Secrets of thin people...

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While I don't believe ALL THIN people do ALL of these things, I certainly agree that most thin people do subscribe to some of these ideals/behaviors. It's one of the best articles on "secrets of thin people" that I've come across. I hope it helps at least 1 person..I tried to cut out the extra stuff to cut to the chase without losing any of the message.

Thin people favor bulky foods.
Barbara Rolls, a professor of nutrition at Pennsylvania State University, has done extensive research on “calorie density,” or the ratio of calories to the weight of food.

Whether consciously or not, many thin people follow the strategy of starting out with a sizable soup or salad, which leads them to eat less for the rest of the meal. One Rolls-led study found that subjects who began a meal with a low-calorie salad―about 100 calories for three cups―were more likely to eat fewer total calories. “It subtracted about 12 percent of the calories from the meal,” she says. Foods with a lot of water, she adds, “can help you perceive that you’ve eaten more.” Drinking water with a meal, Rolls has found, doesn’t have the same effect.

Thin people watch portion sizes.

No, most thin individuals don’t travel with a food scale and measuring cups or demand fat-gram counts from waiters.

But to keep an eye on what they eat without being obsessive, many focus on filling their plates with mostly fruits, vegetables, and lean protein. “No one ever got fat from a grilled shrimp,” says Stephen Gullo, Ph.D., a psychologist and the author of The Thin Commandments Diet (Rodale, $25, amazon.com).

They also use strategies such as buying just a single serving’s worth of food, eating portion-controlled frozen meals, passing up gargantuan-portion family-style restaurants, and using smaller-than-normal plates.

The National Weight Control Registry (NWCR), an ongoing study of how more than 5,000 people keep off the weight they’ve lost long-term, has found that successful weight maintainers tend to eat five small meals a day rather than three squares, which may make it easier to scale down portions.

Thin people can put themselves first.
For five years, Anne Fletcher, a registered dietitian and the author of Thin for Life (Houghton Mifflin, $15, amazon.com), worked in an obesity clinic. “So often the women I saw were people who refused to take time for themselves,” she recalls. “Their whole lives were spent giving, giving, giving―which women tend to do anyway, but it was really to a fault. Sometimes you need to put yourself first.”

Thin women prioritize eating right, exercising regularly, and reducing stress―all of which are conducive to staying slim. Fletcher confesses to missing the occasional Little League game to work out but contends that such behavior shouldn’t induce guilt. Rather, it’s about taking care of yourself.


Thin people have thin parents.
And genes are only partially responsible.

“Perhaps 30 percent of being thin is genetic―the rest is environment,” says James O. Hill, Ph.D., director of the Center for Human Nutrition at the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center, in Denver, and cofounder of the NWCR. If you’re raised playing sports and eating healthy, unprocessed foods, chances are you’ll continue those habits into adulthood, significantly raising your odds of staying slim.

But while genetics were clearly in her favor, Johnson credits healthful home-cooked meals for creating a model of good eating that helps her maintain her weight. “We always had breakfast and dinner together,” she says. “I was brought up with family meals, and now my family sits down every night and lights candles. Dining and healthy eating are important to me.”

Thin people don’t skip meals.
Slender people don’t drop everything to eat the minute their stomach starts to rumble, but they don’t let themselves get famished, either.

“In my work with over 15,000 patients, the number one behavior that leads people to lose control is skipping meals,” psychologist Stephen Gullo says. Why? Being ravenous makes you much less likely to control impulses to overeat.

Alice O’Neill, a trim 40-year-old playwright in Brooklyn, is quite familiar with this phenomenon. “Skipping meals can be deadly for me, because I do get really hungry and I don’t bear the pain of hunger well,” she says. “And if I’m hungry, I’ll eat anything, and too much of it. Sometimes I use hunger as an excuse to eat things that aren’t good for me, like pizza and French fries.”

Thin people limit their options.
While everyone needs a variety of foods for optimal nutrition, professor of nutrition Barbara Rolls's research shows that the more types of food we have available, the more we tend to eat. It’s related to what’s called “sensory-specific satiety"―meaning our stomachs and appetites will cry “Uncle!” after we eat a lot of pasta, but if dessert is pie à la mode, suddenly we’ll find just enough room to partake.

“What happens during a meal of many different foods or courses is that we experience satiety for each food as we eat it,” says Rolls, who is also the author of The Volumetrics Eating Plan ($16, amazon.com). “But we are still ‘hungry’ for foods we haven’t eaten yet, particularly those that have different tastes, aromas, shapes, textures, and other sensory properties.”

Thin people live in Colorado.
OK, so there are thin people outside Colorado. But there must be something the Centennial State knows: According to data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Colorado has the highest percentage of people with a normal weight (meaning neither overweight nor obese) in the nation.

And why are there fewer fat Coloradans? “My take is that, traditionally, Colorado has attracted people who value outdoor living and health and wellness more,” says James O. Hill, Ph.D., director of the Center for Human Nutrition at the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center, in Denver, who has lived there for 14 years. “People will take off every Friday because they go to the mountains. They’re willing to prioritize health and wellness.”

Thin people don’t sit still.
At the Endocrine Research Unit of the Mayo Clinic, in Rochester, Minnesota, a study of 20 self-proclaimed couch potatoes―half of whom were lean, half mildly obese―revealed that the thin volunteers were more likely to stand, walk, and fidget. The researchers noted that the obese participants sat, on average, more than two hours longer every day than the lean ones did.

“If the obese subjects took on the activity levels of the lean volunteers, they could burn through about 350 calories more a day without working out,” says endocrinologist James Levine, the lead author of the study. “Over a year, this alone could result in a weight loss of approximately 30 pounds, if calorie intake remained the same.”

Simply moving around more, taking walks during the workday, and parking your car at the far end of the parking lot can burn many calories. But regular exercise is important, too. “Ninety percent of people who maintain their weight are exercising in a way that’s the equivalent of walking four miles a day,” says registered dietitian Elizabeth Somer, the author of 10 Habits That Mess Up a Woman’s Diet (McGraw-Hill, $17, amazon.com).

Regular workouts have another dividend: “Exercise makes you more aware of your body,” psychologist Stephen Gullo says. “You’re less likely to eat the chocolate cake that you know will take hours to burn off on the treadmill.”

Thin people weigh themselves.
For years diet experts discouraged stepping on the scale to keep weight in check. Yet one of the findings of the NWCR is that slim people do weigh themselves regularly. Not obsessively, not agonizing down to the ounce, but at least a couple of times a week. “At the first sign of weight gain, they go right back to their weight-loss plan,” says registered dietitian Elizabeth Somer.

Anne Fletcher, also a registered dietitian, says of the weight maintainers she’s interviewed over the years, “Most have found that it’s easier to manage their weight if they don’t allow themselves to go over their goal.”

Holly Johnson, age 45, a co-owner of a Sarasota, Florida–based marketing and public-relations firm and the mother of an eight-year-old, confirms their findings. She always knows whether she’s in her preferred range of 105 to 113, because she weighs herself about twice a week. “If the scale starts creeping up to the higher end or I feel that things are starting to get out of control,” she says, “I cut back on starchy carbs and dessert.”

Thin people don’t skip breakfast.
You’ve heard it ad nauseam: Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. It’s also a way to stay svelte.

A 2002 study of nearly 3,000 NWCR participants found that 78 percent ate breakfast every day; just 4 percent said they never ate breakfast. (The registry also found that people who don’t eat breakfast have caloric intakes similar to those who do, meaning the skippers make up the calories later.)

A recent study of breakfast eaters in the Journal of the American Dietetic Association backed up other findings that people who eat breakfast are less likely to be overweight than those who don’t.

Thin people enjoy their food.
It’s tempting to think that one of the reasons thin people stay that way is that they simply aren’t “foodies.” Not true, psychologist Stephen Gullo says. “Naturally thin people enjoy their food every bit as much as overweight people do,” he says. “In fact, many enjoy it more, because they eat without self-reproach.”

Feelings of guilt, or believing that everyone is watching what you’re eating (and thinking you shouldn’t be having that hot-fudge sundae), interfere with enjoyment. “Thin people are selective gourmets,” Gullo says. “Our bodies have a budget, like our checkbook. We should ‘spend’ on what we eat selectively, not compulsively.”

Thin people practice early intervention.
“A large number of the people who seem to be ‘naturally’ thin have evolved their own strategies for staying that way,” psychologist Stephen Gullo says. They have to, because thin people do gain weight. But they take action when the numbers on the scale creep up or their pants become hard to button.Their response usually involves a combination of exercise and dietary changes.

Carla Matthews, a 38-year-old stay-at-home mother of two in Newport Beach, California, says that when she goes over her upper limit of 130 pounds, she cuts out dessert and wine, drinks more water, and rides her exercise bike three times a week instead of once (in addition to doing Pilates twice a week). “I also tend to eat more salads and do my ‘halves’ routine, where I only eat half of whatever I would normally,” she says. “After 7 to 10 days, my weight is usually back in the comfort zone.”

Understanding what causes you to put on pounds can go a long way toward preventing them. “Thin people know they need to either limit exposure to certain foods that trigger appetite or limit the quantity or frequency of those foods,” says Gullo, whose personal kryptonite is pizza. “Or, if they can’t do any of those, they ban the food completely.”

Because stress, sadness, anger, loneliness, and grief can send anyone to seek solace in a pint of Ben & Jerry’s, the successfully thin person knows mood-driven eating when she sees it and defends against it, Gullo adds. “Thin people recognize the syndrome and don’t bring trigger foods into the place where it happens,” he says. “Mood eating takes place primarily at home.”

Thin people do what works.
Perhaps nowhere does the frequently cited definition of insanity―doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result―apply more aptly than with weight loss. The math makes this clear: By one estimate, one-third of Americans are on a diet, but 64 percent of us remain overweight or obese. Something doesn’t add up.

The biggest difference between the permanently thin and everyone else might very well be this: Those who don’t gain (or regain) have come up with effective, specific, and often personal ways to keep their weight in check.

This practice may account for the single most annoying trait of the always-thin: that their achievement seems effortless. But it’s not. “People think you never have a fat day―I do,” Holly Johnson, age 45, a co-owner of a Sarasota, Florida–based marketing and public-relations firm and the mother of an eight-year-old, says. “I have days when I feel awful. But I spend a lot of time and energy on fitness and cooking. And I have to work really hard, especially now that I’m over 40.”

But when good habits are integrated into your life, something shifts. There’s no need to count calories, agonize over an order of fries, track miles walked, or (worst of all) talk endlessly about what you’re eating and not eating. For the thin, feeling strong, healthy, and, yes, slim are powerful rewards―and their chief motivation to continue, as Anne Fletcher, a registered dietitian, has heard from dozens of people. “More than 90 percent of those who have mastered weight maintenance feel like they’re not dieting,” she says. “It becomes a way of life.”



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  • fcp1234
    fcp1234 Posts: 1,098 Member
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    I hate the words "thin people"..like WTF does that even mean. Thin is not always healthy. And healthy is not always thin..
  • livitup85
    livitup85 Posts: 231 Member
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    I hate the words "thin people"..like WTF does that even mean. Thin is not always healthy. And healthy is not always thin..

    AMEN!
  • love4fitnesslove4food_wechange
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    I hate the words "thin people"..like WTF does that even mean. Thin is not always healthy. And healthy is not always thin..

    I don't think anyone made the claim that thin = healthy. Regardless of your view on it, people DO aspire to be thin. As in--lacking in excessive fat--I know I sure as hell do.
  • fcp1234
    fcp1234 Posts: 1,098 Member
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    I hate the words "thin people"..like WTF does that even mean. Thin is not always healthy. And healthy is not always thin..

    I don't think anyone made the claim that thin = healthy. Regardless of your view on it, people DO aspire to be thin. As in--lacking in excessive fat--I know I sure as hell do.

    Well, people are wrong !
  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
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  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
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    oh no you didn't... wanna thumb wrestle?

    I got an edge cause I have fat thumbs...
  • love4fitnesslove4food_wechange
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    Who Pissed in Whose Post Toasties this morning?? Go back to bed and rollover .. try it again.

    Love4Fitness without a doubt Healthy! Thin (i.e. not unhealthily overweight/obese) but DEFINITELY Badass! (without any doubt) Knowledgable! and a Positive influence to me and countless other MFP'ers.

    Keep up the Awesome work Love4Fitness ... for yourself and for us!

    Thank you. You're incredibly supportive and an inspiration as well!
  • GaiaGirl1992
    GaiaGirl1992 Posts: 459 Member
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    *Replying to the ACTUAL discussion, cuz I'm not a moron...*

    I do try to move more during the day, even if it's just pacing while waiting for the microwave or a bathroom stall or the like. seems to work for me =)

    And the visual appeal of 3 cups of salad is *almost* better than pie a la mode....XD
  • fcp1234
    fcp1234 Posts: 1,098 Member
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    oh no you didn't... wanna thumb wrestle?

    I got an edge cause I have fat thumbs...

    Well You gotta work on your thumbs Mikey. They have to be thin..you wanna be cool, dont ya
  • MikeyD1280
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    oh no you didn't... wanna thumb wrestle?

    I got an edge cause I have fat thumbs...

    Well You gotta work on your thumbs Mikey. They have to be thin..you wanna be cool, dont ya

    so you want every part of the body to be thin? jawdrop.gif
  • Fat2Fit145
    Fat2Fit145 Posts: 385 Member
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    This is TOTALLY not true.... I have MANY thin friends and family that DONT do any of these things... and guess what they are THINNN!....I think its just genetics..... ....
  • toya316
    toya316 Posts: 137 Member
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    I hate the words "thin people"..like WTF does that even mean. Thin is not always healthy. And healthy is not always thin..


    Hallelujah........
  • TexanThom
    TexanThom Posts: 778
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    I eat healthy people for breakfast and crap thin people at lunch.
  • love4fitnesslove4food_wechange
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    oh no you didn't... wanna thumb wrestle?

    I got an edge cause I have fat thumbs...

    Well You gotta work on your thumbs Mikey. They have to be thin..you wanna be cool, dont ya

    huh? Did I miss something? Did someone say thin = cool? Did someone say that everyone should aspire to thinness? No and no. Why are your taking issue with the message? I don't see any logical reason. You're upset about the use of a term? Is SKINNY better? Thin is a descriptor of a specific type of physique --what's your issue with it?
  • fitblondebaker22
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    oh no you didn't... wanna thumb wrestle?

    I got an edge cause I have fat thumbs...

    Well You gotta work on your thumbs Mikey. They have to be thin..you wanna be cool, dont ya

    Ridiculous...
  • GermanicKnight
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    Do you think being thin is relative? Meaning can you 'feel' thin and not look thin or visa versa? People who are 'thin' say they have and feel 'fat days', when in reality they are 'thin'.

    Does thin equate to BMI or Body Fat %? The term skinny fat is often thrown around due to more of a health dynamic than a weight/number.

    This is a good article and sounds like it was researched rather well. Kudos to OP (even if you did unfriend me) :)
  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
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    ohh sheet... Mikey runs and gets more popcorn
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  • love4fitnesslove4food_wechange
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    This is TOTALLY not true.... I have MANY thin friends and family that DONT do any of these things... and guess what they are THINNN!....I think its just genetics..... ....

    Totally not true? I highly doubt that your thin friend do NONE of the aforementioned things. I never said that ALL THIN PEOPLE DO THEM ALL--I actually acknowledged that most don't do them ALL. It's informative. That was my point.
  • love4fitnesslove4food_wechange
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    Do you think being thin is relative? Meaning can you 'feel' thin and not look thin or visa versa? People who are 'thin' say they have and feel 'fat days', when in reality they are 'thin'.

    Does thin equate to BMI or Body Fat %? The term skinny fat is often thrown around due to more of a health dynamic than a weight/number.

    This is a good article and sounds like it was researched rather well. Kudos to OP (even if you did unfriend me) :)

    I think thin can definitely be relative --different people have different standards and frames of reference. I don't think that objective thinness is even necessary--people should aspire to the body that = healthy AND confident. Whatever thin means to them is irrelevant--I simply liked the principles and message of the article.
  • love4fitnesslove4food_wechange
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    I would say I'm thin AND badass. They're not mutually exclusive. Thin, fit, badass, and oh yeah...I EAT...for the win!

    How did this turn to be about you?

    well your earlier posts seemed rather confrontational --turned into being about me as a result of this little exchange...

    YOU: I hate the words "thin people"..like WTF does that even mean. Thin is not always healthy. And healthy is not always thin..


    ME: I don't think anyone made the claim that thin = healthy. Regardless of your view on it, people DO aspire to be thin. As in--lacking in excessive fat--I know I sure as hell do.


    YOU: Well, people are wrong !

    I clearly said that I aspire to be thin--you said "people are wrong" which included ME. Need I explain further?

    You did not write the original post, did you? ( I hope not).. I dont think using "thin people" term helps anybody and it does not even mean anything ( at least to me)..I would hate to classify myself as thin. Just sayin

    I gave a link to the article--I did not write it --I don't think that THIN is a meaningless term though. It is illustrative of the desire to have a body without excessive fat. Not everyone has fitness goals--I do but not everyone does--in any case, I thought the message was sound and included good information. I don't see why you're antagonizing me over posting it. Or at least it seems as though you are.

    Everybody that is on this site has a fitness goal ( well not the creeps that are here just for boobie friday lol).

    I think it does not help anybody if we classify people are thin or fat. Weight loss and working out is way more than being thin.

    I am not antagonizing you, because you did not write the post. I was just saying that I hate the fact that the world classify people as thin or fat....Wanna kiss and make up now?
    :flowerforyou: