dating older people?

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  • icandowhateveriputmymindto
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    Wow! I used to REALLY like a guy who was 27 years old...

    holy crap! how many grandchildren did he have?

    Well, I was trying to make the point that 20 is nothing to me.. Jeez.

    He is 11 years older than me is how I should have worded it i guess
  • jimbo2180
    jimbo2180 Posts: 66 Member
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    the first few comments had me creasing.
  • jcmartin0313
    jcmartin0313 Posts: 574 Member
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    Older is much much better.
  • zombie_porno
    zombie_porno Posts: 199 Member
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    My partner is 14 years older than me so...

    But context is everything. I'm almost 28. An 18 year old dating someone who is 14 years older is a much different topic. The 2 year difference for your situation is nothing to worry about.
  • k8eekins
    k8eekins Posts: 2,264 Member
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    i am 18 years old. i am in a relationship with a 20 year old who is single. i feel like that is an appropriate age. do u?

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with dating someone whose older. Granted you're 18, 20 is very much within your immediate pool (including 25 year olds).
  • perfectingpatti
    perfectingpatti Posts: 1,037 Member
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    i am 18 years old. i am in a relationship with a 20 year old who is single. i feel like that is an appropriate age. do u?

    The two years difference doesn't bother me so much, but I have to wonder why a 20 year old would want to date a girl still in high school.
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
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    Damn kids! Get off my lawn!
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,735 Member
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    20 years old is really old. does he wear Depends yet?
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
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    Kids these days have no respect for their elders
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
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    lol that's only 2 yrs. I would hardly consider that a gap. When I was 19, I dated a 26 year old lol
  • awake4777
    awake4777 Posts: 190 Member
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    How are you in a relationship with someone who is single? Does he know that you two are in a relationship or have you not told him yet?

    This is the real question.

    Also, 2 years is not "older people" in any way but the technical. Tack another 0 on the end of his age and then we'll talk.
    I agree. 2 years older doesn't count.
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
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    Dang if 20's old I may as well just give up now.


    my husband to be is 7 years older than I am. my dad was 9 years older than my mom... sometimes there's a maturity level difference, but that has nothing to do with age.
  • nz_deevaa
    nz_deevaa Posts: 12,209 Member
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    i am 18 years old. i am in a relationship with a 20 year old who is single. i feel like that is an appropriate age. do u?

    I'm concerned that he's single AND in a relationship.
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,735 Member
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    Kids these days have no respect for their elders

    fo shizzle.

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  • Jorra
    Jorra Posts: 3,338 Member
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    Good job on insulting 99% of MFP users?

    20 is not "older people."

    For your reference:
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  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
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    i am 18 years old. i am in a relationship with a 20 year old who is single. i feel like that is an appropriate age. do u?

    The two years difference doesn't bother me so much, but I have to wonder why a 20 year old would want to date a girl still in high school.

    Edit: Nvm, read her profile.
  • awake4777
    awake4777 Posts: 190 Member
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    omg i can't believe you would date someone soooo old! lol does he have gray hair? i hope he has insurance to cover all that viagra lol

    Ew, gray hair? Gross. Next you'll be talking about men who are bald...
    Oh my, you are 18 aren't you.
  • n8dawg77
    n8dawg77 Posts: 216 Member
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    The correct rule for dating is double your age - 20. So if I'm 35 that's 70 - 20... I'm only allowed to date a 50 year old. you are 18 so that means 36 - 20 you can only date 16 year olds. Or something like that.
  • Factory_Reset
    Factory_Reset Posts: 1,651 Member
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    i am 18 years old. i am in a relationship with a 20 year old who is single. i feel like that is an appropriate age. do u?

    I'm concerned that he's single AND in a relationship.

    I'm with another poster and think he doesn't know he's in a relationship.
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,735 Member
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    Good job on insulting 99% of MFP users?

    20 is not "older people."

    For your reference:
    6a010534b1db25970b013482032a60970c-800wi

    nobody's offended. we all remember what it was like to be 18. or at least would remember if our memories hadn't gone out on us in our mid-20's.