What is your dealbreaker when dating

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  • diadojikohei
    diadojikohei Posts: 732 Member
    It would be him:

    Talking constantly about the ex.

    Talking constantly about what he and the ex got up to in the bedroom.

    Talking constantly about himself and how it wasn't his fault he and the ex broke up.
  • OneEyeUp
    OneEyeUp Posts: 373 Member
    It would be him:

    Talking constantly about the ex.

    Talking constantly about what he and the ex got up to in the bedroom.

    Talking constantly about himself and how it wasn't his fault he and the ex broke up.


    Nice. Very smart.
  • Okapi42
    Okapi42 Posts: 495 Member
    I'm extremely picky - I don't think I've been physically attracted to anyone, ever. Just the way I'm wired. So for me, it's all about brains and personality.
  • wendybird5
    wendybird5 Posts: 577 Member
    Smokers, drugs and horrid grammar.
  • ApexLeader
    ApexLeader Posts: 580 Member
    a penis
  • tallulahthunderbird
    tallulahthunderbird Posts: 138 Member
    When I was single, avid religion and not reading were two ways to get me to quickly go from interested to "nice to know you."
  • wildcatnyc
    wildcatnyc Posts: 2,410 Member
    Lying
    Cheating
    Smoking
    Drug use
  • diadojikohei
    diadojikohei Posts: 732 Member
    Lying
    Cheating
    Smoking
    Drug use

    What all on the same date!!!!!
  • Thewatcher_66
    Thewatcher_66 Posts: 1,643 Member
    Evangelical religion.


    Amen! No pun intended. I believe in God myself but if you have to mentioned Jesus every time you open your mouth, that's telling me that you might be a bit insecure about some things.
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    my husband made me stop dating a while ago....
    Good for him, I guess? :tongue:
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    my husband made me stop dating a while ago....
    My bf didn't make me stop but for goodness sake one is to many :p
  • Hbazzell
    Hbazzell Posts: 899 Member
    When I was single I had a lot, minus the regular standards (job, transportation, not a felon lol)

    Religion ( I could not date a religious person)
    Politics (I could not date a republican or tea partier)
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    My dealbreakers are infidelity and massive insecurity.
  • Sqeekyjojo
    Sqeekyjojo Posts: 704 Member
    Evangelical religion.


    Amen! No pun intended. I believe in God myself but if you have to mentioned Jesus every time you open your mouth, that's telling me that you might be a bit insecure about some things.

    I agree. There's nothing wrong with somebody having a belief system, but when you can't even go on a date without speaking incessantly about it, well, that's worrying. And rather boring.
  • k_saenz
    k_saenz Posts: 126
    stupid and cocky -_-
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    stupid and cocky -_-
    I would have to turn to the other side if I had those rules :p
  • Strokes_and_Lathers
    Strokes_and_Lathers Posts: 58 Member
    moaning the wrong name!
  • barbaratrollman
    barbaratrollman Posts: 317 Member
    *Too loud
    * Braggarts...always boasting about themselves. Boring!
    *Mean or rude to others...I was once on a dinner date and the guy was so rude to the waitress. There was no more dating him.
    *No humor, no more dating. I want somebody who can make me laugh and who totally gets my sense of humor.
    No currently using alcohol or drug addicts...also no cigarette smokers. I am not interested in dating anybody who does not at all give a crap about improving their mental and physical health.
  • diadojikohei
    diadojikohei Posts: 732 Member
    When he turns up to a date with all his mates, I sort of think he's not really that interested in me!!!

    (Yeah, I know, I don't get out much!)
  • mamosh81
    mamosh81 Posts: 409 Member
    many been mentioned before here

    religious fanatic
    stupid
    dont like dogs
    lacking personal hygiene
    and small stubby fingers/hands
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    Religious
    Too many kids.
    Too many mothers for your many kids.
    Smoking
    Excessive drinking
    Pot use. I'm not against it I just rarely meet guys that use it infrequently. They usually love it too much.
    Bad teeth.
    I was going to add 'black' here as a joke. Since I'm black and all. But I know how some people on MFP get your panties all twisted. So laugh at my almost joke.
  • OneEyeUp
    OneEyeUp Posts: 373 Member
    Evangelical religion.


    Amen! No pun intended. I believe in God myself but if you have to mentioned Jesus every time you open your mouth, that's telling me that you might be a bit insecure about some things.

    This.
  • Thewatcher_66
    Thewatcher_66 Posts: 1,643 Member
    Another deal breaker- speaking poorly. Very bad grammar. Using multi-syllable words in the wrong context or just making up words. It's especially annoying if you own a college degree. You should know better.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Constant combativeness, smoking, infidelity, hard drugs, lack of intelligence, dishonesty, lack of affection. Really, I could go on.

    And sexual incompatibility.
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    I don't date ( 42 years married) but married, dating, friends, business, whatever the relationship, there is only one dealbreaker; lying. I do not lie. You may not like the answer you get, but I do not lie, period. I think nearly any transgression can be forgiven unless you destroy trust by throwing a lie on top of it. Lie to me, you're gone.
  • Jolene8992
    Jolene8992 Posts: 127 Member
    A cackling laugh or bad teeth. Im ok with a little pudge, but hate a big beer gut
  • 1223345
    1223345 Posts: 1,386 Member
    Drugs.
  • Brianna72994
    Brianna72994 Posts: 887
    I dont like to date guys with kids. Usually theres some baby mama drama involved. No thank you!
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    When you don't respond to me.
  • Meg_78
    Meg_78 Posts: 998 Member
    Not being Alexander Skarsgård!

    But seriously, being possessive and/or violent and/or an asshat are pretty much my only deal breakers!

    Though this thread makes me understand why some people are still single,...so many conditions!

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