Proof Lifting heavy doesn't bulk up females - PICS

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  • angieleighbyrd
    angieleighbyrd Posts: 989 Member
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    don't listen to all the negative nancy's.

    You were hot before, you're hot now.

    Screw what everyone else thinks. This is about you.

    Great Job!!
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,141 Member
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    Me too....almost looks anorexic

    OMG what a thing to say, have you actually seen an anorexic body?

    She looks great.
  • sl1ngsh0t
    sl1ngsh0t Posts: 326 Member
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    I think you looked better before. You're way too thin. Not trying to offend. Sorry.
  • n25philly
    n25philly Posts: 75 Member
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    *drool*
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,141 Member
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    It is unreal to me...some of these comments. It seems like there is never a "right" before and after, you're either too fat, or too thin, eating too much fat, not eating enough fat, etc. And seriously people, stop hiding behind the words "we're just worried about your health". I seriously doubt that. I could be wrong, I am wrong an awful lot..but I suspect that telling this girl that she looks sickly/anorexic/too thin is just as harmful to her self esteem as telling me I am a super fatty is to me. One wrong word to someone can put them off their path in a matter of minutes.

    If you're pissed off at me right now, look inside, because you know that you have had someone react overly negative to something you were excited about, and you know it sucked balls. Of course, everyone has a right to their own opinion, but if it is SO negative, why say that to her on an open forum? Gentle questioning is much different than out and out painful comments. If you TRULY are concerned about her health, why not message her? I just don't understand, and it makes me really, really sad.

    In my opinion, you look like you put in some really GREAT work, and if you are happy with yourself, that really is ALL that matters.

    No need to bash me, I won't be coming back to this post. I think I've lost enough faith in humanity and basic compassion for one day.

    You're right, people are being cruel, there's just no need for it.
  • good2bthaking
    good2bthaking Posts: 325 Member
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    I think you look stunning in both.I think the reason people are saying you look too thin on the after pics may be because your skin is lightet. Get a tan and I thin you would have some different opinions. That's my opinion, but great job and in my view, you are Hot either pics.Keep up the great work and dedication!!!
  • beckylawrence70
    beckylawrence70 Posts: 752 Member
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    All the pics on the left look much better........Oh chill out people, we're just giving our opinion's, that's what she wanted right?? Should I lie?? She lost all her boobs and looks soooo much better and healthy in the before pics........but hey, do what u want right? Pretty ironic, this happened to me too, now I'm in the process of gaining back a few lbs, didn't like how thin I got.....I upped my calories and cut back on wkn out so we shall see......
  • kjbbdoll
    kjbbdoll Posts: 86
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    Please dont take this the wrong way, but i think you looked better before, more womanly. However i applaud your hard work :-)

    Agreed. I think now you look too thin and ALMOST sickly. Before, you were nearly perfect, in my honest opinion.
    However, I also applaud your hard work, and at the end of the day it comes down to how YOU see yourself and how YOU feel about yourself. So long as you're happy and healthy, nothing else matters. :)

    Love and Alohas,
    Ihilani Kapuniai
    My sentiments exactly. Be happy with yourself :)
  • Tat2dDom624
    Tat2dDom624 Posts: 1,226 Member
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    Honestly, i really can't tell the difference between the two pics. But you look good either way!
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
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    I'm pretty sure the girl in the white is far more awesome.

    Being slim by not eating too much = okay.
    Being fit by busting your *kitten* = impressive.

    And I also think the pics in white look much better, as an aside. Women don't 'need' to be soft. It's not 1940 any more. OP has a curvy shape, strong legs and arms - that's hot.
  • Alexstrasza
    Alexstrasza Posts: 619 Member
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    I don't see how anybody is being "cruel" or rude. Well except for the person who compared her to an anorexic, that was just ignorant.

    People are simply giving their honest opinion, and in my opinion they are doing it in a very kind manner.

    Not everyone is going to barf rainbows of happiness and sunshine out of their mouths.

    I personally think she looked better in the before pictures. Does that mean I think she is ugly, wrong, or otherwise unattractive? No. It simply means that by MY taste and standards, she looked better before.

    Doesn't mean it's true or that everyone will agree.

    I don't think it makes me cruel though.
  • Kupe
    Kupe Posts: 758 Member
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    Please dont take this the wrong way, but i think you looked better before, more womanly. However i applaud your hard work :-)
    Have to second this.
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
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    Haters gonna hate.
  • ckmama
    ckmama Posts: 1,668 Member
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    Honestly, i really can't tell the difference between the two pics. But you look good either way!

    Ditto, sorry. I couldn't either. I think you look great in both.
  • sathor
    sathor Posts: 202 Member
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    Wow people are nasty!!!! You look great and with a few bulk cycle you could be a fitness model. I enjoy lifting heavy very much also.

    I don't like the after pic either, but i think you said it best, she needs a bulk cycle.

    Of course, the pics will be gone after bit since MFP staff get all worked up over underwear in pictures, since we all had to be 18 to get in, perhaps best said by Farnsworth in Futurama "Fifty-three years old? Ohhh, now I'll need a fake ID to rent ultraporn..."
  • Lesley2901
    Lesley2901 Posts: 372 Member
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    I think you look great in both set of pics. I was thinking of starting heavy lifting and you have inspired me - I would be happy to achieve similar results.
  • mikeyboy
    mikeyboy Posts: 1,057 Member
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    I think you were hot in the before pics. The after pic...... toned and hot! Cheers to you for your hard work! :drinker:
  • marylovehellokitty
    marylovehellokitty Posts: 146 Member
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    you looked fine before??? I think you need to eat more :O
  • Grimlock69
    Grimlock69 Posts: 197
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    You look good!
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    I don't think anyone was trying to be nasty.

    Honestly, I don't think you look unhealthy -- but if you lost even 3 pounds, I probably would think that. I think when people see somebody on the line between looking lean and fit and looking sick they don't want to be too encouraging because the underlying worry is "What if this person has anorexia and tell them they look great!".

    But, the point was that lifting heavy doesn't bulk you up -- not if people like how she looks. So there you go. Point made.
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