Internet dating- applicants are too fat

keithmustloseweight

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Hi,

So I joined an internet dating thingo a few days ago

I've not bothered messaging anyone, but have received a few messages from girls

Thing is they're all pretty obese / morbidly obese. Is it even worth telling them I'm not interested because of that? Will they rage, or take it to heart and do something about it?

I feel bad for them because honestly no one is going to give them a date unless they're a chubby chaser. They might be unaware or in blissful denial. I'm not interested in being their PT.

Not saying I'm an adonis by any stretch but these girls need to do something not for my sake but for their own health and happyness. Atleast to get themselves laid once in a while cause at the moment I'm pretty sure that wouldn't be happening.

Owsla135

bettacheckyoself

Just a question....if you found your perfect girl and she gained a lot of weight after...would you split or would you force her to lose weight? .....just curious...

n0ob

Stella_Leigh

This.

WorkoutWarrior76

This post made me sad. Dude, beauty is ONLY skin deep. Maybe one of these women would be your perfect match. Yes there must be attraction, but you just utterly right them off due to their weight? My momma always said if you look you can find the beauty in everyone. I think that is mainly true (Hitler being the exception, dang Hitler!). We all get older and parts of us sag, we get wrinkly, etc. Personality pretty much always stays the same!

jamiem1102

Damn trolls... always causin' a ruckus

BuddhaBabeee

****ing rude.

jkestens63

Trollhole

AndreaEllen

There's a lot of fat people who know they're fat and are perfectly happy that way and there a lot of men who like fat AND skinny women.
If fat girls aren't your cup of tea just don't respond.
Internet dating profiles are a dime a dozen and for every guy like you who doesn't respond, there will be ten others who will.

BigDnSW

This post made me sad. Dude, beauty is ONLY skin deep. Maybe one of these women would be your perfect match. Yes there must be attraction, but you just utterly right them off due to their weight? My momma always said if you look you can find the beauty in everyone. I think that is mainly true (Hitler being the exception, dang Hitler!). We all get older and parts of us sag, we get wrinkly, etc. Personality pretty much always stays the same!

Right on, bro...even as we grow older, we learn to find beauty in the wrinkles.

HannahMarieMcDougald

Exactly

WorkoutWarrior76

Trollhole

OMFG! Trollhole is my new fave word!

angelicarubi

:noway: :mad: :explode: :huh:

Laces_0ut

its hard for me to give no response if i'm not interested so i just give short answers without any follow up questions.

but for me i'd rather they not message me back if i start the conversation if they are not interested.


for the ladies...if you start the conversation what do you prefer if the guy isnt interested?

justgowithit17

i'm sure because of your wonderful, sparkling personality the ladies are lining up for you.

knickels1987

This post made me sad. Dude, beauty is ONLY skin deep. Maybe one of these women would be your perfect match. Yes there must be attraction, but you just utterly right them off due to their weight? My momma always said if you look you can find the beauty in everyone. I think that is mainly true (Hitler being the exception, dang Hitler!). We all get older and parts of us sag, we get wrinkly, etc. Personality pretty much always stays the same!

^^^^
This more people need to start thinking like this gentlemen..

A lot of people are so damn judgmental this days!

SheilaG1963

i'm sure because of your wonderful, sparkling personality the ladies are lining up for you.

Yeah, and they all have really long ears and a broom tail! HEE HAW HEE HAW!!

littlelaura

:noway: whatever and as if :laugh:

Molly_Maguire

This post made me sad. Dude, beauty is ONLY skin deep. Maybe one of these women would be your perfect match. Yes there must be attraction, but you just utterly right them off due to their weight? My momma always said if you look you can find the beauty in everyone. I think that is mainly true (Hitler being the exception, dang Hitler!). We all get older and parts of us sag, we get wrinkly, etc. Personality pretty much always stays the same!

This is all true, and I totally agree. Looks are certainly not everything. There is beauty in everyone, BUT!!

a woman (and man!) should love and take care of themselves and their bodies before they should expect to find somebody else to love and care for them, in my opinion. He said all the women who contacted him were morbidly obese, not just a little round. Now, if he was saying "non-supermodels need not apply", then yeah, that would be shallow and wrong. But these women are unhealthy from the sound of it. What's worse: not being attracted to somebody who doesn't take care of their body, or someone who due to health carelessness dies on their SO at an early age?

Candi_land

:noway: Some people just make me wonder if they're retarded. :huh:

BBehnke84

Damn trolls... always causin' a ruckus

Haha...this!

DarthH8

Sooo since it's out there I'm going to admit that I'm not even really sexually attracted to thicker girls. I tried to go there and it was just awkward as hell. I also haven't haven't two consecutive nights of hanging out with the same girl for 5 years. So see where that gets me?

And to the forum people I respect I'm sorry I'm a *kitten* like that, I really am. It's not cool judging compatibility from the outside first :-(

BBehnke84

This post made me sad. Dude, beauty is ONLY skin deep. Maybe one of these women would be your perfect match. Yes there must be attraction, but you just utterly right them off due to their weight? My momma always said if you look you can find the beauty in everyone. I think that is mainly true (Hitler being the exception, dang Hitler!). We all get older and parts of us sag, we get wrinkly, etc. Personality pretty much always stays the same!

This is all true, and I totally agree. Looks are certainly not everything. There is beauty in everyone, BUT!!

a woman (and man!) should love and take care of themselves and their bodies before they should expect to find somebody else to love and care for them, in my opinion. He said all the women who contacted him were morbidly obese, not just a little round. Now, if he was saying "non-supermodels need not apply", then yeah, that would be shallow and wrong. But these women are unhealthy from the sound of it. What's worse: not being attracted to somebody who doesn't take care of their body, or someone who due to health carelessness dies on their SO at an early age?

I couldn't have said this any better...bravo

life_of_lou

Dude everyone's entitled to how they view things. If thats how you see it then dont respond to the person making them feel bad. You entitled to chase after what you want, its your life so live it how you want.

Too every one calling him a troll-

Leave the guy alone- this forum shouldn't be taken to seriously. hes not attacking anyone. hes just expressing himself. Everyone has there own views and so he should have his.

Me- personally , I look for someone fun and honest. Thanks all i need.

BBehnke84

i'm sure because of your wonderful, sparkling personality the ladies are lining up for you.

Burn...

ladymiseryali

Trollhole

You gotta pay the troll toll,
To get into that boy's hole
You gotta pay the troll toll
to get in!

Laces_0ut

Trollhole

You gotta pay the troll toll,
To get into that boy's hole
You gotta pay the troll toll
to get in!

best musical ever!

leehgee89

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Molly_Maguire

Trollhole

You gotta pay the troll toll,
To get into that boy's hole
You gotta pay the troll toll
to get in!

"No, it's 'soul'!" "That's what I said!"

bettacheckyoself

Dude everyone's entitled to how they view things. If thats how you see it then dont respond to the person making them feel bad. You entitled to chase after what you want, its your life so live it how you want.

Too every one calling him a troll-

Leave the guy alone- this forum shouldn't be taken to seriously. hes not attacking anyone. hes just expressing himself. Everyone has there own views and so he should have his.

Me- personally , I look for someone fun and honest. Thanks all i need.

I am proud to have you on my friend list... = ) well said buddy !