I may be chubby BUT I run Half Marathons
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right there with ya. marathons half marathons and everything in between. you all can watch my butt bouce 26 miles
dont bother me none.
good job!.0 -
Awesome!!!0
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I know this is going to get me a bunch of crap, but whatever...
Why did you assume that this lady was thinking anything about you? And why did the other poster assume that the "skinny little girl" and her boyfriend were looking at her and laughing about her?
I know when I run, I don't much pay attention to anyone but myself. I assume that other people are there for the same reason. It never occurs to me that anyone else cares what I do, let alone that they would go out of their way to express it to me.
I actually agree with this. Maybe that other person was just startled by you running up past her. Or maybe she was in a bad mood. Maybe she was jealous about the fact you were running at all and she couldn't for whatever reason, but it had no idea with the fact that you are "chubby". Just a few thoughts. Not everyone has a negative mindset and looks down on others that are able to run.
It's the eternal optimist in me.
I must say, that I agree with these ladies as well.
While I give the OP many kudos for running, keep in mind that the word ASSUME has the word A$S in it...
There was one time recently, I was out walking the city trails when a larger man passed me jogging. Red faced, breathing heavy, not real fast but he kept his pace and kept moving. I didn't know this man but when he came to a stop where the trail meets the park, I couldn't help myself, I had to tell him that I thought he was AWESOME for jogging, to keep it up and have a wonderful evening. I think he almost stroked out from shock haha0 -
Hello fellow MFP members and fellow runners. Have you ever gone out for a run and had people look at you and you can tell that they are thinking "Why is that person running they are over weight?" I was out training for a race a few weeks back and I got the dirtiest look from some lady walking along the path. So me the smartie pants that I am said very loud so the miserable cow could hear me "Hey I might be chubby but I can run half marathons" Yep pretty sure that made her think again before judging people!!
You don't know what this lady was thinking...at all.
You calling her miserable cow? How immature and judgmental of you.
Good job on your running, as a big person I get that...But you have a lot of growing up to do. This lady did NOTHING wrong to you...
Agreed. You have no idea what anyone is thinking.
Great job with the running, but most people who see a bigger person running think, "good for them," not "why are they running?"
It says a lot about your mindset that you assume judgment.0 -
Hello fellow MFP members and fellow runners. Have you ever gone out for a run and had people look at you and you can tell that they are thinking "Why is that person running they are over weight?" I was out training for a race a few weeks back and I got the dirtiest look from some lady walking along the path. So me the smartie pants that I am said very loud so the miserable cow could hear me "Hey I might be chubby but I can run half marathons" Yep pretty sure that made her think again before judging people!!
You don't know what this lady was thinking...at all.
You calling her miserable cow? How immature and judgmental of you.
Good job on your running, as a big person I get that...But you have a lot of growing up to do. This lady did NOTHING wrong to you...
As someone who's never been overweight, I can attest than normal-sized and thin women do not sit around making fun of the overweight. They might compare themselves with women who are thinner, or be concerned about getting fat themselves, but as with most things, people focus on people who are better off, not worse off. For example, if you're of so-so income, and making unhappy comparisons, you tend to think about people who are rich, not poor.0 -
The fear of being judged kept me from running alot sooner than i started, and i regret it. But once i put my music in my ears and hit the trail it is all about me and i pay no attention to others... unless i am admiring someone elses endurance as they wiz past me. Seeing others on the trail, whether walking liesurely, swiftly, jogging, running, biking, skating.. makes me happy that people are getting out and moving however they can. And it keeps me motivated.0
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Growing up, I knew two sisters. The older one was always chubby but VERY athletic, the younger one was always very slim but very lazy....
the older one could run circles around just about anyone I knew, the younger one could barely keep up with half of us...
that taught me from a very early age that size means nothing and health means everything.
it just took me a while to apply it to myself.0 -
For everyone defending the gawkers, when people give them dirty looks or stare, one can't help but to assume that someone is talking about them. if you are having a bad day, keep that to yourself, don't make nasty faces at people and stare at them and ruin THEIR day. I was taught from birth that staring is rude. I wouldn't have commented back like the OP because I don't say anything to people unless they say something to me first.
I wish I would have commented to the jerk at the breast cancer 5k I entered a few years ago. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer that year and I entered the run portion as a personal challenge to myself and to support the cause. I started walking toward the end because my of shin splints and the guy next to me commented that he can't understand why people couldn't run "2 miles, Come on!". there were survivors and people like myself out there running for loved ones, not because we were athletes. that was very tacky to me. I was too hurt to say anything. Fortunately, there was a woman near the end who cheered us on and made me feel better. It was my first and ONLY race, I'm not a runner.0 -
Good for you! I've participated in races and there are people who can run much faster than me even though they appear to be overweight. I've had elderly people overtake me and I'm not a particularly slow person either.
As for how you can tell what someone is thinking, well you can't but sometimes their facial expressions and body language give away their thoughts.0 -
For everyone defending the gawkers, when people give them dirty looks or stare, one can't help but to assume that someone is talking about them. if you are having a bad day, keep that to yourself, don't make nasty faces at people and stare at them and ruin THEIR day. I was taught from birth that staring is rude. I wouldn't have commented back like the OP because I don't say anything to people unless they say something to me first.
I wish I would have commented to the jerk at the breast cancer 5k I entered a few years ago. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer that year and I entered the run portion as a personal challenge to myself and to support the cause. I started walking toward the end because my of shin splints and the guy next to me commented that he can't understand why people couldn't run "2 miles, Come on!". there were survivors and people like myself out there running for loved ones, not because we were athletes. that was very tacky to me. I was too hurt to say anything. Fortunately, there was a woman near the end who cheered us on and made me feel better. It was my first and ONLY race, I'm not a runner.
Seriously???
First, not everyone assumes the worst. Someone looked at me, OMG, they think I'm a fat, ugly, racist that should be burned at the stake. Um, no. The OP did something. The person they were talking about looked at them, apparently in the wrong way. OP made an assumption. Probably both of them were wrong, but ultimately people need to mind their own damn business, quit biching about things and move along.
Second, I've been in races before and made similar comments. Sure, tone can impact how you take something, but so can your own frame of mind. Maybe he meant, "It's only 2 miles... you got this, grind out this last stretch and you're done." Why do you assume he meant that you were fat piece of crap for not being able to run 2 miles?
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I always think that if people are judging me, they obviously aren't working hard enough on their own workout. When I *try* to run it's along the Charles River with all the kids and athletes from Harvard so I look very silly next to them. Oh well!0
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For everyone defending the gawkers, when people give them dirty looks or stare, one can't help but to assume that someone is talking about them. if you are having a bad day, keep that to yourself, don't make nasty faces at people and stare at them and ruin THEIR day. I was taught from birth that staring is rude. I wouldn't have commented back like the OP because I don't say anything to people unless they say something to me first.
The fact is, it's assuming. And coming on the internet calling this lady who did NOTHING WRONG a "miserable cow" is pretty immature.
If people are going to let the way someone looks, or the look on their face ruin THEIR day...wow, just wow..0 -
For everyone defending the gawkers, when people give them dirty looks or stare, one can't help but to assume that someone is talking about them. if you are having a bad day, keep that to yourself, don't make nasty faces at people and stare at them and ruin THEIR day. I was taught from birth that staring is rude. I wouldn't have commented back like the OP because I don't say anything to people unless they say something to me first.
The fact is, it's assuming. And coming on the internet calling this lady who did NOTHING WRONG a "miserable cow" is pretty immature.
If people are going to let the way someone looks, or the look on their face ruin THEIR day...wow, just wow..
I have to agree. This is ridiculous, folks. Focus on what you are doing. Just because someone looks at you "wrong" doesn't give you the right to start yelling at them and calling them names. I'm honestly surprised at the number of pats on the back the OP has received for this behavior.0 -
For everyone defending the gawkers, when people give them dirty looks or stare, one can't help but to assume that someone is talking about them. if you are having a bad day, keep that to yourself, don't make nasty faces at people and stare at them and ruin THEIR day. I was taught from birth that staring is rude. I wouldn't have commented back like the OP because I don't say anything to people unless they say something to me first.
I wish I would have commented to the jerk at the breast cancer 5k I entered a few years ago. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer that year and I entered the run portion as a personal challenge to myself and to support the cause. I started walking toward the end because my of shin splints and the guy next to me commented that he can't understand why people couldn't run "2 miles, Come on!". there were survivors and people like myself out there running for loved ones, not because we were athletes. that was very tacky to me. I was too hurt to say anything. Fortunately, there was a woman near the end who cheered us on and made me feel better. It was my first and ONLY race, I'm not a runner.
Dude. A person you perceive as "giving you a dirty look" may only be grimacing because they're working so hard, or the sun is in their eyes, or they have just belched up today's lunch. A person who is giving you a "stare" may simply be zoned out, listening to her music, thinking about a fight she had with her boss or her mom. Maybe they aren't trying to keep anything to themselves because there is NOTHING TO KEEP TO THEMSELVES. Maybe they aren't trying to ruin your day.
I talk to people all the time during races. (And a 5k is my least favorite distance, because I think it's the hardest). I told a young 20-something girl at a 5k last year not to let an old lady like me (I'm in my 40's) beat her. I waited for her at the finish line and she thanked me for trying to rally her.
I don't know. I think you're being really overly sensitive.0 -
Hello fellow MFP members and fellow runners. Have you ever gone out for a run and had people look at you and you can tell that they are thinking "Why is that person running they are over weight?" I was out training for a race a few weeks back and I got the dirtiest look from some lady walking along the path. So me the smartie pants that I am said very loud so the miserable cow could hear me "Hey I might be chubby but I can run half marathons" Yep pretty sure that made her think again before judging people!!
You don't know what this lady was thinking...at all.
You calling her miserable cow? How immature and judgmental of you.
Good job on your running, as a big person I get that...But you have a lot of growing up to do. This lady did NOTHING wrong to you...
I agree with this. Nice judging, OP.0 -
you are damn right!
im chubby but i can run and love running. i once told a guy at work id signed up for a half marathon and he actually laughed in my face and said ''YOURE doing a half marathon?'' and im like '''yes...i run every day actually...'' ****head.0 -
And Dead Last Finish is greater then did not finish, which trumps did ntot start!!
I LOVE this!!!0 -
Haha this made me happy. 0
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While I in no way look like a waifish distance runner, I generally look the part well enough. I always wonder why ladies on the trail give me dirty looks. I figured it was a jealousy thing, I never stopped to think they thought I was too big to be a runner. Hmmmm. . .now I have something else to filter those glances through.
Can't figure out what goes through us ladies' minds! I'm always cheering for the newer runner. If I see an overweight person running, inside I'm like "YES!!" Go get it!!!0 -
Girlie, I am 80lbs overweight and I have done six 5k's!!!!I am doing a 5K in June. I am very nervous about being overweight and trying to run. I pray I dont do to bad!0 -
my friend and I made shirts that say "Who said chubby girls can't run?" on the front and the back with a girl running. They are pretty funny, and I can't wait to wear it to my first 10K at the end of May.0
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Hello fellow MFP members and fellow runners. Have you ever gone out for a run and had people look at you and you can tell that they are thinking "Why is that person running they are over weight?" I was out training for a race a few weeks back and I got the dirtiest look from some lady walking along the path. So me the smartie pants that I am said very loud so the miserable cow could hear me "Hey I might be chubby but I can run half marathons" Yep pretty sure that made her think again before judging people!! Why is it that non runners think you have to be thin and be an elite runner just to run. I am by no means a Kenyan but I get out there. It doesnt matter if you can complete with an amazing time or if it takes you alot longer then the "AVERAGE JOE" you are getting out there and having fun (well most times having fun) And Dead Last Finish is greater then did not finish, which trumps did ntot start!!
I think that is great you are running, I don't think size should matter, I think the trip part about this too on the flip side is how do you know what she was really thinking?0 -
my friend and I made shirts that say "Who said chubby girls can't run?" on the front and the back with a girl running. They are pretty funny, and I can't wait to wear it to my first 10K at the end of May.
Want one!!0 -
Hello fellow MFP members and fellow runners. Have you ever gone out for a run and had people look at you and you can tell that they are thinking "Why is that person running they are over weight?" I was out training for a race a few weeks back and I got the dirtiest look from some lady walking along the path. So me the smartie pants that I am said very loud so the miserable cow could hear me "Hey I might be chubby but I can run half marathons" Yep pretty sure that made her think again before judging people!! Why is it that non runners think you have to be thin and be an elite runner just to run. I am by no means a Kenyan but I get out there. It doesnt matter if you can complete with an amazing time or if it takes you alot longer then the "AVERAGE JOE" you are getting out there and having fun (well most times having fun) And Dead Last Finish is greater then did not finish, which trumps did ntot start!!
I LOVE your attitude -- especially that last line, which is my attitude totally.
I may be the last one to finish in Crossfit, but I am there, I am not afraid to do it, and I am only there to improve myself -- not in relation to others.0 -
For those of you hesitant to enter and run a race, let me tell you something.
I run marathons, half marathons, 10k's, and 5k's and do look athletic and look like a runner. I also do not EVER judge someone on how they look. The running community is very tight and you will see every kind of person at these races. From kids to women and men in their 80's. Short, tall, fat, and thin. There is just so much support at these events. Trust me.... know one is looking at you or judging you.
Don't put pressure on yourself once you do finally sign up and line up at the starting line. People walk, run, walk and run, whatever it takes to have fun and get to that finish line.
Also......
While I was dying at mile 22 at the Rock N Roll marathon in St. Louis last October.... a 50+ year old woman with some extra pounds sailed past me and finished before me. She actually motivated me to keep it moving and get to that 26.2 mile finish!!0 -
Hello fellow MFP members and fellow runners. Have you ever gone out for a run and had people look at you and you can tell that they are thinking "Why is that person running they are over weight?" I was out training for a race a few weeks back and I got the dirtiest look from some lady walking along the path. So me the smartie pants that I am said very loud so the miserable cow could hear me "Hey I might be chubby but I can run half marathons" Yep pretty sure that made her think again before judging people!! Why is it that non runners think you have to be thin and be an elite runner just to run. I am by no means a Kenyan but I get out there. It doesnt matter if you can complete with an amazing time or if it takes you alot longer then the "AVERAGE JOE" you are getting out there and having fun (well most times having fun) And Dead Last Finish is greater then did not finish, which trumps did ntot start!!
You are so right!!! I love this post!! Great job!0 -
Good for you, you go girl 0
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Hello fellow MFP members and fellow runners. Have you ever gone out for a run and had people look at you and you can tell that they are thinking "Why is that person running they are over weight?" I was out training for a race a few weeks back and I got the dirtiest look from some lady walking along the path. So me the smartie pants that I am said very loud so the miserable cow could hear me "Hey I might be chubby but I can run half marathons" Yep pretty sure that made her think again before judging people!!
WTH is wrong with you?? Someone looked at you the wrong way and you react like bratty teenager?
Also, where did you learn to read minds?
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Too bad humans can't read facial expressions or body language...
Ah, the mystery of it all.0 -
Too bad humans can't read facial expressions or body language...
Ah, the mystery of it all.
What are you talking about? I'm pretty sure she wants me.0
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