What do you do when people keep staring?

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  • Studiousone75
    Studiousone75 Posts: 23 Member
    I find that sometimes when I'm lost in thought mulling some deep things, I watch someone somewhat absentmindedly and do not realize that I'm looking at the person more than I should until that person reacts. This could be true for some people when they appear to be watching you.
  • I usually keep my head down. I get really uncomfortable, end of story.
  • Uxorial
    Uxorial Posts: 38
    People stare at me a fair amount.

    I have been told I *look* friendly :ohwell:
  • 1nr15
    1nr15 Posts: 155
    let them stare and try not to pay attention to them :blushing:
  • I do anything to ignore and not acknowledge it. i.e. my phone just became really interesting, there is a sign I have to read across the street, I just have to finish the last paragraph of my book.

    However, most of the time when this happens to me, I am on the L and the creeper will be just sitting or standing next to me. I hate it! They never talk, they just stare for the entire train ride.
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    My daughter dropped my son and I off a little while ago after watching her kids and while we were walking towards our apartment we saw the upstairs neighbor's face pressed against her window screen watching us. My son said (plenty loud enough for her to hear) "why is that woman staring so hard at us?" I cracked up laughing. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • cole_carter
    cole_carter Posts: 174 Member
    I think it is maybe one of the pitfalls of getting fit and looking good.
  • YoshiZelda
    YoshiZelda Posts: 340 Member
    Stare at them back. Works like a charm ;]
  • crystalslight
    crystalslight Posts: 322 Member
    Am I the only one who starts to laugh?
    When I'm uncomfortable, I laugh.
    I'm sure they think I'm laughing at them. Just can't help it.
  • Am I the only one who starts to laugh?
    When I'm uncomfortable, I laugh.
    I'm sure they think I'm laughing at them. Just can't help it.

    ^^ This (I have a tendency to laugh in the most INAPPROPRIATE moments!).and I blush like a dumbass :blushing:
  • Jaimers92
    Jaimers92 Posts: 40 Member
    I usually feel pretty uncomfortable when anyone stares. I start to wonder if I have something on my face or shirt or whatever. However, be it a cute guy, it perks up my confidence just a little :P
  • CarleyLovesPets
    CarleyLovesPets Posts: 410 Member
    I stare back until they look away.

    Once a guy on the street at a red crosswalk kept looking me up and down, he wouldn't make eye contact. So I asked him "What's your f-ing problem?" He ended up crossed while the light was still red.

    THIS.
    I also do the "What's you f-ing problem?' thing if people don't look away.

    Or I blow them kisses.
  • jesz124
    jesz124 Posts: 1,004 Member
    You could also try walking with an obvious limp whilst dribbling out of the corner of your mouth. They may still stare but when you catch their eye they will soon look away.
  • moreno89
    moreno89 Posts: 210 Member
    i think this happens to a lot of women......i don't know whether it's good or bad sometime either but i know i don't look bad....i take it as a compliment ;)
  • moreno89
    moreno89 Posts: 210 Member
    I usually feel pretty uncomfortable when anyone stares. I start to wonder if I have something on my face or shirt or whatever. However, be it a cute guy, it perks up my confidence just a little :P




    hahaha i think that too i will ask my fiance do i have something on my face?
  • gemmalouise85
    gemmalouise85 Posts: 157 Member
    I smile and say hi..
    Sometimes they say hi back, sometimes they look like I just said something insulting :S
  • Gyoza11
    Gyoza11 Posts: 143 Member
    This reminds me of a video on youtube with a guy talking about when he accidentally went on the women train compartment in Japan.
    Everyone was staring at him a lot and he's like "Daaaamn I look good today!".
    Girls get stared at: "Is there something wrong with me?"
    Guys get stared at: "I'm looking good today!"
    Not always true but funny
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    Smile and/or wink!