Being played by a guy?
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Move on. Similar thing happened to me years ago, turns out the guy was married and a big liar. Good luck to you.0
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Unless I was officially boyfriend/gf with a guy, I never called or texted them first. If they want to spend time with you, they will make the time. If a guy really likes a girl he is NOT going to ignore her. It kind of hurt a few times when the guy didn't call me, but you'll get over it.
you are very pretty.0 -
He wouldn't ignore you if he were that interested....you'll know when you find someone that is....0
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If he acts like he's not interested....he's not interested
Read the book and watch the movie of "he just not that into you"
And no he's not necessarily a d-bag. Frankly I act the same way when I'm NOT interested but don't want to be rude. Usually distance is a clue - a bit passive aggressive yes probably.0 -
Ditch him and don't look back.0
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Babe.... DON'T CHASE.... REPLACE!
Live by this.
Always.
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So many great responses, and most everyone is right on the money.
I will say from another guys point of view, If we are truly interested in a woman, then we will do whatever it takes to be with that woman. When I first met my wife, I couldn't spend enough time with her. I made myself available to her every chance I could.
when guys seem fickle, it is either becaue they are waiting for somehting better to come along, they are already attached, or they are only stringing you along...
Go find yourself a good man who loves to spend his time with you.0 -
MOVE ON.
If a guy wants to see you, he will. If he wants to spend time with you, he'll make time. Unless he's running a small country or a member of the CIA, he has time. Chances are you're one of many in his pocket.
this!!!0 -
Ok devils advocate here, maybe your are coming on to strong. Slow down you don't have to call him every day. Go do your thing and see where it goes or doesnt. Give him time to miss you. Go places with your friends and hey date other guys. Don't wait around for any guy. If he were saying hey I'll call or we will do something and then leaving you hanging then I would be worried. If you were officially a couple then that's different but if your not ...
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Sounds like you're being e-maintained. Time to ditch him for a man that sees you as more than a fallback plan.There is this guy I met, who I really like. He says he feels the same way.
However, he goes from talking to me one day to acting like I don't exist the next. I initiate almost all of our conversations, and he will go from talking to me one day, to completely removing himself and not responding to any texts, calls, etc. Then he comes back and starts talking again, then disappears. He also says he wants to spend time with me, yet I am always the one making the effort. I told him I wanted to go to the fair that is in town, and he went (no problem), but didn't bother inviting me or even mentioning it at all. Yet he wants to spend time with me?
I'm trying to figure out whether or not I'm being played, or if this guy is just fickle.0 -
^^ BEST reply ^^Guys are simple, if they like you it's pretty obvious.0 -
Nope! You're not being played YET! Get over him before you get into him. Something else and yes more important to him, is occupying his time. Either, he's got somebody else or he's on drugs. Believe it!0
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Sounds married0
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He doesn't want an exclusive relationship with you -- in fact, I suspect he has one with somebody else. What he does want is a FWB arrangements -- or more specifically somebody to use as a "back up" when other plans fall through.0
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You should totally call and text him every 5 seconds. And when he doesn't reply, ask him why he's mad at you. Do this over and over again. Dudes love that.
*swoon*0 -
He's just not that in to you. Find a new guy.0
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If you have to ask, the answer is yes!0
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MOVE ON.
If a guy wants to see you, he will. If he wants to spend time with you, he'll make time. Unless he's running a small country or a member of the CIA, he has time. Chances are you're one of many in his pocket.
^ This,
If the guy wants to see you he will make an effort and even go out of his way to do so. Hell I'd jump on a plane and fly to a half way around the world or across the country to see the person I want to be with if I had too. If this guy makes no effort to see you, he is not worth waiting for
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Unless I was officially boyfriend/gf with a guy, I never called or texted them first. If they want to spend time with you, they will make the time. If a guy really likes a girl he is NOT going to ignore her. It kind of hurt a few times when the guy didn't call me, but you'll get over it.
you are very pretty.
thanks! just made my day
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^^Truth.Always remember... you should be pursued by a guy.. not played. You're worth it. If you're not a priority to him then he shouldn't be an option to you.0 -
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! :laugh:You should totally call and text him every 5 seconds. And when he doesn't reply, ask him why he's mad at you. Do this over and over again. Dudes love that.
*swoon*0 -
Chances are you're one of many in his pocket.
^This. He likes you enough that he doesn't want to let you go, but he's a douche. You'll have no trouble finding a guy that will share his time with you (and only you)! :flowerforyou:0 -
You should totally call and text him every 5 seconds. And when he doesn't reply, ask him why he's mad at you. Do this over and over again. Dudes love that.
this made me snort out my Lean Body shake, lmfao!0 -
Babe.... DON'T CHASE.... REPLACE!
Live by this.
Always.
GOD!! I love this!!0 -
this is the gospel.....
a man will ONLY treat you as bad as you let him. I read this in a book. the exact quote was (not for the faint of heart lol )
"if you let a man come over, drink all your beer, eat all your food, f@ck you in the *kitten*, then leave..... he will! "0 -
Love it!0
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I just noticed OP's ticker is my Avatar. 0
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