I approached my gym crush .....

Bridget0927

Awwww I heart this thread!!!!!!! Congrats Girlie!

MyChocolateDiet

Just checking to see how the 2nd and who knows maybe even 3rd date went. I love fast relationships. Sometimes, you just know.

I love how everyone got all into this. It's such a cute story. I love, love.

ready

jbutterflye

yeah, my marriage was a very fast one. I can relate! (I just knew)

HunterKiller_wechange2

Pmsl!

vtmoon

So I was at the gym today....he saw me I saw him then as I was walking by he immediatly took off his earbuds and I took off mine. He introduced himself immediatly and so did I we talked for a bit, and then I said I see you around. We were both working on back today so we worked out pretty much together. As I was putting up my dumbells he said, "your are leaving already?" I said, yes. I gave him my number, he send me a text later and then we had a late lunch. He said he is normally shy and that he felt bad because last week he didn't introduce himself.

THANK YOU JESUS! About dangon time, I was about to drive down to El Paso go GYM to GYM until I found him. Just to coach that dude on the arts if he didn't make a move.

Well done senorita, way to capture a chance on love and not let it slip like a lot of us do :-)

Deipneus

Well done senorita, way to capture a chance on love and not let it slip like a lot of us do :-)

And they both lived happily ever after. I love a good bedtime story.

esmeralda44

So I was at the gym today....he saw me I saw him then as I was walking by he immediatly took off his earbuds and I took off mine. He introduced himself immediatly and so did I we talked for a bit, and then I said I see you around. We were both working on back today so we worked out pretty much together. As I was putting up my dumbells he said, "your are leaving already?" I said, yes. I gave him my number, he send me a text later and then we had a late lunch. He said he is normally shy and that he felt bad because last week he didn't introduce himself.

THANK YOU JESUS! About dangon time, I was about to drive down to El Paso go GYM to GYM until I found him. Just to coach that dude on the arts if he didn't make a move.


Thank you!
Well done senorita, way to capture a chance on love and not let it slip like a lot of us do :-)

esmeralda44

I will definitely keep you guys updated :bigsmile:

MelyndaWaldner

We need to make a group for this thread

esmeralda44

Update and not a good one!!

I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.

Mustang_Susie

Update and not a good one!!

I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.

:sad:

Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:

Jennisin1

His ex isn't his ex..... yet..............

MelyndaWaldner

Not a good update I want a happy ending

saxmaniac

Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:

Both.

He texted = still interested.
"Get involved" means monogamy.

NutellaAddict

Not a good update I want a happy ending

Who doesn't?

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harvo

Not a good update I want a happy ending

If I had a nickle for everytime I said that..... :bigsmile:

AlongCame_Molly

We need to make a group for this thread

Yes, THIS! I want to stay updated. This is the cutest story.

Reinventing_Me

Update and not a good one!!

I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.

:sad:

Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:

Awww. I was happy to read that they spoke.

Honestly, I think the ex is actually current. So...playing her. Sounds like he may have had a change of heart about creepin'. What kind of BS could he need to clear up with an ex that would keep hime from talking to another girl?

Lift_This_

God!

It's so awful how all you WOMEN are always hitting on us guys at the gym!

I'm just trying to go there and become fit and healthy and I can't get through one workout without you ladies perving on me.

i wanna perv on you!!!

Trechechus

From experience. Ask him to coffee. He might be interested but might never ask you because he isn't sure if he's misreading the signs.

JustJennie1

Update and not a good one!!

I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.

Awww. Bummer.

However . . .

He DID let you know that he had some baggage that he had to deal with which is a good thing.

I say play it by ear. Be friendly with him at the gym and if things eventually progress from there then great. The main thing is to keep the lines of communication open.

JustJennie1

Update and not a good one!!

I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.

:sad:

Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:

Awww. I was happy to read that they spoke.

Honestly, I think the ex is actually current. So...playing her. Sounds like he may have had a change of heart about creepin'. What kind of BS could he need to clear up with an ex that would keep hime from talking to another girl?

But he wasn't creeping. They were at the gym at the same time and would work in sets etc. Eventually they actually talked, exchanged names and numbers and were going to go out on a date.

Who knows what BS he might have with an ex that he has to deal with.She could be some psycho that he doesn't want bothering the OP or he's just being respectful and keeping the BS from her because he doesn't want her to get mad and annoyed over whatever he has to clear up.

Lift_This_

Update and not a good one!!

I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.

He met you and said, 'dang, i gotta break up."

great answer.

So_Much_Fab

So the ex troubles started only *after* you hung out a few times? Hmmm.

I suspect you're being friend zoned...or being set up as a future FWB...

Hope I'm wrong - good luck to you!

drchimpanzee

Just break up.

esmeralda44

Update and not a good one!!

I received a text yesterday from him. The text said that he was dealing with some bs from his ex and that he didn't want to get involved until he cleared it up. I respect his decision and really apreciate the honesty and I reply with a no worries my intension were never to cause problems. So we agreed to be friends...I didn't text him yesterday but he send me a text thismorning and I didn't wanted to be rude so I replied back.

:sad:

He said he was dealing with some bs so that he wanted to take care of it first.

Me: I really appreciate the honesty and I don't want to cause problems. I won't text you anymore...and I am sorry for any problems I might of caused.

Him: No you don't have to stop texting me its not like that we are not together anymore.

Me: Well I guess one can't never have too many friends, right (always trying to be nice )

Him: Yes and maybe later more



Okay, guys, what's your take on this?
Is he playing her or is he being honest?:huh:

esmeralda44

He said he was dealing with some bs so that he wanted to take care of it first.

Me: I really appreciate the honesty and I don't want to cause problems. I won't text you anymore...and I am sorry for any problems I might of caused.

Him: No you don't have to stop texting me its not like that we are not together anymore.

Me: Well I guess one can't never have too many friends, right (always trying to be nice )

Him: Yes and maybe later more

Jersey_Devil

So the ex troubles started only *after* you hung out a few times? Hmmm.

I suspect you're being friend zoned...or being set up as a future FWB...

Hope I'm wrong - good luck to you!

yep- time time to move on

lyngoode

bump