Friend requests. Message vs no message

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RandiLandCHANGED
RandiLandCHANGED Posts: 630 Member
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Do you decline friend requests if there is no message?
Do you send friend requests without adding a message?

I tend to decline requests without messages, and always send a message when I want to add somebody. Now I'm wondering what other people do.
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  • twinmomtwice4
    twinmomtwice4 Posts: 1,069 Member
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    Sometimes I'll accept an FR without a message. It just depends. No profile pic or any info in their profile, I definitely decline. But if the person has a pic and a decent description of what their goals are, sometimes I'll add them, esp if they seem to need support.

    I always send a message with FR's, just because I think it's a way to connect with someone. Why bother being "friends" with someone on a board like this if you don't plan on having some type of connection, like support or friendship?
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
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    I always add a least a brief not when sending. When receiving, I will generally accept, but may decline based on other factors.
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
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    almost never accept wo a message.
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
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    Do you decline friend requests if there is no message?

    Depends how hot they are.
  • bethgames
    bethgames Posts: 534 Member
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    Do you decline friend requests if there is no message?

    Depends how hot they are.

    Spoken like a true man! Yum! Bite! :drinker:
  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
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    I rarely ever send them and I never accept them w/o a message.



    Who am I kidding, I rarely ever accept them either. The FR has to be oozing awesome for me to accept.
  • OkieinMinny
    OkieinMinny Posts: 834 Member
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    I rarely ever send them and I never accept them w/o a message.



    Who am I kidding, I rarely ever accept them either. The FR has to be oozing awesome for me to accept.

    Thank GAWD mine was oozing awesomeness then :tongue:
  • lilcupcake213
    lilcupcake213 Posts: 545 Member
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    If there's no message I'll ask all my amazing friends if they know them...after getting replies like "he has a small pen!s"..or "no their name is stupid don't add them" I decline.

    If there is a message...I usually accept.
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
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    I'm a *kitten*, that should answer your question.
  • BlackStarDeceiver
    BlackStarDeceiver Posts: 590 Member
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    I decline, unless they're hot.
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
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    If there's no message I'll ask all my amazing friends if they know them...after getting replies like "he has a small pen!s"..or "no their name is stupid don't add them" I decline.

    If there is a message...I usually accept.

    :laugh:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    I only accept people with booze in their pic.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
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    I decline, unless they're hot.

    This.

    Or funny.
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
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    I accept everyone, internet is serious business
  • sizzle74
    sizzle74 Posts: 858 Member
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    I rarely request people, but when I do I always send a message. I hardly ever accept a FR without a message. It's annoying to me. WTH do you want to be my "friend"? lol
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,443 Member
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    I accept almost all requests. Male or female I ask myself, "would you bang this person?". The answer is always yes but with varying degrees of alcohol consumption.
  • YoungDoc2B
    YoungDoc2B Posts: 1,593 Member
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    I deny if there's no message. It implies that you didn't read my profile, which specifically asks to include a little message with your request. Every now and then, though, i'll let it slide if you're cute...lol
  • dirtbikegirl5
    dirtbikegirl5 Posts: 391 Member
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    I keep my profile public and I asked people to send a message with their FR to say what we have in common.
    If they do not send a message, I rarely accept.
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
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    Haha...I feel the need to test my luck :tongue:
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
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    I will accept pretty much anyone. It's like being given permission to stalk them and I'm all for it! Then if they turn out to be a dirtbag, I drop 'em (or they drop me when they realize I'm actually incredibly boring).

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