Older women success stories please!

Ang108

So true! I have to remember the health factor.

But, older ladies! Where are you?

I thought you meant " older ladies "...lol. 45 is not really old. I am 65, started here on April 10th and have lost 33 pounds. I have no thyroid and take daily Cortisone and weekly Cortisone shots for Lupus. According to many women here, that makes weight loss impossible.I don't agree.
I exercise daily, but modestly and eat 1200 calories of natural food and practice IF ( 5:2 on two days as well as 18:6 for the other days of the week ) because it makes me feel good. I don't take supplements, or shakes, but eat well and try to get 7 hours of nightly rest and have a life with full time work and other varied interests ( which I think is important for a life style change).

lessele

I am about a month from my 63rd Birthday. I have lost a little over 51 pounds and have been maintaining for some time. I do not deny myself the things I love, I just do them in moderation and make sure I compensate if I eat a little something more than I "should." People have told me that I dont need to lose more and that if I did it might make me look drawn or haggard. I am content although the desire is always to achieve the number in my head. I wear a size 8 and am 5'4". I have never been a skinny minnie and feel I look healthy. That is what matters to me. I lost slowly over about a year and have maintained since April. I try not to weigh myself more than once a month so that I dont go crazy with it. I walk and do casual excercise. At this point I will never be a swimsuit model...I just want to feel good, be attractive, and live a healthy happy life. It is important to be gentle on ourselves and appreciate ourselves and who we are. I have a level of acceptance but not complacency. My Doctor says I am "ridiculously" healthy....I love to hear that. No diabetes, no heart disease, no high blood pressure, no reflux...This is great. I can wear jeans and like what I see...It is all good!

roxanethree

I started my weight loss journey in Oct, turned 40 in Feb and am seeing the finish line coming up. I feel great. With daily exercise and watching my calories the weight has come off easily. Adding strength exercises has helped my skin. I'm sure I'll have a few problem areas left when I'm finished, but I feel so great now.

Life has totally changed for me. For anyone struggling, you can do this! Take it one day at a time and soon your first month will be over. Then it will be 3 months. It is really hard work, but worth it.

kayjaycee9

I'm starting to get intimidated by all the 20 something people who lose 100 lbs and look AMAZING!! I'm afraid that when I lose my 60 lbs, I'm still going to look like an "eh" 45 year old. I also have heard that it's so much harder to lose weight post-menopause. Should I just throw in the towel now?:ohwell:

Definitely not! I'm 53, lost 25 lbs and feel great. Never give up. Come November I will have been logging for a year and I'm so proud of myself and intend to keep it up. It was nice buying smaller clothes instead of larger.

JeneaceT

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spirit05

I am 50, have been on mfp for quite awhile but only got serious in Feb., on my birthday. To date I have lost 56 lb. mostly through diet and walking a few times a week.
I also do 8 lb. hand weights 2 or 3 times a week. So far I have been happy with my results, though I have a long way to go. The only annoying thing I have noticed is the 'apron' that has formed where my belly used to be.
Oh, and I do squats daily to keep the rear firm... usually between 50 and 100 most days.

MrsMX

This is without a doubt the best thread to read for motivation!!! (at our age) ...


Your go girls:flowerforyou:

)x

GypsyRoad2

I am 55 and just started this program last Wednesday. My sister had told me about MFP as I was completely unaware of it. I probably haven't lost any weight yet, but the information here is incredible. I am finding out what foods are BAD for me and I love the exercise section. I mowed and raked the yard today and earned over 300 extra calories for that.....Wow....I love this! I did lose 45 lbs about 11 years ago just watching what I ate and walking about 3 miles a day and working out with resistance bands and weights. I just need that determination and motivation back. I want to at least lose 35 lbs.

GypsyRoad2

spirit05
I am 50, have been on mfp for quite awhile but only got serious in Feb., on my birthday. To date I have lost 56 lb. mostly through diet and walking a few times a week.
I also do 8 lb. hand weights 2 or 3 times a week. So far I have been happy with my results, though I have a long way to go. The only annoying thing I have noticed is the 'apron' that has formed where my belly used to be.
Oh, and I do squats daily to keep the rear firm... usually between 50 and 100 most days.

First of all I wanted to congratulate you on losing 56 lbs. I was looking at your before and after pictures and you look nice. I was wondering when you use the 8 lb hand weights what exercises do you do with those and for how long as in minutes, etc.? By the way my birthday is in Feb also, Feb 6 here!

ogiesmom

Wow, I'm so glad I came across this thread, it's just the motivation I need right now!

barbie3000

Losing the extra weight made me look younger, not older, including in the face. Now, in my mid-40s, I think I look better than I did in my 20s and 30s, and certainly I feel much better. This morning I grabbed my "goal pants" to put them on for a presentation. They were too big. I had to go into the box for the next size down. Those pants were loose, and they were as low as they go (size 8 -- I've been 2/4/6, but it wasn't healthy for me and I gave away those clothes years ago). I used to wear those pants 10-12 years ago with control-top nylons, and now they're loose without. The difference is, I'm not just "small" now. I'm tighter, stronger, healthier.

I settled on a skirt and jacket from the bottom of the box, with one of my exercise shirts underneath for later. In a flash of vanity, I made myself late to work posing and preening in front of the mirror in my room. I was a little bummed about all those nice clothes that sat in the box while I unwittingly blew right by them, but hey, #firstworldproblems and I'll see about getting some of them taken in. I'll take that! :bigsmile:

For lunch today, I ate a huge, satisfying, fantastic chicken/avocado/bacon club sandwich, and I have plenty of calories left over for dinner even if I don't work out tonight after work, which I most definitely will anyway because working out feels good now. Unlike the diets of my younger days, this is a lifestyle I can keep up. I'm eating better than ever before. I have more energy. My knees don't hurt anymore, my backpack feels light, I don't get winded when I climb the stairs (unless I sprint, which I like to do!), and I can walk comfortably in the pumps I'd written off. And I see myself again when I look in the mirror.

I am loving this. OP, if you're still out there and still wondering -- don't let your age, or the age of most MFPers who post, stop you from doing it. Just go for it. You will reap the benefits.

Very inspirational -- thanks!

snowwhitemeow

you look really good for your age! I hope I look like that at that age @lizzibeth102

mamadon

Fifty one years old. Not done yet... still have about 40 pounds to go, but I definitely feel sucessful.

themommie

I am 50 and have lost 115 lbs since joining mfp.was it hard YES, was it worth it, YES,am I glad I lost the weight YES, YES, and YES. Dont throw in the towel, you will be glad you got healthy, look better and can be more active and enjoy life in your older years

CynSwinn

i just started my weightloss journey and have only lost 10 lb so far. But, for some inspiration.... my mom is 65. she was over 200lb and could barely walk and always in pain seeing the doctor every week or so. She has now lost over 70lbs and is around 160 lb. she looks great and feels great and her sicknesses are going away. slowly. she is a great inspiration for anyone. she went from hardly walking and tripping all the time from her diabeaties and her arthritis to not having diabeaties anymore and helping move wood and cut the grass. sadly there is no fix for arthritis but other then that she is doing amazing! now if i could just fix my dad lol

hupsii

Hi, bump for later to read all those amazing stories.

I am 52 and know slow weight loss .... but then I love to eat so I can't go lower than 1600 per day otherwise I feel too deprived but never mind, even if I lose 4 lbs a year only, I will get to goal once !

gsager

Don't use age as an excuse. If you are consistent with your diet and exercise you will succeed. Good Luck!

Outwardlycalm

I'm starting to get intimidated by all the 20 something people who lose 100 lbs and look AMAZING!! I'm afraid that when I lose my 60 lbs, I'm still going to look like an "eh" 45 year old. I also have heard that it's so much harder to lose weight post-menopause. Should I just throw in the towel now?:ohwell:

Well, I'm almost 52. I lost 60 lbs at age 50 after struggling for about 15 years. I've been a marathon and ultra marathon runner and weight lifter for over 30 years. I did martial arts for 10 years. I ran marathon after marathon and worked my butt off at the gym for countless hours and finally learned you can not out exercise too many calories. I didn't think I ate too much. I didn't binge or pig out or mindlessly eat. I've eaten healthy all my life. I've never had a habit of fast food. But serving sizes are designed for 6ft men and I'm a 5'1" female so I just didn't know I ate too much. I didn't realize how small I really am until I lost the weight. Everyone said I looked strong and had big bones. Not true, I realize now.

BEFORE:


AFTER:




There is no mystery to weight loss, everyone thinks something is wrong, their metabolism is broken, they have low thyroid, they have menopause or whatever issue, they are as unique as a snowflake, whatever. I thought a lot of these things once too but once the doctor helped resolve the health issues for me I learned there is still no magic pill. Most people eat more than they need to and are not at good at estimating calories as they think they are. Most people have a lower BMR than they think they do. The only way to know for sure is to go to a lab and have it tested. It doesn't seem fair to have to eat less and feel a little hunger. It's hard to face the truth of it, very hard. It's not fun. It's drudgery at times. But if you learn to enjoy your smaller amounts of food (necessary to lose weight, since the reason we got fat in the first place was eating too much whether we knew it or not), and rejoice in your victories it can be done.

All I can do is share what worked for me. I achieved my goal at age 50 after beating my head against the wall for 15 years. Yeah anyone can do it, but I can tell you that you are up against a lot when you are older and I believe females have some unique issue to face with hormones and such. The sooner you can get a handle on it the better. DO NOT GIVE UP. As I got older and the weight piled on (and I didn't feel I was eating too much!) everyone kept telling me to give up, this is what happens when you get older. I'm small, and I didn't realize how small I was until I lost the weight. Everyone said I had big bones. I looked hefty because I worked out. Once I lost the weight I realized how small I really was and that small people don't need to eat as much as big people. HINT: If you are short you are probably small.

Your body loses weight in chunks, not linear. I have found that you can do everything right and your weight loss seems to plateau but if you are patient and keep exercising and eating at a deficit (however slight) you will lose it, it will suddenly "whoosh". There are so many variables for the scale; water retention, digestion, hormones, allergies, sodium, carbs, water intake, DOMS, inflammation, the list goes on. People mistakenly think they lose or gain weight when they eat more or less because of these fluctuations.

Losing weight requires tremendous patience. You will not lose it when you want it or where you want it. The body does its thing. Some apparent plateaus can last a month or so. You cannot make it happen faster. You must focus on two things; calories and exercise. Nothing else matters. Scales and metrics don't matter. The day in and day out grind of exercise and calories are all that matters. It is not very exciting until things fall into place. You get your victories and you ride one victory to the next.

The scale is a trend tool. The scale is good but put it away and only check once a week and only use it as a trend tool. It will fluctuate, it does not matter. Take front side and back progress pictures at least once a month. You will see differences that the metrics won't tell you and it's that little bit of NSV that will keep you going until the next victory.

To say eat more is wrong.

To say eat less is wrong.

To find the exact calories needed for YOU to be in a healthy sustainable calorie deficit is the right answer. Wait, if you need to adjust by 100 do it, wait, adjust, wait, adjust, wait. The tortoise wins this race.

All that matters is calories. A healthy balanced diet within a calorie budget for a deficit that is right for YOU is all that matters for weight loss. Don't make it complicated.


Also people play mental accounting games with calories just like with finances. Make steps to make sure you are making accurate measurements. Packaged foods can have MORE than they say but not less (they get in trouble if less so they would rather error with MORE).

If you typically intake sodium at a certain rate your body adjusts, but if you make a sudden change then you will see a spike.

Exercise is for making your lean body mass pretty (especially lifting weights) for when the fat is gone. Losing fat with no muscle is ugly and cardio alone will not make you pretty. You cannot out exercise too many calories.

It really is about calories. I tell people this all the time and they say "Well if calories are all that matter why do you eat so clean???!!" Well, because it makes me feel better, sleep better, and perform better at my sports.

Too many changes at once can be hard on some people. I've always eaten healthy so it easy for me to simply eat less. Eating at a calorie deficit is hard on people; even a small deficit puts your body in a state of flux with hormones and such. Everyone is different. Some people can handle a deeper calorie deficit than others, this is not right or wrong, it just is. Stress in your life affects your hunger hormones; lack of sleep, fatigue, job stress, family stress, financial stress, etc. Add in emotional eating issues and it gets even more complicated. Most people can only handle so much change/stress at once, they try to do too much and fail. Sometimes it might be a better strategy to eat at maintenance and make some small changes first, it really depends on how much stress you are taking in at the moment.

What is the exact number of calories for you?

We’ve been trying to figure out an exact NUMBER of calories that everyone should be eating, without recognizing that everyone is slightly different. In truth, the calories aren’t the end game. Your body is. So the EXACT amount of Calories that are right for you is the EXACT amount that will allow you to maintain your ideal bodyweight no matter what some calculator or chart says.

In other words, an online calculator might tell you that you need to eat 2,500 calories
per day to maintain your ideal bodyweight. But the only way to know for sure if this is
the right amount for you is to test it out. If you gain weight or can’t lose weight eating
that much, then you know you need to eat less to lose weight no matter how many
calculators and text books say otherwise.

This doesn’t mean your metabolism is broken, it just means the estimate of your needs
was just a bit off.

-John Barban (The Body Centric Calorie Guide from the Venus Index and Adonis Index Manuals)

The good thing is you don't have to worry about the starvation mode myth if you are fat. Only skinny people have to worry about starvation mode. It does not mean you have the capability to eat at a large calorie deficit if you have emotional eating disorders or other issues going on, but at least you don't have to be afraid of it anymore.

The Theory of Fat Availability:
•There is a set amount of fat that can be released from a fat cell.
•The more fat you have, the more fat can be used as a fuel when dieting.
•The less fat you have, the less fat can be used as a fuel when dieting.
•Towards the end of a transformation, when body fat is extremely low you
may not have enough fat to handle a large caloric deficit anymore.

At the extreme low end, when your body fat cannot ‘keep up’ with the energy deficit
you've imposed on your body, the energy MUST come from SOMEWHERE. This is
when you are at risk of losing lean body mass during dieting (commonly referred to
as ‘starvation mode’). This happens at extremely low levels of body fat, under 6% in
men and 12% in women [Friedl K.E. J Appl Phsiol, 1994].

-Brad Pilon and John Barban (from The Reverse Taper Diet in The Adonis Index and Venus Index manuals)

Lifting weights is KEY. I recently had my DXA scan done and at 51.5 years of age I have the bone density of a super athletic 30 year old. That is a direct result of lifting for over 30 years. Now if that is not scientific proof that lifting weights keeps you younger I don't know what is! Also I believe it is why most people think I look much younger than I really am.

Start lifting now, lift heavy and change it up often, find a lot of weight routines with free weights, make it fun, embrace it, make it part of your life. Only 3 days a week is all it would take. Crank up your tunes and learn to love it, because your body will love it and it will make your quality of life better in many ways, especially when you get older like me.

Because of this I don't have to worry about osteoporosis. If you wait until you are older and your bones start to deteriorate it's a bit too late, you can't get back what you lost, and you can only start a resistance routine that will prevent further damage.

If you are female you don't have the hormones to get big naturally. I lift heavy and I'm still really tiny. My lean body mass is only 104 lbs and that is fairly heavy for a 5'1" female, and quite a bit of this is due to my having very dense bones from 30 years of lifting, not all muscle, and I'm still quite tiny.

My muscles really are not that big, but they show a lot of definition because I'm quite lean. If I gained some fat then I would have a softer more toned look (which is OKAY too!). Then if I gained more fat I would look bulky and hefty like I did most of my life until last year. YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVER YOU WANT. Lean and ripped, soft and toned, or hefty, it all depends on how much fat you leave on your body. Calories are the only thing that changes fat. Exercise is for changing or maintaining your lean body mass only. Lifting weights will give you the best bang for your buck for shaping your body. I finally changed my shape by putting lifting first and cardio 2nd. You cannot out exercise too many calories.

Can you be my trainer?? :happy: :happy: :happy:

uloveme56

I am 55 years old
Height 5'1"
Starting weight January 1, 2013 - 243 lbs
current weight August 25, 2013 - 149 lbs
Goal weight - 130 lbs

ladyark

I'm starting to get intimidated by all the 20 something people who lose 100 lbs and look AMAZING!! I'm afraid that when I lose my 60 lbs, I'm still going to look like an "eh" 45 year old. I also have heard that it's so much harder to lose weight post-menopause. Should I just throw in the towel now?:ohwell:

Well, I'm almost 52. I lost 60 lbs at age 50 after struggling for about 15 years. I've been a marathon and ultra marathon runner and weight lifter for over 30 years. I did martial arts for 10 years. I ran marathon after marathon and worked my butt off at the gym for countless hours and finally learned you can not out exercise too many calories. I didn't think I ate too much. I didn't binge or pig out or mindlessly eat. I've eaten healthy all my life. I've never had a habit of fast food. But serving sizes are designed for 6ft men and I'm a 5'1" female so I just didn't know I ate too much. I didn't realize how small I really am until I lost the weight. Everyone said I looked strong and had big bones. Not true, I realize now.

BEFORE:


AFTER:




There is no mystery to weight loss, everyone thinks something is wrong, their metabolism is broken, they have low thyroid, they have menopause or whatever issue, they are as unique as a snowflake, whatever. I thought a lot of these things once too but once the doctor helped resolve the health issues for me I learned there is still no magic pill. Most people eat more than they need to and are not at good at estimating calories as they think they are. Most people have a lower BMR than they think they do. The only way to know for sure is to go to a lab and have it tested. It doesn't seem fair to have to eat less and feel a little hunger. It's hard to face the truth of it, very hard. It's not fun. It's drudgery at times. But if you learn to enjoy your smaller amounts of food (necessary to lose weight, since the reason we got fat in the first place was eating too much whether we knew it or not), and rejoice in your victories it can be done.

All I can do is share what worked for me. I achieved my goal at age 50 after beating my head against the wall for 15 years. Yeah anyone can do it, but I can tell you that you are up against a lot when you are older and I believe females have some unique issue to face with hormones and such. The sooner you can get a handle on it the better. DO NOT GIVE UP. As I got older and the weight piled on (and I didn't feel I was eating too much!) everyone kept telling me to give up, this is what happens when you get older. I'm small, and I didn't realize how small I was until I lost the weight. Everyone said I had big bones. I looked hefty because I worked out. Once I lost the weight I realized how small I really was and that small people don't need to eat as much as big people. HINT: If you are short you are probably small.

Your body loses weight in chunks, not linear. I have found that you can do everything right and your weight loss seems to plateau but if you are patient and keep exercising and eating at a deficit (however slight) you will lose it, it will suddenly "whoosh". There are so many variables for the scale; water retention, digestion, hormones, allergies, sodium, carbs, water intake, DOMS, inflammation, the list goes on. People mistakenly think they lose or gain weight when they eat more or less because of these fluctuations.

Losing weight requires tremendous patience. You will not lose it when you want it or where you want it. The body does its thing. Some apparent plateaus can last a month or so. You cannot make it happen faster. You must focus on two things; calories and exercise. Nothing else matters. Scales and metrics don't matter. The day in and day out grind of exercise and calories are all that matters. It is not very exciting until things fall into place. You get your victories and you ride one victory to the next.

The scale is a trend tool. The scale is good but put it away and only check once a week and only use it as a trend tool. It will fluctuate, it does not matter. Take front side and back progress pictures at least once a month. You will see differences that the metrics won't tell you and it's that little bit of NSV that will keep you going until the next victory.

To say eat more is wrong.

To say eat less is wrong.

To find the exact calories needed for YOU to be in a healthy sustainable calorie deficit is the right answer. Wait, if you need to adjust by 100 do it, wait, adjust, wait, adjust, wait. The tortoise wins this race.

All that matters is calories. A healthy balanced diet within a calorie budget for a deficit that is right for YOU is all that matters for weight loss. Don't make it complicated.


Also people play mental accounting games with calories just like with finances. Make steps to make sure you are making accurate measurements. Packaged foods can have MORE than they say but not less (they get in trouble if less so they would rather error with MORE).

If you typically intake sodium at a certain rate your body adjusts, but if you make a sudden change then you will see a spike.

Exercise is for making your lean body mass pretty (especially lifting weights) for when the fat is gone. Losing fat with no muscle is ugly and cardio alone will not make you pretty. You cannot out exercise too many calories.

It really is about calories. I tell people this all the time and they say "Well if calories are all that matter why do you eat so clean???!!" Well, because it makes me feel better, sleep better, and perform better at my sports.

Too many changes at once can be hard on some people. I've always eaten healthy so it easy for me to simply eat less. Eating at a calorie deficit is hard on people; even a small deficit puts your body in a state of flux with hormones and such. Everyone is different. Some people can handle a deeper calorie deficit than others, this is not right or wrong, it just is. Stress in your life affects your hunger hormones; lack of sleep, fatigue, job stress, family stress, financial stress, etc. Add in emotional eating issues and it gets even more complicated. Most people can only handle so much change/stress at once, they try to do too much and fail. Sometimes it might be a better strategy to eat at maintenance and make some small changes first, it really depends on how much stress you are taking in at the moment.

What is the exact number of calories for you?

We’ve been trying to figure out an exact NUMBER of calories that everyone should be eating, without recognizing that everyone is slightly different. In truth, the calories aren’t the end game. Your body is. So the EXACT amount of Calories that are right for you is the EXACT amount that will allow you to maintain your ideal bodyweight no matter what some calculator or chart says.

In other words, an online calculator might tell you that you need to eat 2,500 calories
per day to maintain your ideal bodyweight. But the only way to know for sure if this is
the right amount for you is to test it out. If you gain weight or can’t lose weight eating
that much, then you know you need to eat less to lose weight no matter how many
calculators and text books say otherwise.

This doesn’t mean your metabolism is broken, it just means the estimate of your needs
was just a bit off.

-John Barban (The Body Centric Calorie Guide from the Venus Index and Adonis Index Manuals)

The good thing is you don't have to worry about the starvation mode myth if you are fat. Only skinny people have to worry about starvation mode. It does not mean you have the capability to eat at a large calorie deficit if you have emotional eating disorders or other issues going on, but at least you don't have to be afraid of it anymore.

The Theory of Fat Availability:
•There is a set amount of fat that can be released from a fat cell.
•The more fat you have, the more fat can be used as a fuel when dieting.
•The less fat you have, the less fat can be used as a fuel when dieting.
•Towards the end of a transformation, when body fat is extremely low you
may not have enough fat to handle a large caloric deficit anymore.

At the extreme low end, when your body fat cannot ‘keep up’ with the energy deficit
you've imposed on your body, the energy MUST come from SOMEWHERE. This is
when you are at risk of losing lean body mass during dieting (commonly referred to
as ‘starvation mode’). This happens at extremely low levels of body fat, under 6% in
men and 12% in women [Friedl K.E. J Appl Phsiol, 1994].

-Brad Pilon and John Barban (from The Reverse Taper Diet in The Adonis Index and Venus Index manuals)

Lifting weights is KEY. I recently had my DXA scan done and at 51.5 years of age I have the bone density of a super athletic 30 year old. That is a direct result of lifting for over 30 years. Now if that is not scientific proof that lifting weights keeps you younger I don't know what is! Also I believe it is why most people think I look much younger than I really am.

Start lifting now, lift heavy and change it up often, find a lot of weight routines with free weights, make it fun, embrace it, make it part of your life. Only 3 days a week is all it would take. Crank up your tunes and learn to love it, because your body will love it and it will make your quality of life better in many ways, especially when you get older like me.

Because of this I don't have to worry about osteoporosis. If you wait until you are older and your bones start to deteriorate it's a bit too late, you can't get back what you lost, and you can only start a resistance routine that will prevent further damage.

If you are female you don't have the hormones to get big naturally. I lift heavy and I'm still really tiny. My lean body mass is only 104 lbs and that is fairly heavy for a 5'1" female, and quite a bit of this is due to my having very dense bones from 30 years of lifting, not all muscle, and I'm still quite tiny.

My muscles really are not that big, but they show a lot of definition because I'm quite lean. If I gained some fat then I would have a softer more toned look (which is OKAY too!). Then if I gained more fat I would look bulky and hefty like I did most of my life until last year. YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVER YOU WANT. Lean and ripped, soft and toned, or hefty, it all depends on how much fat you leave on your body. Calories are the only thing that changes fat. Exercise is for changing or maintaining your lean body mass only. Lifting weights will give you the best bang for your buck for shaping your body. I finally changed my shape by putting lifting first and cardio 2nd. You cannot out exercise too many calories.

You have hit the nail on the head!! You look absolutely Amazing!!!

2manyhats

Here I am, an almost 72 yr old lady! I haven't lost any since I started this program a few days ago. I had been with sharecare for about 2 years and lost 20 lbs. It was a slow loss and sometimes discouraging. Over the summer while we were away I put about 4-5 back on and now struggling trying to get those off and the other 7. I weigh abt 140 now and had been down to 137, hoping to get to 130. I'm 5' 1 1/2" and pretty active, going to the gym three times a week for strength training and when I have time I do water aerobics and aqualates. At home I have a treadmill I use on days I can't get to the gym.
Keep with it, you'll do it, have patience!
[/qu ote]You are officially my new idol!

1longroad

I'm starting to get intimidated by all the 20 something people who lose 100 lbs and look AMAZING!! I'm afraid that when I lose my 60 lbs, I'm still going to look like an "eh" 45 year old. I also have heard that it's so much harder to lose weight post-menopause. Should I just throw in the towel now?:ohwell:

Well, I'm almost 52. I lost 60 lbs at age 50 after struggling for about 15 years. I've been a marathon and ultra marathon runner and weight lifter for over 30 years. I did martial arts for 10 years. I ran marathon after marathon and worked my butt off at the gym for countless hours and finally learned you can not out exercise too many calories. I didn't think I ate too much. I didn't binge or pig out or mindlessly eat. I've eaten healthy all my life. I've never had a habit of fast food. But serving sizes are designed for 6ft men and I'm a 5'1" female so I just didn't know I ate too much. I didn't realize how small I really am until I lost the weight. Everyone said I looked strong and had big bones. Not true, I realize now.

BEFORE:


AFTER:




There is no mystery to weight loss, everyone thinks something is wrong, their metabolism is broken, they have low thyroid, they have menopause or whatever issue, they are as unique as a snowflake, whatever. I thought a lot of these things once too but once the doctor helped resolve the health issues for me I learned there is still no magic pill. Most people eat more than they need to and are not at good at estimating calories as they think they are. Most people have a lower BMR than they think they do. The only way to know for sure is to go to a lab and have it tested. It doesn't seem fair to have to eat less and feel a little hunger. It's hard to face the truth of it, very hard. It's not fun. It's drudgery at times. But if you learn to enjoy your smaller amounts of food (necessary to lose weight, since the reason we got fat in the first place was eating too much whether we knew it or not), and rejoice in your victories it can be done.

All I can do is share what worked for me. I achieved my goal at age 50 after beating my head against the wall for 15 years. Yeah anyone can do it, but I can tell you that you are up against a lot when you are older and I believe females have some unique issue to face with hormones and such. The sooner you can get a handle on it the better. DO NOT GIVE UP. As I got older and the weight piled on (and I didn't feel I was eating too much!) everyone kept telling me to give up, this is what happens when you get older. I'm small, and I didn't realize how small I was until I lost the weight. Everyone said I had big bones. I looked hefty because I worked out. Once I lost the weight I realized how small I really was and that small people don't need to eat as much as big people. HINT: If you are short you are probably small.

Your body loses weight in chunks, not linear. I have found that you can do everything right and your weight loss seems to plateau but if you are patient and keep exercising and eating at a deficit (however slight) you will lose it, it will suddenly "whoosh". There are so many variables for the scale; water retention, digestion, hormones, allergies, sodium, carbs, water intake, DOMS, inflammation, the list goes on. People mistakenly think they lose or gain weight when they eat more or less because of these fluctuations.

Losing weight requires tremendous patience. You will not lose it when you want it or where you want it. The body does its thing. Some apparent plateaus can last a month or so. You cannot make it happen faster. You must focus on two things; calories and exercise. Nothing else matters. Scales and metrics don't matter. The day in and day out grind of exercise and calories are all that matters. It is not very exciting until things fall into place. You get your victories and you ride one victory to the next.

The scale is a trend tool. The scale is good but put it away and only check once a week and only use it as a trend tool. It will fluctuate, it does not matter. Take front side and back progress pictures at least once a month. You will see differences that the metrics won't tell you and it's that little bit of NSV that will keep you going until the next victory.

To say eat more is wrong.

To say eat less is wrong.

To find the exact calories needed for YOU to be in a healthy sustainable calorie deficit is the right answer. Wait, if you need to adjust by 100 do it, wait, adjust, wait, adjust, wait. The tortoise wins this race.

All that matters is calories. A healthy balanced diet within a calorie budget for a deficit that is right for YOU is all that matters for weight loss. Don't make it complicated.


Also people play mental accounting games with calories just like with finances. Make steps to make sure you are making accurate measurements. Packaged foods can have MORE than they say but not less (they get in trouble if less so they would rather error with MORE).

If you typically intake sodium at a certain rate your body adjusts, but if you make a sudden change then you will see a spike.

Exercise is for making your lean body mass pretty (especially lifting weights) for when the fat is gone. Losing fat with no muscle is ugly and cardio alone will not make you pretty. You cannot out exercise too many calories.

It really is about calories. I tell people this all the time and they say "Well if calories are all that matter why do you eat so clean???!!" Well, because it makes me feel better, sleep better, and perform better at my sports.

Too many changes at once can be hard on some people. I've always eaten healthy so it easy for me to simply eat less. Eating at a calorie deficit is hard on people; even a small deficit puts your body in a state of flux with hormones and such. Everyone is different. Some people can handle a deeper calorie deficit than others, this is not right or wrong, it just is. Stress in your life affects your hunger hormones; lack of sleep, fatigue, job stress, family stress, financial stress, etc. Add in emotional eating issues and it gets even more complicated. Most people can only handle so much change/stress at once, they try to do too much and fail. Sometimes it might be a better strategy to eat at maintenance and make some small changes first, it really depends on how much stress you are taking in at the moment.

What is the exact number of calories for you?

We’ve been trying to figure out an exact NUMBER of calories that everyone should be eating, without recognizing that everyone is slightly different. In truth, the calories aren’t the end game. Your body is. So the EXACT amount of Calories that are right for you is the EXACT amount that will allow you to maintain your ideal bodyweight no matter what some calculator or chart says.

In other words, an online calculator might tell you that you need to eat 2,500 calories
per day to maintain your ideal bodyweight. But the only way to know for sure if this is
the right amount for you is to test it out. If you gain weight or can’t lose weight eating
that much, then you know you need to eat less to lose weight no matter how many
calculators and text books say otherwise.

This doesn’t mean your metabolism is broken, it just means the estimate of your needs
was just a bit off.

-John Barban (The Body Centric Calorie Guide from the Venus Index and Adonis Index Manuals)

The good thing is you don't have to worry about the starvation mode myth if you are fat. Only skinny people have to worry about starvation mode. It does not mean you have the capability to eat at a large calorie deficit if you have emotional eating disorders or other issues going on, but at least you don't have to be afraid of it anymore.

The Theory of Fat Availability:
•There is a set amount of fat that can be released from a fat cell.
•The more fat you have, the more fat can be used as a fuel when dieting.
•The less fat you have, the less fat can be used as a fuel when dieting.
•Towards the end of a transformation, when body fat is extremely low you
may not have enough fat to handle a large caloric deficit anymore.

At the extreme low end, when your body fat cannot ‘keep up’ with the energy deficit
you've imposed on your body, the energy MUST come from SOMEWHERE. This is
when you are at risk of losing lean body mass during dieting (commonly referred to
as ‘starvation mode’). This happens at extremely low levels of body fat, under 6% in
men and 12% in women [Friedl K.E. J Appl Phsiol, 1994].

-Brad Pilon and John Barban (from The Reverse Taper Diet in The Adonis Index and Venus Index manuals)

Lifting weights is KEY. I recently had my DXA scan done and at 51.5 years of age I have the bone density of a super athletic 30 year old. That is a direct result of lifting for over 30 years. Now if that is not scientific proof that lifting weights keeps you younger I don't know what is! Also I believe it is why most people think I look much younger than I really am.

Start lifting now, lift heavy and change it up often, find a lot of weight routines with free weights, make it fun, embrace it, make it part of your life. Only 3 days a week is all it would take. Crank up your tunes and learn to love it, because your body will love it and it will make your quality of life better in many ways, especially when you get older like me.

Because of this I don't have to worry about osteoporosis. If you wait until you are older and your bones start to deteriorate it's a bit too late, you can't get back what you lost, and you can only start a resistance routine that will prevent further damage.

If you are female you don't have the hormones to get big naturally. I lift heavy and I'm still really tiny. My lean body mass is only 104 lbs and that is fairly heavy for a 5'1" female, and quite a bit of this is due to my having very dense bones from 30 years of lifting, not all muscle, and I'm still quite tiny.

My muscles really are not that big, but they show a lot of definition because I'm quite lean. If I gained some fat then I would have a softer more toned look (which is OKAY too!). Then if I gained more fat I would look bulky and hefty like I did most of my life until last year. YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVER YOU WANT. Lean and ripped, soft and toned, or hefty, it all depends on how much fat you leave on your body. Calories are the only thing that changes fat. Exercise is for changing or maintaining your lean body mass only. Lifting weights will give you the best bang for your buck for shaping your body. I finally changed my shape by putting lifting first and cardio 2nd. You cannot out exercise too many calories.

You have hit the nail on the head!! You look absolutely Amazing!!!

Agreed!!! You were pretty before, but now you are stunning!!! Fantastic!!

Let's see, not toally successful, yet, but working on it! Now I need to find a place I can start lifting, wow!!!

Sorry, edited to add that I am 56, have been at this since March and have a goal of 130, so that hopefully I can maintain that weight!!

1longroad

I am 55 years old
Height 5'1"
Starting weight January 1, 2013 - 243 lbs
current weight August 25, 2013 - 149 lbs
Goal weight - 130 lbs

You look fantastic!! I am 5'1" also and trying to get to 130. Skinny, not ever, but healthier and a weight I think I can maintain at 56 and beyond!!

LanaBerk

Is this thread closed? I just started reading and it is exactly what I need. I am 67 yrs young and was 234 lbs Nov 13, 2013. I joined here a few days ago at 184 lbs. I used to think it was impossible to lose weight at my age...not so! I wasted the past 20 years believing it. Thank you all for your stories, help and inspiration.

DebbieLyn63

It isnt closed. It may be old, but definitely still relevant. It may be a lot harder to lose at an older age, but there are many women that are proving it can be done. :flowerforyou:

airangel59

I love when older threads get resurrected and the folks who posted early on are still here plugging away vs giving up...way to go ladies:drinker:

I'm 54, been here 681 days & hit my goal range on day 640, now just need to firm & tone. Hang in there, if you want it badly enough and you keep your head in the game, it is doable.

megskionslo

I'm starting to get intimidated by all the 20 something people who lose 100 lbs and look AMAZING!! I'm afraid that when I lose my 60 lbs, I'm still going to look like an "eh" 45 year old. I also have heard that it's so much harder to lose weight post-menopause. Should I just throw in the towel now?:ohwell:

NO! NO! NO!, Don't do that! I'm nearly 77 (next month), and I have allowed the pounds to creep up so that I have about 40 to lose. I really need to work at it because they are around my middle and very unhealthy. I no longer have a waistline. I wish that I had done something in my 40s or 50s, because my metabolism would have been faster and my body less creaky. I have started working out with Richard Simmons Sweatin' to the Oldies, and once it warms up a bit around here, I will get out and walk. I know that I am going to have to work hard for every pound!

Luckee_me

<~Hi,
I'm 50. You can see my pictures on my profile.
Never give up! You are stronger than you think you are.

DebbieLyn63

I love when older threads get resurrected and the folks who posted early on are still here plugging away vs giving up...way to go ladies:drinker:

I'm 54, been here 681 days & hit my goal range on day 640, now just need to firm & tone. Hang in there, if you want it badly enough and you keep your head in the game, it is doable.

AMEN! I am 50, and started here in 2012 on my 49th birthday, My goal was to lose 80 lbs by my 50th, but I didn't quite make it. Even so, 50 lbs lighter by then changed my life dramatically. I felt like a whole new person. Life has gotten crazy over the past 8 months and I have only maintained my loss, but am struggling to find the motivation and determination to focus on losing those last 30 pounds. Revisiting this thread and seeing the wonder-women who have reached goal, and are still in the fight, has been very inspiring for me.
I am very proud and happy for the progress that I have made and maintained so far, but now I feel ready to put my health back at the top of the priority list and head for the finish line!!

WOO HOO!! You all rock!:drinker: :flowerforyou:

m2Bfit

Thanks for bringing back this thread. Quite motivating for someone just starting out.

My goal is to be fit before 50 (2 years from now).