Deleting bc people eat too low...

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  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    This isn't the real world, for crying out loud. You shouldn't feel obligated to support anyone.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    This isn't the real world, for crying out loud. You shouldn't feel obligated to support anyone.

    What??!!! this isn't the real world? I thought I was in season 137 Real World Des Moines...
  • IntoTheSky
    IntoTheSky Posts: 390 Member
    This isn't the real world, for crying out loud. You shouldn't feel obligated to support anyone.

    Uhm..... I'm NOT obligated to support anyone other than my child and my self...... even IN the "real world". Beyond that, it is totally optional, and I feel no obligation to anyone. I do it. But mostly because they support themselves. If they wanna fall, I will let them. And watch it happen. And wonder if they learned anything from that.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    This isn't the real world, for crying out loud. You shouldn't feel obligated to support anyone.

    Uhm..... I'm NOT obligated to support anyone other than my child and my self...... even IN the "real world". Beyond that, it is totally optional, and I feel no obligation to anyone. I do it. But mostly because they support themselves. If they wanna fall, I will let them. And watch it happen. And wonder if they learned anything from that.

    will you point and laugh when they fall?
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I don't pay all that much attention to what people eat. I'll look. Even if I notice a pattern I won't say anything.
    But when I have reached out to try and help, or they have asked for my help and they still continue the same behavior and constantly status update about it.....

    Eventually I run out of the ability to spread my special brand of sunshine to them.
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    My friends could eat cats for all I care.

    Win!
  • IntoTheSky
    IntoTheSky Posts: 390 Member
    This isn't the real world, for crying out loud. You shouldn't feel obligated to support anyone.

    Uhm..... I'm NOT obligated to support anyone other than my child and my self...... even IN the "real world". Beyond that, it is totally optional, and I feel no obligation to anyone. I do it. But mostly because they support themselves. If they wanna fall, I will let them. And watch it happen. And wonder if they learned anything from that.

    will you point and laugh when they fall?

    Abso-fricken-loutely!!!!!
  • skonly
    skonly Posts: 371
    I deleted someone a few minutes ago. lol. She had requested me and asked if I was following a certain plan she was on. I'm not, but had to accept the request to see her profile. Her diary is locked and her posts look like mostly spam. So I deleted her right away.

    If I see a post and find it interesting enough to go check out a diary I may delete a person based on certain things. I like to look at diaries just to see what other people eat. One friend has given me new ideas for my smoothies, and I'm making dinner tonight based off what I saw someone else eat last week.

    I don't want friends who eat 300 calories a day and complain they are fat. I don't want friends who eat 3500 calories a day consisting of fast food and desserts for every meal and complain they are in a plateau. I've seen both on here.

    I have a good group of friends on here so I guess I'm lucky.

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