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  • Posts: 168 Member
    I was kidding.
  • Posts: 5,214 Member

    Oh. I saw her car. I know which one it is. Maybe I can try to leave her a note that's a little less creepy. Something about how I love her great birthing hips.

    Siphon the gas. That's awesome. Thanks. I am getting some great ideas. I can be her white knight. This is great.

    Glad to help!
  • Posts: 168 Member

    I don't drink any beer. I'm confused.

    I was kidding.
  • Posts: 221 Member
    You are AWESOME! I hope this is a joke but if it isn't........................ then that even better!!
  • Posts: 344 Member
    lol IF you were being serious, even if she has a nice *kitten* and hips, don't comment on it. Make's you look perverted or in her case maybe she was very self conscious about her hips. Why mention the body at all when you meet someone? It's superficial unless your just trying to bang them.
  • Posts: 1,255 Member
    Big hips and butt= fat (woman's point if view lol)
  • Posts: 8,218 Member
    you *almost* had me believing this happened. well played.
  • Posts: 6,256 Member
    lol IF you were being serious, even if she has a nice *kitten* and hips, don't comment on it. Make's you look perverted or in her case maybe she was very self conscious about her hips. Why mention the body at all when you meet someone? It's superficial unless your just trying to bang them.

    I wasn't goign to mention the hips. I just asked about her kids. She is the one who asked me why I thought she had kids. I'm not going to lie to her. She shouldn't have asked me that if she was sensitive about her shape.
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    I am a personal trainer and I can assure you that it started out right when you complimented her on her arms, when comes to assumptions or personal observatiions about why someones figure is the way it is, back off. Once have had a chance to get know that person you will learn soon enough if they are married, or have any children. Like men, woman are sensitive to comments surrounding the body, my suggestion would be to limit your comment to general statements like "I see you here alot, it's clear from what I see your really dedicated to your program" stay away from topics like their chest, thighs, butt, stomach, or hips....at least until you know them better.
  • Posts: 221 Member
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    That's AWESOME!
  • Posts: 5,214 Member

    I was kidding.

    Why would you kid about somebody's body? That's just rude!
  • Posts: 6,256 Member

    Why would you kid about somebody's body? That's just rude!

    I reported that one.,
  • Posts: 5,214 Member

    I reported that one.,

    Sorry that happened to you, BB. People just don't understand how their words can cut.
  • Posts: 1,857 Member
    You weren't creepy enough, women dig creepy guys.

    THIS!
  • Posts: 6,256 Member

    Sorry that happened to you, BB. People just don't understand how their words can cut.

    You're kind of cute, and supportive. Do you have good birthing hips?
  • Posts: 883 Member
    I am a personal trainer and I can assure you that it started out right when you complimented her on her arms, when comes to assumptions or personal observatiions about why someones figure is the way it is, back off. Once have had a chance to get know that person you will learn soon enough if they are married, or have any children. Like men, woman are sensitive to comments surrounding the body, my suggestion would be to limit your comment to general statements like "I see you here alot, it's clear from what I see your really dedicated to your program" stay away from topics like their chest, thighs, butt, stomach, or hips....at least until you know them better.

    it it safe to compliment her on her toes? Maybe tell her how the thought of sucking on her big toe is making me salivate?
  • Posts: 31 Member
    Wow - you are asking what you did wrong?
  • Posts: 6,256 Member
    Wow - you are asking what you did wrong?

    Yeah. I've got some good advice so far. DO you have any more?
  • Posts: 5,214 Member

    You're kind of cute, and supportive. Do you have good birthing hips?

    You're in luck! I do!

    Let's run away together.
  • Posts: 94
    Damn...
  • Posts: 6,256 Member

    You're in luck! I do!

    Let's run away together.

    I would, but I am not sure what to do with Illinois
  • Posts: 168 Member

    Why would you kid about somebody's body? That's just rude!

    Ofcourse it was rude, I wasnt talking about the OP, I've never seen him before. I was giving an example of what the equivalent of that would sound like to a guy. Then below that i gave an example of what i thought may have sounded a little better to compliment the womans curves.
  • Posts: 793 Member
    I don't know man, but do you write for Harlequan romances ?
  • Posts: 1,899 Member
    You might as well have asked her when her butt was due to give birth.
  • Posts: 168 Member

    How do you know what his belly looks like?

    Lol. I have no idea what his belly looks like. I wasnt talking about him. A booty comment to a woman is as a belly comment might be to a man. Both offensive. Yes yes very rude. You got it!
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