He Deleated me????

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  • Greg3705
    Greg3705 Posts: 122 Member
    could just be that he didn't feel you could give him advise or is in the same boat ad him. I like friend that are around my size and age because they can relate to me
  • jasonpclement
    jasonpclement Posts: 146 Member
    people on the internet are scary.
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    My profile says:
    On MFP as in life I like to have fewer, closer friends; I keep a short friends list, so if you're gone for awhile or we don't talk much I may delete you to keep the list concentrated. I will never be offended if you choose to delete me for any reason.

    *shrugs* Don't sweat it, there are a LOT of people here.

    Edited to add: also, I'm married, so I try not to add or keep people who seem to have any sort of sexual interest or really provocative profile pics out of respect for the wife.
  • czardastx
    czardastx Posts: 127 Member
    Don't let it bother you. It looks like there are more good people that replied to you. That should more than make up for one guy deleting you. Keep posting, keep working towards your goal, keeping doing good for yourself.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    If he was actively trying to flirt with you and you weren't responsive about it, then that could very well have been a reason he deleted you.
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    screw him!!! There are cool people on this site and u will get them. Just wait. I was here like two months before I scored at least one COOL one.......
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?

    I asked why and he said nothing personal?

    Is everyone on here that unsuportave?

    Should I have flirted back more?

    I'm a little sad about this?

    I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

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    That is absolutely horrifying.
  • ImperfectedBeauty
    ImperfectedBeauty Posts: 124 Member
    Being thats its your second day im not sure why he would have deleted you, but there are people that can be quite unsupportive on here. Personally, I only delete people when they are unactive (havent logged in for weeks).
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
    So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?

    I asked why and he said nothing personal?

    Is everyone on here that unsuportave? Wait...wha??? You ask this on your second day???

    Should I have flirted back more? Why flirt in the first place let alone more?? Did you want to flirt? Are you looking to flirt with people?

    I'm a little sad about this? Are you asking or telling?

    IF you're hurt over one person deleting you on a public forum, then you're not going to last long.
  • etoiles_argentees
    etoiles_argentees Posts: 2,827 Member
    So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?

    I asked why and he said nothing personal?

    Is everyone on here that unsuportave?

    Should I have flirted back more?

    I'm a little sad about this?


    I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

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    He's insane...don't friend him.
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?

    I asked why and he said nothing personal?

    Is everyone on here that unsuportave?

    Should I have flirted back more?

    I'm a little sad about this?


    I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

    1732587_o.gif

    He's insane...don't friend him.

    Jealous type?
  • Maybe he has other preferences but its not totally about you so if I were you, I wouldn't worry about it. There are lots of people here who are more willing to give support and stick around.

    I know it sucks but being deleted is part of online life.
  • kencord
    kencord Posts: 6 Member
    Just keep the positive people around and keep focused on what u want to accomplish. I've noticed so far this site has a lot of people that help and generally care, which is great! P.s. don't worry about weird old men lol
  • I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

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    LOL :laugh: :laugh:
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

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    LOL :laugh: :laugh:

    Friend Request sent.
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
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    It was TOTALLY this guy!
  • etoiles_argentees
    etoiles_argentees Posts: 2,827 Member
    So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?

    I asked why and he said nothing personal?

    Is everyone on here that unsuportave?

    Should I have flirted back more?

    I'm a little sad about this?


    I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

    1732587_o.gif

    He's insane...don't friend him.

    Jealous type?

    :P
  • I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

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    LOL :laugh: :laugh:

    Friend Request sent.

    that's really creepy, but it did make me lol
  • niwrehs
    niwrehs Posts: 11 Member
    Weird feeiing yes I thought that is how people are today no more good bye's Just a silent retreat. Just be yourself
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    Maybe he goes on drunk random deleting binges like one of my MFP friends..
  • AJ_Pete
    AJ_Pete Posts: 863 Member
    So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?

    I asked why and he said nothing personal?

    Is everyone on here that unsuportave?

    Should I have flirted back more?

    I'm a little sad about this?


    I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

    1732587_o.gif

    He's insane...don't friend him.

    Mhmmmmm.
  • Maybe he goes on drunk random deleting binges like one of my MFP friends..

    I prefer to drunk add, for the MFP equivalent of waking up next to someone whose name you don't know.
  • LATeagno
    LATeagno Posts: 620 Member
    It's possible that he thought your grammar was off-putting. *shrugs*
  • GlacierFitness
    GlacierFitness Posts: 12 Member
    If you don't use this site as a dating site and only use it to remain focused on healthy living then you should be fine.
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    Also, if this makes you sad, the world must be a very scary place to you! Know what makes me sad? When old people fall. So. Sad.
  • xcmtnracer
    xcmtnracer Posts: 426 Member
    Quick, make up another profile, a fake profile, lead him, friend him, then delete him, then delete the fake account. Then friend me and pm me about how that made you feel.
  • wow i wonder what his deal was but you can add me i need more friends
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    Maybe he goes on drunk random deleting binges like one of my MFP friends..

    It's like you know me... but aren't on my list... *confused*
  • I agree with everyone here. Don't ever give up and if someone here deletes you as a friend then they weren't a friend in the first place. There are great people here on MFP and they provide great support and motivation...Persevere.....
  • _Bob_
    _Bob_ Posts: 1,487 Member
    So it's my second day on this site and I met a nice older man who gave me good advice. we sent messages back and fourt yesterday. and then today out of nowhere he deletes me?

    I asked why and he said nothing personal?

    Is everyone on here that unsuportave?

    Should I have flirted back more?

    I'm a little sad about this?


    I will add you and never ever let you go. I promise.

    1732587_o.gif

    He's insane...don't friend him.

    Mhmmmmm.

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