guys: what do you find more attractive

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  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
    ^^^^ i done fcked up! oops sorry!!
  • Moniqua1
    Moniqua1 Posts: 195 Member
    Some of these responses make me wonder what I'm doing working out, building muscles, and losing curves....oh wait, because that's what I want....to be healthier, have more endurance, flexibility, and strength, and BELIEVE ME, my man will benefit from it ;)

    You don't lose curves.


    Tell that to my small B cup (being generous) that used to be full C's! Lmfao!
  • UticaBoy51
    UticaBoy51 Posts: 344 Member
    I like all of them! I prefer Curvey.
  • MoveTheMountain
    MoveTheMountain Posts: 764
    I have issues ... cuz even though he says he likes my body I think he's lying and would rather have one of those fit and toned chicks... is there a doctor in the house? ;)

    Sounds like you two need to have a talk. Honestly, if there's a compatibility problem between how you want to look and how he wants you to look, you should get it out in the open. Don't change for anyone other than yourself. First off, it will be very difficult to maintain it, but also, you'll naturally start to resent the person forcing you into the change - as well you should. Be the best you that you can be, and everything else will work out. If this guy isn't the right guy for you, that will just leave you available for when the right guy comes along. And he will! :)
  • ToughTulip
    ToughTulip Posts: 1,118 Member
    I like them to be breathing, and to have breasts I can grab. :smile:

    I second this! :D
  • DonniesGirl69
    DonniesGirl69 Posts: 644 Member
    Some of these responses make me wonder what I'm doing working out, building muscles, and losing curves....oh wait, because that's what I want....to be healthier, have more endurance, flexibility, and strength, and BELIEVE ME, my man will benefit from it ;)

    You don't lose curves.


    Tell that to my small B cup (being generous) that used to be full C's! Lmfao!

    And my C's that used to be D's....LOL
    I'm still curvy, but not like I used to be. :smile:
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.

    Awww...I like you. You manage to be honest about your taste preference and still be sweet about it at the same time. Not many guys have that talent. LOL :flowerforyou:
  • shani251
    shani251 Posts: 145 Member
    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.

    that is a WONDERFUL answer!
  • exacerbe
    exacerbe Posts: 447 Member
    I may be picky, but I don't discriminate. If she has an award winning smile, personality, and there's a spark between us, that's enough for me.
  • Kissybiz
    Kissybiz Posts: 361 Member
    Everyone is different, so you will get different answers. For me. I need a woman with curves and meat on her bones. I can't stand stick thin, I prefer thicker girls. :) Have to have that booty!! :)

    Big girls need lovin too! haha..:laugh:

    ^^^So true... I don't even really see them as "big girl" just what catches my eye. A woman witch curves, with some meat on her bones. I think the media has everyone thinking that being super thin or looking like a sickly model is attractive. It's not even healthy!! How the hell can seeing someone's ribs and bones be hot??!!! It's disgusting! Most of those women have an ED not healthy. I'm an "*kitten*" man,, hottest thing on a woman!! A woman that thin has no booty either!! ! :D Truth is, most all women are beautiful. I think another guy in here said it and he hit the nail right on the head. All women are beautiful, a work of art. When it comes down to it,, I don't discriminate, if I really like her, her body type isn't the most important thing at all.. However, I'm sure we can all admit that the FIRST thing we notice about a new person before we get to know them is whether or not we find them attractive, just human nature. When it comes to me, a curvy women woman with a booty is most certainly catches my eye! :)

    I think I love you!
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
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  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    I think most guys are attracted to women of all shapes, sizes, colors, etc. While some men are close minded and like one body type, hair color, etc not all men are like that (some women are knonw to be just as close minded), however, it doesn't matter about these people because the only ones that matter are the ones that see your beauty.

    Men are visual...and despite everything a woman's personality shines through and makes her even more attractive.

    ...just be yourself, love yourself - and be healthy! If you do that then many men will continue to find you attractive and flock to you. :)
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
    Lets see.. If I were to choose option a)
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    skinny girl

    or option b)
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    fit girl

    I'd have to go with option b. Option a just doesn't look healthy.
  • ToughTulip
    ToughTulip Posts: 1,118 Member
    I think i am drooling over option b though. I want!
  • DizzyLinds
    DizzyLinds Posts: 856 Member
    I still don't think option B is realistic though.
  • gemmalouise85
    gemmalouise85 Posts: 157 Member
    My partner says any size - but confidence and health is important.

    when we met i was uk 10-12 but i been dragged down by an ex and had 0 confidence I wouldnt let him see me naked or enjoy that body as he should had been allowed.
    then we had kids and my body changed - but he seen me at my worse so thought what the heck and gained confidence with him.
    I got comfortable and im bigger than i hae ever been with him and he loves me as much now as slim me because confidence!
    obviously health wise im losing weight for me!

    Point is - whatever makes you confident as long as you not doing dangerous things to your body so as you want to gain that confidence :D
  • OhKelsey1
    OhKelsey1 Posts: 139
    Lets see.. If I were to choose option a)


    I'd have to go with option b. Option a just doesn't look healthy.

    :noway:
    Fit girl is STUNNING.
  • OhKelsey1
    OhKelsey1 Posts: 139
    I still don't think option B is realistic though.

    True, I don't think so either. I think OP probably meant fit, normal-sized girl versus naturally very thin girl. Option B's still gotta be a size 0-2.
  • rob1976
    rob1976 Posts: 1,328 Member
    It all depends. I can find something to love in just about any woman.




    Especially when she's naked.
  • move257
    move257 Posts: 313
    I heard this somewhere recently in regards to stick thin girls..."if I wanted to date a 12 year old boy I would date a 12 year old boy"...stick thin isn't in!!!!!

    Rude

    not rude! TRUE!
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
    I still don't think option B is realistic though.

    How is option B not realistic? Any girl could have a nicely toned body, if she's will to work for it. Same with any guy. We can have a good, muscular chest if we were willing to work hard for it.

    Option A is also do-able, if you wanted to risk your health...

    Anyway, that's besides the point of this thread.
  • SirRunningShorts
    SirRunningShorts Posts: 77 Member
    The one with intellignece is going to win everytime.
  • jennaworksout
    jennaworksout Posts: 1,739 Member
    Fit and it's not even close. But what difference does my opinion make. Be the woman you want to be, not the woman you think some guy wants you to be. Be you, and the right guy will appreciate you, no matter what form you take.

    perfect answer! :happy: ....so true..I needed to read that!
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 720 Member
    I heard this somewhere recently in regards to stick thin girls..."if I wanted to date a 12 year old boy I would date a 12 year old boy"...stick thin isn't in!!!!!

    Rude

    not rude! TRUE!

    Whatever. Some women are naturally slim. Take your rude comments and shove em.
  • pprigge
    pprigge Posts: 27 Member
    These posts remind me of a quote from Dita Von Teese(slight paraphrasing).

    "You can be the juiciest, most perfect peach in the world. But there is always some one out there who doesn't like peaches".

    Be confident in yourself and the guys will notice.

    PERFECT!
  • ToughTulip
    ToughTulip Posts: 1,118 Member
    I still don't think option B is realistic though.

    How is option B not realistic? Any girl could have a nicely toned body, if she's will to work for it. Same with any guy. We can have a good, muscular chest if we were willing to work hard for it.

    Option A is also do-able, if you wanted to risk your health...

    Anyway, that's besides the point of this thread.

    I completely agree. You just have to work for it.
    Looking from where I came from and where I am at now, it is very doable for me at least
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
    For those who think option 'b' isn't realistic - how about this:

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    Anna Meares.

    Multiple World Champion and World Record holder for many track cycling disciplines.

    I would still pick her over option A.
  • marynificent
    marynificent Posts: 110 Member
    judging from the number of people burning a hole through my backside at the gym and the skinny bishes all up in the magazines, menfolk like um' all shapes and sizes, as they should. :)
  • LilMissSunshine_
    LilMissSunshine_ Posts: 520
    I heard this somewhere recently in regards to stick thin girls..."if I wanted to date a 12 year old boy I would date a 12 year old boy"...stick thin isn't in!!!!!

    Rude

    not rude! TRUE!

    How is this NOT rude? Some people can not help but be "stick thin". I personally am not by no means, but even I find this offensive. It may not be your preference but that doesn't mean you should bash it.
  • sexyrosey
    sexyrosey Posts: 137
    Everyone is different, so you will get different answers. For me. I need a woman with curves and meat on her bones. I can't stand stick thin, I prefer thicker girls. :) Have to have that booty!! :)

    Big girls need lovin too! haha..:laugh:

    ^^^So true... I don't even really see them as "big girl" just what catches my eye. A woman witch curves, with some meat on her bones. I think the media has everyone thinking that being super thin or looking like a sickly model is attractive. It's not even healthy!! How the hell can seeing someone's ribs and bones be hot??!!! It's disgusting! Most of those women have an ED not healthy. I'm an "*kitten*" man,, hottest thing on a woman!! A woman that thin has no booty either!! ! :D Truth is, most all women are beautiful. I think another guy in here said it and he hit the nail right on the head. All women are beautiful, a work of art. When it comes down to it,, I don't discriminate, if I really like her, her body type isn't the most important thing at all.. However, I'm sure we can all admit that the FIRST thing we notice about a new person before we get to know them is whether or not we find them attractive, just human nature. When it comes to me, a curvy women woman with a booty is most certainly catches my eye! :)

    I think I love you!

    About damn time. A guy who knows we can't all be super skinny nor do we want to be. :wink:

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