I approached my gym crush .....
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I have deleted his number and no I won't reply back to his messages ANYMORE.
I am not sad because I was right on point, which is the reason why I checked out his FB.0 -
Ok so Saturday he send a message about looking him up on facebook...so I did and I checked out his pics yesterday.
Today he updated his status as "in a relationship" I guess he is back with the EX
yup she gave him some to get him back when she learned there is potential competition, poor guy those on and off relationships aretaxing.
Perhaps, but I have shut the door and not gonna look back.... and may I add she is not pretty.0 -
I say let it go - smile sweetly at him at the gym but look elsewhere.
I agree but, I am not sure about the smiling.0 -
The more I read the more I'm convinced that none of this ever happened :yawn:
I wish it wouldn't have happended but I have learned my leasson....don't s*** were you eat!0 -
Well. yes and no. at least you tried. you followed the clues. were respectful of his statements. and now FB reveals he is attached. that may have been intentional. what if he was/is on break with someone but you were irresistible but he wanted to check things out first? can't blame a girl for trying when she didn't have all the info? can't blame a guy for trying when HE may not have had all the info too. so it didn't work out. the incumbent won. not surprising. no skin off your nose. it's not like you really had skin in the game he's someone you just met and had some eye candy that's all. at least you put yourself out there and are braver for the next one. who might turn out to be mr.-right-and-not-already-attached-and-sure-of-it. I gotta respect that you are smart enough to know when not to make a psycho of yourself. it could get ugly and humiliating to continue but I know about 99 problems who would have done just that. and be glad you ain't one. hat's off to a brave and mature handling of what could have been a sticky situation.:drinker: :flowerforyou:1
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Sad it turned out baddly but you handled yourself admirably throughout.1
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What makes you think that? Was it that she is a new member who signed up and immediately took to the forum and began a serial story but never posted anything else? No profile? No weight loss?The more I read the more I'm convinced that none of this ever happened :yawn:0 -
What makes you think that? Was it that she is a new member who signed up and immediately took to the forum and began a serial story but never posted anything else? No profile? No weight loss?The more I read the more I'm convinced that none of this ever happened :yawn:
Her join date was almost a year ago.0 -
The more I read the more I'm convinced that none of this ever happened :yawn:
You know what else didn't happen? Harry Potter but look how many imaginations that story captured. Also, I think this whole story was more magical when you lived through it with Esmeralda cause those wait days when we waited for an update were pretty intense. Hell, her name is Esmeralda if that isn't an awesome love story name I don't know what could be.
If she was a fake troll she delivered perfection, if not then we were part of something special even though it didn't have a happy ending it had a lot of heart and emotion. It had that small hope of finding love that most of us cheer for no matter what.1 -
This has ruined my day.
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Ok so Saturday he send a message about looking him up on facebook...so I did and I checked out his pics yesterday.
Today he updated his status as "in a relationship" I guess he is back with the EX
He let facebook do his dirty work for him?:huh:
Nice...:noway:1 -
This has ruined my day.
LOL :laugh:
Also sorry about how it ended sweetie. I've dealt with a player guy, it sucks when you find out.0 -
What makes you think that? Was it that she is a new member who signed up and immediately took to the forum and began a serial story but never posted anything else? No profile? No weight loss?The more I read the more I'm convinced that none of this ever happened :yawn:
Her join date was almost a year ago.
Yes, it was and for a while there I was on a crazy 1,200 calorie diet, so my trainer suggested not to go too crazy with my calorie intake because I do cardio for 45-60 min at least 4-5 days a week aside from my 5 day weight training.
Did I also mentioned I am 5'0" tall and weight 113 LBS (21 % body fat)....
And I would post a pic for I don't know how to .....can someone tell me how?0 -
Sad it turned out baddly but you handled yourself admirably throughout.
same here girl. just do ur thing at the gym and let him drool. he's obviously indecisive and kind of immature, he should have been straight up whether he was in or out of a relationship or even if he was trying to figure it out.1 -
Well. yes and no. at least you tried. you followed the clues. were respectful of his statements. and now FB reveals he is attached. that may have been intentional. what if he was/is on break with someone but you were irresistible but he wanted to check things out first? can't blame a girl for trying when she didn't have all the info? can't blame a guy for trying when HE may not have had all the info too. so it didn't work out. the incumbent won. not surprising. no skin off your nose. it's not like you really had skin in the game he's someone you just met and had some eye candy that's all. at least you put yourself out there and are braver for the next one. who might turn out to be mr.-right-and-not-already-attached-and-sure-of-it. I gotta respect that you are smart enough to know when not to make a psycho of yourself. it could get ugly and humiliating to continue but I know about 99 problems who would have done just that. and be glad you ain't one. hat's off to a brave and mature handling of what could have been a sticky situation.:drinker: :flowerforyou:
Well said! :drinker:0 -
Thank you all for all the support!!
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What makes you think that? Was it that she is a new member who signed up and immediately took to the forum and began a serial story but never posted anything else? No profile? No weight loss?The more I read the more I'm convinced that none of this ever happened :yawn:
Her join date was almost a year ago.
Yes, it was and for a while there I was on a crazy 1,200 calorie diet, so my trainer suggested not to go too crazy with my calorie intake because I do cardio for 45-60 min at least 4-5 days a week aside from my 5 day weight training.
Did I also mentioned I am 5'0" tall and weight 113 LBS (21 % body fat)....
And I would post a pic for I don't know how to .....can someone tell me how?
There is a thread on it here http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/262875-need-help-adding-pictures-look-here-pic-heavy
But for the record, you don't need to prove yourself here, people generally suck, and our trying to ruin our new MFP saga.0 -
Btw Op. Why dont you ask him what his name is. Hes probably shy. Keep saying hi to him everytime you see him. Maybe he'll get the hint.
^This....he sounds like how I act in the gym.0 -
This has ruined my day.
HA!
OP sorry things didn't turn out, but this was a cute story to read.0 -
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*edited - That's what I get for not reading the whole thread. Sorry it didn't work out for you, OP.0
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OP - better to learn now then later... You are Definitely better off without him..0
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Okay... so I'm terrible... but I was just thinking that I would hit on a different guy at the gym right in front of him and try to make him jealous.
But really, don't listen to me. The right thing to do is walk away.0 -
I would learn how to RUN! It has taken me many long years to realize that someone who cannot or will not feel comfortable with or around me OR who makes ME feel uncomfortable is not going to add to the beauty of my life. Longing and yearning and pining are vastly over-rated.
What? Not everyone has optimal social skills. Obviously.0 -
Aww man, I thought there might have been some developement in this story. OP, any updates from last year?0
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Ok so Saturday he send a message about looking him up on facebook...so I did and I checked out his pics yesterday.
Today he updated his status as "in a relationship" I guess he is back with the EX
He let facebook do his dirty work for him?:huh:
Nice...:noway:
My thoughts exactly. What a wuss.
edit: didn't notice this was a necrobump until I saw cowgirlqueen's post below.
Dude's still a wuss, though.1 -
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:grumble: I cant believe I jus wasted my time reading this year old thread :sick:
who's the trickisy little hobbit who dug this outta the cobwebs :huh:0 -
I totally didn't notice it was march 2013 until 2 posts ago.
I'm assuming OP has moved on!0 -
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