What's YOUR Deal-Breaker

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  • DestroyTheOpposition
    DestroyTheOpposition Posts: 444 Member
    -Not emotionally generous
    -prude (no kink)
    -addicted tpalcohol, tobacco, drugs (don't mind the occasional toker or social smoker)
    -atheist (gotta believe in something)
    -bad hygiene
  • ourwickedlies
    ourwickedlies Posts: 46 Member
    -"Tough guy" attitude
    -Drinker(nothing wrong with drinking, I'm talking borderline alcoholic or even an alcoholic)
    -Homophobic
    -Doesn't enjoy reading
    -Bad taste in music and movies
    -Unemployed

    There's probably more, but those were the first ones to come to my head.
  • petite_boleyn
    petite_boleyn Posts: 144
    Drug/alcohol use. I'm in recovery so it's an automatic "I don't care how much I like you, you gotta go".
  • CalJur
    CalJur Posts: 627 Member
    Smoking. I don't care how fine you are. I can't stand it. Can't do it. Won't do it. Great topic.
  • xxalmostgoldenxx
    xxalmostgoldenxx Posts: 25
    Smoking and drug abuse.
  • bigcity_tinydreams
    bigcity_tinydreams Posts: 10
    -bad teeth
    -poor hygiene
    -dumb (meaning unintellectual; being a little spacy is okay)
    -needy/overly dependent

    (and this next one is for marriage or long-term relationships, not just casual dating)

    -not very close with his family
  • RunMyOregonBunsOff
    RunMyOregonBunsOff Posts: 862 Member
    @ irebel-Haha, you just described my ex husband!

    Rude or crude
    Doesn't care about others
    Smokes
    Drinks all the time
  • Erindipitous
    Erindipitous Posts: 1,234 Member
    - TOO CLINGY!
    - Smokers
    - Bad hygiene in general, but gross mouths make me want to vomit.
    - Potheads


    Edit.. After reading some of the other posts, I realize how much stuff I left out.

    Bottom line: I'm high maintenance and will be single forever. ;)
  • newmooon56
    newmooon56 Posts: 347 Member
    married 200 years (or 20) but if I was dating it would take one dinner out to break up with a picky eater - love fine dining and experimenting in the kitchen so mac n cheese / white bread eaters would be out of the question.

    Must like animals, be kind to others and have a sense of humor (make me laugh I am keeping you) and NO WAY a smoker- positively the most disgusting thing in the world is a smokers home- everything stinks like yesterday's ash tray.
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,251 Member
    Smoking. Eating boogers. Not being supportive. Being abusive in any way. Not being kind to animals. Not caring about the environment.
  • vallemic
    vallemic Posts: 278 Member
    Deal-breakers for me:

    -Smokes
    -Arrogance
    -No ambition
  • TravisBurns
    TravisBurns Posts: 353 Member
    All I ask is that you be alive
  • beach_please
    beach_please Posts: 533 Member
    Egotistical (confidence is hot, being an egomaniac is NOT)
    Lazy and unmotivated
    Doesn't like animals or kids
    Bad personal hygiene
    clingy/controlling
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Smoking.
  • Cassaaaaandra
    Cassaaaaandra Posts: 184 Member
    Deal Breakers:

    Smokers
    Poor hygiene
    Bad Breath/teeth
    On the sex offender list
    Criminal Record
    Financially retarded
    Still lives with parents
    Jobless
    LAZY
    Doesn't want children
    Is disrespectful to his parents
    Disrespectful to me
    Dealing with an argument consists of yelling or leaving....

    I think that's it. Maybe :o)
  • queencatwana
    queencatwana Posts: 10 Member
    Must love cats!
  • ironicusername
    ironicusername Posts: 73
    Well, other than the obvious (like being generally creepy or uncouth), I have a few that I've experienced:

    Unappealing voice (it's my one shallow thing)
    littering
    being too attentive (it's creepy if I barely know the person)
    being overly negative
    rude to wait staff
    If they talk about their ex's
    Being too sexual too soon
  • cobracars
    cobracars Posts: 949 Member
    Wears flip-flops for all occasions
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Wears flip-flops for all occasions

    If they're the right kind this is something I think is cute lol.
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    Non-Christian
    Smoker
    Drinker
    Drug user
    Liberal

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