WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR OCTOBER 2012

glendalight

It has been a couple of days since I have been on here and things have really been moving along!! So much happening in all of your lives!

Jen _ How incredibly wonderful to have your son home from Afghanistan! Isn't it so true that we often don't realize the stress we are under until it is relieved and we are able to take that first deep breath. Rejoicing and giving thanks with you today!

Donna - Wow, what a successful weight loss in spite of the stress in your life! I usually am a stress eater, so good for you. And even better news that hubby is making good progress in his treatments. May good things continue to come your way!

Kate - Congrats on the football win, and on the food victory as well! My team did not do so well I heard - in fact, I think hubby said we got spanked!! I understand the mixed feelings toward the chocolate bar lady:laugh: :explode: - "can't you share?? no wait, I don't want any!! " (insert carrot here!):laugh:
Kate, have you ever had restless legs? I get that when I am overtired or in a confined space. It is SO frustrating and irritating- I just cannot keep my legs still, no matter how badly I need to sleep! The doctor said stretching your legs before bed might help, and also avoiding tannins before bed (red wine, tea, cheese); I have heard others recommend magnesium. If you find something that works well, let me know.

Barbara - what a wonderful tribute to your Robbie. It always leaves a hole when we lose a beloved pet!:frown:

Lila - I have had a hard time to keep my calories up when I eliminated/reduced the refined carbs from my diet. I did feel better without the bread and white rice, but was concerned about shutting down the metabolism . Some kind and wise women on here (thank you ladies!) have encouraged me to boost my calorie intake so I am giving that a go. I really do not want my body to go into starvation mode, I just want to lose some of this extra baggage!:grumble:

The temp has been nice for October this week and the flowers are still blooming outside. (yes, this is noteworthy here in the north ) But the wind has been raging too and it has not encouraged me to get any exercise in. I REALLY need to get back at it this week!!

Finish the weekend well ladies. Start the new week well. glenda

kathyszoo

Just popping by to say "HI", and mark my spot on our new thread!

:flowerforyou: Kathy


“Strength doesn’t come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn’t.”

- Rikki Rogers

DeeDee2211

Hi beautiful ladies:flowerforyou:

Just marking my spot until later!

Linda When I say I get to be Queen for the day, it means I'm going to Starbucks to meet with some of my friends and they're all guys:bigsmile: ( I meet them every Sunday morning) , so they call me the Queen, and I love it:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :blushing: ! I actually did one of my guy friends nails today, they looked absolutely awful and we were sitting outside so I pulled out my trusty nail clippers and file and he looked much better when I finished:laugh: . I've known most of the guys for about 14 years now, it's just fun to catch up with them all, we always have a good time!

Will be back later to respond to more!!!

Hugs,
DeeDee

jb_2011

The rain has finally come. :flowerforyou: I managed to work in the garden for a couple of hours today (under a cloudy sky but no rain) and bring home lots of goodies. Dinner's in the oven, roasted parsnips, beets, carrots, bell pepper and onion, along with a beef roast. I'll sautee some kale, too. Harvested all of it today except, of course, the beef.

Lila, I completely agree about the doggie deal. I had lots of tears this morning after reading Barbara's post, then another MFP friend announced she'd lost her dog to heart failure.

Glenda, nuts work great for increasing calories. Avocados, too. Both are excellent, but walnuts especailly since they're packed with Omega-3's.

Linda, it's not required to garden "organic" when someone becomes a community garden member at this particular garden. Many, many people do, including us, but some don't. We pay an annual fee of $25 per plot for our gardens, and there is no charge for water. But we live in the land of water, lol :bigsmile: We also have to do 4 hours (per plot) of community garden work on work party days, such as fencing, tilling, mowing the pathways, etc.

Going to check on dinner, have a great evening!

jb

yoyonomore55

Marking my spot. Be back in the morning.
Deb A

barbiecat

:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: Linda, my husband decided to do something about his weight the day he looked in the mirror and said “OMG I look like a beached walrus”……congratulations to you for keeping your mouth shut and letting your husband find his own moment of clarity.

Barbara, I am so sorry about your beloved Robby……:sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: someone told me that the only way to avoid such a heartbreak is to never love another animal, and of course, that’s not possible…..some mornings I stop in the middle of walking my dogs and hug and kiss them because I know they won’t be with me forever and I don’t want to waste a moment.

:bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: Vicki, I am so glad to see you back…..i look forward to hearing about your progress with your new food plan……nourishing your body is the key to staying on track……when I first started on MFP I replied to everyone, now I reply to a few and don’t worry that I’m not perfect…….one of my happiness commandments is that I won’t let perfect be the enemy of the good.

:flowerforyou: Jen, thanks for the encouragement about the recumbent bike….I can’t wait for it to get here……Jake has already rearranged the living room to make space for it.

:flowerforyou: Deb A, thanks for the encouragement about the bike……

:flowerforyou: Jb, how far do you have to go to get to your garden plot?

:flowerforyou: Robin, thanks for sharing The Rainbow Bridge poem

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somebody sent it to us when our Golden Retriever, Shilo, died in 2005.

:bigsmile: The baby shower was fun…..I didn’t win any of the games and I didn’t eat any of the food. It is easier for me to eat a good lunch before I go and then eat nothing at the event. The hostess tried to tempt me with fresh fruit, but I thanked her and told her that I do best when I eat nothing.

:yawn: :yawn: :yawn: :yawn: :yawn: I am exhausted. I think all the big line dancing days and long walks have done me in. I’ll be off to bed early:yawn: :yawn: :yawn: and ready to start planning new dance classes tomorrow.


Barbie from NW Washington




Resolutions for October
*yoga once a week
*walk with hubby three times a week
*say “OK”---be agreeable
*stay in the moment
*Be Barbie

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"The reason most people fail instead of succeed is that they trade what they want the MOST for what they want at the MOMENT."

"The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed."

exermom

lila - feel better fast!

holli, rosemary, tekwriter - welcome, come back often for lots of help, suggestions, motivation, and anything else you may need.

DeeDee - have fun with your friends

Donna - awesome news about your hubby! Wonderful about your successes. WTG girl! 126! That's awesome!

M - great job on the running! I knew you could do it!!!

Lin - whenever I'm in a health food store, that's always a big temptation for me. Sometimes I have to avoid them

jane - glad you got the go ahead to exercise

Nelson, mombert, hyspirit (love your pic), provemewrong - welcome, you've come to the right place

Jen - that's so wonderful that ds is back!

You know, in some ways I feel like I wish we'd gotten tile with more color. But then I have to remind myself that we really restricted ourselves in that we needed a tile that had three in the same family so that we could have an accent. Actually, there were only two that had three tiles in the same family and one was way expensive, a lot would have been added. So really, we didn't have a choice. Only whenever I say something like that Vince says that it hurts him. But if we get river rock which is white, the concrete is gray, retaining wall is gray, the tile is beige, I just don't know how it'll all look together. We were thinking of lava rock but in reading about it we found out that lava rock can be very sharp so it will probably rip the landscape fabric we'd have to put down so that's probably out. I wish we could get a stone that was a reddish color (like the red clay)

Yesterday (Sat) I did yoga, today I did 30 minutes of jump rope and 30 min of hula hoop on the Wii. I tell you, the jump ropeing really worked up a sweat for me. Actually, I did 15 minutes, then 30 of the hula hoop, then the last 15 of jump rope. Then went to church, we trimmed the bushes in front of the house (thank goodness there is an empty lot next to us so something like that we dump there), then watered the backyard. Watering takes us about 2 to 3 hours. Oh, yes, did a load of laundry, made a pork roast that we can have this week and then some leftovers. Also made a shrimp gumbo to take to bunco Tuesday if I go. If not, we'll have it. Tomorrow I'll do some yoga and then go to the extremepump class. The guys should be here to finish the tiles.

barbie - you always have such wonderful advice! Congrats on the new bike.

kate - good for you taking food to the game, you did wonderful. I remember the first time we went to a baseball game here, I took my snacks. As we were driving there there were all these signs "no outside food or beverage" but I didn't think they'd hold to that a lot, especially since this is a minor league. Well, they did. I almost couldn't bring them into the stadium! So I told the guy that I needed the snacks "for medicinal purposes". He let me bring them in. The next time I went, I just took my "going to the movies" pocketbook which can hold snacks and water bottles. Horray on needing that belt!

Lila - feel better fast!

auntiebk - I feel your pain, losing a loved one is so hard. Sending you a big hug

Linda Sundance - that was so nice of you to be there for your friend.

Linda - you're probbly referring to Cats Cradle. Yes, I did that. Actually, even my girls did it. We have 1-3/4 acres. There are pine trees, you have great eyesight!

I like beets, only the red beets don't exactly like me. Now I have no problem with the golden beets. Except for the fact that they're impossible to find except at a farmer's market.

jb - how nice of you to give away your extra veges

gail - isn't it just such a neat feeling when you are turned off by sweets???

Better post this a) to mark my spot and b) before it gets too long. Going to take a shower, give Loki his "treat" (med), then get to bed.

Hope everyone has a great evening.

Michele

DeeDee2211

Good evening beautiful ladies:flowerforyou:

Back to try and finish my posts!

Lynn We a chatty bunch of women! I try to check in a couple times a day just to keep up!!!!

Cheryl I love my FitBit too !!! My daughter gave it to me for an early b'day present. I have amazed myself many times, I move way more than I thought I did:bigsmile: ! I also love the sleep feature, my sleep pattern had been pretty good until a couple of nights ago and it said I awakened 19 times, and I did toss and turn most of the night! Hope you enjoyed every bite of that pecan waffle YUM!!!

VickiM Hope your day turned out fabulous!!!

DebA I use the Leslie Sansone walking routine on the days it's really icky outside. If it's just a little drizzle or just a bit cold I walk outside, I so prefer being outdoors!!!

Jb My mother use to say that, red sky in the morning, sailors take warning, she also used to tell me if you could see enough blue sky to make a cat a pair of pjs it would be clearing up soon:laugh: , I'm always looking for that patch of blue through the clouds:laugh: .

Genealce Hope you find something exercise wise you enjoy doing. Seems like in the warmer months things are always more fun!!!

Robin The poem is beautiful !!!

Lin Is that project still staring at you:huh: :laugh: !

Barbie 2 hours walking the dogs, I walk Noel anywhere from 30-45 mins., if we were out 2 hours I would probably be carrying her:laugh: ,

Deborah I have several post in cyber space too !!! Your quote is beautiful - thank you!!!

JaneMartin Stay safe in those storms!!! It has just now started thundering here, they said we would have them tomorrow, along with rain most of the day:frown: !!!

Lila Hope that cold is gone by tomorrow!!! I have too much stuff too, I have 2 big bags in my car right now to donate, most of it jackets and coats that are too big!

Gail your shopping trip with your friend sounds like you had a good time! The monthly sewing/craft group at your church sounds like it will be fun and productive!!! Doing great things for the community!!!!

Glenda Those beautiful flowers holding on as long as they can!!! I'm not looking forward to having to be indoors to get my walking in this winter:frown: , I so love being outside !!!

KathyL Love the quote, thanks!!!

It has been a good day today, I had fun with the guys this morning! I actually got a hot chocolate at Starbucks today, 230 calories for it:noway: , I could have had 2 glasses of wine:sad: :ohwell: . It's a good thing I don't want that very often!!! My allergies have decide to act up today too , I've had a terrible headache, my face is hurting and my ear hurts:sad: :sad: ! Time for me to take a Zyrtec and some Advil and crawl in my comfy bed. Hope all you beauties have a wonderful rest of the night, sleep well and sweet dreams!!! Until tomorrow....

Hugs,
DeeDee:yawn: :yawn: :yawn:

lizmil79

Hello Ladies,

Good Evening, had a good day overall! Took Bella for her walk also caught up on some housework today. DH has been glue to the set today except for going to church. So sort of been a very low key day but those can be nice.

@Linda-- Our Woodcutter's Ball is fun we meet at this rent space way out in the country, have chili (chili contest) dessert contest, and cornbread. There are games for children, and woodcutting contest with an axe between various teams. Men teams and women teams. Than we have a rock throwing contest yes 2 big rocks men teams and women teams see who throw the fairest. Than we have square dancing. Also who dresses in their best western grab. It is corny but lots of fun!

@KathyL Love that quote

@Lin did you get your project done?

@Lili--Hope that cold goes away soon!

@Barbie that is a nice walk. Also great idea on your bike I know I have been talking to my DH about a investing in a treadmill I like getting out and Bella will make sure but with winter approaching ...

@Dee I hope your headache goes away soon.

Wishing everyone a good evening,

Liz

LindaS175

My daughter went to her shooting competition today. They left at 0300 and got home about 4pm. She competed in sporting clays. This is not what shooting event she wants to go to the Olympics for, but any shooting is great practice! She came in first place for lady junior varsity! :drinker: :drinker: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: I am so proud of her, it’s so nice when they have something they like to do and they are driven to do it well! :drinker: :drinker:
I just finished my 4 hour work shift and I wanted to check in. Trying to not get so far behind.

Lila- glad that you are feeling better. Nothing is better than getting some good sleep when you are not feeling well.:bigsmile: :bigsmile:

Gail, putting in a wall, soil etc in a lot of heavy duty work. We did the same thing. It is so nice when it is done and you can say- that you did the work yourself! You new church sounds like a nice place to be. We have been looking for a new church also, but have not found one that works for us as of yet. :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

Glenda- it is hard to exercise when it is cold and windy outside. Today was around 90 here in So, Calif. We will be in the 80-90’s for the next 10 days without any rain in site. The plus about your weather is that I would assume that all of your pools are indoor and nicely heated. We have a pool at the Ymca, it is outdoors. When the winter finally comes here, The thought of going in a pool when the air temp is in the 52/60s if too much to bear! Lol :laugh: :laugh:

Kathy- thanks for the quote from Rikki Rogers!

DeeDee- how nice to be Queen at Starbucks. How nice of you to clean up your friends nails. They must be good friends if your hubby doesn’t mind you being Queen of your guy friends! Lol- Sounds like you had a marvelous court today! Hope your allergies are better in the morning! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

Jb- your dinner sounds so yummy. I wish I lived close so I could accidently show up at dinner time! Yummy! That is so cheap to have that much growing space for a year. Is it someone’s private property or the city owns the land and are in charge of this awesome plot rental? 4 hours of community garden work per month or year? This would be an awesome idea down here but the cost of water is crazy. Our water bill for 3 months was over $400.00. Now that is crazyyyyyyyyyyyy. Hope that you are enjoying your yummy dinner. I did like Portland for awhile until the dark, cold rainy days got to me. Lol:sad: :sad:

Barbie, thank you for your kind words –you always find the positive in a person. You are not old enough to be my mother, but sometime I feel like God put you in my life to say the things to me that a mother would. I did lose my mother at 20 to lung cancer. So ,maybe I am digging deep, but for you and your words I am truly thankful! :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

Michele- cats cradle, yes that was the name. I wish I still knew how to do it so I could teach the girls. They would just tell me “mom, that is lame” Oh, they don’t know how much fun and life they have miss out of growing up in a techno world! LOl Michele , just give the time so time, to blend with everything else. The weather will change some the the colors you are seeing now. Why, do your DH get his feeling hurt? You went with what you could afford at the time. Not like you had much of a choice. Maybe, he really wants you to be happy and this is why it hurts his feelings? I never did wear glasses until I hit 45 and had to hold everything so far away from me, that I broke down and got the drugstore reading glasses! :laugh: :laugh:

Liz- the woodcutters ball sounds like so much fun! I would love to have those types of events here. Oh, I can see myself there now! How much fun! I am wanting to move from So Cal when I read about all the wonderful things that you ladies can do because of where you live! Thank you for sharing the info on that great event. Congrats on the chili cook off too! :drinker: :drinker:

Sweet dreams my friends.
Heres, to the start of a new week, and new beginnings. Thank you for helping me on this journey! :drinker: :drinker: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

Linda

junekaatz

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yoyonomore55

DeeDee-Love the Queen stories! Must be so much fun to get together with good friends so often, I too prefer to be outside and am going to cross country ski and hike whenever I can, but it is dark when I leave for work and dark when I get home all winter.

Barbie- Thanks again for this thread. I have been getting discouraged lately because I can't get the last few pounds to budge, but the posts here are so encouraging to read that I am motivated to keep working at it. I have gotten sloppy about measuring and logging food and haven't been getting in as much exercise as I need to. Sure enough, the scales are up today! I am going to get this back under control today. Going to the gym after work. No excuses.

Sundance- We all have times we wished we lived in different areas of the country. I really like central NY because of the four seasons. Fall is my favorite followed by winter(yes, I love the snow and cold temperatures-although by late January I may wish I lived near you!). My least favorite is the summer when it gets hot and humid. There is always a variety of activities to join in around my area. Just need the time to do it all! Looking forward to retirement. I am finding that I have more energy now that I have lost the weight and am doing more.

Have a great day all! I will check back in AFTER THE GYM!
Deb A

auntiebk

Thank you all, my very dears, for the words of comfort and support.

Barbie as always your wisdom strikes home, to "not let perfect be the enemy of good."

Guess my only goal for October will be to get back on track with logging and exercise.

Thank you all for being here and who you are.
Barbara

Hugs,

Barbara, the AHMOD who WILL be size 10 one day
2012: dance more, bark less and check in!!

DMOMofTHREE

Yesterday flew by, never had a chance to come back here. Marking my spot and will be back when at work later. Monday mornings can be slow at work between entering payroll and waiting for the mail to arrive.

Lynn

Barbara, sorry for your loss. Sounds like you gave him the best home he could want, he was loved

I tear up everythime I read the Rainbow Bridge poem. It was given to me by my vet after I had to put down my Taz, cat that had developed a brain tumor at the age of 9. It was over 8 years ago but still gets to me.

DeeDee2211

Good morning beautiful ladies:flowerforyou:

I think it`s time I tell my story...it`s a bit hard, and I can`t get through it without sheding a tear or two even now, so I apologize in advance for any typos. I have shared my story with Dixie, and I still keep in touch with her, she`s doing as well as can be expected, she had the memorial for Lee the first of Oct. and she`s on a trip right now, I don` t think she would mind me telling all of you, she says she will be back when she`s ready. Okay.....

My husband died in January of 1998, he was on a business trip, a fun business trip duck hunting, they were on a small boat going to their "spot", early in the morning, and an oil tanker ran over their boat, killing 7 people. He was the love of my life, my best friend, the man I thought I would be with until the end of time:sad: . It has been the hardest thing I have ever gone through, the shock, the saddness, the grief, the anger etc. ect.....After 14 years I still miss him so much, some days it feels like it was yesterday and I`m waiting to hear the garage door go up letting me know he`s home , other times it feels like it was entirely another lifetime ago. I have dated a few men, one I thought had possibilites, we went out for a year and he decided to move to the west coast, and well I guess I didn`t really love him because i couldn`t make myself go with him:brokenheart: . This is where my weight comes in.....I have always been a little tiny thing, 5`almost 4", size 6, sometimes 8, my Dr. at the time decided I had been through too much and I needed some help, so he put me on Paxil:mad: , I gained close to 80 pounds in 4 months, I went to bed one size and woke up another size:huh: :sad: , I totally skipped size 14`s, I went from a 12 to a 16, finally settling around an 18 pant:grumble: . Not only did Paxil make me gain weight, it also made me hate my life, I wanted to drive my little convertible off a bridge, the ONLY thing that saved me was my daughter had just told me I was going to be a grandma, I knew I could never do anything to risk her losing that precious baby, I found myself another Dr. who finally got me off of Paxil, put me on several other meds., they didn`t work, the weight would not budge, no matter what I did, every diet I tried failed, if anything I gained more, to say I was depressed was an understatment. He finally got me off all the meds. and it took me almost 2 years to start feeling like a normal person again. I`m sure the birth of my first granddaughter helped more than anything. She is now 11 years old, and the love of my life, she does not know she is the reason I`m still here!!! I feel like I lived in a black hole for so many years, and one day I woke up and the world seemed different, a brighter, happier place, I actually felt good, I felt like I had a purpose again, and I thank God every day for pulling me out of that hell hole I was in. I am so happy to be alive, I am so happy that I have a great family, and wonderful friends. My life is the best it`s ever been since my hubby died. I look at everyday now as an adventure, something new to explore and see. I take in all the beauty God has surrounded us with, the blue sky, the wind blowing through my hair, the dragonflys as they dance around my yard, I play with my granddaughters, I mean really play, and it`s wonderful and I am grateful for every minute I spend with them!!!! When I fist started with MFP and I logged my first day, I found I had only been eating around 500 to 600 calories a day, so I actually started eating more and wala the weight started coming off, I had no clue I was eating so little. So....that`s my story, I felt I needed to tell it because Linda said I must have a good hubby to let me go meet all those guys once a week, well he was a fabulous hubby, however if he were still here he would not be happy if I was meeting anywhere from 4 to 6 guys every Sunday, however I do believe he would be happy that I have such wonderful guy friends, they are all like my big brothers, no romance there, I know too much about them:laugh: . They do keep trying to set me up on dates, but right now I`m happy with it just being me!!!

Okay ladies...I hope you all have a fabulous day! Drink your water:drinker: :drinker: :drinker: , and log your food!

Hugs,
DeeDee

lentigogirl

extra smooches to you today, DeeDee.

linder4866

extra smooches to you today, DeeDee.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Oh my. DeeDee, thank you, I'm beyond words.......

Lin

cathyb60

Hi Everyone,

I actually started this note a couple of days ago, now finally getting ready to send it off.So far my goals for October are just goals, nothing accomplished yet. I am starting fresh today. I can’t keep wallowing in self pity because of my knee, (and #*!# brace!) things could be a lot worse, so a new attitude today! I wish I had a female friend here with me who was going through similar issues, it might give me more of a push, that’s one of the things I love about this site, it gives me the next best thing!


Wessecg : I love your thoughts on exercise! I too am limited (right now anyway) on how much and what kind of exercise I do, because of my size and my arthritis. Sometimes I feel like, what’s the use, especially when I read about all the super things some other people are doing, but then I realize this is my starting point

Kathyszoo: I wore my “belt” fix today for the first time with my brace and did a bit of shopping, it actually stayed up! Yeah! I won’t say it was perfect but it was an improvement for sure. The “sports Dr. agreed with me that maybe there are just some body types that the brace just doesn’t work for, but I am still going to try and make it work for me.

Wow I just went to post this and saw that the thread was locked, now I have a whole bunch more posts to read! LOL!

Cathy



October Goals:
* Track my food
* Use the bike pedals at least 5 days a week
* Get to the pool 2-3 days per week
* Cut back on my drinks on the weekend
* lose and keep off 6 pounds (I tend to yo-yo)
*Eat more vegetables

mazaron

Good morning, and blessings to all this Monday,

I am still complaining about the poison ivy rash, I must have worn the bra that was in my travel bag with the shirt that had the sap on it because now I have a poison ivy blister on my breast! :sad:

However, poison ivy is a minor thing compared to DeeDee's story and the sadness of loosing a beloved pet, and some of the other struggles we face. My heart goes out to you.

On the other hand, a wise doctor once told me that I should not brush aside (and not deal with) my own troubles by saying other people have it worse than I do. So. dam it, the itching is driving me crazy and how am I going to scratch my breast in front of 27 12 year olds? :grumble: It kept me from exercising too, because I took antihistamines on Friday & Saturday nights so I could sleep, and then I slept all day. Sheesh. Did go for a 5K walk/run on Saturday eve, though, and plan to hit the gym for a good round at the weights this afternoon.

Yes, I am reading the book "A Complaint Free World" and I am very conscious about adding to the negative sum of the world :blushing: but honsestly has that man ever had the entire left side of his body covered with poison ivy blisters? For a week? :sad:

OK, I am going away now to put on my happy face and get all my underwear into a hot, hot, hot wash.

Love you,

Nancy

mazaron

I am also cross with myself because I have been gaining and loosing the same 4 pounds since the end of August, and that's not the way I like to do things. :noway: What is the matter with me?

Too much good fall harvest food, perhaps. :grumble:

Oh bother

genealace

Good morning everyone

Off soon to my aquafit class, then the Treasurer of my Lawn Bowls club is coming over to bring me 'the books' because I'm taking over from him as he will be President for the next year.

This afternoon, my DBF and I will go to the mall for a walk-around. This evening I'm teaching, but I know a couple of students won't be here, one because she is travelling early tomorrow morning and the other because she has just gone into a retirement home for a few weeks of care because she has a bad back and also is using a walker so wouldn't be able to negotiate the stairs to the basement.

Will need to get out at some point and rake up some leaves, but after a full day of rain yesterday it is too wet to be walking on the lawn. It is very windy today so I'm not sure if that will be a help or a hindrance. Will it blow away the leaves which are already down or will it blow more leaves from my neighbour's trees onto my lot. My two large ash trees were cut down recently because of Emerald Ash Borer beetles.

Welcome to all the newcomers - come back often.

Has anyone heard from Chiclet recently? I missed a couple of months, but didn't see any posts from her so far this month. Just wondered how she was doing with the trials and tribulations of her mother.

genealace

Nancy - have you been to the doctor? Just to make sure that it is poison ivy and not anything else and the doc could probably give you something to help. When I had it I was smothered with it on my arms, legs and neck and had prednisone prescribed which helped. The other thing that was recommended was an oat (think it was oats or some cereal or other hee hee) bath. You can get it at the pharmacy and put it in the bath and sit in it to soak. Then putting calomine on after does help. I wonder if "After Bite" would help with the itch - I think someone else mentioned it, but can't remember if it was in this context.

Shingles is also very itchy and I still have post herpatic irritation from having shingles across my face, head and into my eye.

Hope you stop itching soon.

janehadji

We got back from Mexico last night. I won't have time to get caught up on reading the thread for a few days, but did glance through this page while scrolling to the bottom.

DeeDee, thank you so much for sharing your story with us. What a horrible, freak accident -- I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you've been able to find yourself again, and that you are here with us. Sending you a huge hug!

carojrrn

Morning ladies,

Wishing everyone a Marvelous Monday! Did a lot of cooking(for me) yesterday in preparation for the week. Made a yummy White chicken chili and some apple oatmeal muffins. Also made some homemade chicken noodle soup for a cancer patient at work. Did not get in any exercise but will today....

DeeDee-Thanks for sharing your story. WOW! I truly admire your courage and strength.What a precious gift of life your granddaughter is. I am very glad you are there for Dixie. Hugs to you both!

Grief is so personal but yet another road to depression. I suffered from it after losing my father almost six years ago. I lost weight because the knot in my stomach would not allow me to eat. I probably should have been put on anti-depressants but started exercising like a fiend. Looked the best I ever had in my life. Just did not last because once time started healing me I ate more and exercised less!

Rainy and windy here today. Hoping it stays quiet at work. Getting caught up on some paper work and reading all the inspiring posts of such an awesome group!

Stay healthy my friends!
Carolyn

tiarapants

Back in a while x

jb_2011

Happy Monday, best day of the week to start anew with taking care of thyself. First things first, planning the day's foods, filling up water bottles, and preparing the living room for morning aerobics sessions - all before housework or breakfast. Priorities! Must take care of me before I can take on the world. :bigsmile:

Oh Nancy I'm so sorry about those wicked itchies! You must be absolutely miserable. Sending virtual salve and healing And about those stinkin' 4 pounds, don't feel all alone. I'm the same weight I was in August, too. Went down a couple then poof, just like magic, they reappeared and I'm having a devil of a time making them go away for good. Lately I just can't seem to get a grip. :grumble:

DeeDee, you've come so far since the loss of your husband. :flowerforyou: How wonderful you have your granddaughter!! I lost my first husband to suicide in '97, and although I was blessed with finding another wonderful man a few years later, the memories of my first love come creeping back in on occasion. I can barely look at old photos. It's just too difficult. But cheers to you for moving forward and taking control of your life, you're doing a wonderful job of it! Please tell Dixie hello, I think of her often.

Barbie, the community garden is located in a park next to the river, about 2.5 miles from my home. I load up the dogs and tools every day and head down there to do a little work or harvesting, then walk the boys around the park and down to the water. It's a paradise for me, my home away from home. I'd pitch a tent and camp down there if I could! :happy:

Linda, the city used to own the community garden since it's in a city park, but as of this year it was signed over to the garden commission (non-profit) and now we're the proud "owners" of the land as gardeners. We have a wonderful board of directors who work hard to keep things in order, it's really quite something. Gardeners have to show up and sign in on work party days and put in 4 hours of work per plot, per year. Other "rules" are things like no cement, no plastic, no trees or shrubs other than berries, and taking care of your plot with "all due diligence" as stated in the bylaws. Love that line.

Good day to all, I must get busy here. Be well, eat well, think light, move those buns, and remember to smile! :bigsmile:

jb

wessecg

Good morning. Yesterday I had my pecan waffle - all 773 calories of it

It was nice to hear all the positive encouragement about my "bathroom" exercises. Today I am going to keep count of how many reps I do. (Already 20 handicap bar pushups and 40 touch my toes).

DeeDee - I love the quote about the red sky - the second line was "Red sky at night, sailor's delight."

Sundance - I too lost my mom to lung cancer when she was 47 and I was 25. It's amazing how much you still need your Mom even if you are grown. And I can not fathom losing my husband. In fact, I am very worried about him right now because he had a hear attack 11 years ago and he had his lipid panel done last week and refuses to show me the results. That can't be good.

And lastly DeeDee - the always being tiny. I always had trouble with being underweight in my youth. When I was pregnant at 18 I had just finally reached 125 pounds (at 5'8 - I've shrunk since then). I was excited about being pregnant and hoped to be able to retain some baby weight afterwards (I wanted to be in the 130's). Well I was 115 for my 6 week checkup.

I stayed in the 120's all of my 20's and in the 130's in my thirties and then the 140's until about 8 years ago when I had to work at staying in the 150's. I started on MFP at 184. I used to say I had a good run not really getting fat until my 50's, but then I realized that I have not been happy with my self image since I tipped the scales over 150. That is why this time I am shooting for 145 - not 155. And when I get there I am going to set my new goal at 135 and don't care if it takes me two more years to get there or if I never get there as long as I never go over 145 again. I wonder if it's harder to accept weight if most of your life you were tiny.

lentigogirl

And lastly DeeDee - the always being tiny. I always had trouble with being underweight in my youth. When I was pregnant at 18 I had just finally reached 125 pounds (at 5'8 - I've shrunk since then). I was excited about being pregnant and hoped to be able to retain some baby weight afterwards (I wanted to be in the 130's). Well I was 115 for my 6 week checkup.

I stayed in the 120's all of my 20's and in the 130's in my thirties and then the 140's until about 8 years ago when I had to work at staying in the 150's. I started on MFP at 184. I used to say I had a good run not really getting fat until my 50's, but then I realized that I have not been happy with my self image since I tipped the scales over 150. That is why this time I am shooting for 145 - not 155. And when I get there I am going to set my new goal at 135 and don't care if it takes me two more years to get there or if I never get there as long as I never go over 145 again. I wonder if it's harder to accept weight if most of your life you were tiny.

Yes, I think that was it for me. I've been a half-hearted dieter for awhile, creeping slowly up for the last 10 years, but the wakeup call for me was going to the doctor and breaking the 150 barrier, which is what kicked me onto MFP along with the sausage-stuffing fit of my clothes. So it's been a year, and I'm down to 130, aiming for 125 and then ready to maintain.

Ok, I'm coming out here as a relatively thin person, now officially in the "average" bmi range. But I don't think my issues are significantly different from 55 year olds with 100 pounds left to lose instead of 5. Can I stay? (-;

janemartin02

Happy Mon.
Dee Dee,thanks for sharing your story.My sister lost the love of her life over 6 years ago and she misses him terribly.I`m so glad you are doing better with your health.
Nancy,sorry about the itching.I was wondering the same thing,could it be shingles?We have had several people from the church with it.Hope you get it under control.
Nice cool day with sun after rain all week-end.Took a 25 min walk.Back is still bothering me.
Hope everyone is having a great day!!
HUGS
jane

linder4866

Getting ready for another *dad* travel week. I always make such a big deal of it---clothes, makeup, electronics, Rx/supplements, food (and a plan for how to eat it), water (in the car), cash, checkbook, credit cards, my dad’s records and insurance cards, contact list, etc., etc. I’m never quite sure what someone will want! He has a number of appointments and I have some errands to do including finding the place where I have to return his pill box. The pharmacy can’t retrieve it because his room in Assisted Living is locked so I said I’d bring it back to them. Also need to pick up the stone saddles from the cemetery where my dad’s people are buried---it’s about 20 miles North of where he lives. I store them over the winter, take them to the florist in early spring, they rework them, I pick them up and put them out for the season. In the winter I order wreaths. Anyway I might as well store them for winter.

Gotta get on it. I got sidetracked this morning by that darn car key fob. It failed again. I called the dealership and they said I should try another new battery (this one worked for about a week when it started acting odd---then this morning it wouldn’t work at all). So a trip to the battery place. They weren’t happy and let me know the battery they installed a couple of weeks ago had been fine and it was bad today soooooo if I have any other problems I should go to the dealership because it has to be some type of *short* in the unit. In other words the little microchip board in it is failing. That sounds like a replacement will be in order. Ack! Certainly took a lot of time.

I’m not taking my laptop for this trip. There’s no internet access at his acreage out in the country and I don’t feel like paying for the MiFi spot right now. Going to try to just log my eats on my phone. I’ll be going through withdrawal.

@Cathy – glad your brace worked a bit. I hope it continues to work for you and best of luck on your October goals.

@Nancy – sorry about the continued itching. I pray it will be over soon.

@genealace – enjoy your walk. Sounds like a nice break for you and DBF. Best of luck on leaf raking; it’s seemingly a never-ending project. I have several trees that need to be trimmed next spring. I need to call the trimmer to get a price and to get on
his “To-Do” list. The guy is so popular there is a long wait.

@janehadji – welcome home! I hope you had a wonderful time.

@Carolyn – yummmm, you were cooking up a storm. Good for you. It’s great to be prepared.

@jb – excellent that you take care of the essentials. It does take some time doesn’t it?

@wessecg – wow, it’s great that you planned for that waffle. That’s a mighty big pile of calories so it’s super that you enjoyed every little bit of it.

@jane – hope you are having a good day.

Lovely ladies---take care of yourselves. Wishing everyone a good week.

Lin