    not that kind, but from this picture your dingdong looks big!

    "Product enlarged to show detail"

    :embarassed:
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    Gosh you all have high standards. I am just looking for a man that doesn't have ED.

    You mean an eating disorder, right?
    No silly! I love my men to be thick!
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    a nice dingdong.

    hostess_ding_dong.jpg

    not that kind, but from this picture your dingdong looks big!

    "Product enlarged to show detail"

    :embarassed:

    I wanna lick your creamy filling. :wink: Oops! Wrong thread!
  • CallieM15
    CallieM15 Posts: 910 Member
    Faithful. - Number one.

    A man who can hold me tight and i can feel so safe under any circumstance.
    A man who will whisper sweet things into my ear when im down.
    A man that is confident in our relationship.
    A man that knows ill love him and have faith and trust in me.
    A man with a smile that shows far too often.

    A man with a cowboy hat...
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    My...this thread is interesting for the ten millionth time...

    Yes, that was sarcasm lol...but I really meant the interesting part :).
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    My...this thread is interesting for the ten millionth time...

    Yes, that was sarcasm lol...but I really meant the interesting part :).

    YAAAAAAY! i am looking for funny!
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    My...this thread is interesting for the ten millionth time...

    Yes, that was sarcasm lol...but I really meant the interesting part :).

    YAAAAAAY! i am looking for funny!

    Missed you pretty lady...glad you're back!

    :flowerforyou:
  • Captain_Tightpants
    Captain_Tightpants Posts: 2,215 Member
    I'm truly flattered that every one of these posts described me, but sorry ladies, I'm already taken. :drinker:
  • SueSlick
    SueSlick Posts: 268 Member
    A freaking mind reader!
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    A freaking mind reader!

    Captain knew you were going to say that.

    Just ask him.
  • 10acity
    10acity Posts: 798 Member
    Cris Anderson. Just a little taller and on the East Coast (no offense, dah-link :wink: ).
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    I'm truly flattered that every one of these posts described me, but sorry ladies, I'm already taken. :drinker:

    A pity. Being a Firefly fan would have put you high on my list.

    Let's see, here goes my list:

    Intense
    Intelligent and educated (self educated is fine)
    Compatible sense of humor (that's where Firefly fans come in handy)
    Compatible romantically and attractive to me
    Feels about me the way I do about him
    Honest
    Doesn't do drugs
    Doesn't drink more often than I do (or much more, anyway. Three or four times a year is fine)
    Self Confident but not arrogant
    Not the kind of extrovert that insists on dragging me everywhere and also gets that sometimes I need to be alone
    Political leftist and knowledgeable about politics
    Lives somewhere or is willing to move somewhere cold (I don't care if I meet the man of my dreams tomorrow, if it involves having to keep living here or anyplace like it, I'm not interested)
    Doesn't expect anything from me I either can't deliver or simply don't want to (minor things like not dripping water all over the bathroom floor after my shower don't count)
    Reads for enjoyment
    Bathes regularly (had to get that one in there somewhere)
     
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Cris Anderson. Just a little taller and on the East Coast (no offense, dah-link :wink: ).

    Ha! My height and location get me every time!!

    /sigh!
  • iluvprettyshoes
    iluvprettyshoes Posts: 605 Member
    I am not looking for a man but if I were single I'd be happy bc I really don't need a man. I tend to like the bad ones anyway so that's probably for the better :)
  • leanby2013
    leanby2013 Posts: 137
    Well i have two types that are completely different.

    1) Scruffy, alot of hair, musical, calm, doesnt take too much to heart, fun and adventurous, dark hair, dark eyes.

    2) Big and buff, takes care of self, works out, eats clean, strong, funny and protective.

    The reason:

    2) only in the last couple years since i started working out myself , i feel id have something in common and we could be gym buddies haha!

    1) Always been into the scruffs, the ones that look homeless, and i play guitar and i draw so i just find something so interesting about a man who has the same interests as me.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Well i have two types that are completely different.

    1) Scruffy, alot of hair, musical, calm, doesnt take too much to heart, fun and adventurous, dark hair, dark eyes.

    2) Big and buff, takes care of self, works out, eats clean, strong, funny and protective.

    The reason:

    2) only in the last couple years since i started working out myself , i feel id have something in common and we could be gym buddies haha!

    1) Always been into the scruffs, the ones that look homeless, and i play guitar and i draw so i just find something so interesting about a man who has the same interests as me.

    What if a man was most of both?

    ETA - Wait...you're 19...scratch that hun.

    :flowerforyou:
  • leanby2013
    leanby2013 Posts: 137
    Hahaha best of both
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Hahaha best of both

    :)