I've lost my boobs....

I am struggling really hard to love my body. I've lost 30 pounds but I used to be a DD bra size and now I'm a B. I've never been this small and I although there are other parts of my body I love more now, I'm just depressed about the whole thing. Are there any other women out there in this situation where you lost a lot of weight and your boobs? How'd you cope? Any suggestions?
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  • Gracerrr
    Gracerrr Posts: 139 Member
    It's a difficult thing to do, but you just have to love your own body, especially when you are reaching your goals and maintaining better health! :)

    While going from a DD to a size B sounds major, I'm sure that your body is more proportional all around now. If you still look like your profile picture, your chest looks great. I don't think there is anything that anyone else can say to make you love your own body, but personally, I think you should!
  • Gallowmere1984
    Gallowmere1984 Posts: 6,626 Member
    My wife is dealing with the same thing. She's dealing with the loss by finally coming to the realization that boobs are pretty much useless when compared to the things she is gaining from training (muscle, endurance, etc.).
  • I am a 40DDD.
    I have 100 + pounds to lose to be a healthy weight.

    I know I will lose mine, probably drastically.

    And I am already sad about this and it hasn't even started.
  • Danni3ll3
    Danni3ll3 Posts: 365 Member
    I have a different point of view. I wish I could lose more. I have always had lots up top and continue to do so even with being almost 50 lbs down.
  • Qlow
    Qlow Posts: 92
    I've only lost 9 lb in the last two weeks, but mine didn't change at all, so I consider myself lucky. My girlfriend lost a bra size while losing 9 lb, so I guess we just lose differently.
  • divemunkey
    divemunkey Posts: 288 Member
    Half the weight you lost was boobage. I bet your back feels awesome not dragging that around any more.
  • kathyms13
    kathyms13 Posts: 497 Member
    Half the weight you lost was boobage. I bet your back feels awesome not dragging that around any more.

    ive lost boobs but thank god im not having them put strain on my back, ok im old, my skin isnt elastic any more but you cant see that in my skinny jeans and tops.
  • Don't worry, I'll help you look for them OP
  • Aviva92
    Aviva92 Posts: 2,333 Member
    I was an A or AA at both my highest and lowest weight. What's wrong with being a B? I'd be happy with that.

    Assuming your avatar is a current pic of you, your boobs look good on your body.
  • Ive lost 50lb and all I've gone down is a back size on my Bra from a 40J to a 38J so it doesn't always go off your boobs! mines all gone off my waist and hips mainly!
  • kbitzonefour
    kbitzonefour Posts: 114 Member
    Buy some.

    40D to 34B and I'm probably going to.
  • skrakalaka
    skrakalaka Posts: 338 Member
    Padded push up bras, and focus on the good stuff. Or buy some.
  • roguex_1979
    roguex_1979 Posts: 247 Member
    I wish I could lose mine.
  • flabtofabgirl
    flabtofabgirl Posts: 3 Member
    Victoria Secret, up two cup size bras! I love those! :) But I'm also naturally large. ;)
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    Went from DD to B (actually I'm probably an A now, but I refuse to get a new bra and find out). At first it was rough, but now I realize they don't get in the way when I workout. Plus, I have more of an hour glass shape with the muscle I've built than I would have had being skinny with big boobs.
  • It's all about proportion. Your boobs looked great on your body!
  • Faye_Anderson
    Faye_Anderson Posts: 1,495 Member
    I know what you mean, I've gone from a UK 42f to 36e, doesn't sound too bad but there's a HUGE difference, to size, shape and feel,I still have about 40lbs to go but I'm just about learning to love them again :flowerforyou:
  • Silver_Star
    Silver_Star Posts: 1,351 Member
    Im supposed to be a 36C....i dont want to lose my booberries!!! :sick:
  • Erikalynne18
    Erikalynne18 Posts: 558 Member
    I wish mine would go down :( Then I could find some bras/bikini tops! Oh well, I guess it all depends how much fatty tissue or muscle tissue is hidden in there. Can't control where you lose unfortunately, however you just need to learn to love the new you!! :D

    You look fantastic from your profile pic!! :)
  • SassyCalyGirl
    SassyCalyGirl Posts: 1,932 Member
    a B is not small-DD is just huge! Embrace the new you!
  • BigDnSW
    BigDnSW Posts: 641 Member
    My wife is on this trek with me. She is 5' 2" and has gone from 150 to 135 and looking hot! She went from a 36D to a 34C. I don't care one bit. I'd rather have a healthy wife for the long term than worship the rack.

    You look great!
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    I went from a DD to a small B.
    I love it. They seem to look better now IMO. I'm more proportionate and they don't get in the way.
    Plus, there are a lot of cute tops that I can wear now that I couldn't before.
  • I'm sure the pros outweigh the cons (loss of boobs), look at the big picture. Besides, you haven't lost them, you still have boobs.

    I'm an A - always have been. I learnt to accept them, perfection doesn't exist.
  • DaniH826
    DaniH826 Posts: 1,335 Member
    Assuming your avatar is a current pic of you, your boobs look good on your body.

    ^^ What she said.
  • BobOki
    BobOki Posts: 245 Member
    Found, one pair of DD breasts.

    Seriously, it is no secret that the fatter you are the larger your breasts will be on your body (yes yes not always). That extra weight gets distributed all over, and breasts are a big recipient of it quite often.

    So, lets get to the real question, do you prefer large breasts, or a slender body? Pick one, don't complain too much about the other, be happy with the one you chose!

    In other news, GRATS!!! on your 30 lbs loss, that is HUGE!
  • Natashaa1991
    Natashaa1991 Posts: 866 Member
    i've lost my boobs, totally worth it when you get gorgeous legs and tummy, so don't worry :)
  • mandycasey
    mandycasey Posts: 274 Member
    Lost mine too - still have plently of weight to lose so i'll prob lose whats left too - gutted! :sad: xx
  • Pspetal
    Pspetal Posts: 426 Member
    My bust girth measure went down from 40" to 37" but my cup size went up from AA to C. It's the weirdest thing. I now actually have boobs, so I love that, but now they kinda hurt when I do heavy cardio... I love-hate my new boobs I guess :laugh:
  • mmddwechanged
    mmddwechanged Posts: 1,687 Member
    I like losing a bit, makes me enjoy my runs more:smile:
  • Saffyra
    Saffyra Posts: 607 Member
    Push up bras are magic!

    Sadly, I have the opposite problem. I'm 5'1" and mine are 34E. I can never make them look smaller and its hard to find tops. I cant wear button up blouses because its impossible to find ones that fit in the waist AND the chest.
    And I always feel like I look fatter than I am (especially in pictures).

    I'd say its better to be a B with an awesome push up bra when you need it because you'll always look better in clothes :)