dating older people?

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  • cairee
    cairee Posts: 95 Member
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    i like older men, so does my sister, so did my mom...it could be genetic? o.O

    i'm 20 and i usually cut it off around 32, simply because we lose a lot of common ground at that point. i have a friend who is 21 and is engaged to a 44 year old guy...it's sort of creepy in my opinion. i think of it like this....if they could legally drive before you were born, i'd stay away from them.

    so is it creepy that my husband married his first wife on my 6th birthday? :P
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
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    18 & 20 years old isn't a big different, I'd barely call that older lol.

    The younger you are though the less age difference there should be, at least this is what I have noticed from public perception. So the older you get, the larger the age gap can be without anyone looking twice or questioning it although if a girl is like 35 and the guy is 90 or vice versa that would always be questioned :)

    Anyways don't worry about it, your both just young adults.
  • FitQueenBri
    FitQueenBri Posts: 20
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    If that's a crime, lock my hubby up now ;)

    I'm 21 and he's 27. Guys my age are ****innn scrubs. So I upgraded to a MAN :D lol.
  • sPaRkLiNgLYFE
    sPaRkLiNgLYFE Posts: 609
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    20 isn't exactly what i call an "older man"
  • ladymiseryali
    ladymiseryali Posts: 2,555 Member
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    My fiance is 7 years older than me. When I was 19, I got propositioned by some dude who looked old enough to be my dad. I was skeeved by the situation and quickly declined. lol.
  • justjean
    justjean Posts: 55 Member
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    omg i can't believe you would date someone soooo old! lol does he have gray hair? i hope he has insurance to cover all that viagra lol

    haha this comment's hilarious =D
  • justjean
    justjean Posts: 55 Member
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    2 years is nothing, but even if it was more, if it was the right relationship and you were happy then you don't need anyone else's opinions =)
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,837 Member
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    When I was 20 I dated a 52 year old for a few nights.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
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    men_old.jpg

    Just sayin, this would be for of an appropriate ? if you had any doubts
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    When I was 20 I pursued a 39 year old, lol.
  • dirtnap63
    dirtnap63 Posts: 1,387 Member
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    When I was 20 I pursued a 39 year old, lol.

    I prefer to pursue 89 year olds. They're a lot easier to catch.
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,010 Member
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    2 years is fine, you are both legal.

    I did 19 years older than me once, won't do that again.. cap it around 10 older.
  • dakotababy
    dakotababy Posts: 2,406 Member
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    That age is fine!

    I find it always seems worse in the teen years - but if you are 28 and your partner is 30 - that does not sound bad at all..
    I am 24 and my bf is turning 28 this year. :)
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    When I was 20 I pursued a 39 year old, lol.

    I prefer to pursue 89 year olds. They're a lot easier to catch.

    :laugh:
  • OspreyVista
    OspreyVista Posts: 464 Member
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    has anyone else noticed that the OP hasnt responded at all?

    I have!
  • Silver_Star
    Silver_Star Posts: 1,351 Member
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    but, you know...he IS gonna turn 21 soon. What will you do then!!!
  • missmike16
    missmike16 Posts: 59
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    haha very funny!!! no he doesnt have gray hair!
  • missmike16
    missmike16 Posts: 59
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    haha!!! party with him!!! las vagas here we come!
  • arsan
    arsan Posts: 97 Member
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    Lol I'm 40 and single. I must really be in trouble. Lol
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,791 Member
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    i am 18 years old. i am in a relationship with a 20 year old who is single. i feel like that is an appropriate age. do u?

    Nothing wrong with 20 yr olds. I like 20 yr olds too.

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