dating older people?

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  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    Twenty years old? Do their wrinkles and saggy skin bother you?
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    A friend once told me that men should marry a girl half their age plus 7 years. Sooo you are actually dating a little young there.
    Would bang
  • justjean
    justjean Posts: 55 Member
    My fiance and I are 8 years apart, but sometimes I'm older than him.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Lick.
  • horsewhisper91
    horsewhisper91 Posts: 456 Member
    For the most part, love is love. Age is but a number. Most of the guys I've gone out with were older than me by at least 5 years.
  • Fozzi43
    Fozzi43 Posts: 2,984 Member
    If its true love, number don't matter.
  • coyoteo
    coyoteo Posts: 532 Member
    My husband is 28 years older than me. Not sure 2 years counts as "older". ;)
  • MeeshyBW
    MeeshyBW Posts: 382 Member
    I have always dated older men. I much prefer them.

    The biggest age gap I ever dated was 27 years. My husband is 13 years older than me.

    There is something about a older guy that just does it for me.
  • pixtotts
    pixtotts Posts: 552 Member
    2 years isn't much of a difference (when both legal... 1 legal 1 not bit of a different issue...) I don't think age could be blamed for any problems with just 2 years..


    as long as you want the same things its fine... im 23 my ex was 31 ...it was great for 3 years... then he started talking mortgage and what not and I said EEK! im alright thanks and that was that...
    Have to remember girls age faster than boys so a couple of years and your probably at about the same mental age :P lol
    x
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    I like older women. My preference is probably a bit bigger of a difference, but I always find the females find it odd after a while. It might be that they're just using me. Yep.

    Younger females no offense have a different host of problems that I don't really relate to. I prefer real life adult problems... a girl I met over the summer maxed out 3 credit cards to buy an exotic cat that ran away (just an example of the type of personality). I rather be with someone older that could even be a single parent provided their maturity level and interests match mine.
  • HiKaren
    HiKaren Posts: 1,306 Member
    Haaah Yes.. My husbands 14 years younger. It works out well.

    PS: I am not Demi Moore, He is not Ashton Kutcher. :laugh:
  • HiKaren
    HiKaren Posts: 1,306 Member
    Twenty years old? Do their wrinkles and saggy skin bother you?

    OMG How funny! :laugh:
  • kdeaux1959
    kdeaux1959 Posts: 2,675 Member
    I am 6.5 years older than my wife of 20 years. We have a beautiful daughter together. As others have alluded... 2 years is quite insignificant (especially at that age)... Now in my case, Had I started dating my wife when I was 18, that would have been TOTALLY inappropriate and illegal.. But since we did not start dating til both of us finished college, it was quite appropriate. Quite frankly, I don't think that 2-3 years is an issue at all at just about any age... In fact, that is pretty common (unless there are circumstances here that you are not mentioning) but from strictly an age perspective, I think it should be considered appropriate.
  • KBear68
    KBear68 Posts: 16
    Haaah Yes.. My husbands 14 years younger. It works out well.

    PS: I am not Demi Moore, He is not Ashton Kutcher. :laugh:



    My husband is 12 years younger than I am. He adopted my children, so he is 33 and his oldest child is 17.5. Only a difference of 15.5 years.

    It works for us, as well.
  • SwimFan1981
    SwimFan1981 Posts: 1,430 Member
    Just break up
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    If age is just a number, does it work the same with older women & younger men? & if so, how much older?
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    My first relationship I was 15, a sophomore in high school, and he was 18, a freshman in college. 3 1/2 yr age difference. Lasted 3 yrs.

    similar except lasted 7 years and ended in a proposal. even my strict and traditional father didn't have a problem with it, unsure why OP asks/wonders/puzzles over it?
  • milf_n_cookies
    milf_n_cookies Posts: 2,244 Member
    My husband has 18 years on me, I like older men, always have.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    If age is just a number, does it work the same with older women & younger men? & if so, how much older?

    my husband is 5 years younger than me (exes before him were 6 and 3), my sis's hubby's 4 years younger, my sis in law has a 10 years younger one, my aunt did also. we never knew there was such a thing as cougars i guess. we just married the cuties.
  • helplesslyhappy
    helplesslyhappy Posts: 43
    As long as he changes your diaper after movie night!
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    If age is just a number, does it work the same with older women & younger men? & if so, how much older?

    my husband is 5 years younger than me (exes before him were 6 and 3), my sis's hubby's 4 years younger, my sis in law has a 10 years younger one, my aunt did also. we never knew there was such a thing as cougars i guess. we just married the cuties.

    Haha! Good for you guys! I've never been with a younger guy. Usually went for older in the past. Current husband is my age though...6 months older. Ex hubby was 7 & half yrs older.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    As long as he changes your diaper after movie night!

    It's more romantic when you change each other's, don't you think?
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    As long as he changes your diaper after movie night!

    It's more romantic when you change each other's, don't you think?

    ew so gross. and funny but gross.
  • helplesslyhappy
    helplesslyhappy Posts: 43
    As long as he changes your diaper after movie night!

    It's more romantic when you change each other's, don't you think?

    I don't know...He prefers Pampers and I always prefer Huggies...wtf??
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    If age is just a number, does it work the same with older women & younger men? & if so, how much older?

    my husband is 5 years younger than me (exes before him were 6 and 3), my sis's hubby's 4 years younger, my sis in law has a 10 years younger one, my aunt did also. we never knew there was such a thing as cougars i guess. we just married the cuties.

    Haha! Good for you guys! I've never been with a younger guy. Usually went for older in the past. Current husband is my age though...6 months older. Ex hubby was 7 & half yrs older.

    yeah i used to insist on older then all of a sudden something changed men my age were not approaching and the choice was made for me. husband was one of 3 "contenders" as my aunt put it, and they were all younger? idk?
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Haaah Yes.. My husbands 14 years younger. It works out well.

    PS: I am not Demi Moore, He is not Ashton Kutcher. :laugh:

    u sure?
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    As long as he changes your diaper after movie night!

    It's more romantic when you change each other's, don't you think?

    ew so gross. and funny but gross.

    Lol, yeah. Actually I'd probably off myself if I get to that point where I can't take care of myself.
  • helplesslyhappy
    helplesslyhappy Posts: 43
    Just think of the romance!

    Dentures in the glass, gums soft and oh so willing, tits flapping in the wind!

    Sigh.
  • WeekndOVOXO
    WeekndOVOXO Posts: 779 Member
    I find it gross when the age difference is significant and the girl is still young enough for it to be considered illegal. Nah..

    Shaking_head.gif
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Haaah Yes.. My husbands 14 years younger. It works out well.

    PS: I am not Demi Moore, He is not Ashton Kutcher. :laugh:



    My husband is 12 years younger than I am. He adopted my children, so he is 33 and his oldest child is 17.5. Only a difference of 15.5 years.

    It works for us, as well.

    this correlates with my sis in law. her husband is shockingly good at being a father to her older boys. amazes me everytime we visit.

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