WTF, Who Says That?!?!?!?!?

bri1720

On our one rare night out....

Me: What do you want to do?
Him: Drink.
Me: I want to play pool.
Him: Ok. Find out where we can play pool and drink. Make sure there's a lot of girls.
Me: WTF, What does that matter?
Him: I don't want to go to a place where I have to look at a bunch of guys playing pool.

As if I'm not already super self conscious of my appearance right now. Thanks.
I know it's just typical guy talk, but I thought guys had that guy code crap of things you just don't say.

erinpd

Well, who is "he" to you?

YAYJules

Well, who is "he" to you?

Yeah,if it's yourbrothe, there is no problem.

YAYJules

Well, who is "he" to you?

Yeah,if it's yourbrothe, there is no problem.

Dammit, brother!

RainHoward

If he's your sig other I think it's time to trade in for a new model. If not, no worries.

erinpd

Exactly. If that's your boyfriend, well...

He ain't. Sorry, honey.

YAYJules

Exactly. If that's your boyfriend, well...

He ain't. Sorry, honey.

Word.

kitty_764

'He' is a d*ck.

garryt1980

He had better be a friend and not a boyfriend... Because wow...

_Lori_Lynn_

On our one rare night out....

Me: What do you want to do?
Him: Drink.
Me: I want to play pool.
Him: Ok. Find out where we can play pool and drink. Make sure there's a lot of girls.
Me: WTF, What does that matter?
Him: I don't want to go to a place where I have to look at a bunch of guys playing pool.

As if I'm not already super self conscious of my appearance right now. Thanks.
I know it's just typical guy talk, but I thought guys had that guy code crap of things you just don't say.

He's being an a**hole! And he said it on purpose. What I don't understand is, what kind of FUN night did he think he was going to have with you, if he made you mad? It seriously would have irritated me so bad, his night would have sucked bc I would have had an attitude. Some guys are just not too bright. If he had said something like, "dress really hot tonight so I can check out your cleavage and your a*s while you bend over to shoot" then his night would have been amazing, bc you would have felt really good. Don't guys get that?

Once my friend and I were going for a girl's night. We went to a bar first to say hi to my bf at the bar before we went out for our night with the other girls. When we walked in my bf said to me, "why can't you look hot like your friend Jennifer?" WTF?

Moral of story: Boys are jerks, throw rocks at them, lol.

_Lori_Lynn_

He had better be a friend and not a boyfriend... Because wow...

I hope he's a friend NOW, bc she dumped him.

bjean1964

FAIL!

:noway:

elisa123gal

you must decide; do you want to lose him before the weight or after. I think if this man is your husband or boyfriend. His comment shows total lack of respect for you and it shows who he truly is. If he treats you like that because you are overweight it shows he has a lack of character and kindness. Your instincts to question him are right on.

diabloben68

On our one rare night out....

Me: What do you want to do?
Him: Drink.
Me: I want to play pool.
Him: Ok. Find out where we can play pool and drink. Make sure there's a lot of girls.
Me: WTF, What does that matter?
Him: I don't want to go to a place where I have to look at a bunch of guys playing pool.

As if I'm not already super self conscious of my appearance right now. Thanks.
I know it's just typical guy talk, but I thought guys had that guy code crap of things you just don't say.

Its not typical guy talk.

haley255

ooooo... nooooo that's not okay.

Ed98043

Maybe what he meant was "I don't want to go to a sausage-fest where a bunch of guys are watching YOU play pool". Either way, not cool.

jayche

Huh?

Edit: I'm confused can someone give me an idea of whats going on

billsica

That guy is just a disaster, that is not typical guy talk. But lets reverse it, because either way you should have went out to a lesbian bar instead. So he didn't have to look at guys.

Me: What do you want to do?
Him: Drink.
Me: I want to play pool.
Him: Ok. Find out where we can play pool and drink. Make sure there's a lot of guys.
Me: WTF, What does that matter?
Him: I don't want to go to a place where I have to look at a bunch of girls playing pool.

cheers! :flowerforyou:

CherokeeBabe

Yea....

"Who says that?" = Single Guys.

I could understand if you were in a very open and comfortable relationship, where that kind of thing is already accepted and fine between you, but based on you making a whole thread about it, I'm guessing that's not the case here. IF it's your BF or hubby, YOU should be his focus, not others.

BondBomb

Did you go? Did he check out other girls?
Sometimes I am amazed at what women tolerate.

SpeSHul_SnoflEHk

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I know it's just typical guy talk, but I thought guys had that guy code crap of things you just don't say.

There's a guy code?

DavPul

So many questions?

Are there bars where tons of girls shoot pool? I thought that was only in the movies.

How does one find out beforehand if there will be tons of girls at a particular pool hall? Yelp or something?

You said it's your "rare night out" which indicates a long term relationship. So I doubt if this is the first time he's joked like this. Why is it a big deal today?

If you went, were the other women hot? If so, please share the name of this fine establishment. Next time I go home, my wife and I will check out some.....err....shoot some 'pool' .

bethgames

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I know it's just typical guy talk, but I thought guys had that guy code crap of things you just don't say.

There's a guy code?

There ought to be. Maybe you should write one. But it wouldnt apply to idiots anyway, so OP would still be looking for a smarter version anyway.....

DonnaNCgirl

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I know it's just typical guy talk, but I thought guys had that guy code crap of things you just don't say.

There's a guy code?

LOLZ...guy code? That's hilarious!

OP, if you let this guy say things like that, then proceeded to go out with him, then proceeded to let him pleasure himself with your goodies, you give him permission to treat you this way.

SpeSHul_SnoflEHk

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I know it's just typical guy talk, but I thought guys had that guy code crap of things you just don't say.

There's a guy code?

LOLZ...guy code? That's hilarious!

OP, if you let this guy say things like that, then proceeded to go out with him, then proceeded to let him pleasure himself with your goodies, you give him permission to treat you this way.

I thought the rest was obvious. He's a douchecanoe. Even if he thinks it, it's just wrong for him to verbalize it, unless they are in an open relationship. But, if that were the case, I doubt she would have made a forum post.

la8ydi

So many questions?

Are there bars where tons of girls shoot pool? I thought that was only in the movies.

How does one find out beforehand if there will be tons of girls at a particular pool hall? Yelp or something?

You said it's your "rare night out" which indicates a long term relationship. So I doubt if this is the first time he's joked like this. Why is it a big deal today?

If you went, were the other women hot? If so, please share the name of this fine establishment. Next time I go home, my wife and I will check out some.....err....shoot some 'pool' .

OMG soooo funny!

Cr01502

"What you have just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."

Billy Madison

We'll bring this up at the next poker night to decipher the guy code for you.

taunto

On our one rare night out....

Me: What do you want to do?
Him: Drink.
Me: I want to play pool.
Him: Ok. Find out where we can play pool and drink. Make sure there's a lot of girls.
Me: WTF, What does that matter?
Him: I don't want to go to a place where I have to look at a bunch of guys playing pool.

As if I'm not already super self conscious of my appearance right now. Thanks.
I know it's just typical guy talk, but I thought guys had that guy code crap of things you just don't say.

The beauty of gender mentality differences is that in his mind, this wasn't about you. But in your mind, it is. I am not going to take sides but I will give you a mans perspective. This wasn't about you. He just didn't wanted to be surrounded only by guys.

If a girl goes to a all girls party, its got some potential. If a guy goes to an all guys party, thats a lame party. If a few girls show you, you know what that party is? Better!

Bottom line, not about you. I wouldn't have said it but then again, I know that in a womans mind, everything is about her and we're not allowed to say things that doesn't involve her (because she will just assume that it is about her)

tigersword

Wow, the lack of sense of humor in this thread is appalling. Or maybe it's just everyone is way too insecure. My wife admires other men (and women.) I admire other women. It's a natural thing. If you get bent out of shape over your significant other looking at someone else, or commenting about looking at someone else, then the problem isn't with your significant other.

So many questions?

Are there bars where tons of girls shoot pool? I thought that was only in the movies.

How does one find out beforehand if there will be tons of girls at a particular pool hall? Yelp or something?

You said it's your "rare night out" which indicates a long term relationship. So I doubt if this is the first time he's joked like this. Why is it a big deal today?

If you went, were the other women hot? If so, please share the name of this fine establishment. Next time I go home, my wife and I will check out some.....err....shoot some 'pool' .

Yes, right, 'shoot pool...'

Crankstr

Wow, the lack of sense of humor in this thread is appalling. Or maybe it's just everyone is way too insecure. My wife admires other men (and women.) I admire other women. It's a natural thing. If you get bent out of shape over your significant other looking at someone else, or commenting about looking at someone else, then the problem isn't with your significant other.

So many questions?

Are there bars where tons of girls shoot pool? I thought that was only in the movies.

How does one find out beforehand if there will be tons of girls at a particular pool hall? Yelp or something?

You said it's your "rare night out" which indicates a long term relationship. So I doubt if this is the first time he's joked like this. Why is it a big deal today?

If you went, were the other women hot? If so, please share the name of this fine establishment. Next time I go home, my wife and I will check out some.....err....shoot some 'pool' .

Yes, right, 'shoot pool...'

I am a really laid back person, and I think it is great that you and your wife are that way...

But I don't know about his approach...asking to make sure there are girls? tacky and lame.

tigersword

I personally think my wife would worry more if I wanted to go to a bar that had all guys in it...