What's YOUR Deal-Breaker

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  • Marie3391
    Marie3391 Posts: 202 Member
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    Smoking
    Has kids
    No education or career
    No car

    This. Plus, violent/aggressive, cheater, liar, drug user, shorter than me, unintelligent, doesn't work out or no sense of taking care of themselves.
  • stargazer008
    stargazer008 Posts: 531
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    -Eats way too much meat (meat is fine to me but too much is a turn off since I'm a veggie)
    -Too religious
    -Can't cook good food
    -Likes the city (I'm more into a quiet country place)
    -Doesn't like animals (Their too cute!)
  • 1holegrouper
    1holegrouper Posts: 323 Member
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    When she says, "Sex is overrated".
  • piratesaregrand
    piratesaregrand Posts: 356 Member
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    Not being able to drive.

    My ex couldnt and man nothing annoyed me more.
  • snake13211
    snake13211 Posts: 23
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    Hates animals
    Hates eggs
    Smokes
    Doesn't like rock and/or metal
    hates videogames
  • Establishedn1986
    Establishedn1986 Posts: 306 Member
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    Smoker
    Doesn't like kids
    Younger than me
    Bad teeth/breath
    Bad dresser
  • AnnMarie518
    AnnMarie518 Posts: 93
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    Nasty/mean drunk

    Drug addiction

    Abuse of any kind

    Cheating.

    A life with nothing but DRAMA


    Unfortunately, I have 'been there done that' with the above list. I absolutely REFUSE to live that lifestyle ever again. Those of you who have experienced the same, I'm sure will completely understand.
  • alleycat88
    alleycat88 Posts: 756 Member
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    Guys who are rude to service people (waiters, etc)

    jealousy
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
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    Smoking, drug dealing, guns, stupidity, alpha male throwing weight around attitude - I am the boss in my house!
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
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    Liar
    Cheater
    Druggie
    Rightwinger
    Bigot
    Abusive
    Using me for my money...oh wait, I don't have any, I'm safe from that one!
  • DestroyTheOpposition
    DestroyTheOpposition Posts: 444 Member
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    -Not emotionally generous
    -prude (no kink)
    -addicted tpalcohol, tobacco, drugs (don't mind the occasional toker or social smoker)
    -atheist (gotta believe in something)
    -bad hygiene
  • ourwickedlies
    ourwickedlies Posts: 46 Member
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    -"Tough guy" attitude
    -Drinker(nothing wrong with drinking, I'm talking borderline alcoholic or even an alcoholic)
    -Homophobic
    -Doesn't enjoy reading
    -Bad taste in music and movies
    -Unemployed

    There's probably more, but those were the first ones to come to my head.
  • petite_boleyn
    petite_boleyn Posts: 144
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    Drug/alcohol use. I'm in recovery so it's an automatic "I don't care how much I like you, you gotta go".
  • CalJur
    CalJur Posts: 627 Member
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    Smoking. I don't care how fine you are. I can't stand it. Can't do it. Won't do it. Great topic.
  • xxalmostgoldenxx
    xxalmostgoldenxx Posts: 25
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    Smoking and drug abuse.
  • bigcity_tinydreams
    bigcity_tinydreams Posts: 10
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    -bad teeth
    -poor hygiene
    -dumb (meaning unintellectual; being a little spacy is okay)
    -needy/overly dependent

    (and this next one is for marriage or long-term relationships, not just casual dating)

    -not very close with his family
  • RunMyOregonBunsOff
    RunMyOregonBunsOff Posts: 862 Member
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    @ irebel-Haha, you just described my ex husband!

    Rude or crude
    Doesn't care about others
    Smokes
    Drinks all the time
  • Erindipitous
    Erindipitous Posts: 1,234 Member
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    - TOO CLINGY!
    - Smokers
    - Bad hygiene in general, but gross mouths make me want to vomit.
    - Potheads


    Edit.. After reading some of the other posts, I realize how much stuff I left out.

    Bottom line: I'm high maintenance and will be single forever. ;)
  • newmooon56
    newmooon56 Posts: 347 Member
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    married 200 years (or 20) but if I was dating it would take one dinner out to break up with a picky eater - love fine dining and experimenting in the kitchen so mac n cheese / white bread eaters would be out of the question.

    Must like animals, be kind to others and have a sense of humor (make me laugh I am keeping you) and NO WAY a smoker- positively the most disgusting thing in the world is a smokers home- everything stinks like yesterday's ash tray.
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,251 Member
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    Smoking. Eating boogers. Not being supportive. Being abusive in any way. Not being kind to animals. Not caring about the environment.

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