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    Infidelity & MFP - What Gives?

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    • Posts: 244 Member
      We are almost to the proverbial....

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      TRAINWRECK!!!
    • Posts: 858 Member
      I came to MFP to do two things lose some weight and judge people's personal lives, and I'm almost out of weight to lose

      ~Hands you a donut~
    • Posts: 1,631 Member
      I'm in a relationship for a while now that I think qualifies as a marriage. I don't do anything that I wouldn't tell my old man about. But you might be surprised what I tell my old man about!

      And I could not care less what other people do, that's their business.
    • Posts: 1,192 Member
      For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

      Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

      Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?
      But OP has no need to get involved in someone else's relationship. For all we know, the SOs to the people that are being referred to know what happens and have a mutual understanding of how their relationship works.

      Bottom line: Not your relationship, not your place to talk.
    • Posts: 326 Member
      For everyone saying "why would you care" and "it's none of your business" IMO it's not about how people work their own relationship/marriage. If both partners are aware and okay with whatever it is you're doing on the internet forums these days that's one thing. I kind of got the impression the OP was about things that are being hidden from one's S/O.

      Because hiding things is always healthy for a relationship. Only good can come of it.

      Also, for everyone who's flirting and hiding it, there's someone on the other side of that relationship with the potential to get hurt badly. Are you totally insensitive to these people?
      Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.
    • Posts: 2,844 Member
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      ~Hands you a donut~

      Is it a hot Krispy Kreme doughnut?
    • Posts: 858 Member
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      I like you. :flowerforyou:

      Let's make out.
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      Does posting on the food porn threads count as cheating?
    • Posts: 326 Member
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      But OP has no need to get involved in someone else's relationship. For all we know, the SOs to the people that are being referred to know what happens and have a mutual understanding of how their relationship works.

      Bottom line: Not your relationship, not your place to talk.
      yay! You're still here!
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      In the time it took for this thread to get to 5 pages, I've sent 10 junk shots. Just sayin.
      now I feel left out...
    • Posts: 2,844 Member
      Does posting on the food porn threads count as cheating?

      Depends on if your diet knows about it
    • Posts: 1,192 Member
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      Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.
      If they involved you and asked for your opinion, then you need to speak with them privately. By bringing it to a public forum, you're involving other people that should not be involved.
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      Is it a hot Krispy Kreme doughnut?

      But of course love!
    • Posts: 1,631 Member
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      Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.

      Ah. Tell them not to talk to you about it. Problem solved.
    • Posts: 148 Member
      I cant say that I've seen infidelity in the forums/among my friends (but I also dont normally peruse this "chit-chat" forum because I dont find most of the topics beneficial to my weight loss journey). With that being said, I respect my husband and our marriage so I dont entertain ANY conversations that (1) I wouldnt want him to have with other women and (2) that I would NOT have in his presence.

      Best response! :)

      Trust me anywhere that people gather in large groups, be it virtual or real, there is going to be someone that pushing the line. It's a matter of personal choices and what you find acceptable no matter the peer pressure. I was in the Army and trust me - when SOME people get away from their spouses, they become different people, some not all.
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      But of course love!

      Then I'll need 12
    • Posts: 326 Member
      Exactly what I'm saying. For those who have marriages that are about being open....do it....have fun! For those who sneak around (and TELL me about it thus involving me & asking my opinion) I say not cool.
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      Ah. Tell them not to talk to you about it. Problem solved.
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      ....next move. BELIEVE ME! xo
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      Then I'll need 12

      Yah! That will keep you here awhile!!!!
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      Depends on if your diet knows about it

      Well, *kitten*...I'm screwed, then.
    • Posts: 1,592 Member
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      now I feel left out...

      I can send you one if you want ;)
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      yay! You're still here!
      WTF
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      now I feel left out...

      ME TOO!!!
    • Posts: 2,437 Member
      I came here to find dirty housewives to have hot affairs with. Talk about about a misleading thread title. :grumble:
    • Posts: 326 Member
      I came here to find dirty housewives to have hot affairs with. Talk about about a misleading thread title. :grumble:
      Oh....they're here my friend!
    • Posts: 1,592 Member
      Call me old-fashioned, but I think it is inappropriate to put your feet on your desk.

      Yet she still has them there. Not being able to control internet behavior is driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    • Posts: 540
      I know most people LOVE these kinds of posts because it lets them showcase their witty remarks and comebacks, but I understand where OP is coming from. I randomly get messages from men who aren't on my friends list who say things like "I know you are married, but you are the extremely sexy." I'm not sure if they do this to see if I will flirt back or if they just want to pay a compliment. In any event, what people do with their relationships isn't my business. I just know I love my husband and he's the only man I need in my life :)
    • Posts: 858 Member
      I came here to find dirty housewives to have hot affairs with. Talk about about a misleading thread title. :grumble:

      I came to save the thread........I'm here love. (but I do work outside of the home. Do you still want to do me?)
    • Posts: 399 Member
      I only have one question. Who here wants to bang me? :huh:

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      Yet she still has them there. Not being able to control internet behavior is driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Yeah....not taking orders from gingerbread men, sorry.
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      That hurts my feelings. Reported!
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