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  • AwesomeMoJo
    AwesomeMoJo Posts: 1,145 Member
    Can someone please just tear my heart out? I think it would be less painful than what I am feeling now....
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    Jojo, you know we all love you, right? We would never tear your heart out. What else can we do to help you?
  • AwesomeMoJo
    AwesomeMoJo Posts: 1,145 Member
    Good morning! How are you guys on this fine Tuesday?

    Do you really want to know how I am doing? I prefer you tell me how you are doing, if you would?
  • AwesomeMoJo
    AwesomeMoJo Posts: 1,145 Member
    Jojo, you know we all love you, right? We would never tear your heart out. What else can we do to help you?

    Sheila..can I just say that I am an idiot? Don't you know I complain and hate being single? then someone comes along who is sooooooo freaking wonderful..and wouldn't you know I find a way to *kitten* it up?
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    Jojo, you know we all love you, right? We would never tear your heart out. What else can we do to help you?

    Sheila..can I just say that I am an idiot? Don't you know I complain and hate being single? then someone comes along who is sooooooo freaking wonderful..and wouldn't you know I find a way to *kitten* it up?

    First, can I tell you that you are not an idiot? You are our Jojo, and we don't like you talking about our friend that way. I will tell you what someone told me. You HAVE to find a way to enjoy yourself, make the best of being single. It is not until you enjoy being single that you can enjoy the fullness of a relationship....you HAVE to accept YOU first before there is room for someone else. I know this hurts right now, but I promise you, something good will come of it. Do you believe me?
  • AwesomeMoJo
    AwesomeMoJo Posts: 1,145 Member
    First, can I tell you that you are not an idiot? You are our Jojo, and we don't like you talking about our friend that way. I will tell you what someone told me. You HAVE to find a way to enjoy yourself, make the best of being single. It is not until you enjoy being single that you can enjoy the fullness of a relationship....you HAVE to accept YOU first before there is room for someone else. I know this hurts right now, but I promise you, something good will come of it. Do you believe me?

    Sheila...don't you know that I do enjoy my life and I do love myself (sometimes 3x a day...lol...)? I make the best of it...but do you know this one time I was veing treated so well? Do youk now how good it feels to be treated so wonderfully? Don't you know I am the one who meesed it up because i was too scared to let him all the way in? I do believe something good will come of it..but when?
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    First, can I tell you that you are not an idiot? You are our Jojo, and we don't like you talking about our friend that way. I will tell you what someone told me. You HAVE to find a way to enjoy yourself, make the best of being single. It is not until you enjoy being single that you can enjoy the fullness of a relationship....you HAVE to accept YOU first before there is room for someone else. I know this hurts right now, but I promise you, something good will come of it. Do you believe me?

    Sheila...don't you know that I do enjoy my life and I do love myself (sometimes 3x a day...lol...)? I make the best of it...but do you know this one time I was veing treated so well? Do youk now how good it feels to be treated so wonderfully? Don't you know I am the one who meesed it up because i was too scared to let him all the way in? I do believe something good will come of it..but when?

    For you to not let him (or anyone) fully in, something is lacking. You have to find what that is. Do you know something good will happen when you least expect it to? Don't look for it, just live and let it be.
  • AwesomeMoJo
    AwesomeMoJo Posts: 1,145 Member
    For you to not let him (or anyone) fully in, something is lacking. You have to find what that is. Do you know something good will happen when you least expect it to? Don't look for it, just live and let it be.

    The something tht is lacking is within myself NOT him...I am soooooooo scared to let someone in. The last time I did..he was wonderful at first and then ended up being physically abusive, controlling, and literally had me locked away in the house. Do you know, I know not every guy is bad? Did you know that this new guy and I went to high school togetherso I know he is not bad? So, really, I have to let down the wall and let him in..don't you think?
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    Can I tell you that I know exactly what you are saying? Been there, done that. No, not every guy is bad. It takes awhile to fully accept that after being abused though. Yes, you do need to let the wall down (but not necessarily your guard, if that makes sense), and let him in. The question is though, has he totally given up or is he willing to help you take the wall down? Will you let him help you?
  • MissyJessy
    MissyJessy Posts: 1,279 Member
    8:19 AM here on the somwhat more west mid west lol....

    I am exhausted today and didnt get my work out in this morning, is that bad?

    Jojo i feel for you and know where your at but i agree with sheila just let it go stressing about it will effect you more negatively than just letting it all go out into the universe and accepting that what will be will be.
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    Morning MJ!! How are you other than exhausted?
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Mind if we get back to asking stupid questions?
  • MissyJessy
    MissyJessy Posts: 1,279 Member
    i think you started it off very well Dawn by asking that stupid question lol

    Im tired and sore and dont want to be at work... anyone have a pillow and a blanket i could use to nap under my desk? My ride last night took a lot out of me.

    How are you sheila?
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    Of course not, Dawn, but would it matter if someone did mind?
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    i think you started it off very well Dawn by asking that stupid question lol

    Im tired and sore and dont want to be at work... anyone have a pillow and a blanket i could use to nap under my desk? My ride last night took a lot out of me.

    How are you sheila?

    I am doing well today, can I thank you for asking? These new hours are suiting me too.
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Would it be the first time I hurt someones feelings?
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Isn't working an earlier shift awesome?
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    Probably won't be your last either, but why would you do that?
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
    Isn't working an earlier shift awesome?

    Yes ma'am. Do you know how nice it was to leave while it was still daylight and have a few minutes to chill before going to pick up Brandon?
  • WhiskeyCity
    WhiskeyCity Posts: 711 Member
    Can I tell you how much my head hurts after a 2-hr meeting with new clients??
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Do you need me to rub your head? :laugh: :wink:
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Would it put me a"head" of the class?
  • WhiskeyCity
    WhiskeyCity Posts: 711 Member
    Would you believe, at this point, I'm not sure even that would help?
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Am I at least "head"ing in the right direction?
  • WhiskeyCity
    WhiskeyCity Posts: 711 Member
    Could you rub the client's head and have them come off some of that CD $$?
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Can I just offer the clients a head of lettuce instead?
  • WhiskeyCity
    WhiskeyCity Posts: 711 Member
    Do you think that would be as effective?
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Should I offer them a newspaper and tell them to read the "head"lines instead? Perhaps they are Alabama fans?
  • AwesomeMoJo
    AwesomeMoJo Posts: 1,145 Member
    Mind if we get back to asking stupid questions?

    PLease...ask me any question you wish. Can we get back to motorboating me..or did I read something about "head"?
  • DawnVanSlim
    DawnVanSlim Posts: 10,468 Member
    Mind if we get back to asking stupid questions?

    PLease...ask me any question you wish. Can we get back to motorboating me..or did I read something about "head"?

    Can we move full speed a"head" in the motorboat?
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