Why/how did you become overweight?
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Were you always overweight? No, I started becoming overweight in high school
Or were you once a healthy weight? Up until my junior year of high school
Did you "let yourself go"? Pretty much. I started driving, which gave me access to fast food anytime I wanted, and I paid no attention to how horrible it was for me.
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication? No.
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food? For me, it was the crap food. I was young, so I will still fairly active, but the junk just caught up with me.0 -
i wasnt always over weight, gained weight with my first child lost it and gained weight with my second child and couldnt loose it.
Not that i didnt try, i did. I ended up with an illness that wasnt diagnosed right away and i balooned up to 272. i went to the Dr. for my 6 week check up after my 2nd child was born and told him that something was wrong he said "it takes 9 months to make a baby it will take a yr for your body to get back to normal, so i cant run any test until then" I suffered for a long time. I every day have to battle my own body to loose weight and it not an easy thing but i dont give up. Since then i have lost 40lbs and stalled, now i have found this site and intend on loosing even more.0 -
Were you always overweight?
No I was always a very thin kid until 25.
Or were you once a healthy weight?
I was always between 110-115 at 5'8
Did you "let yourself go"?
I guess in a way but more to do with family loss
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
My mom died when I was 25 which happened pretty quickly and I had a miscarriage after that.
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
Crap foods. Became an emotional eater. Sprite and Sour Cream and Onion chips - Ruffles. Started eating more pork and less chicken.0 -
I was working a lot of hrs at a groc store with lots of food. I cut back my hours and went to the gym and started losing weight. Also, I had parents that had a mean streak and humiliated me all the time. Dad would call, leave message, how many sandwiches have you ate today and laugh.
Mom would say do you have fluid. Criticize but never help me. We are out to eat and Mom says real loud dont say anything to her about eating that pie. I think parents made me anxious so I comforted myself with food.
struggled since I was 16. Problem solving skills not the best, had to learn to confront in work situations. Rather eat than deal.0 -
For those of you who want to share, I am interested to hear your stories about why/how you became overweight.
Were you always overweight?
Or were you once a healthy weight?
Did you "let yourself go"?
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
Thank you for sharing, I think your stories will shed some light and help us to understand our weight loss journeys, since the mental component is so important, and we have to know where we come from to move forward.
Feel free to link to other past threads or groups.
I was always tiny, 5'2, 110 soaking wet. I had my first daughter and the day I gave birth I weighed 135lbs. What I wouldn't give to be there now. I quickly lost my pregnancy weight and had the same body I did prebaby. 3 years later came baby #2 and all hell broke lose. I gained 60lbs, and kept those same 60lbs on all these years.0 -
Were you always overweight?
Nope, generally thin until these past couple of years.
Or were you once a healthy weight?
150-165lbs at 5ft 10ins.
Did you "let yourself go"?
I did, got lazy, ate too much takeout.
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
Bad injury too.
The reasons I became overweight are pretty simple, got lazy and got crippled. I have avascular necrosis and arthritis in my hips, which is not ideal at 26 (had it for many years previous). Slowly I could move less and not do the football and running I did every day. Add this to some nerve damage in my spine and I could not walk for 7 months last year.
One morning I woke up and the pain was gone, later that week I joined a gym and been pushing myself since. Although I still have a lot of pain there is not much else I can do.0 -
{quote}Were you always overweight?
Or were you once a healthy weight?
Did you "let yourself go"?
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
When I was young (up to ... oh, maybe 15ish) my weight was appropriate for my height. I was never particularly athletic, but I enjoyed being active. I LIKE healthy foods, always have. As a three year old left unwatched for ten seconds in the grocery cart, I would break into mushrooms over cookies every time. The problem was that as I hit puberty, I took after my short, curvaceous paternal grandmother instead of my tall, slender, 70s-swimsuit-model mother. I remember being aware that my parents thought I was too heavy before that, but I didn't start caring until I was in middle school. In sixth or seventh grade I remember asking my mother for Slim Fast because I'd heard them discussing my weight again when they thought I wasn't listening. She balked, but gave in rather quickly.
After that it was all down hill. I started skipping breakfast because I preferred to sleep in the extra half hour. I discovered that I got a bigger energy boost out of taking a twenty minute nap during lunch than out of inhaling cafeteria food. So I would go all day with nothing to eat, then get home to my mother's dinners, which alternated between carb bombs (she made amazing beef stroganoff) and tasteless "healthy" things (don't even get me started on what that woman did to perch) that I politely picked at and then raided the cupboards and fridge all evening.
I developed a habit of eating 2 or 3 huge baked potatoes loaded with butter and salt and pepper for Sunday lunch because I could have them ready in 15 minutes while my mother puttered around with the early dinner she wouldn't serve for another 3 hours. Got really fond of pistachios... to this day I can't bring the 16oz home because it'll be gone in two days. If I'm lucky. The boobs appeared, sooner than everybody else in my class, had a full C cup (as big as my mother's) by the end of 8th grade. The locker room? Trés awkward. Didn't help that I was basically the social outcast in a very small school. My father's sole comment on my senior photos (the first professional photos I'd ever had taken just for me)? "Meh... a bit to Rubens-esque for my taste." I was 17, and devastated. Didn't occur to me until years later that the sick *kitten* was sexualizing his teenage daughter. Suffice it to say he preferred my mother's body type because it lent itself to a young appearance, and she cultivated that to please him. My more full-figured type didn't appeal to him, and he made sure I knew it.
So yeah, I hit college set up to fail miserably in the weight control department. Life without parents hovering? I ate as I pleased, snacked, and surprisingly didn't gain too much at first... the campus was set up to encourage walking, and I was dating a boy who loved to do just that, so we walked EVERYWHERE that wasn't ridiculously far away. End of freshman year I was running... oh, maybe 150ish. Spent that summer in New Jersey as a camp counselor (best job EVER... well, 2nd best, best was costuming a summer theatre), and came home so thin and tan my own mother looked straight at me in the airport and kept scanning the crowd.
I got lectured for neglecting my sunscreen (a load of whooey, I'd used it constantly, you just get dark outside all day every day), and told I looked like I'd been raiding the campers' candy stashes.
The weight started sneaking on again at that point, and by the time I met my husband, I was hovering around 170-180. Got up to 190-200 toward graduation, dropped back to 180 for the wedding in 2006, then fought back and forth over 200-220 for several years. When I found out I was pregnant (at barely 4 weeks gone), I weight 222 flat. I lost twenty pounds during the first half of the pregnancy purely because the little monkey was making me so darned sick I could barely eat. Random cravings aside, I mostly survived the pregnancy on Sprite and McDonalds french fries. I walked into triage a grand total of 4 pounds over my pre-pregnancy weight. Two weeks after the birth I was flirting with 200 pounds.
Enter a refluxing baby, a faltering milk supply, and Domperidone.
Great galactalogue. Nobody warned me about the weight gain side effects, and before I knew it, that twenty pounds was back and it brought friends. Cold turkey'd the meds, but was too tired & busy with a baby to do much else.
Fast forward to about five months ago... I started having constant back pain, right where my bra band hits. I figured I'd thrown out my back, easy enough with a growing kid, right? Except it never healed despite being super careful. Two weeks ago I ended up in the ER because I couldn't hold ANY food down, and someone finally ordered an ultrasound instead of telling me "oh it's just muscle strain". Sure enough, bad gall bladder. I was in the hospital for a week on nothing but IV saline and antibiotics, had the gall bladder out. Dropped ten pounds all told that week.
Portion control became my best friend overnight. The surgeons were trying to scare me into bigger dietary changes than were necessary, according to the nutritionist, and she was right... I can still HAVE my treats, I just can't stuff myself anymore. I no longer have a choice... unless I want to be utterly miserable every time I indulge, I have to change how I fuel and care for my body.
Since getting home I've dropped another thirteen pounds, twenty-three altogether. My next "milestone" goal is that 200 mark. I want to see a 1 in the first slot when I step on that scale, and never see that 2 appear in anything but the second or third position again.
After that, the next milestone is 180, because I want to buy myself the Flirty Girl workout kit with the dance pole and learn to USE that sucker.
End goal right now is 150 pounds. That's more than I weighed in high-school, but I was never healthy in high school. I was skinny-fat at best because my habits and mentality were horrible. I want to see a toned, healthy, sustainable body and I want to do it while maintaining emotional health so that I can teach my children to love their bodies by loving mine.
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My mouth was open the whole time i was reading your post. I could not imagine going through what you went through.
I did absolutely love the last sentence. So inspiring.0 -
I was obese pretty much from the get go, luckily i never stayed in the morbidly obese range for long due to my parents pushing me to do sports at a very young age - IN the past i would burn probably 2000 calories daily just playing with friends as a kid but sort of snacked up to 6k calories! Sort of paying for it now - but MAN! Those Ice cream cones were nice!
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Were you always overweight? No, for me it really started about 4-5 years ago when I was going through a divorce and went on antidepressants to deal with the stress. I gained about 35 lbs. I've managed to lose 20 lbs but I've been stuck at around 140 for a while (I'm 5'3")
Did you "let yourself go"? I think some of it was stress, some of it may have been the meds but mostly it was just that I didn't pay close attention to my diet and exercise the way I usually did previously.
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food? For me, it wasn't that I would binge eat but I would probably eat more than I could burn off for my height and activity level. I wasn't eat McDonalds or ice cream every day but not watching my portion sizes real closely.0 -
Were you always overweight?
Yes, before the age of 26, I'm 32 now
Or were you once a healthy weight?
Yes, at 26 I had gastric bypass, I was at a healthy ideal weight twice since. I've gained 15lbs back
Did you "let yourself go"?
Yes
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
No
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
I became overweight because I ate in excess and poor choices like chocolate and candy daily. It doesn't matter what kind of food it is, if you eat in excess, you gain.0 -
Freshman 15 found me.
I was always a skinny kid, but I didn't know it. I gaine a little weight at age 13-14, and was around 135 at the beginning of high school. When we moved to the midwest my junior year, I lost about ten pounds without trying (better food choices, etc.) and graduated at 124 lbs.
Then I went to college. I moved to California, where I thought I'd be tan and fit all the time, but eating processed foods, cafeteria food, eating out a lot, and minimal exercise caught up with me. I was a runner the beginning of my freshman year, and finished my first half-marathon in 2.5 hours, but by the end of that year I'd gained ten pounds and was up to 137. I spent that summer working out religiously, tracking my calories (my first stint with MFP), and ended up being 130 lbs at the beginning of my sophomore year.
Then I studied abroad in Europe, and learned about the deliciousness of nutella, crepes, scones with clotted cream, pasta, croissantes, swiss chocolate...you name it, I tried it. We all figured we were just "living in the moment" while traveling, and we could worry about exercise/weight later. I drank a lot, too. I didn't realize the extent of my weight gain until I came back to the States and saw that I was tipping the scales at 150, the heaviest I've ever been.
Since then, I've been struggling to lose the weight. I cook almost all of my meals now, but still struggle with finding time to exercise with my busy schedule. I want to get back to my starting weight, though; ten pounds, I could deal with, but nearly a thirty pound weight gain, and I can't even fit into my clothes anymore. I'm tired of it.0 -
Very bad eating habits. Eating half a large pizza all by myself, plus endless snacking on sherbert and cupcakes. I just craved so much food after taking medicine for my anxiety, I'm not sure if that's to blame or not.
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First time I gain weight was when my ex and I got seperated (my oldest was1 y.o at the time)... I lost a lot so i ate my pain and let myself go....
I've dropped weight a bit after but on December 2011...I was hospitalized and after the surgery i gain weight again.
I decided it was enough in September 2012.
Changed what I was eating and started to train and workout everyday....0 -
Were you always overweight? >>>>NO
Or were you once a healthy weight? >>>>YES, for over 30 years, I was between skinny and thin.
Did you "let yourself go"? >>>>YES
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
>>>>Traumatic events - a break up. Lost the weight. Then got sick. Gained it back.
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
>>>>I was active the first time I gained weight, but not the second time that I did. The first time I was swimming a lot, but the weight gain coincided with a break up and a bar job where I began drinking beer and eating bar food for the first time in my life. Mostly fried cheese sticks, fried calamari, and fried jalapeno poppers. The second time I gained weight, I was recovering from a major illness. I was too sick to move, but not too sick for beer and bar food.0 -
Were you always overweight?
I think I might have been a little heavier than I should have been growing up, but I can't really recall when it really became a problem. Maybe middle school?
Or were you once a healthy weight?
As a toddler for sure.
Did you "let yourself go"?
I think in a way I did by letting a problem get worse. At one point I didn't even know I had a problem. It wasn't until middle school that I really got teased and figured out I was different from other kids. I would get picked on for being fat. I only got worse from there.
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
I wouldn't say so.
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
I would come home from school and plant myself on the couch and just start eating chips or other junk food. Whatever I could get basically, but the fattier the better. I don't blame my parents at all, but in a way I feel they enabled me. I wish they would have encouraged sports at a younger age and promoted healthier eating, but they didn't eat great either.0 -
I eat when I'm bored. I'm also an emotional eater/alcohol consumer. Food buried whatever was bothering me at the time...NOT. I was always, on average, bigger than my peers, but I was not obese until I left home. My father used food as a tool to control. We were denied it or granted it on his whims. I spent many days hungry, then there would be junk a-plenty. Of course we pigged out when it was there... we hadn't eaten anything but free lunch at school for a week. I have a very unhealthy relationship to food. When I had control, I ate what I wanted whenever I wanted as often as I wanted. Unfortunately, with a skewed outlook on food, I was, emotionally, unable to know what was a healthy diet or quantity. Add a car to that mix, since I no longer had to walk everywhere... hello huge weight gain. I still struggle with food. I hate to leave anything on my plate... will there be anything tomorrow? I better have it now... Intellectually, I know there's plenty of food available. Emotionally, I still struggle with this.0
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I have always been a healthy weight hovering around 58-62 kg, I gained about 10kg during pregnancy but lost it fairly easily over about three or four months. What really screwed me was going from a job in retail sales which required about 8.5 hours of standing, to working in a call centre which requires around 7 hours of sitting each day. I didn't think anything of it and didn't change my diet or exercise at all and over three years gained nearly 20 kilos. I'm only 5'2 so 20 kilos is really a lot on me. I'm having to put a lot of effort into my diet and also making time to exercise just to stay at the same weight and stop gaining let alone start losing, I'm working up to that as I've only lost about 3kg so far and i suspect it will be fairly slow to come off considering my job requires me to sit for 35 hours every week.0
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I have always been chunky. At least as far back as I can remember. But when I look at pictures I have notice I gained a ton when I was seven. My mom remarried and we moved and I was majorly stressed out for a seven year old. My stepdad then was a terrible eater. We only drank soda, we had taco bueno wednesday, pizza thursday, and chicken express friday. Being so young I didn't know that was bad. Fast forward, in high school I was like "Screw being fat! I hate it!", I cut out fast food and soda complete and lost a fair amount of weight. Averaging around 175-180 which isn't too terrible when you are 5' 10". My first semester of college I worked out a ton, and by the end of summer I was my smallest at 165. Fast forwarding again, I was diagnosed with major depression and anxiety and it was so terrible. All I could do was mope and eat. Emotional eating became my biggest problem. My mom eventually came up to me and suggested therapy. Since then I've gotten on three (yes THREE) antidepressants and am currently in therapy and am committed to a healthy me. I left out a lot in this story, like my stressers in life.... I didn't want to get too "deep" on you ;D Still! I'm weighing myself in the morning! Cross your fingers! Last weigh in I was 215!0
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Were you always overweight?
ANSWER: No I was very active in sports, hanging out with friends, working and just always out and about with friends until I graduated high school. I finished high school at 5"10 roughly around 180 pounds
Or were you once a healthy weight?
ANSWER: yes, but I let myself go(answer above fits this question as well)
Did you "let yourself go"?
ANSWER:Yes I graduated high school started working a lot of hours, eating unhealthy,drinking,and not exercising...so in about 8 years I was weighing about 280 pounds
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
ANSWER:Yes I went through a few tragic events in my life, but I choose to well forget them, and deal with it by stuffing my face with food instead of seeking help
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
ANSWER:I mean I gain weight but that is only if I eat way too much, and exercise too little0 -
I wasn't always over weight.... in fact as a child i was super skinny everyone said i was going to be a model. i hated soda, cake, and bread as a kid.
Until i was 10 years old (89lbs) my grandmother raised me and cooked for me everyday. when my parents go me back they both worked full time and never had the time to cook so every night was pizza mcdonalds or chinese food.
It was when i learned to like soda and bread that everything REALLY went downhill (i still dont like cake) In HS (around 140lbs) i started drinking alchohol eating fast food things like mcDonalds all the time i found a love for beer and pepsi and slowly but surely i gained a ton of weight. by the time HS was over i weighed 160-165. At least i was on the basketball team then.
By College i was no longer active. i got a desk job where i sat on my butt all day and discovered a love for coffee like no other. I drink my coffee with a shovel full of sugar. i also continued my fast food and alchohol diet because i never had time to cook with all the hw, classes, and my job and becasue all my friends were drinking every nite. I gained like 10 lbs for ever year in college (i was there for 5 years.)
Now at 23 i graduated and i hit 202lbs. and i've finally had enough. i'm down to 187 right now.0 -
Anyone who blames a random event in thier life on their obesity is absolutely ridiculous.I dont care if youve been raped or stubbed your toe.... I got fat because I ate too much, because food tastes good, and had no concept of what a calorie was.0
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For me I had an eating disorder before I became pregnant and was 115 lbs and a size 0-2. While I was pregnant I ate pretty much everything because I thought "what the hell this is what pregnant women do". So I ended up gaining 100 lbs. Now my kids 5 and I'm currently at 188. :explode:0
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Were you always overweight?
>>>Yes, since I can remember
Or were you once a healthy weight?
>>>now I am
Did you "let yourself go"?
>>>not really, I never really liked myself since I was a child, so in a way I never worried about my appearance
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
>>> I was hit constantly by my mother, forgotten by my father, I had lots of issues in my house that made me lock myself in my room and never come out, my only comfort was food
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
>>> I ate a lot of crap and homemade food as well0 -
For those of you who want to share, I am interested to hear your stories about why/how you became overweight.
Were you always overweight?
Or were you once a healthy weight?
Did you "let yourself go"?
Or perhaps it was due to a traumatic event, injury or medication?
And did anyone become overweight while still being an active person and (over)eating homemade, whole foods, or was it only through eating essentially crap food, processed foods, restaurant/fast food?
Thank you for sharing, I think your stories will shed some light and help us to understand our weight loss journeys, since the mental component is so important, and we have to know where we come from to move forward.
Feel free to link to other past threads or groups.
I always considered myself to be overweight. Looking back and seeing pictures of myself back then, I can see how wrong I was, and now I suspect I've suffered from poor body image all along.
I used to be 145lbs, which was my perfect weight, I was just not very toned, "skinny fat", and thought exercise was lame. I didn't need to exercise as such, as my job involved being outside all day, walking. I used to eat ridiculous amounts at home and never gain weight, because my job involved so much walking, and lunch times were "as and when you could find a few minutes to eat something".
After I had my son, PCOS kicked in. Depression hit hard, and I was being bullied (as an adult). I gained 95lbs, from not going out because I was scared of running into people, and eating like rubbish.
I went through phases of bingeing and restricting, trying to starve myself, eating home made dinner and then home made eating again when my other half got home, even eating take out food three or four times a week. Naturally, I gained even more weight.
Eventually, I'd had enough. Everyone pushed me to get my PCOS sorted out. but my main concern was my weight. So I went to the doctor to ask for help, and well, thats a 4 year long story I'm never getting back.
2011, I joined a gym but was still eating like crap, however it really helped with my depression. June 2012 I kicked all the take out food. That was when I began to lose weight with the help of the gym.
Since June last year, I've lost 20-30lbs depending on whether I use the gym or the doctors scales. I've lost 12 inches off the waist. I now have take out food once every couple of months.0 -
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I first gained weight when I was 14. I got a summer job at McDonalds and figured...hey, I'm 14, I can eat what I want and not gain weight because I have metabolism! YAY!
Not yay. I gained 60 lbs in a short amount of time and started high school as a fatty.
At the start summer after Freshman year (one full year after the start of my weight gain) I learned that I could lose weight by not eating. I didn't understand or know anything about eating disorders, but I figured I would just not eat and lose the weight and go back to normal. We didn't do family dinners and I was working as many hours as I could anyway so my family figured I ate at work and work figured I ate at home. I also spent my off time with my best friend and though I usually binged, there were times that we'd get so caught up in video games or movies or whatever that we'd forget to eat. I lost almost 60 lbs in 4 months and started my sophomore year at 103 lbs. It took forever for anyone to notice because I had hips and breasts, but my hip bones stuck out so bad that you could look down my pants...it was disgusting.
My friends started to notice around November or December so I'd eat little amounts around them to appease them. They would pressure me to eat more and more so started vomiting...not totally voluntarily. I'd feel sick from food. Slowly I gained back about 10 lbs to a very low end but technically healthy weight.
My weight gain really started when I started dating this guy...his mom thought I was too thin and stuffed me with food. I gained 20 lbs in 2 months and went from 115-135 during the summer before my senior year. I finally was healthy, but he joined the Marines and sent me multiple letters stating how sexy it would be if I weighed the same as I did when we started dating. He KNEW I had achieved that through an eating disorder, but he never stopped and even though I tried to lose weight the healthy way, it never worked so I binged more and more. I didn't gain additional weight right away..but after we broke up, I replaced those feelings with food.
Over the years, I just slowly put on the pounds. When I'd get to my "too big" point, I'd restrict and lose 10 lbs and eventually gain it back. It wasn't bad until I got my first desk job. I worked second shift from 4PM-1AM so it was lots of soda and sugar and late night fast food runs. I put on over 50 lbs in that time. Finally, I was fat...
Now it has been a 2 year battle with losing 20 lbs and gaining it back. The weight just doesn't want to stay off. I'm still trying to figure it out but despite not losing anything for the last month, I'm hoping I can just stick to it because giving up isn't going to get the weight off so I just need to persevere.0 -
This is true, to a certain extant. Society is willing to make excuses for so many things, but if you're fat you're just a lazy pig. I won't deny that in my case, but I was also raised in a very twisted home that used food as a reward, and withholding food as a punishment. It is very hard to have a healthy outlook on food when your experience with it is so skewed. When you are child and hungry and there is food available but you are not allowed to have it, how can you expected to grow up with an understanding of what role food should play in your life? We are, in very large part, a product of our environment. Yes, when we are old enough to make our own decisions, it is then our own responsibility, but it is hard to get past the traumas that are visited on us as children. That said, this is why I'm owning up to my culpability now, and trying to correct the habits I have run with for most of my life.Anyone who blames a random event in thier life on their obesity is absolutely ridiculous.I dont care if youve been raped or stubbed your toe.... I got fat because I ate too much, because food tastes good, and had no concept of what a calorie was.0 -
Anyone who blames a random event in thier life on their obesity is absolutely ridiculous.I dont care if youve been raped or stubbed your toe.... I got fat because I ate too much, because food tastes good, and had no concept of what a calorie was.
How rude and immature of yours to judge ANYONE and their problems. Shame on you, seriously.
ETA: some people gain from pregnancy, some people gain after being emotionally and physically abused by someone, it's not only a matter of eating too much, something has to cause the urge to binge, it's not that simple for everyone. Your post was one of the rudest I've read on this site.
sincerely, a victim of constant physical abuse that resorted to food to escape.0 -
I was always on the bigger side, but I wore it well. In high school I had to maintain 160+ to play on the boys rugby team after the girls' disbanded, so I held steady around 165. Then I stopped playing and continued to eat like I was living in the gym and playing 3 times a week. Fast forward a few years, a wedding and 2 kids, and I found myself at 231 pounds., I stayed there for 2 years and I've being attempting to lose for 3 years now, but little to no success til I joined MFP last year. I've worked my way down to 166.6, with a goal of 130-140.0
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Yeah, amen.Anyone who blames a random event in thier life on their obesity is absolutely ridiculous.I dont care if youve been raped or stubbed your toe.... I got fat because I ate too much, because food tastes good, and had no concept of what a calorie was.
How rude and immature of yours to judge ANYONE and their problems. Shame on you, seriously.
ETA: some people gain from pregnancy, some people gain after being emotionally and physically abused by someone, it's not only a matter of eating too much, something has to cause the urge to binge, it's not that simple for everyone. Your post was one of the rudest I've read on this site.
sincerely, a victim of constant physical abuse that resorted to food to escape.0
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