do you ladies like to hear....

cbormac
cbormac Posts: 19
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Do you ladies like to hear that you are beautiful, hot, sexy, cute or what? Or are we men wasting our time because you don't believe it if we say it?
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  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    honestly? I hear nothing.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I like to hear it.

    know what leaves a greater impression and makes our entire week better and we will never doubt if you mean it?

    "I need your help."

    or

    "Im proud of you."
  • jess7386
    jess7386 Posts: 477 Member
    Personally, I love to hear any of those things! :) I've stopped immediately saying "no!!" as my instant reaction and try to say thank you and appreciate the compliment these days.
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    Not from random people, no.
  • Im_NotPerfect
    Im_NotPerfect Posts: 2,181 Member
    We may not belive it, but we like to hear it. Definately! Especially if it's unsolicited because it shows us you're at least trying!

    Edited to say..."Cute" is one I always hated though. I never wanted to be "cute". I wanted to be sexy, hot, gorgeous, etc....
  • ShmoozyQ
    ShmoozyQ Posts: 390 Member
    Yes, ladies like to hear those things. :)



    Even if she says she doesn't believe you - if you stop saying it, she'll really start to doubt herself.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    Not from random people, no.

    Pfft
    Whatever.
    :yawn:
  • __F4t2f1t__
    __F4t2f1t__ Posts: 97
    Do you ladies like to hear that you are beautiful, hot, sexy, cute or what? Or are we men wasting our time because you don't believe it if we say it?


    only creepy old men say those things
  • mississippi_queen
    mississippi_queen Posts: 474 Member
    We love to hear it! Even if sometimes we say "No I'm not" or whatever!
  • Wuggums
    Wuggums Posts: 339 Member
    For me, "cute" or "adorable" doesn't cut it. I'd much rather be called beautiful or sexy...even though I won't believe him when he says it.
  • _skittybang
    _skittybang Posts: 970 Member
    When my husband says

    "You're beautiful"

    I respond with

    "No, you're beautiful!"

    I could go either way. I don't need to hear it. I know he digs me.
  • The_New_Christina
    The_New_Christina Posts: 818 Member
    Do I like an ego booster? Hell yeah!
  • deb3129
    deb3129 Posts: 1,294 Member
    My hubby used to tell me I was beautiful, and I LOVED It.
  • calisunrise
    calisunrise Posts: 307
    if only i heard that haha
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Do you ladies like to hear that you are beautiful, hot, sexy, cute or what? Or are we men wasting our time because you don't believe it if we say it?

    Yes, I like to hear it.

    No, I don't believe it. Well, sometimes I do. But I believe the man saying it means it even if I don't feel it myself.
  • terrappyn
    terrappyn Posts: 324 Member
    I like hearing all those things. My BF is always singing, You Are So Beautiful to Me by Joe Cocker and it makes me laugh everytime but it also gives me those little butterflies that I got from the minute we met. :blushing:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    it's lovely to hear from my fiance.
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    Not from random people, no.

    Pfft
    Whatever.
    :yawn:

    It's usually insincere.

    When my boyfriend says it I love to hear it, insincere or not.
  • etoiles_argentees
    etoiles_argentees Posts: 2,827 Member
    Do I like an ego booster? Hell yeah!

    I agree.
  • Lize11e
    Lize11e Posts: 419
    Only if it is genuine. I can tell if someone is being fake. But the few who say it and really mean it, it means so very much coming from them. I love to hear it. =)
  • BalenciaLynn
    BalenciaLynn Posts: 411 Member
    i like hearing im beautiful, hot sexy and cute don't really phase me.
    I still remember the first time my ex called me beautiful.... i just woke up and was at his house, didnt have any makeup with me or hair products and i did the best i could with what little i had. I was sitting on his couch watching tv with him and i looked over to see him just staring at me, i asked what was up and he whispered that i was the most beautiful person he's ever met.
    It still shocks me as im used to wearing makeup all the time and i couldnt help but blush beet red :p
  • yannismom
    yannismom Posts: 18
    I love being called beautiful and sexy. I also like to hear specific things that you find beautiful or sexy about me. The more I hear it, the more I begin to believe that you mean it!
  • PitBullMom_Liz
    PitBullMom_Liz Posts: 339 Member
    Not from random people, no.

    Speak for yourself. Sometimes a compliment is just a compliment with no underlying motive. Personally I like when strangers tell me I'm lovely - it throws me for a loop and really brightens my day.
  • Ta2dchic20
    Ta2dchic20 Posts: 376 Member
    I agree with the 'only if it's genuine'. I love to hear my boyfriend say things like that randomly. He may be having one of those moments where he's thinking in his head, always glad to hear him share it with me :)
  • yannismom
    yannismom Posts: 18
    i like hearing im beautiful, hot sexy and cute don't really phase me.
    I still remember the first time my ex called me beautiful.... i just woke up and was at his house, didnt have any makeup with me or hair products and i did the best i could with what little i had. I was sitting on his couch watching tv with him and i looked over to see him just staring at me, i asked what was up and he whispered that i was the most beautiful person he's ever met.
    It still shocks me as im used to wearing makeup all the time and i couldnt help but blush beet red :p

    THAT IS SOOOO SWEET!!!
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    only if its true
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    Not from random people, no.

    Speak for yourself.

    Yeah.. uh.. that's what I was doing.
  • porcelain_doll
    porcelain_doll Posts: 1,005 Member
    I love hearing any of them. Definitely not a waste of time. Compliments warm my heart and boost my confidence.
  • TheCaren
    TheCaren Posts: 894 Member
    From my husband? Yes. From random people? Not so much. :)

    Yes, I love to hear words of encouragement. But honestly, if you didn't say it when I was overweight, don't start saying it now. Otherwise if you stop saying it at some point, for whatever reason, I can only assume it's because of how I look, and therefore, there's something wrong with me.
  • yo_andi
    yo_andi Posts: 2,178 Member
    If you mean it, you can't go wrong.

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