I'm just going to come out and say it

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  • tpfoodie
    tpfoodie Posts: 148 Member
    In actuality, you are controlling. You have told us that unless we log in every day, you will not be friends with us. Wow. It sounds so primary schoolish. You know what I mean: If you don't do what I want, I'm going to take my ball and go home.

    This would be true, if people on MFP were actually friends. If we had any non-MFP interaction at all, and actually were considered "friends," then I would be controlling. As it is, people send me requests to be friends, and I add them. Technically they are "friends," but I know nothing about them other than what they eat and how they work out. So I respectfully disagree with this. Again, I don't know of any who have even missed me.
  • JuiceBoxJunkie
    JuiceBoxJunkie Posts: 6
    Yes Ma'am. I finished Insanity, it took me a little over the time frame, because life got in the way. But I mananged to tone up a bit. The only thing is that I didn't follow the meal plan or give 110% everyday (Hard), so my stomach wasn't as ripped at the end as i'd hoped....
  • cherylatkwechanged
    cherylatkwechanged Posts: 479 Member
    I log in every day and love to see how my friends are doing please please add me everyone ( desperately sounding lol )
  • MsCarlalalala
    MsCarlalalala Posts: 90
    I had been debating this with myself; because there are people that started the same time as I did that stopped logging in after a few weeks. Unlike you I decided not to drop them. why, because they may return and wouldn't it be nice for them to see an old friend still here and doing well. Also, in some weird way gives me a small feeling of accomplishment; because I'm still here.
  • sarahmac828
    sarahmac828 Posts: 10 Member
    Wrong message board...ooops!!!
  • dym123
    dym123 Posts: 1,670 Member
    3 days is a bit harsh, a few of my friends were sick or out of town or just busy with life, but they come back. I usually wait until it gets into weeks, like right now I have one that hasn't logged in in 2 weeks, I will probably delete her. BTW today I am celebrating 190 days.
  • Serenstar75
    Serenstar75 Posts: 258 Member


    The main reason I unfriend people is if they're constantly whinging, creating drama or eating like 200 calories a day. I have friends who have ED's and are trying to beat them, but if people are boasting about it, then I unfriend pretty quickly!

    Usually if mine says 200 calories, it's a good bet I forgot to log the rest of the day due to busy stuff. However, I've deleted friends for continually boasting about eating ridiculously low. I am overcoming an ED and am on medicine that tears my appetite away. It's a struggle to eat even 1200 calories, but I at least try. That's all I hope for, people to try to do their best and recognize where they may have pitfalls.

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