HOT - MOMS !

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  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    ugh..I only made the first comment! I don't want to get dragged down for the 2nd as well :(
    I was thinking the same thing. I've never heard of a parent being court ordered to spend time with their children.

    Yes I realized that. That was why I edited it. But if people aren't aware of how custody laws work, then they have no business commenting on how someone else acts as a parent after a separation.

    I really didn't think you were being harsh by asking.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I honestly wasn't trying to be an asshold about my comment. I'm actually with the father of my children, have been since we were16 years old.
    I was just asking, since typically, a weekend Parent (not just dad) is going to have a little more time to focus on themselves, then a parent who has the child/ren full time and work full time.
    Wasn't your comment dear.
  • 970Mikaela1
    970Mikaela1 Posts: 2,013 Member
    Yeah because us single dad's dont put in nearly as much work. :huh:

    what wolf said!
  • currierand
    currierand Posts: 155 Member
    Anyone else feeling like a cougar right about now??? meowww

    Considering the OP is probably young enough to be my son (well, my son's great looking, older friend) then yes.
  • Yeah because us single dad's dont put in nearly as much work. :huh:

    Us hot moms...you single hot dads it's all good!
  • alishacupcake
    alishacupcake Posts: 419 Member
    That depends.. are you a single "weekend/every other weekend" dad..
    or "full time, work 9-5 get home run around with the kids, stay up when they're sick getting puked on, just to start all over in the morning" dad??

    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.

    THIS! Not that there aren't great dad's out there.. and great single dads... but when men claim to be single dads because they have their son every other weekend and his (the dad's) mom is keeping the baby the majority of the time it chaps my hide just a little. Call me back with that after you take him to the emergency room at 2am with puke on both of you instead of calling me to come get him when he's sick.
  • ShreddedTweet
    ShreddedTweet Posts: 1,326 Member
    That depends.. are you a single "weekend/every other weekend" dad..
    or "full time, work 9-5 get home run around with the kids, stay up when they're sick getting puked on, just to start all over in the morning" dad??

    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.

    THIS!

    Angry woman is angry. Stop generalising and lumping all dads in together. Wise up!
  • alishacupcake
    alishacupcake Posts: 419 Member
    That depends.. are you a single "weekend/every other weekend" dad..
    or "full time, work 9-5 get home run around with the kids, stay up when they're sick getting puked on, just to start all over in the morning" dad??

    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.

    THIS!

    Angry woman is angry. Stop generalising and lumping all dads in together. Wise up!

    I re-thought and edited..... I'll take my lumps for that one. I was wrong... write it down, it rarely happens.
  • natalienicole502
    natalienicole502 Posts: 268 Member
    :flowerforyou:
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    God bless the hot moms!
  • :ohwell:

    LOL. Wow, this thread needn't have gone any further than this.
  • shanae727
    shanae727 Posts: 546 Member
    Yeah because us single dad's dont put in nearly as much work. :huh:

    not the case but you didn't gain 50-80 lbs incubating a human for 9 plus months. :) But you still get props
  • RavenBeauty87
    RavenBeauty87 Posts: 83 Member
    Well look at you :tongue: ..... Ya going for MILF status :devil:
  • lizzybethclaire
    lizzybethclaire Posts: 849 Member
    Can you be on the list if you are a hot sexy stepmom? wow, that sounds like the premise to a bad Lifetime movie :laugh:
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    Can you be on the list if you are a hot sexy stepmom? wow, that sounds like the premise to a bad Lifetime movie :laugh:

    starring Scott Baio
  • RavenBeauty87
    RavenBeauty87 Posts: 83 Member
    Yeah because us single dad's dont put in nearly as much work. :huh:

    not the case but you didn't gain 50-80 lbs incubating a human for 9 plus months. :) But you still get props

    LMFAO I know then the jerks that have the nerve to say "Don't eat like a pig when you're pregnant" If reincarnation is real then they better come back as a woman married to a strict Catholic man with a high sex drive..... Too mean?
  • 970Mikaela1
    970Mikaela1 Posts: 2,013 Member
    That depends.. are you a single "weekend/every other weekend" dad..
    or "full time, work 9-5 get home run around with the kids, stay up when they're sick getting puked on, just to start all over in the morning" dad??

    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.

    hhey now!! I've raised my daughter since she was two...she's 8 now and i get paid the court awarded child support...i can even make a girl pony tail for f%%&s sake...some dads WANT to be there for their children!
  • sdavis448
    sdavis448 Posts: 193 Member
    Anybody else "awwww" at the pony tail statement??
    You Rock!
    That depends.. are you a single "weekend/every other weekend" dad..
    or "full time, work 9-5 get home run around with the kids, stay up when they're sick getting puked on, just to start all over in the morning" dad??

    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.

    hhey now!! I've raised my daughter since she was two...she's 8 now and i get paid the court awarded child support...i can even make a girl pony tail for f%%&s sake...some dads WANT to be there for their children!
  • Great thread up until a certain point. There are so many hot mom's & dads who take care of themselves so they can be awesome role models for their little ones.
  • BeingAwesome247
    BeingAwesome247 Posts: 1,171 Member
    I honestly wasn't trying to be an asshold about my comment. I'm actually with the father of my children, have been since we were16 years old.
    I was just asking, since typically, a weekend Parent (not just dad) is going to have a little more time to focus on themselves, then a parent who has the child/ren full time and work full time.

    I don't think anyone was upset with your comment. There is a difference and we know it. The problem was with the poster after you.
    And for the record, you definitely count! :)

    Yea, I have to agree with what he said AND I do like your original post and Loved reading about the dad's that are being real parents to their kids.

    I have several single father friends who are WONDERFUL full time parents

    I also have an ex who can only handle being a parent a night or two a week and doesn't feel it necessary to help financially support his daughter - and yes, I am one woman who actually does what I'm supposed to and I try very hard to keep my daughter out of the line of fire and I still let her see her father weekly - I even have to be the one to drop her off and pick her up because he doesn't have a car. He doesn't seem to understand why I don't want to make small talk with him! :huh:
  • ATclassof2021
    ATclassof2021 Posts: 232 Member
    That depends.. are you a single "weekend/every other weekend" dad..
    or "full time, work 9-5 get home run around with the kids, stay up when they're sick getting puked on, just to start all over in the morning" dad??

    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.
    You have got to be effing kidding me with this crap.
    Really please tell me you are.

    I think the court order is more to force interaction with a crazy, bitter ex who, most likely, has used the kids as a bludgeon. Not that that ever happens.

    Amen!!!
  • ATclassof2021
    ATclassof2021 Posts: 232 Member
    What about us hot grandmas? LOL

    I prefer to be called Oma

    All about the HOT OMA :-)
  • megalin9
    megalin9 Posts: 771 Member
    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.

    THIS! Not that there aren't great dad's out there.. and great single dads... but when men claim to be single dads because they have their son every other weekend and his (the dad's) mom is keeping the baby the majority of the time it chaps my hide just a little. Call me back with that after you take him to the emergency room at 2am with puke on both of you instead of calling me to come get him when he's sick.

    I don't really get why dads who only get weekend or every-other-weekend visitations aren't getting more credit, or at least why you are being so general with this stereotypical comment. My dad was a single dad but was only allowed visitation with us every-other-weekend. My mom allowed him to visit with us any other time during the week when he was able. He was 100% present in our lives. He was at every T-ball game with the video camera. And the weekends he had us, he was most definitely a single dad. He was responsible for dinner and baths and clipping our toe nails and back rubs and staying up with us when we were sick and taking us camping and bikeriding and building forts and taking us to church, etc., etc., etc. Your statement isn't a fair generalization and inaccurate for the large population of single dads.

    Oh, and I think I'm a hot mom, thank you very much!
  • megalin9
    megalin9 Posts: 771 Member
    ....

    (sometimes i hit the wrong button)
  • Rum_Runner
    Rum_Runner Posts: 617 Member
    Hot moms and hot dads....keep up the great work!!

    My FL is full of them.
  • ATclassof2021
    ATclassof2021 Posts: 232 Member
    That depends.. are you a single "weekend/every other weekend" dad..
    or "full time, work 9-5 get home run around with the kids, stay up when they're sick getting puked on, just to start all over in the morning" dad??

    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.

    hhey now!! I've raised my daughter since she was two...she's 8 now and i get paid the court awarded child support...i can even make a girl pony tail for f%%&s sake...some dads WANT to be there for their children!

    Never mastered the french braid......but I could rock some pig tails :-)

    To all those men and woman who are both mom and dad day in and day out....I take my hat off to you. I learned very fast in 1993 how tuff it is to be a single parent without a supporting cast. My greatest achievement is raising my two beautiful children.
  • alishacupcake
    alishacupcake Posts: 419 Member
    LOL, I hate when they think they deserve a gdamned award 'single dad'. Okay, you're court ordered to play with your son.Stop using that term to appear like an awesome person.

    THIS! Not that there aren't great dad's out there.. and great single dads... but when men claim to be single dads because they have their son every other weekend and his (the dad's) mom is keeping the baby the majority of the time it chaps my hide just a little. Call me back with that after you take him to the emergency room at 2am with puke on both of you instead of calling me to come get him when he's sick.

    I don't really get why dads who only get weekend or every-other-weekend visitations aren't getting more credit, or at least why you are being so general with this stereotypical comment. My dad was a single dad but was only allowed visitation with us every-other-weekend. My mom allowed him to visit with us any other time during the week when he was able. He was 100% present in our lives. He was at every T-ball game with the video camera. And the weekends he had us, he was most definitely a single dad. He was responsible for dinner and baths and clipping our toe nails and back rubs and staying up with us when we were sick and taking us camping and bikeriding and building forts and taking us to church, etc., etc., etc. Your statement isn't a fair generalization and inaccurate for the large population of single dads.

    Oh, and I think I'm a hot mom, thank you very much!

    I should probably just let my comment die... but in my opinion your dad as you described him is not the type of dad I was complaining about in my comment. He was present in your lives. He sounds like a great dad!!!! And I know there are lots of them out there!!!!!! I have the utmost respect for them!!! And I also super melted at the Dad who makes the ponytails!!!!! Pigtails are the best and don't worry about French braids, they are overrated anyway!! :)

    Perhaps I should just state my comment is probably more directed at my particular "baby's daddy."
  • kmorg22
    kmorg22 Posts: 180
    I think what we have learned from this thread is there are a lot of awesome parents in here.... :)
  • nonstopper
    nonstopper Posts: 1,108 Member
    ^^ YEAP totally good people in here. If you run through a notice 90% of all the GUYS in this thread are haters haha, not to sure why yall got so upset, when it has nothing to do with you. Nothing but nice complements were made about mothers and aunts and step moms and grandmas and you Male MFP members just dont like to see it........ ;) No worries! Everyone here is a great person!!!!
  • kmorg22
    kmorg22 Posts: 180
    *** I am a single mom, my kids fathers are absent by choice.....

    however reguardless of their choice I do my best to not speak negative of them at all. Even tho they choose to not be a father I still speak highly of them to my children when they ask. after all I thought high enough of them to lay down with them.... make a child with them....

    Don't agree with parents who talk down about each other to their kids or around them. IJS #randomresponseaboutparents