All The Single People Stand Up

Goddessmaker1 · November 2012

I'd like to find someone who views the fact that I've only had one very long term relationship as a good thing rather than a deterrent.
Most of the female friends I have are more like stereotypical guys than I am (they care more about "hooking up")....perhaps I shouldn't admit that so freely.

I hope I'm not being too forward but I'm very surprised that you a guy a penis holder is having a issue. I find chicks have more issues in finding a mate for long term or doing anything. To me men have it so easy because your like the prime piece of meat on the table at dinner,everyone is fighting for the taste of it. I know I'm pretty so maybe that's my issue lol

Mhaney · November 2012

I'd like to find someone who views the fact that I've only had one very long term relationship as a good thing rather than a deterrent.
Most of the female friends I have are more like stereotypical guys than I am (they care more about "hooking up")....perhaps I shouldn't admit that so freely.

It's my experience that most people in general only care about "hooking up" it has nothing to do with gender. I've been on a few dating sites and have been told in very clear terms more times than I care to remember that if I were to be taken out on a date then some sort of sexual favor was expected. It's disgusting so I just choose not to date at all for that reason, and several others.

kelperth · November 2012

single aussie gal here

oualum26 · November 2012

I'm single and do not see that changing anytime soon. I live in the middle of nowhere and my dating options are...well, bleak out here in the woods.

I'm in your boat! While I'm not out in the woods, I'm in a small town and pretty much know everyone here. Makes it very hard. Which is at least my excuse considering I've been single pretty much since I was 21! (31 now!)

blakejohn · November 2012

single aussie gal here

well hello down under

slowly_changing12 · November 2012

single and proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

marvelprime · November 2012

I hope I'm not being too forward but I'm very surprised that you a guy a penis holder is having a issue. I find chicks have more issues in finding a mate for long term or doing anything. To me men have it so easy because your like the prime piece of meat on the table at dinner,everyone is fighting for the taste of it. I know I'm pretty so maybe that's my issue lol

I'm just that glorious dessert that is saved and savored for the end, and therefore women know they can stick me in the fridge and they know I wont go rotten like that quick fix prime piece of meat LOL.

I wouldn't have any issue if I chose to do the route of my friends. It's just simply a matter of personal choice that I remain old fashion and my friends bizarrely wonder how I can go six years without when they think six weeks (sometimes less)
without "getting any" is bad.

It's my experience that most people in general only care about "hooking up" it has nothing to do with gender.

This is true. I've seen it on both sides too, but I can safely say that there are still people who think of linear terms of friend-dating-girlfriend/boyfriend-life time commitment .

Okay, I'm derailing thread lol. *Still standing...

jb852013 · November 2012

My husband gave me divorce papers about a month ago so I guess that means I am now single! Weird to think of myself that way after being with someone since I was 15 years old.