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Men have it so easy. At the pool, guys can be out of shape. No big deal. Beer belly? Who cares. Permanent sweater of body hair? Not a problem! I see ALL different kinds of dudes shirtless at the pool.
But a woman? If there is so much as a dimple of cellulite visible, people are judging her bikini decision. Annoying.
In the immortal words of Peter Griffin, "Men aren't fat, Lois. Women are fat."
This obviously is false because the OP was just judging shirtless guys in the first post.
What I meant by it is that it's socially acceptable and men don't care as much. Women, on the other hand, are torn apart/tear themselves apart for not having a perfect bikini body.0 -
SMH....They are comfortable in their bodies. While we all have personal insecurities and self-prejudices, why not choose to ignore? Of course...sometimes....
Oh my, I will have nightmares tonight!! What is that??? lol0 -
Wait! I love a white beer-belly! Doesn't everybody?0
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You don't have to look. Just sayin'. I don't care to go out to the store and see an obese woman wearing short-shorts and a top that's 3 sizes too small. I am far from skinny, but I dress for my size....I want to look sexy, not skanky and vomit-inducing.0
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My husband is very pale.. but not much on the beer belly. I'm pale too.. and we have a little red head who has the cutest pale belly ever!! :happy:
We, as a family, probably keep the sunscreen manufacturers in business! :laugh:0 -
Wait! I love a white beer-belly! Doesn't everybody?
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I do agree with this statement. But it goes both ways. Man or woman. If a man started a thread about heavy women in bikinis he would be getting his butt chewed out right about now.0
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Really guys...if you've got it flaunt it was not in reference to your very pale, ever expanding beer belly! :sick:
We know you want us really
OMG I think that is now burned into my retinas!!! But to the OP - you may not appreciate what you saw, but some women may find it hot. It isnt my place to judge and I would hope others (although I know to not hold my breath) would not be so judgemental. No harm no foul0 -
Men have it so easy. At the pool, guys can be out of shape. No big deal. Beer belly? Who cares. Permanent sweater of body hair? Not a problem! I see ALL different kinds of dudes shirtless at the pool.
But a woman? If there is so much as a dimple of cellulite visible, people are judging her bikini decision. Annoying.
In the immortal words of Peter Griffin, "Men aren't fat, Lois. Women are fat."
This obviously is false because the OP was just judging shirtless guys in the first post.
What I meant by it is that it's socially acceptable and men don't care as much. Women, on the other hand, are torn apart/tear themselves apart for not having a perfect bikini body.
So what you're saying is that men are heartless soul-less monsters who couldn't give 2 flying F's about their looks. And that its ok to tell them to cover up and hide their bodies
But women are these fragile critters who break away in tears anytime some guy doesn't open the door for her because its obviously that she's too fat for him to recognize her.
Am I getting it right here?0 -
My husband is very pale.. but not much on the beer belly. I'm pale too.. and we have a little red head who has the cutest pale belly ever!! :happy:
We, as a family, probably keep the sunscreen manufacturers in business! :laugh:
Idk what it is, but little redhead children make me SO happy. Like almost as if they are a novelty or something. I love them!0 -
i love a good 6 pack and a good beer belly!!!!0
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Men have it so easy. At the pool, guys can be out of shape. No big deal. Beer belly? Who cares. Permanent sweater of body hair? Not a problem! I see ALL different kinds of dudes shirtless at the pool.
But a woman? If there is so much as a dimple of cellulite visible, people are judging her bikini decision. Annoying.
In the immortal words of Peter Griffin, "Men aren't fat, Lois. Women are fat."
This obviously is false because the OP was just judging shirtless guys in the first post.
What I meant by it is that it's socially acceptable and men don't care as much. Women, on the other hand, are torn apart/tear themselves apart for not having a perfect bikini body.
So what you're saying is that men are heartless soul-less monsters who couldn't give 2 flying F's about their looks. And that its ok to tell them to cover up and hide their bodies
But women are these fragile critters who break away in tears anytime some guy doesn't open the door for her because its obviously that she's too fat for him to recognize her.
Am I getting it right here?
Uh, no.
I'm saying that it's socially acceptable (as seen in basically every television sit com ever) for a man to be less than model material, but women are pressured to fit some sort of "beauty ideal" more than men are. Women are body shamed a whole lot more than men are into feeling like they have to cover it up in public places. I see plenty of guys at the pool that aren't tanned and toned and they don't APPEAR to care (maybe they do, but they don't carry themselves that way)--this is a positive thing. They are confident in themselves despite their less than perfect bodies, and I don't hear people make comments about it (except on here where people are really into body shaming). Now if there is a bigger girl in a bikini out there, well I can guarantee you I'll hear somebody say something about it or she'll wind up wearing a cover up most of the time, etc. Note: this is not the case 100% of the time. There are exceptions. But I'm making a general statement about what I see on average.
And furthermore, I don't think ANY of us should be telling anybody else what they should/should not wear, you know, unless it's illegal or something. People have the right to feel good about themselves and wear whatever they want to, no matter what size they are.0 -
Seems unlikely.Am I getting it right here?0 -
Men have it so easy. At the pool, guys can be out of shape. No big deal. Beer belly? Who cares. Permanent sweater of body hair? Not a problem! I see ALL different kinds of dudes shirtless at the pool.
But a woman? If there is so much as a dimple of cellulite visible, people are judging her bikini decision. Annoying.
In the immortal words of Peter Griffin, "Men aren't fat, Lois. Women are fat."
This obviously is false because the OP was just judging shirtless guys in the first post.
What I meant by it is that it's socially acceptable and men don't care as much. Women, on the other hand, are torn apart/tear themselves apart for not having a perfect bikini body.
So what you're saying is that men are heartless soul-less monsters who couldn't give 2 flying F's about their looks. And that its ok to tell them to cover up and hide their bodies
But women are these fragile critters who break away in tears anytime some guy doesn't open the door for her because its obviously that she's too fat for him to recognize her.
Am I getting it right here?
I didn't read that... I read it as men are better at hiding their body issues than women are...0 -
I don't think men's body image issues are any less severe than woman's, and I don't think men have it any easier. What I do believe is that men are taught from a young age that having feelings makes them weak, so they don't share them as much.
Every man I've ever dated had serious insecurities about his body, just like the rest of us. Just because they don't talk about it as much doesn't mean they don't feel it just as strongly.0 -
Be right back making a thread about me telling overweight women to not wear bikinis or flaunt their bodies
Back. I have no limbs now.
Saying that every man is comfortable about their body is just plain ignorant and the hypocrisy thats being displayed on threads like these is just sad. Alot of men AND women alike are secure in their body, no matter at what weight. Alot of men AND women alike are insecure about body, no matter at what weight.
Only difference is that men don't talk about it all the time0 -
I'm sorry about that I will wear a shirt in public next time...0
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Be right back making a thread about me telling overweight women to not wear bikinis or flaunt their bodies
Back. I have no limbs now.
Saying that every man is comfortable about their body is just plain ignorant and the hypocrisy thats being displayed on threads like these is just sad. Alot of men AND women alike are secure in their body, no matter at what weight. Alot of men AND women alike are insecure about body, no matter at what weight.
Only difference is that men don't talk about it all the time
Which is why I think they are better at hiding than we are... when women are insecure about their bodies, they wear as many clothes they can get away with... men just wear clothes and they aren't question near as much one what they wear... I know my husband is insecure about his body.... at least as much as I am about mine... but he doesn't advertise it... Hell, I would even know if we didn't have conversations about it.0 -
This thread went over like a
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No one said that, implicitly or otherwise.Saying that every man is comfortable about their body0 -
I don't think men's body image issues are any less severe than woman's, and I don't think men have it any easier. What I do believe is that men are taught from a young age that having feelings makes them weak, so they don't share them as much.
Every man I've ever dated had serious insecurities about his body, just like the rest of us. Just because they don't talk about it as much doesn't mean they don't feel it just as strongly.
This! The great majority of us (women AND men) are all here for the same reason. We all have body issues and tearing down anyone for appearing less than acceptable to your eyes isn't getting us anywhere in this world.0 -
My question is why is it that men with bigger boobs than mine can go shirtless and they're not cited for public nudity, but, if I went shirtless, I would be? That portion of the anatomy is the same...bigger on them...but still the same. Just asking.0
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everyone on here
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It's posts like this that always made swimming in public a difficult thing for me, even back when I *was* fit.
And it won't be any easier when I *do* get to my goal.0 -
Be right back making a thread about me telling overweight women to not wear bikinis or flaunt their bodies
Back. I have no limbs now.
Saying that every man is comfortable about their body is just plain ignorant and the hypocrisy thats being displayed on threads like these is just sad. Alot of men AND women alike are secure in their body, no matter at what weight. Alot of men AND women alike are insecure about body, no matter at what weight.
Only difference is that men don't talk about it all the time
Almost scared to ask, but what did you type the above with??0 -
My question is why is it that men with bigger boobs than mine can go shirtless and they're not cited for public nudity, but, if I went shirtless, I would be? That portion of the anatomy is the same...bigger on them...but still the same. Just asking.
I for one hate that double standard. Topless is no big deal in other countries, shouldn't be such an issue here either.0 -
I like that here in Ontario, we're ALL allowed to be shirtless. Though, I'd love to do it, it's not as common for women.0
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I like that here in Ontario, we're ALL allowed to be shirtless. Though, I'd love to do it, it's not as common for women.
Same ^^ I haven't seen a topless woman yet in Ontario... at least not in my neck of the woods where it's winter 9 months of the year... smh0 -
I like that here in Ontario, we're ALL allowed to be shirtless. Though, I'd love to do it, it's not as common for women.
Same ^^ I haven't seen a topless woman yet in Ontario... at least not in my neck of the woods where it's winter 9 months of the year... smh
I haven't either! I think it comes down to two reasons: 1) People aren't as aware that they're allowed to. 2) It would probably cause quite a few accidents.
Sometimes though, it's really too hot to wear a shirt and I'd prefer not to have one on.0 -
Maybe they don't care what some judgmental stranger thinks of them.
Yep. Try writing this post about a girl in a short skirt or shorts or a belly top, and see the reaction you get.
Bashing anyones body is not cool, fat, thin, male, female.
How would you feel if you'd been walking about in a bikini top because it was too hot and someone told you to put it away because you're too fat?
also, are you forgetting that many men on this site are overweight and trying to rid themselves of the beer bellies? did you stop to think you've just upset/offended half the guys here?0
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