Picking up women at the gym?
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Pelvic thrusts in her direction will do it.
GOOD! But only one or two at a time. Once she thinks she imagined it, you can do it again. It is a good way to keep a woman off-balance, which is crucial to getting her to fall for you.
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Sorry.
I didn't mean to offend you.
I just thought that sense you were wearing make up that you were trying to look good.
And looking good was meant to, you know, attract the opposite sex.
Yes. This. When I wear make up it is for the sole purpose of luring men. Any man will do.I thought this was universally understood that women care more about male attention than they do about anything else. The truth is, I will wear make up if it'd make this guy glance twice at me:
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Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.0 -
in all seriousness, i got hit on last weekend. I normally don't accept phone numbers from dudes I just met and save them in my phone. But i did for this one guy. This is what he did right:
(1) He said Hi!
(2) he was a surfer so extra points.
(3) He bought me a shower.
yes. you read that right.0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
Agreed.
Thank you :flowerforyou:
And thank you for your advice earlier.
I appreciate it. The truth is that I just started working out so I'm not very good with talking to girls about exercise lol
What are some other topics women like to talk about?0 -
"Hey, I just met you and this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe."
Sing it.
Have a friend video it.
Post it on Facebook and YouTube.
#WIN0 -
I heard that if you look in the mirror at girls and do curls, make sure you kiss your bicep with each curl. To let them know you are powerful, but sensitive.
Second, I find that commenting on how good their hair smells is a sure fire way.0 -
And this is why I would only ever join a women's gym, which is a shame, because a lot of men are good at fitness. I'm sure I'd enjoy working out with them, if that's the reason they were actually talking to me, but it never is. Never.0
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This is the best advice. I highly recommend not hitting on them with a dumbbell like someone else suggested, we generally don't like head wounds.Try working on your bench and OHP, these compound moves will help you get strong enough to lift them.
glad to help:flowerforyou:
I hate the amount of people who try to pick up at the gym. This is why I'm afraid to compliment anyone or ask for advice. I swear everyones mind goes straight to if its the opposite sex they're hitting on you (way to many posts on this forum about this). Think about it, if you actually enjoy that gym, you'll never want to go there again if things don't work out :ohwell:0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
It's a joke. He knows it's stupid. That's why he posted it... most of the responses indicate that most of the people here also get it is a joke. The sad part is, some people really think like this
But we're making fun of those idiots!!!!
So lighten up! And join the fun!
http://youtu.be/KZvE7dQ-C5o 0 -
OMG...... the original poster is joking around, he is NOT serious....... *bangs head on desk*0
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Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
So... not taking the time to read something, getting the wrong idea, and judging someone because of it is okay.
Sounds legit.0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
It's a joke. He knows it's stupid. That's why he posted it... most of the responses indicate that most of the people here also get it is a joke. The sad part is, some people really think like this But we're making fun of those idiots!!!!
So lighten up! And join the fun!http://youtu.be/KZvE7dQ-C5o
This is why sexism still exists. People find it funny to degrade women.0 -
I heard that if you look in the mirror at girls and do curls, make sure you kiss your bicep with each curl. To let them know you are powerful, but sensitive.
Second, I find that commenting on how good their hair smells is a sure fire way.
Wow, this is really insightful. I like this advice a lot, OP.0 -
*bangs head on desk*
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Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
It's a joke. He knows it's stupid. That's why he posted it... most of the responses indicate that most of the people here also get it is a joke. The sad part is, some people really think like this But we're making fun of those idiots!!!!
So lighten up! And join the fun!http://youtu.be/KZvE7dQ-C5o
This is why sexism still exists. People find it funny to degrade women.
We didn't laugh because women are being degraded, we are laughing because people actually think he is serious and are giving serious answers..... that first post could have been written by a woman and the responses would have been the same....
Sheesh....breathe in and relax. And don't fight my liberties for me...or my rights0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
It's a joke. He knows it's stupid. That's why he posted it... most of the responses indicate that most of the people here also get it is a joke. The sad part is, some people really think like this But we're making fun of those idiots!!!!
So lighten up! And join the fun!http://youtu.be/KZvE7dQ-C5o
This is why sexism still exists. People find it funny to degrade women.
And of men too but nodody seems to care about that.0 -
Walk by them a lot with your pump. Make sure they can take a good look at those pumped biceps of yours. Make sure to never make direct eye contact either, use the mirrors reflection (or a reflection of a mirror off another mirror) instead.
LOL!0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
It's a joke. He knows it's stupid. That's why he posted it... most of the responses indicate that most of the people here also get it is a joke. The sad part is, some people really think like this But we're making fun of those idiots!!!!
So lighten up! And join the fun!http://youtu.be/KZvE7dQ-C5o
This is why sexism still exists. People find it funny to degrade women.
And of men too but nodody seems to care about that.
QFT. Number one pet peeve.0 -
Form is absolutely important in these delicate situations.
When picking up women over 90lbs, remember to lift with your legs.0 -
And of men too but nodody seems to care about that.
Thread is titled "Picking up women at the gym?" Not men.0 -
lol yeah tabinmaine, stop being so sexist against yourself lol. I wouldn't bother replying. You know it's just going to escalate.Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
It's a joke. He knows it's stupid. That's why he posted it... most of the responses indicate that most of the people here also get it is a joke. The sad part is, some people really think like this But we're making fun of those idiots!!!!
So lighten up! And join the fun!http://youtu.be/KZvE7dQ-C5o
This is why sexism still exists. People find it funny to degrade women.
We didn't laugh because women are being degraded, we are laughing because people actually think he is serious and are giving serious answers..... that first post could have been written by a woman and the responses would have been the same....
Sheesh....breathe in and relax. And don't fight my liberties for me...or my rights
Anyway after seeing this argument I stick by my original post but assure everyone I don't think liking someone and wanting to do something about it is degrading lol.0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
It's a joke. He knows it's stupid. That's why he posted it... most of the responses indicate that most of the people here also get it is a joke. The sad part is, some people really think like this But we're making fun of those idiots!!!!
So lighten up! And join the fun!http://youtu.be/KZvE7dQ-C5o
This is why sexism still exists. People find it funny to degrade women.
And of men too but nodody seems to care about that.
I care about that. A lot.
I *hate* sexism with a passion...how it affects girls AND boys. Women AND men (and everyone else too!)....
to think that sexism still exists because someone posted a patently obviously sarcastic post about what stupid dudes do in the gym is NOT the reason sexism still exists. This is part of being critical about sexism.0 -
Pelvic thrusts in her direction will do it.
GOOD! But only one or two at a time. Once she thinks she imagined it, you can do it again. It is a good way to keep a woman off-balance, which is crucial to getting her to fall for you.
Actually the M&M LMFAO wiggle dance does it for me! omgeee seriously. a guy that can dance like that can definitely have my number.0 -
I heard that if you look in the mirror at girls and do curls, make sure you kiss your bicep with each curl. To let them know you are powerful, but sensitive.
Second, I find that commenting on how good their hair smells is a sure fire way.
Wow, this is really insightful. I like this advice a lot, OP.
Just be careful how you go about smelling her hair....
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Are you guys trying to say "sexiest" or "sexist"? I think that women conforming to their appropriate gender role is indeed, the sexiest.
With love,
Burt0 -
And of men too but nodody seems to care about that.
Thread is titled "Picking up women at the gym?" Not men.
Picking up men at the gym?
1. arrive at gym
2. grab closest guy and leave
3. repeat as needed0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
It's a joke. He knows it's stupid. That's why he posted it... most of the responses indicate that most of the people here also get it is a joke. The sad part is, some people really think like this But we're making fun of those idiots!!!!
So lighten up! And join the fun!http://youtu.be/KZvE7dQ-C5o
This is why sexism still exists. People find it funny to degrade women.
And of men too but nodody seems to care about that.
I care about that. A lot.
I *hate* sexism with a passion...how it affects girls AND boys. Women AND men (and everyone else too!)....
to think that sexism still exists because someone posted a patently obviously sarcastic post about what stupid dudes do in the gym is NOT the reason sexism still exists. This is part of being critical about sexism.
Best answer.0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
I, like you, am "capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc". I am also capable of resisting the advances of men, in whatever setting, if I am not interested.
I should add that on one occasion a guy tried to help me lift 45 lb weights onto my olympic bar when I was doing dead-lifts. Seriously. Guys, DO NOT do that. EVER. It was an automatic failure on his part.0 -
Why do men have to be freakin sick? I go to the gym to workout. Not get hit on or to meet men. Nothing grossed me put more than when I'm busy doing something like working out or shopping for food and some pathetic low life thinks picking up a woman at a gym or grocery store is appropriate.
Agreed. Not all women are wanting to be hit on. Women are capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc. Men creeping on them is just degrading and disrespectful.
The OP is specifically asking how he can NOT come off as creepy. Maybe help him out with that because he is trying to be considerate of women. If you don't want someone hitting on you and they were polite about it, be polite in return. Surely you can be polite while turning someone down?
I only read his original post. I don't see anything about not coming off as creepy. I don't have time to read all of his additional posts. I still find the topic degrading.
I, like you, am "capable of exercising, having careers, having goals, etc". I am also capable of resisting the advances of men, in whatever setting, if I am not interested.
I should add that on one occasion a guy tried to help me lift 45 lb weights onto my olympic bar when I was doing dead-lifts. Seriously. Guys, DO NOT do that. EVER. It was an automatic failure on his part.
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