What is your dealbreaker when dating

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  • LittleMiss_WillLoseIt
    LittleMiss_WillLoseIt Posts: 1,373 Member
    If she has a penis...

    If he doesn't have one is what breaks it for me...
  • JusticeGirl25
    JusticeGirl25 Posts: 703 Member
    Don't like men that smoke. Big dealbreaker for me.
  • OneEyeUp
    OneEyeUp Posts: 373 Member
    Bloody texting someone else on a first date

    Lol man, if someone did that I'd just walk out.
  • Doodlewhopper
    Doodlewhopper Posts: 1,018 Member
    Spouse....
  • soundasleepx
    soundasleepx Posts: 98
    Bad personal hygiene! I can't stand bad body odour, bad breath, or greasy hair!
  • squatsandlipgloss
    squatsandlipgloss Posts: 595 Member
    So:

    Smoking/Drugs
    Drinking (drunk)
    Bad hygiene
    Lazy
    No ambitions
    Too insecure
    Too much baggage

    And a post above reminds me:

    I wouldn't date a religious person as I am an atheist. Also not someone who already has a child with someone else or has been married.

    ... Boy I am happy I already found someone, because I would probably be scared of being alone forever :P
  • SilverlMelody
    SilverlMelody Posts: 11 Member
    Someone who isn't funny. You have to have a sense of humor. You can't be someone who's serious all the time but of course, you have to be serious when the time calls for it.

    I have more but that's the biggest one I have.
    -Lack of intelligence.
    -Lack of respect and caring for others.
    -Lack of personal hygiene and caring for oneself.
    -Lack of self-respect/self-esteem.
    -Atheists.
    -Having more than one child.
    - Wanting to have sex too soon.

    Atheists too? D: Awws. Well, I'm more of agnostic than atheist but I wouldn't really wanna be with someone who's extremely religious too. Oh no. Cannot stand those people at all.
  • xLexa
    xLexa Posts: 482 Member
    liars


    alot have already been mentioned but I cannot stand lies.
  • keithmustloseweight
    keithmustloseweight Posts: 309 Member
    Any women I date must speak softly and honorably when I am walking.
    -Walk by the side of the road, and keep away from the middle.
    -Beware of standing by the door to welcome guests.
    -Do not go out of our home frequently for unnecessary things.
    -Does not lower her veil outside my house under any circumstances whatever.
    -When she stands in the balcony, take care what she wears
    - She must also beware of shaking hands with strange men. Don't travel without a guardian relative. These two actions are abominations and I don't appreciate them
    -Watch not to waste her time uselessly buying shoes or gossiping with other women, so praise God and ask for His pardon frequently in an inaudible voice
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    If they watch anything on the Lifetime network.
  • lilpoindexter
    lilpoindexter Posts: 1,122 Member
    Chicks that were born men
  • lilpoindexter
    lilpoindexter Posts: 1,122 Member
    Atheist in the HIZZY.
  • bmarie612
    bmarie612 Posts: 221 Member
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  • Thewatcher_66
    Thewatcher_66 Posts: 1,643 Member
    Name something that is a absolute dealbreaker to you when dating!

    I'm not picky. As long as she ain't crazy. lol
  • passmetheducksauce
    passmetheducksauce Posts: 211 Member
    if they aren't doctors or if they don't have a rich family #notagolddiggerthough
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< outta of the running




    Name something that is a absolute dealbreaker to you when dating!

    I'm not picky. As long as she ain't crazy. lol
  • Strokes_and_Lathers
    Strokes_and_Lathers Posts: 58 Member
    smoking
    don't take care of themselves
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    everything ! i just cant stand people.

    how do you date then??
  • OneEyeUp
    OneEyeUp Posts: 373 Member
    If they watch anything on the Lifetime network.

    This is the smartest thing I've read so far. It just has so many intricacies interwoven between the lines, that any man would do well to heed this advice.
  • oudixon
    oudixon Posts: 389 Member
    when they are married or engaged!
  • LilRachelle
    LilRachelle Posts: 25
    Haha! Got a kick outta reading all these. Some people are going to be lonely, lol. I haven't dated in sooo long, I wouldn't know but from past relationships and experience... lying, cheating and smokers. Ugh. Hope you're getting some good ideas. :flowerforyou:
  • angieleighbyrd
    angieleighbyrd Posts: 989 Member
    my husband made me stop dating a while ago....
  • jessicae1aine
    jessicae1aine Posts: 885
    Drinking is a total dealbreaker for me.

    So is smoking.

    Oh, and trying to say I can't have guy friends. ALL my friends are guys.
  • CherylAnn38
    CherylAnn38 Posts: 29 Member
    Smoker/Drugs
    Doesn't like animals.
    Bad teeth.
    Abusive.
    Religious fanatic.
    Stupid.
    Bad hygiene.
    Liar.
    Married or in a relationship with someone.
  • maisid
    maisid Posts: 69 Member
    I have a lot of dealbreakers, thats also the reason why I have been single for the past 11 years (but I did went on 5 dates in those 11 years) !!!! LOL

    But to name a few:

    Violent
    Rotten/ black teeth
    Bad hygiene
    And of course forgetting to mention that you are in a relationship or married
    Also a bunch of kids with a bunch of women
  • OneEyeUp
    OneEyeUp Posts: 373 Member
    Thats alot of time.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    I'm not picky. As long as she ain't crazy. lol

    Good luck with that one . . .
  • cbeutler
    cbeutler Posts: 667 Member
    Penis
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    I went on a date with someone who I was friends with for years. We weren't really close but we had a few interesting chats about health and the like over the years (his field). He immediately brought me to his house turned on a movie dimmed the lights and started pouring up wine. About 2 minutes later he turned off the TV leaned into me, kissed my neck and asked if we should take this to the bedroom. We didn't even have a conversation up to this point. I bursted into laughter. I laughed so hard I literally fell off the couch. I hurt my elbow on a table. I got up and left. It sounds a little crewl I know but I couldn't help myself. I found it hilarious. He was trying way to hard to make it all sensual soap opera like. Why does everyone assume immediate sex is ok with everyone? He apologized for 2 years. We're friends now :tongue:
  • Sqeekyjojo
    Sqeekyjojo Posts: 704 Member
    Evangelical religion.

    Too much interest in the reproductive and sexual rights of women.

    Creationism.

    Hating animals.

    Being rude to waiting staff.

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