I need help understanding...
SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
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...women? What I did wrong? I don't know.
This morning, I was at the gym doing my workout, when this absolutely gorgeous woman came in. I noticed her immediately. I was in the middle of my workout, so I just stole glances as I moved from station to station.
At one point, as I was doing dips and chins (the bars are located on the back of the lat pull down machine) she came over to do her pulldowns when some guy jumped in before her. She stole a glance at me, and we made eye contact. She smiled and I smiled back. She cocked her head at the guy who cut her off, and rolled her eyes, and I laughed and nodded.
I came down from the chin bar, and we made some small talk. I mentioned that I saw that she had been working it hard today, and told her how I thought that was awesome. She blushed a litte. I told her that she had some great guns. Then I asked her how many kids she had. She asked me how I knew she had kids. So, I told her I could tell by her wide hips. I said, "you only get hips and booty that big post childbirth." She gave me this indignant look, and turned and walked away grumbling something.
I just don't get it. I thought we had a connection, and this might go somewhere. What'd I do wrong? I was just making an observation.
This morning, I was at the gym doing my workout, when this absolutely gorgeous woman came in. I noticed her immediately. I was in the middle of my workout, so I just stole glances as I moved from station to station.
At one point, as I was doing dips and chins (the bars are located on the back of the lat pull down machine) she came over to do her pulldowns when some guy jumped in before her. She stole a glance at me, and we made eye contact. She smiled and I smiled back. She cocked her head at the guy who cut her off, and rolled her eyes, and I laughed and nodded.
I came down from the chin bar, and we made some small talk. I mentioned that I saw that she had been working it hard today, and told her how I thought that was awesome. She blushed a litte. I told her that she had some great guns. Then I asked her how many kids she had. She asked me how I knew she had kids. So, I told her I could tell by her wide hips. I said, "you only get hips and booty that big post childbirth." She gave me this indignant look, and turned and walked away grumbling something.
I just don't get it. I thought we had a connection, and this might go somewhere. What'd I do wrong? I was just making an observation.
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Women NEVER want to hear that they have a big booty and hips!0
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Not sure if serious.0
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Dude.
I'm going to slowly back away from this topic and pretend you were being sarcastic...0 -
you *almost* had me believing this happened. well played.0
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seriously?? you're asking what you did wrong?? SMH0
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Smooth0
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LOL! That's funny. Good story.0
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Thanks for the laugh!! :laugh:0
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Women NEVER want to hear that they have a big booty and hips!
Really? But it's true... So why wouldn't she be accepting of it? I mean I don't get offended when people tell me I am short or fat...0 -
I love your way with women, Kev!
She was weird... that would so get you laid with every other woman on the planet... just keep trying.
Next time, mention the saggy boobs... Your head will be ringing!0 -
What happened? Seriously? You dropped a major hand grenade into what could have been a nice, sweet encounter, and you have to ask what YOU did wrong? What if the script were flipped, and she turned to you and said "Wow, I see you have a big bulge in your pants. Are you well hung, or did you just stuff a sock in it?"
really? do you think a guy would be bothered if a women came up to him and started talking about his junk? hmmmmmm...
a) it proves she was checking out his package
b) it proves she thinks its noticeable
yeah... no I think that might actually work...0 -
I don't know, it could have been that woody that made her think twice about anything long term.0
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What happened? Seriously? You dropped a major hand grenade into what could have been a nice, sweet encounter, and you have to ask what YOU did wrong? What if the script were flipped, and she turned to you and said "Wow, I see you have a big bulge in your pants. Are you well hung, or did you just stuff a sock in it?"
really? do you think a guy would be bothered if a women came up to him and started talking about his junk? hmmmmmm...
a) it proves she was checking out his package
b) it proves she thinks its noticeable
yeah... no I think that might actually work...
Touche. What exactly would be a turn off pick up line for a guy? "Hey sexy, I'm ovulating. Wanna put a baby in my belly?"0 -
I would recommend saying somthing like, "Just making small talk, I have kids too" (if you have kids) or "just making small talk" (if you don't). I'd probably look at you a bit odd too, but I don't get offended because I know I have large hips. *shrug*0
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What happened? Seriously? You dropped a major hand grenade into what could have been a nice, sweet encounter, and you have to ask what YOU did wrong? What if the script were flipped, and she turned to you and said "Wow, I see you have a big bulge in your pants. Are you well hung, or did you just stuff a sock in it?"
really? do you think a guy would be bothered if a women came up to him and started talking about his junk? hmmmmmm...
a) it proves she was checking out his package
b) it proves she thinks its noticeable
yeah... no I think that might actually work...
I sure wouldn't be offended. I'd offer to let her see it.0 -
Duh, you preface saying things like this by saying "I like big butts and I cannot lie" so she knows you appreciate what pregnancy and birth have done for her form. Otherwise, she might get the impression you are insulting her.0
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I love your way with women, Kev!
She was weird... that would so get you laid with every other woman on the planet... just keep trying.
Next time, mention the saggy boobs... Your head will be ringing!
Actually, her boobs were amazing.
You're a charmer, and I'm ovulating.
I try. Thanks!0 -
Duh, you preface saying things like this by saying "I like big buts and I cannot lie" so she knows you appreciate what pregnancy and birth have done for her form. Otherwise, she might get the impression you are insulting her.
Oh... I just didnt' get that. I didnt' want to seem like I was being too forward.0 -
Hun you came this all crabbed. You're supposed to knock her out and drag her by her hair back to your man cave first. Then profess you're undying love by telling her she has good birthin' hips. Every civilized man knows this! :bigsmile: 0
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I love your way with women, Kev!
She was weird... that would so get you laid with every other woman on the planet... just keep trying.
Next time, mention the saggy boobs... Your head will be ringing!
Actually, her boobs were amazing.
You're a charmer, and I'm ovulating.
I try. Thanks!
Try harder.0 -
Hun you came this all crabbed. You're supposed to knock her out and drag her by her hair back to your man cave first. Then profess you're undying love by telling her she has good birthin' hips. Every civilized man knows this! :bigsmile:
Writing this down. "Birthing hips" Excellent.0 -
Duh, you preface saying things like this by saying "I like big buts and I cannot lie" so she knows you appreciate what pregnancy and birth have done for her form. Otherwise, she might get the impression you are insulting her.
Oh... I just didnt' get that. I didnt' want to seem like I was being too forward.
Women like it when you comment on their physical appearance as long as you're being positive. I love getting messages from randoms guys saying "Show me your bewbs, they look hot" more than getting messages that say "Show me your bewbs" cause then I wonder if they are making fun of me.0 -
Not enough chloroform. And try approaching her in the parking lot next time.
LOL :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:0 -
You weren't creepy enough, women dig creepy guys.0
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Duh, you preface saying things like this by saying "I like big buts and I cannot lie" so she knows you appreciate what pregnancy and birth have done for her form. Otherwise, she might get the impression you are insulting her.
Oh... I just didnt' get that. I didnt' want to seem like I was being too forward.
Women like it when you comment on their physical appearance as long as you're being positive. I love getting messages from randoms guys saying "Show me your bewbs, they look hot" more than getting messages that say "Show me your bewbs" cause then I wonder if they are making fun of me.
OK. So next time, I see her, I should apologize and say something like.. "Look, I'm sorry that you were offended by my remarks. What I was really trying to say is that I think your wide birthing hips are pretty hot. I could see latching onto those and not letting go." Would that do it?
I think I can repair this. Thanks.0 -
Hun you came this all crabbed. You're supposed to knock her out and drag her by her hair back to your man cave first. Then profess you're undying love by telling her she has good birthin' hips. Every civilized man knows this! :bigsmile:
I just don't understand why there are all these mean replies. I am just trying to repair something that I thought was going good. These cutting sarcastic remarks are not helping. They are just mean. I thought this place was a place we all could come to for support and advice.0 -
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I love your way with women, Kev!
She was weird... that would so get you laid with every other woman on the planet... just keep trying.
Next time, mention the saggy boobs... Your head will be ringing!
Actually, her boobs were amazing.
You're a charmer, and I'm ovulating.
Ahh that inital spark...it's such a beautiful thing
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Duh, you preface saying things like this by saying "I like big buts and I cannot lie" so she knows you appreciate what pregnancy and birth have done for her form. Otherwise, she might get the impression you are insulting her.
Oh... I just didnt' get that. I didnt' want to seem like I was being too forward.
Women like it when you comment on their physical appearance as long as you're being positive. I love getting messages from randoms guys saying "Show me your bewbs, they look hot" more than getting messages that say "Show me your bewbs" cause then I wonder if they are making fun of me.
OK. So next time, I see her, I should apologize and say something like.. "Look, I'm sorry that you were offended by my remarks. What I was really trying to say is that I think your wide birthing hips are pretty hot. I could see latching onto those and not letting go." Would that do it?
I would also suggest placing your hand on the small of her back when you apologize, girls love it when you enter their personal space when apologizing. Makes it feel more so much more personal and heart felt.
I think I can repair this. Thanks.
Be sure to touch the small of her back when you apologize. Girls like it when you enter their personal space when apologizing. It makes it feel more heart felt.0 -
LMAO!!!! I would have wanted to punch you in the face!!!! You know better! I hope your kidding >.<0
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