Hubby spying on me...
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Finally. Someone said it!!
It was my husband who brought to my attention the exact number of plates of food being consumed. I was content enough to just shake my head, becuse the couples poor kids were extremely obsese for having followed in their parents footsteps. But you're right. My thread on morbidly obese people teaching their kids life threatening eating habits is an awsome excuse for my husband to invade my privacy and treat me like crap.Spying is creepy.
You can't just default to insecure as a reason though. It could be many things... maybe he wants a reason to get divorced... lol
After reading her earlier forum post about fat people at the buffet, who could blame him??
Too harsh?
Clearly you weren't content to do so as you said multiple times in the thread that you started about that specific family that you were whispering with your husband about them and gawking at them the entire time that you were there, then you came home and STARTED A THREAD ABOUT THEM, them, specifically and told your child that they aren't "big", they're "unhealthy because they don't make the right choices".
But way to backtrack and blame it on your husband. Which, by the way, if he treats you so crappily and reads all of your stuff, how exactly do you think he's going to react over you telling everyone what a bad husband he is?
Glad I'm not the only one who sees this. I can't believe people actually feel sorry for this woman!0 -
TOO.MUCH.FREE.TIME. Hopefully this fulfilled your hopes and dreams of getting some attention for today, lady.0
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TOO.MUCH.FREE.TIME. Hopefully this fulfilled your hopes and dreams of getting some attention for today, lady.
Love this!0 -
A couple of 'larger' friends of mine were telling me about someone they sat near at a Chinese Buffet Restaurant, he seemed to be checking where she was looking, and checking her phone over her shoulder....their kids were a pain in the *kitten* too they said.
Nice food though - they really enjoyed it, they were celebrating a milestone!0 -
I use to spy when our relationship was new and i was still dealing with issues, and it seemed like i was really just doing it to pick fights. Dumb i know. I don't do it anymore. My husband has never, he just doesnt care about that s**t, he knows im his, all day everyday. People who do that stuff have a problem with themselves, not the person they are spying on.0
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A couple of 'larger' friends of mine were telling me about someone they sat near at a Chinese Buffet Restaurant, he seemed to be checking where she was looking, and checking her phone over her shoulder....their kids were a pain in the *kitten* too they said.
Nice food though - they really enjoyed it, they were celebrating a milestone!
Right on!0 -
You just like the drama. That is obvious with your need to post ridiculous threads all day today. Stop talking about people, stop denigrating your husband and get your own life in order. I'm out of here.0
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A couple of 'larger' friends of mine were telling me about someone they sat near at a Chinese Buffet Restaurant, he seemed to be checking where she was looking, and checking her phone over her shoulder....their kids were a pain in the *kitten* too they said.
Nice food though - they really enjoyed it, they were celebrating a milestone!
:laugh: Now that's funny.0 -
A couple of 'larger' friends of mine were telling me about someone they sat near at a Chinese Buffet Restaurant, he seemed to be checking where she was looking, and checking her phone over her shoulder....their kids were a pain in the *kitten* too they said.
Nice food though - they really enjoyed it, they were celebrating a milestone!
Oh, I love you.0 -
This is the same OP that hates her kids, right?
Nice family.0 -
LOL No he doesn't spy on me, he trusts me! Are you really asking if this is normal? Definitely sounds like he has some issues and you should call him on it.0
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He doesn't care who I talk to or what I do, nor do I give him those kind of restrictions.
Because, you know, we trust each other.0 -
This is the same OP that hates her kids, right?
Nice family.
hating her own kids? =( That's so sad!0 -
SOOO if you caught him spying on you, one has to ask - How did you catch him spying on you without spying on him?0
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A couple of 'larger' friends of mine were telling me about someone they sat near at a Chinese Buffet Restaurant, he seemed to be checking where she was looking, and checking her phone over her shoulder....their kids were a pain in the *kitten* too they said.
Nice food though - they really enjoyed it, they were celebrating a milestone!
Oh, I love you.
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If my husband spied on me, he wouldn't be my husband for very long. He did it once while we were dating, and I made it clear that this would be a one-time thing, unless he wanted "us" to be a past-tense thing. I don't spy on him either, it's a matter of respect and trust, if you don't have those, then your relationship is as good as over IMHO.0
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SOOO if you caught him spying on you, one has to ask - How did you catch him spying on you without spying on him?
Because she is seeking attention. Check out her previous forum post about fat people from earlier today. You will learn all about her..0 -
No, this isn't a dating site0
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he might have cause after seeing some of your provocative pics on here, i can only imagine the ones on FB. then you compound that with the fact you're going through this life change. he loves you the way you were and may see it as a change in the agreement he made with you when he initially pop the question (this was a situation with a friend of mine and her hubby...they're divorced now :sad: )0
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