do you ladies like to hear....
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There's no standard answer here....some women love to hear it and others not so much! I am one of those who does...:ohwell:
Oh...and it does depend WHO its coming from, of course...0 -
What I like best are compliments unique to me...my hubby is great at this--he will compliment me on things I say or do, as well as the way I look. It makes me feel like he "gets" me.
I agree with your post. My husband comes up with specifc things. He won't just say you look beatiful. He will say something like " The way your eyes brows and hair cradle your face reminds me of a black swan ready to land on a still lake "
I have to admit he is pretty good.
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When my husband says
"You're beautiful"
I respond with
"No, you're beautiful!"
I could go either way. I don't need to hear it. I know he digs me.
yeah I like this
as long as I know he knows Im beautiful, after that I wont worry about it.
but if he only sees me looking like crap and tells me Im beautiful, then Im kind of like :-/ I dont believe you, big fat liar0 -
It depends on the person.
The one guy I was seeing would text me every 5 minutes and be like Hey Sexy/Cutie/Whatever and it got annoying... quick.
Had another guy ask me out this past weekend and he was all oh your really cute and beautiful...Um Ok, I don't even know you... so No, I'm not.0 -
I personally like "beautiful". But the biggest factor isn't WHAT the guy says, it's the integrity of the guy. If a man's character leads me to believe that his words aren't necessarily sincere, I don't take what he says to heart quite so quickly.0
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If you're thinkin' it, and you honestly believe it, then say it. I like to know what's on your mind and what you're thinkin' about. Also compliments make me go :blushing:
Of course this is in like a bf/gf or husband/wife scenario, not like... pickin' up chicks at the bar scenario. Then just chat about stuff.0 -
On or right before my last day of student teaching one of the students (8th grade) started asking me a bunch of questions about facebook and what was my first name and email, what is my favorite number (none of which I would answer, by the way). Someone from the back says "You sure are interested in Miss ___________...Are you physically attracted to her?" "Yes I am!" In class the middle of class! I believe my response was "Everybody look at this parabola!"Depends on who it's coming from. A coworker, friend, that guy I've been flirting with: absolutely. Drunk homeless guy, 12-year-old boy, my sister's husband, blind dude, skeezy politician: no thanks.
hahaha nice!
:laugh:
:laugh: :laugh: That's outstanding0 -
Do you ladies like to hear that you are beautiful, hot, sexy, cute or what? Or are we men wasting our time because you don't believe it if we say it?
only creepy old men say those things
I'll tell my husband - who is wonderful with sincere compliments, and I appreciate them and him!0 -
of course we like to hear compliments. I will take them from a stranger since my hubby isn't so good at complimenting. Its nice to hear even if we dont truly believe.0
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This is individual not just to the woman but to the relationship.0
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Yes but what I really love is being called a goddess.
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I don't like any of those.
What I do like hearing is - funny, smart, interesting.
Beautiful, cute, etc. Uh...okay, whatev.0 -
I can't speak for every lady out there, but I know I need to hear those things. I try hard to look my best for my hubby and I need feedback from him to know I'm doing a good job. Sometimes i turn down his compliments because I'm just not feeling so hot that day, but just because I turn his compliment down doesn't mean it didn't do any good... it definitely did! 0
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Yes! Say it! Even if you are lying!
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Do you ladies like to hear that you are beautiful, hot, sexy, cute or what? Or are we men wasting our time because you don't believe it if we say it?
Every morning my boyfriend sends me a text, "Good morning Gorgeous"... when we are together, even if we aren't getting along, he will say "Ok beautiful". He always calls me gorgeous and beautiful and has told me I look nice and sometimes I might get sexy - but that's a long shot! LOL. I love attention from him, he's mine.
Getting this from other people, it's ok, as long as it's not overdone. LIke "hey baby you're sexy as hell!" that's overboard. But "you look beautiful" is sweet 0 -
We may not belive it, but we like to hear it. Definately! Especially if it's unsolicited because it shows us you're at least trying!
Edited to say..."Cute" is one I always hated though. I never wanted to be "cute". I wanted to be sexy, hot, gorgeous, etc....
AGREED! I'd always reply "Cute? Really? I look like my dog?"0 -
for me, i like specific compliments better.
the other day my bf was complimenting my "flat abs" and i nearly died of shock. i am so used to hearing "you're beautiful, you're cute, you're adorable" that a specific compliment left me speechless.0 -
I like to hear it.
know what leaves a greater impression and makes our entire week better and we will never doubt if you mean it?
"I need your help."
or
"Im proud of you."
I agree!0 -
Do you ladies like to hear that you are beautiful, hot, sexy, cute or what? Or are we men wasting our time because you don't believe it if we say it?
I'm not one of those types. I always appreciate a sincere compliment, especially when it comes from my beloved.0 -
Or are we men wasting our time because you don't believe it if we say it?
It depends.
Are you really,really, really, REALLY, ridiculously good looking?
It makes a difference apparently.0 -
I like to hear it.
know what leaves a greater impression and makes our entire week better and we will never doubt if you mean it?
"I need your help."
or
"Im proud of you."
This!0 -
My outfit can be cute...I, myself, don't want to be cute.
Pretty, beautiful, sexy, etc....all work for me! Even better from people I don't know because they don't "have" to stop to tell you.0 -
No, I don't like hearing I am 'hot'
I like hearing that I'm beautiful 0 -
if you mean it, YES. if you're saying it because you have to or feel like you should, we can tell. STOP IT. But there is nothing better than a heartfelt "You look great today!" or "DAMN! You're sexy!" or something like that. It can make a girl's day!0
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know what else is utterly perfect and can color your day?
good morning?
If its our SO youre referring to, nothing can really replace a sweet interaction in the morning. It's special.0 -
I'll let you know someday...if it ever happens!0
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I like to hear it.
know what leaves a greater impression and makes our entire week better and we will never doubt if you mean it?
"I need your help."
or
"Im proud of you."
At least once a week, my husband tells me that he's proud of me. Yes, that sticks with me more than all the times he ever called me beautiful or anything else.0 -
honestly? I hear nothing.
I hear nothing too. I would LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE to hear I am beautiful and sexy ALL the time!!! I would believe it if you said it sincerely! I have to ask and my husband says of course while not paying attention. Aww the bliss of marriage. LOL0 -
Do you ladies like to hear that you are beautiful, hot, sexy, cute or what? Or are we men wasting our time because you don't believe it if we say it?
only creepy old men say those things
Or creepy guys on internet dating sites...0 -
I love being called beautiful, gorgeous, sexy ect.
DON'T call me cute though, cute makes me think of some helpless being. My ex called me cute and I would always respond with I'm not cute I'm vicious! Lol0
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