Ladies, what qualities do you like in Men?

dodihere

Money

VorJoshigan

I suspect that for a lot of women, the right qualities in a man are like obscenity. Hard to describe in detail, but they know it when they see it.

Here's a question though - do you women think you can tell when a guy has studied a list like has been posted in this thread and is attempting to be that?

BeingAwesome247

I dunno....so far the men I have been attracted to have proven to be d-bags haha

Let ya know when I find one that sparks my interest

justicer68

I don't know to be honest. So far I haven't found Mr. Right...everytime I think I might they turn into oops I'm sorry you wanted a relationship?? I thought...

I've actually have stopped looking and have actually wondered why the heck I did in the first place. I now figure if it happens it happens if not it will one day. My hopes are still high. ;-)

SquidandWhale

I suspect that for a lot of women, the right qualities in a man are like obscenity. Hard to describe in detail, but they know it when they see it.

Here's a question though - do you women think you can tell when a guy has studied a list like has been posted in this thread and is attempting to be that?

Yes! They come off as too smoozy/charming, and I loathe that. Charm isn't a naturally occurring human trait, so instead of telling myself they're charming, I get super suspicious and start to question why they're trying to charm me.

lolagurlx0x0

Someone who isn't afraid to be who they are, talkative, open minded, intelligent, has a sense of humor, relaxed and confident. Interesting more than anything else.

You want a woman lol

runwmeNC

Updated list and self evaluation..... some good... some bad...

Honesty.........most of time, most likely to white lie to preserve anothers self confidence or feelings
down to earth...... yes
makes me laugh so hard I snort..... Yes.. I'm freaking hilarious, just friend me to see the goofy antics on my wall
a good kisser....... I enjoy kissing with partial open mouth, come at me like a pez despenser and we won't be kissing much
intelligent........ yes
Manly Man....... somewhat, I like DOING things as opposed to tv, but don't watch a lot of sports (will play them though)
into sports..... I'll play church league softball or volleyball with friends. Do go to ECU pirates football games (season ticket holder)
outdoors...... Love the outdoors, especially Jetskis, boating, 4wheelers, Harleys and flying
Make you feel feminine......You are feminine.... I'll let you know how much that is appreciated
sense of humor........Absolutely, I wear an easy smile and do it often.
stability...... I have a stable career, but love doing spontaneous things. Home in North Carolina, but see myself moving to Florida within 18 months
decent communicator...... very communicative ( hence this thread)
naked ALL THE TIME...... I do enjoy doing the helicopter thing when getting out of shower, but dress to avoid scaring the kids
6 pack....... was a keg, currently a bulge, working on flat to 6pack .. lost 50 lbs in 4 months and committed to fitnss
6 figure income ....... on good years, on bad it can drop as low as mid 60s
head of hair......full thick hair
perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well....very intuitive, creative lover, will be following the cues your body gives
to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved...... sure, and want that in return
has integrity ...... I'd rather give you a dollar than steal a dime. I'm on time and if tell you something will follow through
care of themselves...... Not always, but doing better. Good hygiene though
similar interests.... tough one.. I love water, skiing, good movies, books, not good at sitting on beach or fishing, lets keep it moving
runner ........ yes , its how Im getting in shape
affiliation with fitness ...... yep
like movies .....yep, Les Miserables was most recent and I did shed a few tears at multiple points during movie
confidence..... yes most times , if not completely confident, will fake it until comfortable
success..... yes
ambition...... Not as much as used to, Im a recovering work-a-holic and now have learned to delegate and enjoy life more
high sex drive.......moderate
good family...... BIG TIME! my biggest attribute and love of life is the every other weekend I get my daughter
relationship skills........sure, we can get along
fast cars......Yes !!! FAST everything ! My 12 yr old daughter first solo driving in fast car. She even flew a plane sunday night
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGa8k0YuAgk

suave moves..... I try to pull it off, but sometimes I do it horribly wrong..still can laugh at myself
nerdy guy you can play Halo 4...... Not much into video games
treat me like I deserve to be treated..... ok, fold my shirt and make me a sammwhich haha
partner in all things.....I will be sitting beside you handcuffed to police bench if it comes to that
Somewho who will walk through life with..... or we can run
call you on your *kitten* ..........absolutely! Ive got a keen eye for bs and not afraid to be called out on it, or call you out on it
give undying support....... I know you need that, but little patience if someone is being extremely negative
Skill and ability ....... Jack of all trades and a master of none..... other than --bation.. I'm totally a master of that
pull their own weight.... isn't as hard as used to be due to weight loss lol
nice smooth shaved head........ Never gonna happen
emotionally available.........yep
let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm..... my butt is yours
make you laugh.... will do best
smiles a lot .... and I do it often
holds intelligent conversations.... sorry I was watching tv, what was it you said ?
passionate...... about somethings
make sure you're happy..... will do best
listens..... ok ok I'm listening now
Computer hacking skills..... Wiz with spreadsheets, other things take longer, not a good hacker
brings six pack of beer...... how about a bottle of pinot instead?
a hobby that takes them out of the house.... got a man cave out in the barn where you can hear me beating and banging away
dirty mind ....seriously .. I'm a dude... ofcourse
loyalty...... yes unless you get all crazy and spiteful, life is too short
Physical attraction.... Lots of pics... find me attractive ?
http://s178.beta.photobucket.com/user/runwme271/library/

self sufficient.....yes
independant ... I can do it by myself but prefer company
kind ....yes
patience of a saint..... with kids yes, with idiots no
witty ..... yep
smart guy.... e=mc(2)
intellectual conversationist..... about somethings, not much into politics
loves to travel.......love to travel!
adventurous.....hell yeah!
love your crazy side..... Just how crazy are we talking
nunchuck skills..... not really
bowhunting skills..... not really
Flirty ( but not too much) .....yes...( possibly too much, but I am single and looking, will tone it down once in relationship)
Gonads.....sure
HARDWORKING....yes
spoil you.... that is 2 way street
spend $$$$....... on things we do together and clothes
Family oriented....absolutely
good sense of humor..... haven't we covered this already?
respectful.... Momma taught me to say yes Ma'am and yes sir
thoughtful..... the little things make it count
spontaneity...so much about to bust
responsible..... yes, a little immature, yes also.. everytime ive gotten hurt it started with "hey ya'w , watch this"
pulse..... yep
not overly jealous...... nope.. be with me because you want to , not because I try to make you
gorgeous eyes.....crystal blue
tiger in the sack.... oh yeah I'd eat you up
non-drooler .... depends on your outfit
ties me up ....My home gym is called " the red room of pain" you do the math
does dirty things to you...... When no kids around
talkative...sometimes, but sometimes like to listen
open minded..........wait??? you want to put your finger where???
generosity..... More to those who need but dont ask
chivalry..... let me get that door for you ( and check)
someone who is well read/cultured.... stretch to be considered "well read" unless harry potter books back in the day count
cooks ......really enjoy cooking!
cleans ...... me , you and Consualia will keep house tidy. Kids taught to pick up after themselves
makes you ridiculously excited...... haha I'll try
understands you.... again, I'll try
trusts you....wouldn't be with you if I didn't
handyman ( surprised to see this so far down the list) ....I can fix things better than McGuyver
Tall.....6'2
handsome face....momma thinks so
fit body...... working on it Got up to 42 waist pants at largest, now down to 36/34 jeans and dropping
Nice teeth ......Got all my teeth and keep em brushed...flossing not so much
rock-hard body .... if you are feeling my knee or package after properly motivated
make you feel like a naughty girl .....every thing in its time
Gamer.....not so much
Puts God first in his life... Believe in God, go to church occasionally 20x per year, can't say I put him first always...More active during softball season ;-/

Mustang_Susie

Puts God first in his life.
The rest will follow and he'll be perfect for the woman God has for him.

Cris240

unlike men, who's primary interest seems to be physical attrativeness and sex, all women are different in what they want.

for example, i'd rather have a yesman than a boyfriend

Guines9

It depends on the woman, whether she is extrover, introvert, or pleasure seeking. Then after a ittle while, they change their minds.

jenbit

Stamina

hph442

Rich, deaf, mute, girth

lapinu390

The things that attract me most in people are: their sense of humour, similar interests, attractive features (i love dark hair and green/blue eyes), a nice body (for me its not too slender, but average sized with a six pack and some nice arm and leg muscle) and somebody who is caring and giving.

Mustang_Susie

It depends on the woman, whether she is extrover, introvert, or pleasure seeking. Then after a ittle while, they change their minds.

Exactly
Well maybe not
I'm not sure
It depends on my mood.

LaSutopia

Updated list and self evaluation..... some good... some bad...

Honesty.........most of time, most likely to white lie to preserve anothers self confidence or feelings
down to earth...... yes
makes me laugh so hard I snort..... Yes.. I'm freaking hilarious, just friend me to see the goofy antics on my wall
a good kisser....... I enjoy kissing with partial open mouth, come at me like a pez despenser and we won't be kissing much
intelligent........ yes
Manly Man....... somewhat, I like DOING things as opposed to tv, but don't watch a lot of sports (will play them though)
into sports..... I'll play church league softball or volleyball with friends. Do go to ECU pirates football games (season ticket holder)
outdoors...... Love the outdoors, especially Jetskis, boating, 4wheelers, Harleys and flying
Make you feel feminine......You are feminine.... I'll let you know how much that is appreciated
sense of humor........Absolutely, I wear an easy smile and do it often.
stability...... I have a stable career, but love doing spontaneous things. Home in North Carolina, but see myself moving to Florida within 18 months
decent communicator...... very communicative ( hence this thread)
naked ALL THE TIME...... I do enjoy doing the helicopter thing when getting out of shower, but dress to avoid scaring the kids
6 pack....... was a keg, currently a bulge, working on flat to 6pack .. lost 50 lbs in 4 months and committed to fitnss
6 figure income ....... on good years, on bad it can drop as low as mid 60s
head of hair......full thick hair
perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well....very intuitive, creative lover, will be following the cues your body gives
to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved...... sure, and want that in return
has integrity ...... I'd rather give you a dollar than steal a dime. I'm on time and if tell you something will follow through
care of themselves...... Not always, but doing better. Good hygiene though
similar interests.... tough one.. I love water, skiing, good movies, books, not good at sitting on beach or fishing, lets keep it moving
runner ........ yes , its how Im getting in shape
affiliation with fitness ...... yep
like movies .....yep, Les Miserables was most recent and I did shed a few tears at multiple points during movie
confidence..... yes most times , if not completely confident, will fake it until comfortable
success..... yes
ambition...... Not as much as used to, Im a recovering work-a-holic and now have learned to delegate and enjoy life more
high sex drive.......moderate
good family...... BIG TIME! my biggest attribute and love of life is the every other weekend I get my daughter
relationship skills........sure, we can get along
fast cars......Yes !!! FAST everything ! My 12 yr old daughter first solo driving in fast car. She even flew a plane sunday night
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGa8k0YuAgk

suave moves..... I try to pull it off, but sometimes I do it horribly wrong..still can laugh at myself
nerdy guy you can play Halo 4...... Not much into video games
treat me like I deserve to be treated..... ok, fold my shirt and make me a sammwhich haha
partner in all things.....I will be sitting beside you handcuffed to police bench if it comes to that
Somewho who will walk through life with..... or we can run
call you on your *kitten* ..........absolutely! Ive got a keen eye for bs and not afraid to be called out on it, or call you out on it
give undying support....... I know you need that, but little patience if someone is being extremely negative
Skill and ability ....... Jack of all trades and a master of none..... other than --bation.. I'm totally a master of that
pull their own weight.... isn't as hard as used to be due to weight loss lol
nice smooth shaved head........ Never gonna happen
emotionally available.........yep
let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm..... my butt is yours
make you laugh.... will do best
smiles a lot .... and I do it often
holds intelligent conversations.... sorry I was watching tv, what was it you said ?
passionate...... about somethings
make sure you're happy..... will do best
listens..... ok ok I'm listening now
Computer hacking skills..... Wiz with spreadsheets, other things take longer, not a good hacker
brings six pack of beer...... how about a bottle of pinot instead?
a hobby that takes them out of the house.... got a man cave out in the barn where you can hear me beating and banging away
dirty mind ....seriously .. I'm a dude... ofcourse
loyalty...... yes unless you get all crazy and spiteful, life is too short
Physical attraction.... Lots of pics... find me attractive ?
http://s178.beta.photobucket.com/user/runwme271/library/

self sufficient.....yes
independant ... I can do it by myself but prefer company
kind ....yes
patience of a saint..... with kids yes, with idiots no
witty ..... yep
smart guy.... e=mc(2)
intellectual conversationist..... about somethings, not much into politics
loves to travel.......love to travel!
adventurous.....hell yeah!
love your crazy side..... Just how crazy are we talking
nunchuck skills..... not really
bowhunting skills..... not really
Flirty ( but not too much) .....yes...( possibly too much, but I am single and looking, will tone it down once in relationship)
Gonads.....sure
HARDWORKING....yes
spoil you.... that is 2 way street
spend $$$$....... on things we do together and clothes
Family oriented....absolutely
good sense of humor..... haven't we covered this already?
respectful.... Momma taught me to say yes Ma'am and yes sir
thoughtful..... the little things make it count
spontaneity...so much about to bust
responsible..... yes, a little immature, yes also.. everytime ive gotten hurt it started with "hey ya'w , watch this"
pulse..... yep
not overly jealous...... nope.. be with me because you want to , not because I try to make you
gorgeous eyes.....crystal blue
tiger in the sack.... oh yeah I'd eat you up
non-drooler .... depends on your outfit
ties me up ....My home gym is called " the red room of pain" you do the math
does dirty things to you...... When no kids around
talkative...sometimes, but sometimes like to listen
open minded..........wait??? you want to put your finger where???
generosity..... More to those who need but dont ask
chivalry..... let me get that door for you ( and check)
someone who is well read/cultured.... stretch to be considered "well read" unless harry potter books back in the day count
cooks ......really enjoy cooking!
cleans ...... me , you and Consualia will keep house tidy. Kids taught to pick up after themselves
makes you ridiculously excited...... haha I'll try
understands you.... again, I'll try
trusts you....wouldn't be with you if I didn't
handyman ( surprised to see this so far down the list) ....I can fix things better than McGuyver
Tall.....6'2
handsome face....momma thinks so
fit body...... working on it Got up to 42 waist pants at largest, now down to 36/34 jeans and dropping
Nice teeth ......Got all my teeth and keep em brushed...flossing not so much
rock-hard body .... if you are feeling my knee or package after properly motivated
make you feel like a naughty girl .....every thing in its time
Gamer.....not so much
Puts God first in his life... Believe in God, go to church occasionally 20x per year, can't say I put him first always...More active during softball season ;-/

Well I have not looked at your pictures yet but you sound like a keeper to me! Love it!

ISABELCOADY55

any guy over 6 foot who isn't socially inept will do for me. :laugh:

JavaSparrow

-CRAZY good at math
-likes cats

sniker_doodles

easy going, adventures, sweet, funny, cuddler, good cook, and passion in bed

runwmeNC

any guy over 6 foot who isn't socially inept will do for me. :laugh:

LOL

Vain_Witch

Updated list and self evaluation..... some good... some bad...

Honesty.........most of time, most likely to white lie to preserve anothers self confidence or feelings
down to earth...... yes
makes me laugh so hard I snort..... Yes.. I'm freaking hilarious, just friend me to see the goofy antics on my wall
a good kisser....... I enjoy kissing with partial open mouth, come at me like a pez despenser and we won't be kissing much
intelligent........ yes
Manly Man....... somewhat, I like DOING things as opposed to tv, but don't watch a lot of sports (will play them though)
into sports..... I'll play church league softball or volleyball with friends. Do go to ECU pirates football games (season ticket holder)
outdoors...... Love the outdoors, especially Jetskis, boating, 4wheelers, Harleys and flying
Make you feel feminine......You are feminine.... I'll let you know how much that is appreciated
sense of humor........Absolutely, I wear an easy smile and do it often.
stability...... I have a stable career, but love doing spontaneous things. Home in North Carolina, but see myself moving to Florida within 18 months
decent communicator...... very communicative ( hence this thread)
naked ALL THE TIME...... I do enjoy doing the helicopter thing when getting out of shower, but dress to avoid scaring the kids
6 pack....... was a keg, currently a bulge, working on flat to 6pack .. lost 50 lbs in 4 months and committed to fitnss
6 figure income ....... on good years, on bad it can drop as low as mid 60s
head of hair......full thick hair
perhaps a skilled tongue would be necessary as well....very intuitive, creative lover, will be following the cues your body gives
to make you feel desirable, wanted and loved...... sure, and want that in return
has integrity ...... I'd rather give you a dollar than steal a dime. I'm on time and if tell you something will follow through
care of themselves...... Not always, but doing better. Good hygiene though
similar interests.... tough one.. I love water, skiing, good movies, books, not good at sitting on beach or fishing, lets keep it moving
runner ........ yes , its how Im getting in shape
affiliation with fitness ...... yep
like movies .....yep, Les Miserables was most recent and I did shed a few tears at multiple points during movie
confidence..... yes most times , if not completely confident, will fake it until comfortable
success..... yes
ambition...... Not as much as used to, Im a recovering work-a-holic and now have learned to delegate and enjoy life more
high sex drive.......moderate
good family...... BIG TIME! my biggest attribute and love of life is the every other weekend I get my daughter
relationship skills........sure, we can get along
fast cars......Yes !!! FAST everything ! My 12 yr old daughter first solo driving in fast car. She even flew a plane sunday night
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGa8k0YuAgk

suave moves..... I try to pull it off, but sometimes I do it horribly wrong..still can laugh at myself
nerdy guy you can play Halo 4...... Not much into video games
treat me like I deserve to be treated..... ok, fold my shirt and make me a sammwhich haha
partner in all things.....I will be sitting beside you handcuffed to police bench if it comes to that
Somewho who will walk through life with..... or we can run
call you on your *kitten* ..........absolutely! Ive got a keen eye for bs and not afraid to be called out on it, or call you out on it
give undying support....... I know you need that, but little patience if someone is being extremely negative
Skill and ability ....... Jack of all trades and a master of none..... other than --bation.. I'm totally a master of that
pull their own weight.... isn't as hard as used to be due to weight loss lol
nice smooth shaved head........ Never gonna happen
emotionally available.........yep
let you put your feet under his butt to keep them warm..... my butt is yours
make you laugh.... will do best
smiles a lot .... and I do it often
holds intelligent conversations.... sorry I was watching tv, what was it you said ?
passionate...... about somethings
make sure you're happy..... will do best
listens..... ok ok I'm listening now
Computer hacking skills..... Wiz with spreadsheets, other things take longer, not a good hacker
brings six pack of beer...... how about a bottle of pinot instead?
a hobby that takes them out of the house.... got a man cave out in the barn where you can hear me beating and banging away
dirty mind ....seriously .. I'm a dude... ofcourse
loyalty...... yes unless you get all crazy and spiteful, life is too short
Physical attraction.... Lots of pics... find me attractive ?
http://s178.beta.photobucket.com/user/runwme271/library/

self sufficient.....yes
independant ... I can do it by myself but prefer company
kind ....yes
patience of a saint..... with kids yes, with idiots no
witty ..... yep
smart guy.... e=mc(2)
intellectual conversationist..... about somethings, not much into politics
loves to travel.......love to travel!
adventurous.....hell yeah!
love your crazy side..... Just how crazy are we talking
nunchuck skills..... not really
bowhunting skills..... not really
Flirty ( but not too much) .....yes...( possibly too much, but I am single and looking, will tone it down once in relationship)
Gonads.....sure
HARDWORKING....yes
spoil you.... that is 2 way street
spend $$$$....... on things we do together and clothes
Family oriented....absolutely
good sense of humor..... haven't we covered this already?
respectful.... Momma taught me to say yes Ma'am and yes sir
thoughtful..... the little things make it count
spontaneity...so much about to bust
responsible..... yes, a little immature, yes also.. everytime ive gotten hurt it started with "hey ya'w , watch this"
pulse..... yep
not overly jealous...... nope.. be with me because you want to , not because I try to make you
gorgeous eyes.....crystal blue
tiger in the sack.... oh yeah I'd eat you up
non-drooler .... depends on your outfit
ties me up ....My home gym is called " the red room of pain" you do the math
does dirty things to you...... When no kids around
talkative...sometimes, but sometimes like to listen
open minded..........wait??? you want to put your finger where???
generosity..... More to those who need but dont ask
chivalry..... let me get that door for you ( and check)
someone who is well read/cultured.... stretch to be considered "well read" unless harry potter books back in the day count
cooks ......really enjoy cooking!
cleans ...... me , you and Consualia will keep house tidy. Kids taught to pick up after themselves
makes you ridiculously excited...... haha I'll try
understands you.... again, I'll try
trusts you....wouldn't be with you if I didn't
handyman ( surprised to see this so far down the list) ....I can fix things better than McGuyver
Tall.....6'2
handsome face....momma thinks so
fit body...... working on it Got up to 42 waist pants at largest, now down to 36/34 jeans and dropping
Nice teeth ......Got all my teeth and keep em brushed...flossing not so much
rock-hard body .... if you are feeling my knee or package after properly motivated
make you feel like a naughty girl .....every thing in its time
Gamer.....not so much
Puts God first in his life... Believe in God, go to church occasionally 20x per year, can't say I put him first always...More active during softball season ;-/

Marry me? :flowerforyou: :laugh:

DonnaNCgirl

After reading this thread, I'm either out of touch with what I really want, a man, or different from most women who commented here.

runwmeNC

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Marry me? :flowerforyou: :laugh:
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Friday work for you?

Vain_Witch

He said yes!!! :bigsmile:

sbbhbm

A good sense of humor. I love to laugh. I also really appreciate a man who understands the fine art of seduction... a skill I think is dying out sadly :sad: