looking for friends not flirts

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  • jesss5885
    jesss5885 Posts: 187 Member
    hey! feel free to add me as well :)
    always good to surround yourself with good motivators and motivatees!
  • speedisoverrated
    speedisoverrated Posts: 38
    I can't flirt, nor do I really want to.

    Happy to befriend anyone - all I can offer is sarcasm though I'm afraid, and a friendly face.
  • SparkleShine
    SparkleShine Posts: 2,001 Member
    You can add me. I'm 41, married with 2 teeenagers. I want to start lifting too!!
  • gillz89
    gillz89 Posts: 81 Member
    Request sent. I'm younger, but here strictly for losing weight, getting support (and motivation), and learning how to work out (lift/cardio/etc) correctly. Definitely not here to flirt. Not married, but am in a committed relationship.
  • Iansmommy123011
    Iansmommy123011 Posts: 872 Member
    Feel free to add me if you like :)
  • DaisyHamilton
    DaisyHamilton Posts: 575 Member
    I'm glad to see so many people looking for "friends, not flirts"! :smile: Anyone can feel free to add me, too. My gym membership just ended, so I'm starting the 30 Day Shred, and trying to eat mostly natural (which gets hard sometimes!). I'm 18, 5'5", and 150lbs, in case anyone is interested! If not, that's fine. I love finding new people to be friends with here :flowerforyou:. I'm also strengthening and thinning out for BCT for the Army.
  • sbilyeu75
    sbilyeu75 Posts: 567 Member
    I'm a mommy of a 4 year old and a 7 month old. I'm 37 and working through NROL4W. I started at 201 and I'm currently at 163.5. I'm shooting for 150 lbs.

    The major rule I have is, if you are a man and I check out your profile before accepting (which I always do) and I see nothing but women, then I have no interest in adding that person.
  • mrincredible93
    mrincredible93 Posts: 146
    I remove anyone who tries to flirt. I also try not to get involved in discussions not related to weight loss. One exception is a group of middle aged fat guys who love to yank each other's chains...but in a supportive way. I won't give them up.

    I'm serious about my journey. I'm taking it with my wife who is also my friend here. I'm doing it for myself & my kids.

    I'm also working with a trainer at the gym. I've been a gym member since I was 16 years old but did most everything wrong. Working with a trainer helps me do it right for results and without pain. I'm getting close to the point now where I can begin sculpting my problem areas. I'm willing to share everything I learn with MFP friends.

    My food and exercise diaries are open to my friends. I won't say "Yay" every time you complete a diary or if you do the bare minimum. I compliment for hard work and dedication and remove people who make a lot of excuses.

    Anyone reading this who feels the same is welcome to invite me to be a friend.
  • wareagle8706
    wareagle8706 Posts: 1,090 Member
    I'm on here for fitness first and flirting second... but really I only flirt with on specific person... so mainly fitness!! haha!!
  • MarshallCroft
    MarshallCroft Posts: 54
    Just PM'd you.
  • winterdancer
    winterdancer Posts: 89
    Hi I am Katie 37 year old single mom of a 10 year old daughter
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    I am Jaymie, 30 years old and looking to get fit. I've recently lost 20lbs and I hope to lose around 10 more lbs, and get toned up.
    It is weird, strength training used to be easier for me but now I find I run and don't do any weights...so I need some motivation too!
  • 3ysha
    3ysha Posts: 7
    Ok dear i will add you and help you

    anyone can add me :) for help and motivate each other
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    oh...backs slowly out of room.
  • stephaniezoundi
    stephaniezoundi Posts: 1,148 Member
    Feel free to send request! I'm married with a 1 month old at home. Before getting pregnant I lost 120lbs and still had a ways to go. I worked out 6 days a week mixing cardio and weights. I miss it and am just waiting to get the all clear from my doctor to start running again. It will be a bit before I'm back at the gym lifting weights :flowerforyou:
  • basillowe66
    basillowe66 Posts: 432 Member
    I think you really have to have a goal in mind that you want to look like or feel like. We can somewhat help each other, but it really has to come from within.
    I was always a runner and didn't think much of lifting, but recently in several articles on fitness and losing weight, they say that lifing gets the metabolism moving better than running. It took the several articles to get me to believe it.

    I would like to add you to my friend list.


    Basil
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
    Am I missing something? There's a lot of talk of flirting on here today but I'm not seeing any actual flirting. There's definitely none on my newsfeed! Where's all this flirting??
  • DaBossLady24
    DaBossLady24 Posts: 556 Member
    Here strictly for weightloss and support. I need some motivating friends to help me start integrating fitness into my daily routine. Not a mother, but a busy full time worker, part time student and new home owner! Lots of things to do!

    ^^ This is me just about exactly.

    I'm also working on lifting and beating my personal bests along with adding in cardio. Looking for all-around health, so add me if you wish! :bigsmile:
  • pamwilli14
    pamwilli14 Posts: 27 Member
    Anyone is free to add me. I am married. I have recently had surgery so am very limited on the foods I can eat and am having a hard time making calories...never thought that would happen.....I am in need of all the motivation I can get...Thanks
  • kcmomof2
    kcmomof2 Posts: 457 Member
    Hi! I'm in my later 30's, married and a mom of 2 (a 5 yr. old daughter and a 4 yr. old son) so definitely not wanting to flirt. I LOVE running (currently training for a marathon) and am now in maintenance mode. Send me a friend request if you'd like. :smile:
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
    please add me. Im here for health and fitness and all I get are these chicks constantly throwing their panties at me.
  • lildazey
    lildazey Posts: 86 Member
    I'm a mother of 3, here for weight loss, motivation and support. Not here for flirting!. Feel free to add me :)
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
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    *Yes, I know whoever made this meme can't spell, no IDGAF
  • cajungirltx
    cajungirltx Posts: 147 Member
    Just sent a friend request. I'm here strictly for diet and fitness as well. I will be 40 in a couple of years and I have let myself go. I broke my wrist at my daughters dodge ball party and it went down hill from there. Since then, I've gained 25 pounds. Just started back and love reading everyone else's stories, struggles, success stories, etc. I need to do this for myself because I no longer feel healthy. I use to exercise alot and just gave it up. I used my wrist as an excuse for everything. Well it's healed and it's time for me to get back to a healthy and happy lifestyle.
  • Doreen9686
    Doreen9686 Posts: 62
    Add me too if you like. I am here to encourage and be encouraged to lose weight. Do mainly walking, a little lifting and some ab work. Need to lose, tone, firm etc...:happy:
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    Friends without benefits aren't even friends at all.



    Psh, I'm leaving.
  • DarthCeltic
    DarthCeltic Posts: 1,236 Member
    Friends without benefits aren't even friends at all.



    Psh, I'm leaving.

    it is known!
  • fcp1234
    fcp1234 Posts: 1,098 Member
    Hi! I am a mommy of two and in my thirties. I would love to find friends on here that are here for health and fitness not just to flirt with each other. Not judging others that do :) I just want to see in my feed more people who are after the same goals as me. I don't care about age or weight :) So, if this is what you're after too, lets work together to reach our goals.

    BTW My major goal is to start lifting, but I'll last two weeks and go back to running only :( I need a lot of help in that department to staying motivated ;)
    I have a open dairy as well.

    Thanks!

    I'll add ya, but I cant promise that i wont flirt with ya
  • gypsybree
    gypsybree Posts: 218
    Me, too!
  • fcp1234
    fcp1234 Posts: 1,098 Member
    please add me. Im here for health and fitness and all I get are these chicks constantly throwing their panties at me.

    Oh dont add him, he is the worst

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