what makes someone sexy? :)

beckieboomoo
beckieboomoo Posts: 590 Member
I want to be a sexy young lady not cute! So what makes someone sexy? :)
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  • HardDon
    HardDon Posts: 204
    A deep, philosophical, educated, spiritual *kitten*
  • FTSTL
    FTSTL Posts: 260 Member
    Confidence and empathy
  • Sense of humor....That's so stereotypical but, if you can make me laugh then I just get totally weak in the knees HA!
  • m76b
    m76b Posts: 1,498 Member
    :smokin: brain! a good one!
  • RandiLandCHANGED
    RandiLandCHANGED Posts: 630 Member
    Confidence.
  • BiggJim38
    BiggJim38 Posts: 1,077 Member
    Confidence
  • watchhillgirl
    watchhillgirl Posts: 597 Member
    Confidence and empathy

    This!
  • beckieboomoo
    beckieboomoo Posts: 590 Member
    I try to be confidence but i guess i know i have a baby face and it makes me feel like i look to young to be sexy and most of the time i don't feel that am good looking
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Confidence, a strong sexual presence, humor, physical appearance, and I am sure numerous other factors in varying combinations.
  • beckieboomoo
    beckieboomoo Posts: 590 Member
    Cute, I'll take that, better than nothing!

    PS, sexy seems to be a vibe that people give off, usually in their confidence or the way they hold themselves.

    it makes me feel like a 5 year old been called cute... But maybe that's just me :)
  • Confidence and empathy

    ^^^^^^^This and sense of humor is key :happy:
  • sheldonsteyn
    sheldonsteyn Posts: 483 Member
    Confidence, smile and eyes!
  • beckieboomoo
    beckieboomoo Posts: 590 Member
    Confidence and empathy

    ^^^^^^^This and sense of humor is key :happy:

    i try to be funny but i just make myself laugh xD
  • petersonabt
    petersonabt Posts: 518 Member
    Confidence and brains (imo)
  • beckieboomoo
    beckieboomoo Posts: 590 Member
    Confidence and brains (imo)

    Am off to uni in September ... So i have a little bit of knowledge .... Can't spell though xD
  • JustCallMe_Tanya_Eh
    JustCallMe_Tanya_Eh Posts: 954 Member
    Confidence and sense of humor
  • tuckerrj
    tuckerrj Posts: 1,453 Member
    Look him in the eyes. Be able to talk intelligently about something besides the Kardashians. Walk away if he doesn't talk respectfully or treat you well.
  • beckieboomoo
    beckieboomoo Posts: 590 Member
    Look him in the eyes. Be able to talk intelligently about something besides the Kardashians. Walk away if he doesn't talk respectfully or treat you well.

    i wouldn't be caught dead talking about that ****! Lol! I have a fella and i just wanna be sexy for him and not having to ask him if i look okay. And just generally want to be classed as sexy :)
  • super_J73
    super_J73 Posts: 257 Member
    A guy who opens the car door, I love that ****! :smile:
  • sbbhbm
    sbbhbm Posts: 1,312 Member
    If you can make me laugh- sexy.
    If you are well spoken- sexy.
    If you can talk dirty to me without sounding like an uneducated horny teenage boy- sexy.

    If you can combine all three, I will be your slave.
    Oh, and tattoos help :bigsmile:
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Supportive
    Willing to Communicate
    Sense of Self
    Able to Sit with Self
    Spirituality
    Kindness
    Honesty
    Boldness
    Takes opportunity when presented
    A great Flirt
    Basic Hygiene
    Clothes
    Admiration for A Deeper Human Connection
    A great Cook or willing to Learn
    Remains Teachable
    Bold and not Shy
    Social Control of Emotion
    Not a Clinger
    Able to see the Bright Side of any Situation
    A Leader
    Awareness
    Community
    Activism
    Not self centered
    Thoughtful
    Genuine
    Passionate
    Romantic

    Just to name a few
  • RandiLandCHANGED
    RandiLandCHANGED Posts: 630 Member
    If you can make me laugh- sexy.
    If you are well spoken- sexy.
    If you can talk dirty to me without sounding like an uneducated horny teenage boy- sexy.

    If you can combine all three, I will be your slave.
    Oh, and tattoos help :bigsmile:

    Can I change my answer to this?
  • CLFrancois
    CLFrancois Posts: 472 Member
    Confidence, not cockiness, and sense of humor. BUT not laughing at your own jokes if nobody else is, kwim?
  • If you can make me laugh- sexy.
    If you are well spoken- sexy.
    If you can talk dirty to me without sounding like an uneducated horny teenage boy- sexy.

    If you can combine all three, I will be your slave.
    Oh, and tattoos help :bigsmile:

    100% this ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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  • beckieboomoo
    beckieboomoo Posts: 590 Member
    If you can make me laugh- sexy.
    If you are well spoken- sexy.
    If you can talk dirty to me without sounding like an uneducated horny teenage boy- sexy.

    If you can combine all three, I will be your slave.
    Oh, and tattoos help :bigsmile:

    100% agreed especially the 3rd one ;)
  • LotusFlwr2013
    LotusFlwr2013 Posts: 217 Member
    First, I’m still carded and hit on by early 20 something’s, I don’t even think 30 plus men know I’m their age, so I can relate… only you are only 18 sweetie, so forget sexy… its overrated… intelligent, healthy, well rounded, sincere, outgoing, thoughtful, adventurous, knowledgeable… if any of these describe you then you are way ahead of sexy ;-)
  • Trueray
    Trueray Posts: 1,189 Member
    If you can make me laugh- sexy.
    If you are well spoken- sexy.
    If you can talk dirty to me without sounding like an uneducated horny teenage boy- sexy.

    If you can combine all three, I will be your slave.
    Oh, and tattoos help :bigsmile:

    100% agreed especially the 3rd one ;)


    Agree!
  • Allie_71
    Allie_71 Posts: 1,063 Member
    Be yourself, unapologetically.

    Don't try to change it or morph into something you're not.

    Be real. I find it compelling, attractive and quite rare to see. And when I find it, I'm hooked.
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