Why are people on the internet...

Matt_Wild
Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
...so rude an obnoxious?

Everywhere I go, I see the flaming and hate, why is it so prevalent on the internet?

Most of the things you see and read are mindblowing in terms of the bitterness and hate, and vicious bile that comes from peoples finger tips.

Why don't people hold back at all?
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  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    Because it's basically anonymous and they feel like they can.
  • mq68
    mq68 Posts: 118 Member
    ditto what hbrittingham said. people lash out because their lives are less than stellar (jealousy probably) and they do not think they will be held accountable... My mother always said if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. Karma is a b* and I believe it will come back on them ten fold.
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member
    It's easy to be a tough guy or an obnoxious bish on the net. They can't get the sh1t slapped out of them online.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    I'm not referring to me alone... everywhere!
  • Hbazzell
    Hbazzell Posts: 899 Member
    because they are hiding behind the computer screen.
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
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    I think people feel safer doing things anonymously. Plus, society in general is just ruder. Have you SEEN the crap that passes for entertainment these days?

    People should care for one another, but we no longer seem to be teaching them how to. :(
  • tripod271
    tripod271 Posts: 112 Member
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    I think people feel safer doing things anonymously. Plus, society in general is just ruder. Have you SEEN the crap that passes for entertainment these days?

    People should care for one another, but we no longer seem to be teaching them how to. :(
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    Because "I" can say snarky, rude and offensive things to your muscly avatar, and if "you" punch me in my scrawny avatar, "your" fist will hurt and "your" computer might break. "I" won't feel a thing.

    In real life, I'm pretty sure I'd be as nice as anything to you because your real fist would hurt my real scrawny. And I'm a lot more insecure in real life.


    (I say "I" and "you" purely rhetorically, and not meaning you and me, of course. I don't like it when I find myself being snarky on the net. For me, it's a good reason to step away.)
  • It's easy to be a tough guy or an obnoxious bish on the net. They can't get the sh1t slapped out of them online.

    ^^ This
  • NutellaAddict
    NutellaAddict Posts: 1,258 Member
    I hate you.
  • because people are meanies
  • NutellaAddict
    NutellaAddict Posts: 1,258 Member
    because people are meanies

    especially you! Breaking hearts and all.
  • Iron_Duchess
    Iron_Duchess Posts: 429 Member
    Because a lot of people are lonely and bitter and the only interaction that they have with others is through the internet; therefore, they use the opportunity to pour all those feeling toward the “world” in general with rude comments. They can’t help it, what’s in the heart is what will come out of their mouths… (or fingers).
  • DamnImASexyBitch
    DamnImASexyBitch Posts: 740 Member
    Because they have no personal connection to the people they are unleashing on. You can tolerate someone's idiosyncrasies much better if you have some type of relationship. Strangers on the internet ehhh not so much. So when someone is being stupid you tend to have a lower level of acceptance and endurance for the behavior, and call them out on it.
  • lannlynn
    lannlynn Posts: 72 Member
    It really make you wonder what kind of person they are in real life! Are they really that way, deep down?
  • BadAzzBea
    BadAzzBea Posts: 461
    It's easy to be a tough guy or an obnoxious bish on the net. They can't get the sh1t slapped out of them online.
    [/quote

    Lmao.. Imma virtually slap you into next week... but yes ^^^this

    hi JJ
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    hey matt, you look like a guy that knows his way around the gym, is working hard, and getting great results.

    so let me ask you a queston:


    why all the butt hurt?
  • Chief_Rocka
    Chief_Rocka Posts: 4,710 Member
    roid rage
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member
    It's easy to be a tough guy or an obnoxious bish on the net. They can't get the sh1t slapped out of them online.
    [/quote

    Lmao.. Imma virtually slap you into next week... but yes ^^^this

    hi JJ

    Lol :flowerforyou:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    People are rude everywhere. I hardly notice it on the internet.
  • downsizinghoss
    downsizinghoss Posts: 1,035 Member
    a reaction to the crazy amount of whinging that goes on out there. there are people getting upset about every little thing that is said.

    If you know you are going to offend someone anyways, might as well make it fun :-)
  • SageGoddess320
    SageGoddess320 Posts: 2,589 Member
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  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Awww, you need some tissue, little fella?

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  • DrMAvDPhD
    DrMAvDPhD Posts: 2,097 Member
    I don't think people are more rude on the internet than they are in person. Work in a customer service field for a while, you'll quickly realize people in general are mean, selfish, and stupid.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Because it's better than punching a real person in the face?
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    Because they have no personal connection to the people they are unleashing on. You can tolerate someone's idiosyncrasies much better if you have some type of relationship. Strangers on the internet ehhh not so much. So when someone is being stupid you tend to have a lower level of acceptance and endurance for the behavior, and call them out on it.

    ^^This. Also this:

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  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    I hit on ladies on the internet more then I do in real life, does that count??
  • ♥Faerie♥
    ♥Faerie♥ Posts: 14,053 Member
    Humans Suck
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    That's funny, that's similar to how I feel. I often wonder, "Why are people so ignorant and stupid on the internet?" and then I look away from my computer screen and realize, nope, they're stupid and ignorant everywhere; I'm just exposed to more on the INTERNET SUPER HIGHWAY.
  • Tank_Girl
    Tank_Girl Posts: 372 Member
    Im a lot nicer on the internet than in real life...

    Offline im very sarcastic and grumpy and mean... Im that mean people actually think im joking sometimes.
    Go figure!