What's YOUR Deal-Breaker

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  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    This thread is funny.

    So many people putting "ignorant" or "stupid" and then listing ignorant or stupid things to be deal breakers...
  • CWSpiegel
    CWSpiegel Posts: 114
    - I could not date someone who doesn't respect a women's right to choose.
    - I could not date someone who is 'active' in Scientology.

    I don't want to get into a debate about these issues on a fitness site, so flame me on PM so I can just block you.

    Chris
  • tishad58
    tishad58 Posts: 110 Member
    Selfcentered
    Excessive alcohol consumption
    Drug use
    Disrespectful
    Argumentative
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    Religious
    Smoker
    Hates animals

    I love all animals. Some, I like on the grill with some John Boy and Billy's Grillin sauce...just sayin....:wink:
  • Bobby_Clerici
    Bobby_Clerici Posts: 1,828 Member
    Religious
    Bad temper
    Alcoholism
    Is in any way creepy when young girls are around. (dated a guy who used to ogle my teenage daughter, it was over right then)
    I know plenty of drunk, bad tempered religious people.....who smile like angels every sunday :bigsmile:
  • thebaconbeast
    thebaconbeast Posts: 560 Member
    Incompatibility downstairs
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    Self-righteous posturing, unrealistic expectations for a mate, and general douche-baggedness.

    someone who thing he is quite the catch, huh?
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
    Self-righteous posturing, unrealistic expectations for a mate, and general douche-baggedness.

    this is some of mine too
  • ScottyNoHotty
    ScottyNoHotty Posts: 1,957 Member
    Against PDA

    Doesn't have
    - An infectious laugh or sense of humor
    - Penetrating ... eyes
    - Stubble and/or goatee

    AHEM.........here I am, what are your other 2 wishes?
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    I had a ton of deal breakers...
    Most never made the cut.
    1. She must be in peak condition and attractive in the face - 20% body fat
    2. College educated w/advance degree - Lawyer, MBA, Doctor, CPA
    3. Strong and independent - not needy or clingy
    4. Wealthy - women with their own money won't be nickel and diming me
    5. Family and marriage oriented....

    GOT HER!:drinker:
    Married - 5 kids - very happy!
    Go out and get EXACTLY what you want.
    Don't "settle" for anything less.
    Good Luck!

    Every freaking post
  • MisterGoodBar
    MisterGoodBar Posts: 157 Member
    smokers, God-complexist (racist/homophobes/sexist/extremist/etc.), and quiet people (people you have to preface conversations w/ a question just to commmunicate/relate)
  • DonniesGirl69
    DonniesGirl69 Posts: 644 Member
    Self-righteous posturing, unrealistic expectations for a mate, and general douche-baggedness.

    I love the word "douche-baggedness".
    I'm adding that to my vocabulary :smokin:
  • LemonBurns
    LemonBurns Posts: 538 Member
    Deal breakers for me, someone who:

    smokes and won't quit
    does drugs and/or drinks to excess
    hates country music

    Looks like we are one anothers Deal breaker... :wink:

    Now hold on a minute, just because its a deal breaker doesn't mean I'm ready to walk away from the table...
    I could always turn off the radio when you're around? :wink: :laugh:

    Yes. Yes you could - but you'd have to promise NOT to sing it in the shower either!
  • Addict of any type... smoker, alcohol, illegals, whatever
    Sexist
    Racist
    Homophobic
    Hates animals
    Otherwise disrespectful
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    Smokes.
  • DaniJeanine
    DaniJeanine Posts: 473 Member
    has male genetalia

    hahaha...hilarious!

    Mine:
    An ex in the picture
    Lying
    Cold/Closed off emotionally
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
    When it comes to being with or dating someone - what is YOUR deal breaker - the personality trait or quirk or habit (whatever) that you just can't stand enough to stay in it?

    For me:
    * Listens to Country Music
    * Smokers

    GO!

    She thinks my tractor's sexy
    it really turns her on
    She 's alwasys starin at me
    as I'm chuggin around
    She likes the way its pullin
    as I'm tillin up the land
    she's even kinda crazy
    bout my farmers tan....
    She's the only one who
    really understands..what gets me.....

    Oh, well...it was fun while it lasted....:tongue:

    Oh man, I love country music (or at least what it used to be) but i HATE HATE HATE kenny chesney....with an extremely unhealthy passion.
  • ChapinaGrande
    ChapinaGrande Posts: 289 Member
    Republican. I almost married one of those a couple years ago. *shudder*

    I am chuckling at the fact that I'm not the first to have this answer. :)
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
    Has a history of cheating
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    her heartbeats been gone for a couple of days
    ;D
  • BROscience_PHD
    BROscience_PHD Posts: 215 Member
    Smoker (used to be one 16 years ago)
    Can't make me a sandwich.
    ^^this
    and curses alot
    likes cats
    watches anyhthing on the E channel or TLC
    precocious.
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    Anyone who is a fan of the Mets, Giants, Rangers, Knicks need not apply.
  • LemonBurns
    LemonBurns Posts: 538 Member
    When it comes to being with or dating someone - what is YOUR deal breaker - the personality trait or quirk or habit (whatever) that you just can't stand enough to stay in it?

    For me:
    * Listens to Country Music
    * Smokers

    GO!

    She thinks my tractor's sexy
    it really turns her on
    She 's alwasys starin at me
    as I'm chuggin around
    She likes the way its pullin
    as I'm tillin up the land
    she's even kinda crazy
    bout my farmers tan....
    She's the only one who
    really understands..what gets me.....

    Oh, well...it was fun while it lasted....:tongue:

    I am guessing THAT is a Country Song? :noway: :brokenheart:
  • Rockmyskinnyjeans
    Rockmyskinnyjeans Posts: 431 Member
    * Hates Animals
    * Is a negative person by nature
  • Sharyn913
    Sharyn913 Posts: 777 Member
    Religious
    Bad temper
    Alcoholism
    Is in any way creepy when young girls are around. (dated a guy who used to ogle my teenage daughter, it was over right then)
    I know plenty of drunk, bad tempered religious people.....who smile like angels every sunday :bigsmile:

    And this messes it all up for those who DON'T live like that and smile like angels everyday! =)

    If I weren't married, it would be fun to compile a list!
  • teacheatsleep
    teacheatsleep Posts: 22 Member
    Smoker
    Not motivated/No goals
  • ccburn5
    ccburn5 Posts: 473 Member
    The "sloppy" drunk
    Bad manners
    Bigotry / Ignorance
    Excessively hairy and the unwillingness to take care of it
    Body odor / bad breath
    And the country music thing... yeah not so much. Its one thing to listen occasionally but to be obbsessed and live "that" life style, no way.


    Just a few, still discovering more as time goes by. Unfortunately some of these are habits of my wife..... )-:
  • nwilson91
    nwilson91 Posts: 70
    Cheats within the circle of friends

    Hard Drugs (we're talking meth, coke & chewing tobacco)

    Willfully ignorant - won't even try to question their beliefs

    Plays the "Do you love me this much?" game (As in "Do you love me enough to defend my honor against this huge guy I just said something stupid to?")

    Loves country music

    Hates dogs/pets

    No sense of humor

    Is a wanna-be "Fashion trendsetter" or wears a Huggy-Bear hat (from Starsky & Hutch).

    Yeah, I'm pretty much just listing the qualities of one ex....
  • auria17
    auria17 Posts: 94 Member
    Overly tall, and slim...weird I know, (but my ideal is 5'10 and jacked)
    no heart
    If he deesn't inspire me...
  • twistofcain
    twistofcain Posts: 190
    Uses Apple products.