dating older people?

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  • FitandFab33
    FitandFab33 Posts: 718 Member
    I've recently put an age limit on my dates.. and it's a minimum.

    And.. I'm okay with a little gray. haha

    Oh- if 20 is old I'm a d*** cougar.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    i'm 19...there's this hot 36 year old..


    i'd tap that.. three times. lol


    So, it's okay for you to date a 20 year old.

    How about a 44yo from Folsom? :bigsmile:
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    i am 18 years old. i am in a relationship with a 20 year old who is single. i feel like that is an appropriate age. do u?

    I'm concerned that he's single AND in a relationship.

    Yeah...definitely wondering the same.
  • gimpygramma
    gimpygramma Posts: 383 Member
    Boys usually are a little later hitting puberty than girls so I think with young people it is very common for the boy in a couple to be a year or two older than the girl. I am 68 and when I was growing up, back in the 50's and early 60's, most couples married by the time they were in their early twenties. (probably because no one that I knew lived together before marriage.) Among my age mates now, if I know the age of one of the parties in a couple I usually assume that if it is the man, his wife is two years younger. If it is the woman, her husband is two years older. I will be right about 90 per cent of the time.

    Now with people waiting till they are older to marry, I don't know if there is still the same pattern but I would say that in general, a two year age gap is no gap at all.
  • Syleyna
    Syleyna Posts: 86 Member
    I get the feeling it was a troll question... but just incase it's not.

    If you feel you have you ask, then it's a problem. Though the problem may be with your outlook, not necessarily the age "gap".
  • fanceegirl75
    fanceegirl75 Posts: 620 Member
    My sweetie is 14 yrs younger than me...but when we're together most people guess him to be older. LOL! As long as we're on an equal playing field (education, career, goals, conversation) that least of my concerns is age.

    But you my dear and the whole 2 yrs "older"...shouldn't even be an issue!
  • missyj1115
    missyj1115 Posts: 1,220 Member
    Dang if 20's old I may as well just give up now.

    YIKES!!!!
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    I hope he tweezes his grey pubes. Those are awful!

    hmph! i thought they make me look "distinguished"
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    i'm 19...there's this hot 36 year old..


    i'd tap that.. three times. lol


    So, it's okay for you to date a 20 year old.

    How about a 44yo from Folsom? :bigsmile:

    mine
  • icmuse
    icmuse Posts: 263 Member
    How do you deal with that old person smell?

    ^^^ this :laugh:
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    i'm 19...there's this hot 36 year old..


    i'd tap that.. three times. lol


    So, it's okay for you to date a 20 year old.

    How about a 44yo from Folsom? :bigsmile:

    mine

    How YOU doin??
  • winterswish
    winterswish Posts: 162
    Good job on insulting 99% of MFP users?

    20 is not "older people."

    For your reference:
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    Phew! I was worried. I had to the math a couple of times (joke!) but my "friend" squeaks in to the acceptable range by a year. Boy was that going to be an awkward breakup. "So, ummm...I really like you. But I was on MFP today and they said...so, yeah. Gotta go, babe. Sorry."
  • cairee
    cairee Posts: 95 Member
    Not allowed in 47 states.

    where is 18 below the age of consent? just curious.
  • awake4777
    awake4777 Posts: 190 Member
    omg i can't believe you would date someone soooo old! lol does he have gray hair? i hope he has insurance to cover all that viagra lol

    Ew, gray hair? Gross. Next you'll be talking about men who are bald...
    Oh my, you are 18 aren't you.

    No, I'm not. But I am in possession of sarcasm and your meter is apparently broken.
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    Oh yeah, that's right, you're 18. I don't want to fight with you, sweety. You're much younger that my children.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    i'm 19...there's this hot 36 year old..


    i'd tap that.. three times. lol


    So, it's okay for you to date a 20 year old.

    How about a 44yo from Folsom? :bigsmile:

    mine

    Her? Me? Both?

    Oh, who am I kidding, as long as I get invited. :laugh:
  • Junken_Diraffe
    Junken_Diraffe Posts: 716 Member
    My guy is 15 years older than me. We just make the 1/2 his age + 7 rule. Whew!!
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,733 Member
    How do you deal with that old person smell?

    ^^^ this :laugh:

    is this a joke about chloroform? :angry:

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  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    omg i can't believe you would date someone soooo old! lol does he have gray hair? i hope he has insurance to cover all that viagra lol

    Ew, gray hair? Gross. Next you'll be talking about men who are bald...
    Oh my, you are 18 aren't you.

    No, I'm not. But I am in possession of sarcasm and your meter is apparently broken.
    [/quote

    Oh yeah, that's right, you're 18. I don't want to fight with you, sweety. You're much younger that my children.

    Lol I just told you that I'm not 18, I'm 22 (and by this thread, that's classified as old). Who's fighting and how is the age of your children relevant?
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I hope he tweezes his grey pubes. Those are awful!

    hmph! i thought they make me look "distinguished"

    Aww. I'm sure your crotch is quite distinguished.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    omg i can't believe you would date someone soooo old! lol does he have gray hair? i hope he has insurance to cover all that viagra lol

    Ew, gray hair? Gross. Next you'll be talking about men who are bald...
    Oh my, you are 18 aren't you.

    No, I'm not. But I am in possession of sarcasm and your meter is apparently broken.


    Oh yeah, that's right, you're 18. I don't want to fight with you, sweety. You're much younger that my children.

    Lol I just told you that I'm not 18, I'm 22 (and by this thread, that's classified as old). Who's fighting and how is the age of your children relevant?

    Blucher!
  • fara180
    fara180 Posts: 1,260 Member
    i like older men, so does my sister, so did my mom...it could be genetic? o.O

    i'm 20 and i usually cut it off around 32, simply because we lose a lot of common ground at that point. i have a friend who is 21 and is engaged to a 44 year old guy...it's sort of creepy in my opinion. i think of it like this....if they could legally drive before you were born, i'd stay away from them.
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Older is Golder
  • mikey1976
    mikey1976 Posts: 1,005 Member
    to you question no hes to old and thank you i must have one foot in the grave going to be lucky to make it to 37 this summer :sad:




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  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    It really makes one feel old when a younger person has a cut-off for dating someone older, and that age is 32.
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    Good job on insulting 99% of MFP users?

    20 is not "older people."

    For your reference:
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    Why is it only ok for me to date someone 15 years younger but ok if they are 30 years older...that does not seem fair.
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,733 Member
    Good job on insulting 99% of MFP users?

    20 is not "older people."

    For your reference:
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    Why is it only ok for me to date someone 15 years younger but ok if they are 30 years older...that does not seem fair.

    it's Hugh Hefner's graph.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    Why is it only ok for me to date someone 15 years younger but ok if they are 30 years older...that does not seem fair.

    It's this new math. I think you may be too old for me.
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    I hope he tweezes his grey pubes. Those are awful!

    hmph! i thought they make me look "distinguished"

    Aww. I'm sure your crotch is quite distinguished.

    *blushing*
  • Louisianababy93
    Louisianababy93 Posts: 1,709 Member
    i'm 19...there's this hot 36 year old..


    i'd tap that.. three times. lol


    So, it's okay for you to date a 20 year old.

    How about a 44yo from Folsom? :bigsmile:

    mine

    Her? Me? Both?

    Oh, who am I kidding, as long as I get invited. :laugh:


    smh.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    i'm 19...there's this hot 36 year old..


    i'd tap that.. three times. lol


    So, it's okay for you to date a 20 year old.

    How about a 44yo from Folsom? :bigsmile:

    mine

    Her? Me? Both?

    Oh, who am I kidding, as long as I get invited. :laugh:


    smh.

    Did I mention that the 44yo from Folsom in question is from Folsom, Louisiana? Beat that small town. :bigsmile: