Can you be "hot" at 40?

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  • mamax5
    mamax5 Posts: 414 Member
    Look up Ernestine Shepherd...she is 75 and smokin hot....seriously she is!
  • Anthonydaman
    Anthonydaman Posts: 854 Member
    I'm 42 and I think I'm hot. I realize that is a biased opinion
  • I have seen people who hold up well, Weeell into there 70's, its all about attitude
  • waskier
    waskier Posts: 254 Member
    What's the alternative? Are we supposed to just give up? I've had trainers at my gym tell me they wish they had my body. At 45 I'll take that as a yes!
  • michaela4910
    michaela4910 Posts: 544 Member
    I wasn't, but I've met many people who were most definitely hot at 40.
  • Pamko57
    Pamko57 Posts: 182
    Absolutely. My body was in better shape at 25, obviously, but I think the 40's are a sexy decade, for both men and women. I felt more confident and comfortable in my own skin, and self-assurance is very sexy. I'm 55 now, overweight and working on it, but I've been told several times lately that I exude sensuality. I'm very married, and I think my husband finds me attractive, and I've noticed as the weight comes off that I'm getting looks and flirting. I'm rocking the gray hair, and again, I think it's about self-assurance and the way you present yourself in the world, at whatever age.
  • Tobi1013
    Tobi1013 Posts: 732 Member
    Dear, god, I hope so!!! I'm inching ever closer to 40 and fully intend to hot by then and for the rest of my days!
  • HiKaren
    HiKaren Posts: 1,306 Member
    How old is Betty White again? :smile:
  • 22colin
    22colin Posts: 31
    absof**kenlutely! just to be clear, I'm not talking about me - there are some REALLY hot women out there well north of 40 :tongue:
  • Lucassvg
    Lucassvg Posts: 190 Member
    Yes and it is great at 52
  • lou1618
    lou1618 Posts: 96 Member
    I'll soon be 50 and a grandmother of 4.....and Im in better shape and health now then when I was 25, so Im thinking that equals hot.lol
  • atsteele
    atsteele Posts: 1,358 Member
    My husband turned 50 last year and I think that he's "hotter than fire". :)
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    How old is Betty White again? :smile:

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  • currierand
    currierand Posts: 155 Member
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    Some people can be hot at 50! Oh, the things I would like to do to Jon Stewart...

    GET IN LINE! :love:
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    sohia loren and sean connery
  • Legs_McGee
    Legs_McGee Posts: 845 Member
    Well I'm sure as hell not working out for my health, pffft.
  • olDave
    olDave Posts: 557 Member
    No can't becuse I'm 59.
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    there are an awful lot of attractive people here in their 40's!

    what a bizarre thread to have to start.
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
    I'm 44 and my wife tells me I'm hot all the time. Granted she's legally blind but...
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Hot falls into that sensual, smoldering thingy, which is beyond just looking good. There some really in shape or attractive women in their 40's that still don't have that super "hot" vibe. IMHO.

    But visually speaking, yes. When can look amazing after 40. Hopefully guys too.
  • triciab79
    triciab79 Posts: 1,713 Member
    I think men over 40 are totally hot... A little salt and pepper going on in the hair and I am a puddle.
  • AmberB519
    AmberB519 Posts: 336 Member
    I sure hope so! Considering I'll be 40 in 6 years, I'd like to think I'd still be considered hot. We shall see! I certainly know there are some guys out there 40 and above that are definitely hot!
  • IsabellaC45
    IsabellaC45 Posts: 137 Member
    I have two words. And they are Pep Guardiola. He is 42 and he is just about the dishiest man ever!
  • Hell yes you can girlfriend......I'm 41 and I know I'm Hot!!! Just Kidding...but really you can be hot at any age...remember age is just a number, it's how you feel inside that matters :)
  • no. you're a cougar, and you're past your prime. get over it.
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    <~39 Hot and sophisticated!
  • DiannaMoorer
    DiannaMoorer Posts: 783 Member
    Of course!!
  • tiggibee
    tiggibee Posts: 1 Member
    Its all about confidence and the way you carry yourself. There are plenty of hot women around at 40, 50, 60 and even 70. just remember...there's a difference between hot and cheap. As an old friend of mine once said " if you want to be treated like a lady then you have to behave like one" :) i keep trying but its hard work.lol :)
  • avababy05
    avababy05 Posts: 930 Member
    HYFR!!!!!!!! Put in the work and you can be hotter at 40 than you were at 20.

    I'm 44 and definatly hotter than at 20! one of these days I'll post a pic : )
  • seepersaud
    seepersaud Posts: 5,759 Member
    Can you be "hot" at 40? I sure hope so, because I turn 40 this summer!