Guys that are a 3 trying to be with girls that are an 8...

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  • matthewsq
    matthewsq Posts: 58 Member
    It's human nature to rate someone based on your opinion. Everyone rates someone but they either choose to say it out loud or not. Please don't lie. you never saw a really really ugly person and didnt think he or she is a 1 or saw a really really beautiful girl or guy and didnt think he/shes a 10.
  • HardRockCamaro
    HardRockCamaro Posts: 147
    I either find someone attractive or not, and their behaviour, personality figures into that.

    I don't give people a number on some scale which is clearly looks based only.
  • mikegl1
    mikegl1 Posts: 238 Member
    After a bit out thought I also don't think I care what others rate me. The only thing that bothers me is rudeness. If I say hi to someone and they give me that look of "creep go away" or "cha right!" that is when it bothers me. Other then that I treat people well and if I say hi and they don't respond in a way that feels friendly I move on. Too many people in this world to pine after ones who don't care to know you.....
  • Hirgy03
    Hirgy03 Posts: 332 Member
    I either find someone attractive or not, and their behaviour, personality figures into that.

    I don't give people a number on some scale which is clearly looks based only.

    ^^^^This^^^^

    Of course, looks figure into it, but personality and the way somebody carries themself can drastically alter their "attractiveness" factor. I have known plenty of women that when all I knew of them was their appearance, (and I can honestly say I have never looked at anybody and put a 'number' to how attractive they were). Well, anyway, plenty of those women, once I've as much as heard them speak or watched how they react to others around them have become so unattractive to me that i can't even look at them without being almost repulsed.

    I've also known women who, if somebody were to rate them by number based solely on appearance and body, would likely rate quite low. However, I've seen guys of all shapes and sizes almost trample one another to be near them as their confidence, personality and whatnot are so damned attractive that they would almost surely be ranked an 8-10 if the number system were to be applied.

    I will only be with a 10, but that is taking everything into account. (in my case I'm lucky, as my bride-to-be is a "ten" in both appearance, personality and heart). NEVER sell yourself short, and NEVER settle for less than PERFECT FOR YOU
  • Alicia_Monique
    Alicia_Monique Posts: 338 Member
    Blown ****ing away that people STILL rate each other on a scale of 1-10.

    What? Are we 13?
  • pyrowill
    pyrowill Posts: 1,163 Member
    1) Channing Tatum looks like my knee.

    2) Trust people on a dieting forum to obsess over numbers..... :indifferent:

    Shallowest thread ever.
  • Hirgy03
    Hirgy03 Posts: 332 Member
    What? Are we 13?

    13 on a scale of what???? 100????
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Contrary to most girls 8, 9, and 10 self-rated thoughts of grandeur, they are usually about average. Just sayin.

    ^^^ THIS

    It is so true for both genders :-)

    I would also add, that no matter what you really look like, this thread smacks of thinking too much of yourself and not enough of others. But thank you reality TV and Nike.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Blown ****ing away that people STILL rate each other on a scale of 1-10.

    What? Are we 13?

    Off topic. Congrats on the weight loss!
  • LeggyAmericanGirl
    LeggyAmericanGirl Posts: 285 Member
    Always been a three, find a three you can love.
  • HartJames
    HartJames Posts: 789 Member
    If you're frustrated with dating then I believe you need to change something within yourself. Work on you, be the best you possible and learn to be happy alone. Amazing things happen when you love yourself first :)
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,733 Member
    Blown ****ing away that people STILL rate each other on a scale of 1-10.

    What? Are we 13?

    i rate your post a 7.
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    Blown ****ing away that people STILL rate each other on a scale of 1-10.

    What? Are we 13?

    i rate your post a 7.

    I dunno about you but I'm a 13. :P
  • beautifulbeast11
    beautifulbeast11 Posts: 202 Member
    Blown ****ing away that people STILL rate each other on a scale of 1-10.

    What? Are we 13?

    i rate your post a 7.

    I dunno about you but I'm a 13. :P

    This... this right here was class-ic.
  • Icelandic_Saga
    Icelandic_Saga Posts: 2,926 Member
    I would marry Steve Buscemi ♥
  • april1445
    april1445 Posts: 334
    I totally get what you're saying. It's always driven me crazy. When I was in my late '30's I took a long break from dating because I was so sick of the guys being ****s (I was about a size 12 at that time, and was more than once reminded by guys that I was OK because I wasn't "sloppy" or "ugly".) Once I figured out that I was the common denominator, and stopped letting those guys into my life, I met my husband, and he's just great.

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