Infidelity & MFP - What Gives?
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Yeah I've banged all the wives and gf's on my fl because I said so and you can't lie on the internet
Beat me to it! Aaand posted it correctly! LOL!0 -
You said something that's going to hit a little too close to home for a lot of people.
Expect them to react poorly.
Doesn't mean you're wrong.
Definately this ^
Am I reacting poorly? I sure hope so.........0 -
One of the parties involved was telling me what was happening.
Just curious, how do you really know this is what happened unless you were involved?Talking about the half dozen examples in my time here I know about in which they PM'd all night, propositioned one another, spouses didn't know they were on here, lead to phone calls, KIK, sexting, etc....
Why not talk to him or her about your concerns then? I don't believe most of what you see here constitutes infidelity. Harmless and none of my business.0 -
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what an awkward thread0
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This thread is making me horny.0
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You're welcomeThis thread is making me horny.0 -
I agree with you in that people's conduct online should be such that they wouldn't be uncomfortable saying those things in front of their spouse in real life.
Really, though . . . this is the internet. Have you ever read the comments section below any news story, video, editorial, etc.? All sorts of people come out of the woodwork. Concerning yourself with their morality is very overwhelming and not likely to be productive!0 -
You're welcomeThis thread is making me horny.
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I have often wondered about some of the posts on here too. But, people are correct - it's their business. People who honestly believe that they are not dishonoring their spouse with 'harmless' flirting have never been in a situation of compromise. People will play with fire until they get burned.
My husband is not on here, but I would expect him to honor me the same way I do him if he were on here. I do not post anything that I would not want him to read. Why would I want him to believe in any way that he's not enough for me? Why would I not want to honor my husband?0 -
I cant say that I've seen infidelity in the forums/among my friends (but I also dont normally peruse this "chit-chat" forum because I dont find most of the topics beneficial to my weight loss journey). With that being said, I respect my husband and our marriage so I dont entertain ANY conversations that (1) I wouldnt want him to have with other women and (2) that I would NOT have in his presence.
^^^^^^^^^^^I feel the same way^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^. I am on here for one thing and one thing only. Weight loss and if that is not your purpose of being in my MFP circle...you can step!!!
This topic has nothing to do with weight loss, and yet, you replied to it...in the Chit Chat forum. Apparently, weight loss isn't the only thing thing you're here for. You're also here to share your opinion.
Apperently I can respond to what the hell I want to and dont need your approval or reponse. GTFOH
Wow so angry, and it's Apparently0 -
Definitely! Lesson learned mama!. :flowerforyou: (it was just a simple question to cause all this fuss) hahahI agree with you in that people's conduct online should be such that they wouldn't be uncomfortable saying those things in front of their spouse in real life.
Really, though . . . this is the internet. Have you ever read the comments section below any news story, video, editorial, etc.? All sorts of people come out of the woodwork. Concerning yourself with their morality is very overwhelming and not likely to be productive!0 -
You said something that's going to hit a little too close to home for a lot of people.
Expect them to react poorly.
Doesn't mean you're wrong.
Definitely this ^
I'm with ya. I don't need or want to flirt, I don't get it? Totally happy with my choice.0 -
Snap!:noway:In my time here, I've witnessed a fair amount of dating, canvasing, flirting, propositioning, attention seeking, etc (whatever you want to call it - in it's many shades) among married people. Tho single, I've been married and and have full respect for the institution (forgive the pun).
If there's one thing I really love... it's getting marriage advice from people who failed at it.0 -
Would've never guess that!
You're welcomeThis thread is making me horny.
Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.0 -
I just found out this thing had a food diary yesterday.
lol...awesome0 -
No, not really a "snap". More of a "meh".
Snap!:noway:In my time here, I've witnessed a fair amount of dating, canvasing, flirting, propositioning, attention seeking, etc (whatever you want to call it - in it's many shades) among married people. Tho single, I've been married and and have full respect for the institution (forgive the pun).
If there's one thing I really love... it's getting marriage advice from people who failed at it.0 -
You're welcomeThis thread is making me horny.
Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.
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You're welcomeThis thread is making me horny.
Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.
we know.:drinker:0 -
I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose0
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In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.0
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I just found out this thing had a food diary yesterday.
There's a food diary here? :huh:
Yeah, I'm still lost!!! There's a FOOD DIARY?!?!? WHERE !!!!!!!!!0 -
I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose
And the infidelity, right?0 -
I cant say that I've seen infidelity in the forums/among my friends (but I also dont normally peruse this "chit-chat" forum because I dont find most of the topics beneficial to my weight loss journey). With that being said, I respect my husband and our marriage so I dont entertain ANY conversations that (1) I wouldnt want him to have with other women and (2) that I would NOT have in his presence.
^^^^^^^^^^^I feel the same way^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^. I am on here for one thing and one thing only. Weight loss and if that is not your purpose of being in my MFP circle...you can step!!!
This topic has nothing to do with weight loss, and yet, you replied to it...in the Chit Chat forum. Apparently, weight loss isn't the only thing thing you're here for. You're also here to share your opinion.
Apperently I can respond to what the hell I want to and dont need your approval or reponse. GTFOH
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In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages already, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.
True story. Two of them were sent to me...0 -
For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.
Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.
Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?0 -
In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.
Knew I shouldn't have clicked my message box0 -
Perhaps your definition of infidelity differs to that of other people's?
Other relationships understand harmless flirting doesn't always lead to rolling around in the bed sheets.
I had my own comment in mind until I read this one...it sums it up quite nicely!!0 -
I'm single but I can't wait until I become Internet porn candy to the ladies...0
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You're welcomeThis thread is making me horny.
Don't feel too special. Everything makes me horny.
I like you. :flowerforyou:0
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