He Deleated me????
Bollywood1981
Posts: 6
So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?
I asked why and he said nothing personal?
Is everyone on here that unsuportave?
Should I have flirted back more?
I'm a little sad about this?
I asked why and he said nothing personal?
Is everyone on here that unsuportave?
Should I have flirted back more?
I'm a little sad about this?
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It seems like you may have been trolled. I don't know the exact circumstances but don't give up, there are so many great people on here. So glad you sent me a FR so far!0
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MFP can be very personal at times, and very impersonal at times. I sometimes delete people out of the blue if they're not very active or supportive on the the site, because I'm pretty honest on here and don't really care to have friends who don't want to share ANYTHING about themselves beyond their username and what they eat. But that doesn't sound like the case with this person, so don't sweat it!0
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Flirted back? What kind of website you think this is? Lol
Just move on don't get hung up on people and focus on your weight loss/ weight gain/ fitness Journey. Best of luck and sorry you felt that attached to them, there are a lot of supportive people on here.0 -
He may have been spooked by your youth and beauty. Or his wife caught him.0
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He may have been spooked by your youth and beauty. Or his wife caught him.0
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He may have been spooked by your youth and beauty. Or his wife caught him.
^ *shurgs* maybe0 -
I don't even notice who deletes me on a site like this, I am sure people have added me then deleted me, but I don't particularly care because in the end, it is the internet. Would drive myself mad if I cared who decides they don't want me on their virtual list, for whatever reason.0
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It sounds like a misunderstanding of intentions. Perhaps you were flirting he was not.0
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I'll pray for you during this hard time.0
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So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?
I asked why and he said nothing personal?
Is everyone on here that unsuportave?
Should I have flirted back more?
I'm a little sad about this?
Sometimes guys, especially older ones on here get hung up on hot young chicks that
Probably wouldn't give them the time of day IRL.
Then they get offended and butthurt if you show interest
in anyone else. Probably an insecure, over sensitive, self absorbed old fart.
Just move on, plenty of GOOD, sincere peeps round here0 -
It sounds like a misunderstanding of intentions. Perhaps you were flirting he was not.
Not likely.....0 -
Bullet = dodged.0
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It sounds like a misunderstanding of intentions. Perhaps you were flirting he was not.
Not likely.....
Was thinking the same... If anything learn from it and move on. DON'T GIVE UP!0 -
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oh my goddddd. laughed way harder than I should have.
you shouldn't worry about it. I've deleted people in the past who didn't speak to me, or who had completely different goals from me. I'm sure it's nothing personal on his part.0 -
So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?
I asked why and he said nothing personal?
Is everyone on here that unsuportave?
Should I have flirted back more?
I'm a little sad about this?
Lol I get randomly deleted by people on here all the time...don't take it personally. There's a ton of people who'd love to be your friend on this site0 -
Flirted back? What kind of website you think this is? Lol0
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Damn , I wonder what would you be like after being dumped by a guy after a week of dating :bigsmile:0
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Bullet = dodged.
^^This^^0 -
oh my goddddd. laughed way harder than I should have.
you shouldn't worry about it. I've deleted people in the past who didn't speak to me, or who had completely different goals from me. I'm sure it's nothing personal on his part.
Did you feel like you had to flirt and it wasn't about fitness? Cause that is a problem!0 -
I have a feeling I know who you may be talking about lol. Creep anyway.0
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I'll pray for you during this hard time.
lol!!!0 -
oh my goddddd. laughed way harder than I should have.
you shouldn't worry about it. I've deleted people in the past who didn't speak to me, or who had completely different goals from me. I'm sure it's nothing personal on his part.
Did you feel like you had to flirt and it wasn't about fitness? Cause that is a problem!
that could have been it, he was flirty and then seemed to stop when I asked a fitness question.
I'm fine, it was just sort of shocking being deleted my second day on here.0 -
Just don't sweat it. Focus on how the tool can help you. The social network is just a side bar in my opinion. Encouraging words are helpful but I depend way more on the real people in my life. Hang in there and work on you! Best wishes!0
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This made me giggle.0 -
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I have a feeling I know who you may be talking about lol. Creep anyway.
are there people on here I should watch out for?0 -
I have a feeling I know who you may be talking about lol. Creep anyway.
are there people on here I should watch out for?
lol oh yes...lots0 -
So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?
I asked why and he said nothing personal?
Is everyone on here that unsuportave?
Should I have flirted back more?
I'm a little sad about this?
I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.
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