Ladies; what are you looking for in a Man?

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  • Easywider
    Easywider Posts: 434 Member
    HE MUST NOT LOVE GOD ABOVE EVERYTHING ELSE.
    LOOOL
  • Papalov100
    Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
    1 he should love God more than anything else
    2 caring
    3 loving
    4 hold me tight through the night
    more etc.
  • Alluring72
    Alluring72 Posts: 50 Member
    Sexy - in my eyes, physically active (no couch potatoes), open to new adventures, dominant in bed (but equals everywhere else), intelligent, compassionate, accepting, relationship built on truth - including the fact that one of us may stray for meaningless sex and that is ok! No lies, no games, open honesty, and above all the freedom to be myself enitrely with him and have it all accepted as a part of a fabulous package with some human flaws that we can laugh at together.
  • Alluring72
    Alluring72 Posts: 50 Member
    Can't find a good man with a shopping list

    Excellent point! Met my man when I wasn't even looking.... :-)
  • HisChild2011
    HisChild2011 Posts: 145 Member
    1 - He should love God more than anything else
    2 - Maturity

    Sums it up.
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    The things I won't bend on are honesty, good hygiene, being faithful, respecting others (human and animal), and being confident in himself. If I was looking for a vagina, I'd bat for the other team!
  • nicescent
    nicescent Posts: 44
    A freaking mind reader!

    I know what you want....
  • jimmyjjohn
    jimmyjjohn Posts: 4
    Hi,
    So, When you are looking for a guy to marry its no longer just about how hot he is. When you are a young teenager of course you dont care about his inner qualitys that much you just care if hes cute. Well Marrige takes alot of group work. Its all about working together with your partner.

    1.Honesty-marrige is oath basickly saying i am yours you are mine. You need to trust him 100 % of the time. If your always worrying where he is or what he is doing than you will add lots of stress to both of you.
    2-loyality-He needs to never put you second and always put you first. The wife should come before anything in his life including his guy freinds! also to check if you would always come first ask him to dinner, would he rather go out with you or his guy freinds.
    3-sweet- you dont want a unresponble looser for a hubby! you want somone who always remebers your anversy. And gets you major roses and chocaltes when ur sick or on valintines day
    4-Hottness- i wouldn never marry a guy who was shorter than me or was ugly becuz rember- ur supossed to spend ur lives together

    http://www.dateupscale.com
  • gertudejekyl
    gertudejekyl Posts: 386 Member
    loyal, funny, soulful
  • ravegee
    ravegee Posts: 999 Member
    1. Nice
    2. Truthful
    3. My best friend
    4. Respectful
    5. Faithful
    6. Kind
    In other words a good person and somebody who I am attracted too.
  • megalin9
    megalin9 Posts: 771 Member
    Well, I've got my guy already, but he has nearly every quality I need:

    Christian
    Masculine
    Confident
    Committed
    Best Friend
    Genuinely LIKES me
    Allows me to be me and loves me regardless
    Good father
    Good communicator
    Hard worker
    Provider
    Shares responsibility
    Encourages me to have friends and hobbies
    Supportive
    Forgiving
    Honest
    Taller/Bigger than me
    Blue eyes
    Big hands
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    a heartbeat

    Bullshyt
  • tlmcint
    tlmcint Posts: 74 Member
    Kindness, not to be confused with "nice". Kindness is a heart issue, nice is surface.

    Intelligent and introspective, calm with a fun streak. Solid natured... not a drama queen. Looks don't matter as long a these other things are in play.
  • Pixilox
    Pixilox Posts: 51 Member
    A sense of humor is a must. Honest, supportive, respectful, kind and loyal.

    And he must like Dr. Who!! :wink:
  • VincitQuiSeVincit
    VincitQuiSeVincit Posts: 285 Member
    A good 'ol boy country! I want a man who was raised right, respectful, love of family and caring (none of that romantic gushy **** though) but can still pound back beers and wants to take me to a gun range. Love of comics and Doctor Who a major plus. A beard is a MAJOR MAJOR bonus.
  • snhudson
    snhudson Posts: 2
    Evidently, too much!
  • Kifissia
    Kifissia Posts: 136
    I have been happily married for 12 years, and the thing that drew me to my husband is a sense of security. I knew that no matter what he would have my back! He would try his hardest to make things work, to get things done, and to stick it out!
    He drives me nuts on a regular basis, but he has always found a way to make sure our family is taken care of, and I never have to doubt that he loves our children and me.
    Other than that a really good sense of humor is always a real nice thing. It is nice to have a partner that can laugh at life, otherwise we take things too seriously and that causes all sorts of stupid stress.
    Ditto.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    <----This guy.
  • sidewinder76
    sidewinder76 Posts: 287
    one that is capable of keeping his D$$$ in his pants and A%% out of jail would be a great start..
    one that makes my heart race just cause he exists..

    Does such a man exist????:noway:
  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
    When I decide to look for one I'll let you know...lol
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    :blushing:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    one that is capable of keeping his D$$$ in his pants and A%% out of jail would be a great start..
    one that makes my heart race just cause he exists..

    This makes me sad for you.
  • onwarddownward
    onwarddownward Posts: 1,683 Member
    Honesty, without being a d.ck.
  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
    <----This guy.
    how YOU doin'?

    but in all seriousness, sense of humor and intelligence are highly important.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    <----This guy.
    how YOU doin'?

    but in all seriousness, sense of humor and intelligence are highly important.

    Check and check.
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    Someone who is willing to compromise and make sacrifices to make me happy, as I would do for him. In my last relationship, the guy was sweet and would do special things for me, but if there was ever any inconvenience to him, it was a no go. I couldn't imagine spending my life with someone like that.
  • BluejayNY
    BluejayNY Posts: 301 Member
    I want a man who is honest with me, treats me with love and respect, and will love me till he dies. Honesty and commitment are so important to me. I would also like a man who was reasonable with finances. We would also have to be best friends, love each other passionately, and have great sex.

    I am no longer sure that person exists out there for me.
  • klp1017
    klp1017 Posts: 95 Member
    1. Honesty
    2. Honesty
    3. Honesty
  • KimberlyVerb
    KimberlyVerb Posts: 17 Member
    Honest, open communication, HONEST, hard worker, secure with himself, someone that stands up for what he believes in. Some one that will take care of me even when I tell him I can do it myself. Someone that supports me emotionally. Some one that lets me have my independence but will be there when I break down and cry when I think no one is looking.

    Ahem.. I got a little carried away. lol
  • Grace215lbs
    Grace215lbs Posts: 129 Member
    Loyal
    Honest
    Kind
    Smart
    Funny
    Romantic
    Fun

    Just a truly good person <3

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