Ladies, How do I show my wife I love her?

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  • gonnasee33
    gonnasee33 Posts: 163
    Buy the book 5 love languages

    http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

    Love her the way she need to be loved. There is no one size fit all here. For me Acts of Service is my love language.........for my bf is it physical touch. If I love him the way I want to be loved....it won't work because we do not speak the same love language.

    This!!!!!
  • Cassie8877
    Cassie8877 Posts: 177
    Be SIMPLE! listen to the small things she says because 99% of the time those are the things she REALLY needs... unless your one of those females who has to have people buy you **** to make you happy...

    and great sex whenever she pleases! :) lol
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Steak and some head... works for me
  • pj12string
    pj12string Posts: 128 Member
    the bible along with that states assigning her honor as the weaker vessel meaning shes not weak physically or mentally meaning you treat her a something precious like an expensive fragile piece of art or china or whatever you want to think of it as. Means she is cared for, loved, appreciated... this only works well though if she is willing to do her part as her husbands "compliment" as the bible puts it. A wifes behavior should better the self worth and reputation of her husband..

    Wow, I wasn't expecting this. Great response, thank you.
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    the bible along with that states assigning her honor as the weaker vessel meaning shes not weak physically or mentally meaning you treat her a something precious like an expensive fragile piece of art or china or whatever you want to think of it as. Means she is cared for, loved, appreciated... this only works well though if she is willing to do her part as her husbands "compliment" as the bible puts it. A wifes behavior should better the self worth and reputation of her husband..

    AMEN!!
  • Dave198lbs
    Dave198lbs Posts: 8,810 Member
    Steak and some head... works for me

    nuff said
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    Have not seen it so far...

    Take her shoe shopping and enjoy it. If you can't, fake it.
  • fattypattybinger
    fattypattybinger Posts: 337
    I can't believe this post has showed up again. Simple talk to herl
  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    Ask her...and take her out dancing...or for ice cream...or shopping...or wash her dishes...learn her love language.

    And look at her while she's talking...not at the TV.
  • LisaDunn01
    LisaDunn01 Posts: 173 Member
    Every woman is different and what speaks, "I love you," can be different for each person. It could be doing chores around the house. It could be presents. It could be quality time (and quality time means different things to different people). A great book to read is called, "Love Languages" - written by a Christian whose name is Gary Chapman.
  • karynspeace
    karynspeace Posts: 132
    first thing in the morning before you get out of bed, touch her, kiss her, do something that lets her know you are still there.

    last thing at night before you go to bed, do the same thing.

    Intimacy means more than sex.
  • turboturtlepower
    turboturtlepower Posts: 79
    Read the word to her. It's the best thing you can do for her as her spiritual leader. It's my favorite spiritual activity that my husband and I do together.

    The comments most people leave on here gives me something to pray about though. That's for sure.
  • bushidowoman
    bushidowoman Posts: 1,599 Member
    Since this is still going... :smile:
    My husband and I follow a couple great Christian marriage blogs, which give us food for thought and help us keep the lines of communication open. I'm sorry I don't have actual links to share with you (typing quickly from my iphone), but search for The Generous Husband, The Generous Wife, and One Flesh Marriage. They both regularly link to other good Christian marriage blogs and resources.

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